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For somebody with a betting compulsion, the sentiment of betting is proportionate to taking a medication or having a beverage.
Betting conduct adjusts the individual's mind-set and perspective.
As the individual gets used to this inclination, they continue rehashing the conduct, ... Views: 1623
As a life coach, my job is to help you remove barriers to happiness and success. One big barrier is your mind. I often ask my new clients, “Have you ever considered that your mind is not your friend?” Most are stunned by the idea of it. Your mind, which I call The Drunk Monkey, is just a ... Views: 1832
That’s right! You have got a dream.
For Example:
- You would like to buy a house.
- Your Big Dream is a happy and fullfilled Love.
- You regularly dreaming a perfect job.
- You would like to become better parent. etc.
OK. and WHY?
Why do you want another house?
What you gain another ... Views: 1556
Here's a dirty little secret for you. The answer is: not always.
At least not at first. In fact, sometimes coaching can be downright painful and disruptive!. You may find yourself doing everything possible to keep from working on what you hired your coach to help you achieve. ... Views: 1507
You have probably heard over and over that you need to set goals, I talk about it, and so does everyone else in the coaching and wellness bubble. We also talk about mindset, and some may even tell you to rely on willpower.
Proper goal setting is only one part of achieving your health goals. ... Views: 650
Of course that’s a provocative title. After all, we live in America where we have become anesthetized into believing that we must be ever so careful to avoid holding anyone accountable, answerable or responsible. Rather we prefer to blame a lack of self-esteem, a “bad” childhood, traumatic ... Views: 1916
One of my favorite books on attitude is The Aladdin Factor by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hanson. They say, “If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.” And they are right.
You have to ask for what you want from yourself, others, the Universe/God and your own Inner Guidance.
I’m a huge ... Views: 1319
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Winning Weighs - by Thomas Chalmers and Michael Imani, Ph.D.
Winning Weighs
People never say “It’s only a game,” when they’re winning. Ivern Ball
I love playing pool with my sons. They are very competitive and they love the challenge of playing me. And I just hate myself when I win. I’ve told them that it’s best if I don’t let them win because ... Views: 792
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Winning Weighs - by Thomas Chalmers and Michael Imani, Ph.D.
WINNING WEIGHS
People never say “It’s only a game,” when they’re winning. Ivern Ball
I love playing pool with my sons. They are very competitive and they love the challenge of playing me. And I just hate myself when I win. I’ve told them that it’s best if I don’t let them win because it ... Views: 836
RESERVING your car: This can be one of the most important planning and arranging parts of your trip - so you want to take the time to make sure your needs are going to be met when you arrive at your destination.
YOU need to find out which car rental company has a kiosk at the airport near ... Views: 606
The 8th of March, is the International Women’s Day, in memory of a protest that took place on the 8th of March 1857, held by women textile workers in New York, asking for better working conditions. However, nowadays the International Women’s Day, has lost its political background, turning into ... Views: 1461
Performing on the job depends on many variables: our skill set, mindset, personality type, and attitude. At any moment, we may carry out any number of tasks that call on us to be able to think, move, and execute practically simultaneously. It's like we're in constant air traffic controller-mode ... Views: 854
I found myself in this beautiful light room. It must be one of those rooms you would find in a baroque palace. The ceiling was high and decorated with beautifully carved angels overlooking the whole room. On one side there were windows high enough to let the angels look into the world. On the ... Views: 1248
Words don't teach us - only life experiences do
I don't want you to just know the philosophy of the universal law of attraction on an intellectual level, through words you've read, or because I and/or others have told you so. I want you to know it experientially. Ultimately, words and books ... Views: 2018
Introduction
Life Coaching has changed my life and I know that it can do the same for others. It gets you back on track, offers you that chance in life to achieve your dreams and ambitions and give you that opportunity to set yourself ‘personal goals’ to keep you motivated and excited about the ... Views: 1986
Whether it be at home in the office both professional and personal boundaries are important. So what do I mean by boundaries. Understanding what is expected of you and what you expect from someone else, knowing what you will accept and will not accept when it comes to how people speak to you, ... Views: 1472
Medical workers, in particular nurses often work in a high-stress environment. There is usually someone’s life at risk, and therefore, they do not care about workplace health and safety. In times of emergency, most of the nurses do not even give workplace health and safety a thought. You ... Views: 1190
Transitioning from one phase of life to the next can be a scary and unnerving process. To keep your fears and worries in check, cultivate an attitude of optimism and passion for that next chapter. Don’t let others dampen your optimism with doomsday forecasts and their own fears of the unknown. ... Views: 964
One-to-One Coaching Questionnaire:
How Much Would I Benefit?
If you're contemplating coaching, simply fill out this quiz and see how much there is to gain from working with the Gay Guys Coach.
Answer the questions below by ticking the appropriate box and calculating your score as ... Views: 1137
I have a question to ask you that could very well change how you choose to do things from now on.
In my experience, more people fall short of their potential because of their answer to this question than to most other questions you can think of asking.
Ok, so my question simply is ... Views: 2353
Write here. Write now.
The art of writing is the art of applying the seat of the pants to the seat of the chair. - Mary Heaton Vorse
A few years ago I met Harry Potter author, J.K. Rowling. In fact we spent an afternoon together, talking about books. She has read mine, you know! Allow ... Views: 945
The history of blog articles on this website provide volumes of information on the benefits of and how to’s of crafting your own personal vision statement. Up until now, I’ve given little attention to the extremely important personal mission statement. This article is written to ... Views: 4407
The New Year is normally associated with new resolutions and optimistic thoughts of positive life changes. It is a time when we take stock of our lives and look to the past to see where we have some from and look to the future to see where we want to go.
However as you will know sticking to New ... Views: 1004
As everyone who’s on the path of spiritual growth knows, from time to time you will be tested to see if you are really serious about your spiritual journey and if your resolve is strong enough to give you more and more gifts from above. So, will life be just smooth sailing on calm seas? No, ... Views: 1452
There is a very common phrase in all the crime movies: “You are guilty, we found your DNA to the scene of the crime, and nobody has the same DNA…you have the right to remain silent…”!
You are Unique!
Truly! There is no one like you in the whole world. Obviously I do not mean only your ... Views: 1135
You are a practicing Being Unstoppable! You are someone committed to having it all...right?
You want the money, you want the freedom, and you want the joy of existence...you want to be inspired and in action on your dreams...feeling the exhilaration of being a fully engaged adult on this ... Views: 640
I have just returned - in one piece, from a Vipassana silent meditation retreat. Vipassana mediation encourages one to go deep within. This is done through silent sitting, with no movement and our eyes closed. Vipassana accommodates personal growth through intense listening. The ... Views: 4682
Are you hiding out in your business and keeping that 'freak flag' in the closet so other's won't get their panties in a bunch?
Have you even tried to 'dumb down' or 'quash' some of the very qualities and characteristics that would make you more marketable and more memorable.......playing it ... Views: 1396
YOU CAN’T FORCE AN APPLE TO GROW
By Dr. Dennis Merrit Jones
“Make a commitment to follow the path of no resistance. This is the path through which nature’s intelligence unfolds spontaneously, without friction or effort. When you have the exquisite combination of acceptance, responsibility and ... Views: 1294
You’ve heard that while you’re trying something new, you can “fake it ‘till you make it”. That may be true for a short while and in certain situations, but I’m here to tell you if you are living by that rule in your day-to-day life, then you are in for a rude awakening!
Eventually it will ... Views: 1054
A lot of people grew up being told who they were supposed to be by the adults around them (family, teachers, coaches or mentors). When these people told you this information YOU were obedient and YOU wanted to please them and above all YOU trusted them. You took their word and you over road your ... Views: 1089
You know what you should do, but there is something else that holds you back.
You “should” eat better, you “should” lose weight, you “should” exercise, you “should” start a budget and make more money, and...and...and...think about all the things that run through your head on a daily basis, ... Views: 640
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living beings.
You may be living, but are you truly alive?
See if you can figure out where you are on the Aliveness Index?
IN THE DEAD ZONE
When you are in the ... Views: 1334
In the Bible, a royal cupbearer by the name of Nehemiah was determined to rebuild the walls of Jerusalem. He secretly inspected the damaged walls at night and formed a plan for its restoration. Soon afterward, he announced his plans to the priests, nobles and officials. His plan was well ... Views: 1578
All businesses need systems in order to function successfully. Even businesses that are primarily sales. You needs sales systems in place too. You need to know that you can attract clients every month in your life coaching practice. You need to know how you can get more clients regularly. ... Views: 1123
This July I am offering a course for small businesses. The Business Strategy 101 course is based off the key premise that every good company has a plan.
A business plan is a vision for where the company is going and how it is going to get there. Every good business book writes that in ... Views: 1526
‘We all have flaws. Nobody is perfect.’
In a distant village of China, the water was miles away. So people would carry water having two pots hanged with a pole. One of the two pots had a crack while the other was perfectly made. For two years, the poor lady had been carrying the water at her ... Views: 1131
Eason Jordan said, “With the benefit of hindsight, had more care been taken, maybe this could have been avoided.”
And TheFreeDictionary.com says this about hindsight, “Perfect understanding of an event after it has happened; - a term usually used with sarcasm in response to criticism of ... Views: 1349
Almost every entrepreneur I know started their business because of a Big Dream! What is the dream, the vision and the passion that inspired you to be become an entrepreneur?
For many entrepreneurs, at some point you find that you are no longer facing or feeling your Big Dream, the fire of ... Views: 818
Do you move through your life feeling frustrated and stressed, finding too many things that just aren't working? Do you find yourself wishing you could find some way to begin to make your life work better? If that describes you and how you feel, then read on because you are about to learn a ... Views: 1217
Your image determines your success
Your image is your weakest link it to how far you rise.
You can dress your worst and perform at your best but ultimately no one ever got very far for dressing like crap.
But if you dress like success, does that guartunee you success? No, of course not!
But it ... Views: 983
Did you know that most of the people you know, including yourself very likely, find it easier to work than to enjoy free time? Becoming successful, it seems, trumps developing happiness. This is what Shawn Achor relies on when he writes about the “Happiness Myth,” namely the myth that hard work ... Views: 1275
Yesterday I was working in my office when a truck pulled up behind my home. It parked in front of my garage and directly in front of the “no parking” sign, blocking my exit. This happens frequently at my place, when workers and delivery people in the neighborhood use my drive as a parking and ... Views: 1246
“Have some Love and call me in the morning.”
*Disclaimer: I’m not a doctor and this is not medical advice.*
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The Scenario
Put together your body, your brain,and your emotional, energetic self, and you’ve got quite a ... Views: 806
A phrase that can improve your present state in a heartbeat!
Two years ago, I participated in a seven-day seminar called Breakthrough to Success with my mentor Jack Canfield, in Scottsdale, Arizona of America. Jack Canfield is considered to be the No. 1 coach in America and has sold over 112 ... Views: 1590
If I were to grade myself for planning in my business I would have told you I’m definitely deserving of an A. Not A+ but getting there. Now, a week later I can see I was really more of a C or D student in the planning department.
What’s changed?
Last week I spent a day with the NY Times ... Views: 1285
"I don't deserve to earn more money."
"Money is the root of all evil."
"Rich people are greedy"
"Having and earning a lot of money isn't spiritual."
"Money is power, and power corrupts."
"It's better to give than to receive."
"Wanting to have a lot of money is selfish."
"There's never enough ... Views: 1016
For better or worse, without your past you wouldn't be standing here today in all your richness, full of possibility - and that is a gift we awaken to daily.
Every client I coach comes to me with the hope of changing something in their life, whether their habits, coping skills, relationship, ... Views: 1577
Byron Katie so wisely repeatedly asks her clients: “Who would you be without your story?”
This question has fascinated me the moment I heard it.
Of course this question can be understood in two ways: One way is who would you be if whatever happened to you in your life (that forms your life ... Views: 1699
What really matters at the end of the day?
What about at the end of your life?
If you spend your time wishing you were somewhere else or doing something else, you’re letting your most precious resource slip away unappreciated.
Love Now
Even if you’re not in your ideal situation at ... Views: 539