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- Sexual Communication - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Addison BellMy cheeks are flushed, my body is radiating heat, and little moans escape my lips. His breath is heavy on my neck as we dive deeper and deeper into a state of passion. The little moans escaping my lips tell him that I am enjoying his touch and he sporadically shares little insights of enjoyment… ...
Views: 1369 - Sexual Complexity Calls for new Therapy - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2014 from Freja NjordenEvolving Relationships and Sexuality Calls for a new kind of Therapist Sex is simple, except it's not. As our society becomes increasingly exposed to sex, increasingly educated and connected, and more aware of sexual potential, a gap in the area of education and teaching has become glaringly ...
Views: 1105 - Sexual Desire Discrepancy Between Partners: What do You Do? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2020 from Todd Creagerhttps://toddcreager.com/sexual-desire-discrepancy/ What do you do when there is a sexual desire discrepancy between partners? Couples have different desires about many things. They like different kinds of foods; they like different kinds of movies; they like different kinds of music. ...
Views: 742 - Sexual Empowerment Step One: Tell Your Sexual Story - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Amy Jo GoddardIf you are to become sexually empowered, you must tell your story. We ALL have a sexual story to tell. Your story might include your experience of your own body from very early in your life up to now. It might include feelings of desire or crushes or past relationships and sexual experiences. ...
Views: 1495 - Sexual Fantasies of Narcissists and Psychopaths - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2013 from Sam VakninInevitably, the sexual fantasy life of narcissists and psychopaths reflects their psychodynamic landscape: their fear of intimacy, misogyny, control freakiness, auto-eroticism, latent sadism and masochism, problems of gender identity, and various sexual paraphilias. Fantasies which reflect a ...
Views: 12742 - Sexual Freedom of the Christian Woman - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeWhen I bring this topic up with clients, or when I am speaking to a group, I am often met with shocked gasps, disbelief, confusion, curiosity, and even distain. Many women fear the thought of a becoming woman being passionate, open and sharing, and fully satisfying herself and her husband. There ...
Views: 4069 - Sexual Intent - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2014 from Greg Dudzinski, MS, LPCSexual Intent How's everyone doing? Seriously, how are you really doing? How often to you ignore problems in the bedroom, or in your relationship? Well, typically if there are problems in one area, it affects the other. How many women feel like they are just a "piece of meat" in the ...
Views: 1114 - Sexual Performance Anxiety: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatments - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Deepak YadavWant A Happy Sex Life? Buy Ambien for Sex Performance Anxiety Millions of men have a fear of performance in the bedroom. In fact, they experience severe signs of stress before sex in their daily lives. Long-term and severe stress problems cause performance anxiety in couples. In addition, ...
Views: 1212 - Sexuality: Can Someone’s Early Years Have An Effect On What Turns Them On As An Adult? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperAs an adult, someone can believe that the things that arouse them are just the things that arouse them, and that all there is to it. However, what this wouldn’t take into account is the part that their early years may have played in why something in particular has this effect on them. If, ...
Views: 903 - Should I Go Back To My Husband To Try To Save My Family? - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneFamily can be a huge contributing factor in whether you attempt to save your marriage or not. Many people confess to me that were it not for their children, the decision of whether or not to end their marriage would probably be a lot easier. Children can even factor into the equation once the ...
Views: 446 - Should I Tell Him My Sex History? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeHow much you reveal to your partner has a lot to do with what kind of a relationship you want. If you want an honest and open relationship, then it is important you are as honest and open as you possibly can. Your past is a part of where you have been, and may not be representative of who you ...
Views: 1009 - Should I Tell My Husband That I Can't Live Without Him? Here's What You Should Do Instead Because This Strategy May Work Better - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2020 from Leslie CaneBelieve it or not, I get this question quite a bit. It usually comes from wives who feel that a divorce or separation is imminent and they do not know how they are going to survive without living together and/or being married. These wives are looking for something to stop the bleeding so to ...
Views: 503 - Should I Text My Ex Boyfriend: How To Text An Ex You Want Back - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2017 from Michael BradDo you want to learn how to win your ex boyfriend back after he broke up with you? If so, then text messages could be exactly what you need. Unfortunately, they could make things even worse, too. So, what you have to do is learn how to put text messages to use the right way to get your ex ...
Views: 894 - Should I Try To Make My Husband Feel Guilty For Wanting A Divorce? How? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who are scrambling to come up with the best course of action after their husband tells them that he wants a divorce. Many of them are looking for a way to make their husbands either regret the decision to divorce or to see that it is the wrong decision in the first ...
Views: 469 - Should You Try to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Find Out Now! - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2013 from Uadiale JohnDo you find yourself wondering should you try to get your ex boyfriend back? After maybe weeks of not seeing or talking to him, you would want to think that you're getting over him fast. But just one accidental meeting or sometimes even the mere mention of his name can trigger that desire to be ...
Views: 792 - Showing Respect For Your Spouse: Demonstrating Respect For Your Husband Or Wife - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyShowing Respect For Your Spouse: Demonstrating Respect For Your Husband Or Wife A successful family is establish on the platform of mutual respect of the husband and wife. No marriage thrive without respect. In this article I shall be pointing us to areas a wife must respect a husband in ...
Views: 578 - Shrink Fear Grow Love - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2018 from Sheryl PaulWhen the fear-fog clears, when the projection that has kept him separate from you and sealed a barnacle over your heart finally shatters, you see your partner as if for the first time. Not only do you see her clearly, in all of her sweet and simple splendor, but the delusions of separateness ...
Views: 859 - Shrinky's Guide to Sex for Teenagers: The 5 Most Important Things You Need to Know - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Glenn BergerAre you thinking about sex? Are you wondering if you should have it? Do you want to know the best way to do it? Are you embarrassed to admit that you don't know as much about sex as you pretend? You will get the best information here so you can learn everything you want to know about sex, be ...
Views: 2409 - Signs an Ex Still Loves You Even After A Break Up! - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2011 from Phillip TomRelationship could be very complicated some times. The human behavior unlike other animals is almost not possible to understand or predict in spite of all the existing similarity lines between us. Nevertheless, there is all likelihood that your ex may show some of the hints stated ahead, as ...
Views: 3124 - Signs He Wants To Break Up With You – Do These Sound Familiar? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaSo maybe your relationship with your boyfriend is currently in trouble. Has he been acting standoffish lately? Perhaps, he doesn't look at you the same way anymore. Or maybe you just feel him distancing away from you. Either way, I know that you are scared. In this article, we'll talk about ...
Views: 3112 - Signs Of Stress: Mental - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Rick CarterDo you know the signs of stress? Not just feeling stress. Because waiting until you feel stress is like deciding to fight the enemy after they've come through the gate and over the walls. Your body and your mind let you know that stress is coming. Stress makes your body go into "fight or ...
Views: 1422 - Signs She Is Sexually Satisfied: How To Know If She Is Satisfied With Your Performance In Bed - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonSigns She Is Sexually Satisfied: How To Know If She Is Satisfied With Your Performance In Bed Men are sometimes confused because it is not easy to tell whether their women are sexually satisfied. Finding her G-spot and stimulating it was not easy and making her orgasm really makes you sweat ...
Views: 6920 - Signs That He Has Genuine Feelings for You - Is He Genuine or A Player - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2017 from Michael UadialeIs he serious in having a relationship with me? Does he really love me? Will he keep his promises and face the challenges bravely to make the relationship work? These questions will come up when you are trying to sort out if the guy you are having relationship with is really sincere in his ...
Views: 6078 - Signs You're Not Yet Ready To Give Up On Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from frustrated wives (and sometimes husbands too) who are at their wit's end or at a crossroads in their marriage. Typically, the marriage is in real trouble and the wife has done seemingly everything in her power to save it, but nothing seems to be working. I'll often get comments ...
Views: 464 - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You and Wants You Back Even After A Painful Breakup! - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2011 from Michael UadialeYour ex-boyfriend was so angry with you when you broke up that you are certain that you will certainly not see your ex-boyfriend again. However, love someone have for you can not just vanish into tin air, its not something that comes on and off at once, thus if your ex-boy-friend still love you, ...
Views: 5077 - Signs Your Husband Wants You Back: Negative And Positive Clues That Mean He's Coming Around. - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often write about saving marriages. Or, if a separation or divorce has happened, I sometimes try to help the wife to get her husband back (so long as the relationship was a healthy one worth saving.) Often times, I'm contacted by wives who want to know the "signs that my husband wants me ...
Views: 511 - Signs Your Woman Is Not Satisfied Sexually: Signs She Is Sexually Frustrated - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonSigns Your Woman Is Not Satisfied Sexually: Signs She Is Sexually Frustrated So do you feel that you are able to satisfy her in bed? Does she seem happy with your performance in bed? It's a very well known fact that a lot of women out there tend to fake their orgasms on a regular basis and ...
Views: 5517 - Simple Tools For More Fulfilling Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2015 from Kate SinerMany of us believe that we should “just know how” to relate in ways that bring us happiness. However, creating healthy and fulfilling relationships is an art and a practice. Before we get into some tools for creating more fulfilling relationships take a moment to look at some of the components ...
Views: 978 - Simple Ways to Get Your Ex Back In No Time - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2013 from Uadiale JohnEvery breakup leaves behind a trail of pain and it takes a strong heart to overcome the feelings of loneliness and despair that come with it. Usually, a period of introspection follows most breakups when you are sometimes forced to look back and analyze what caused the relationship to tumble ...
Views: 1169 - Sincerity, The Key to Successful Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from David SamuelSincerity is the word. It is the power behind all success in personal refinement. Pure thought is the power to command. Thought is made impure by fears, falsity, distractions, false desires, false personality, fragmentation, identification and so on. Sincerity is pure thought. But what ...
Views: 13915 - Six Tips To Strengthen Your Marriage Sexually - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2010 from Laura M. BrothersonSexual intimacy is as important for the health and vitality of the marriage relationship as is emotional closeness and spiritual connection. Sexual nourishment that feeds both husband and wife is the dessert of married life. Strengthening your marriage intimately--emotionally, spiritually ...
Views: 8684 - Slow Down, Cowboy! - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeHow can one overcome premature ejaculation? When is faster not necessarily better? That’s right – when we are talking about premature ejaculation or ‘PE’. PE is also known as ‘early ejaculation’ or ‘eager ejaculation’. This occurs when a man ejaculates quicker or earlier than desired. It is ...
Views: 1441 - Smaller is Better - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2012 from Austin ImoruLadies please, it is time to be proud of what you are, male or female doesn’t really count. Equality should be encouraged but not on the platform of competition rather on the pedestal of usefulness. If you know what I know, you would realise that to be fighting for equality with men is to reduce ...
Views: 1206 - Smothered Or Abandoned: Do You Alternate Between Feeling Smothered And Abandoned? - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperHuman beings have the need to reach out and to connect and the need to pull away and be by themselves. This is normal and the amount of time that is required with another and by oneself is naturally going to vary from person to person. It can come down to what is going in their life and how they ...
Views: 1659 - Sms For Ex Boyfriend- Sms For Boyfriend After Break Up - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldSms for ex boyfriend; Strangely, many girls can dump their boyfriends for seemingly no reason. It looks like they just have the urge to do it and move on, even if the boyfriend did nothing wrong. Then there are times that the girl will want to get back together fairly soon, or sometimes ...
Views: 873 - Social Media: Has Social Media Caused Some People To Trade Intimacy For Attention? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone shares something online, they can end up receiving a fair amount of attention, and this can allow them to feel good about themselves. Even so, what happens online might only be a small part of their life. Therefore, they won’t be completely dependent on this attention, meaning ...
Views: 839 - Softening Into The Universe - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Addison BellI have spent the last two weeks in a pile of books. I have read books on sex, on Tantra, on advanced energy techniques, on the human body, on spirit, etc. Honestly, my brain feels like it’s going to explode! The thing that struck me as I read all of these different books is that everything ...
Views: 1490 - Some Interesting Wedding Vows - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from Amy DyslexWedlock is a HUGE change for anyone planning to enter into the sacred union; (almost in all majority cases) you will be spending the rest of your life with one person. This same person will be the individual you will have kids with, go home shopping, plan your finances with, and most ...
Views: 1515 - Soul Dance or Ego Dance: Attracting and Creating Fulfilling Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Sunil AhujaAre you looking for that perfect relationship, or is your relationship not quite as perfect as you want it to be? That's because our intimate relationships are mostly based on fantasy -- a subconscious, idealized image, and a belief that a partner that matches this fantasy image will bring us ...
Views: 3728 - Speak Out: How to Ensure Your Needs Are Being Met in a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from nancy traversWhen we enter relationships, we do so with the knowledge that we will be providing the person with emotional commodities and that they will be doing the same for us. Every relationship is filled with needs. Each individual will have different needs, and each relationship will provide different ...
Views: 1069 - Spending Time, Not Money: Turn your bedroom into a romantic getaway! - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Ande LyonsIn a perfect world, my husband and I are alone at a romantic resort, where we get couples massages, candlelight dinners al fresco, breakfast in bed, dancing under the stars, and lots of undisturbed nookie time. Here’s the reality – two busy careers, two busy kids, too busy and broke for ...
Views: 2462 - Spice Up Your Relationship by Doing Something Unexpected - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumOne quality of a happy long-term relationship is that each person develops a high level of comfort with the other person. That comfort level allows the couple to interact in a stress-free manner most of the time. There is nothing wrong with that! However, there is an unwanted byproduct: the ...
Views: 1502 - Spice Up Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat factors should a couple take into consideration when wanting to spice up their sex life? Consider if your partner is a visual, auditory or kinaesthetic (touch) person. Does irritating sounds bother him to no end? Is he particular about textiles, fabrics and the way they feel next to his ...
Views: 1301 - Spiritual Sex - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Stephanie FlormanJust as sex is important to keep a couple connected on a physical level, prayer is important to keep a couple connected on a spiritual level. That is why I call a couple’s prayer time ‘spiritual sex.’ Here are just a few of the benefits spiritual sex provides: • By understanding more of ...
Views: 1118 - Spirituality as a Relationship Path/Relationship as a Spiritual Path - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2013 from Marcus Ambrester"Spiritual Relationships" from my book Pillars of Awesome Relationships . . . We are spiritual beings and we never get farther away from our true spiritual nature than when we are triggered in an intimate relationship. Intimate relationships can be the most challenging part of living a ...
Views: 1578 - Spring Cleaning: For Your Head, Not Just Your Home - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2019 from Behnam BakhshandehSpring Cleaning: For Your Head, Not Just Your Home By: Behnam Bakhshandeh February 10, 2003 (Revised November 2019) Spring is here! That means cleaning our homes – but what about our heads? We clean, organize and beautify our homes; yet we clutter our heads – our most intimate ...
Views: 840 - Stay Curious - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2012 from Melanie McGheeWe human beings are dynamic creatures and our relationships are vibrant expressions of that dynamism. But problems can often arise, especially in long term relationships, when we fall into the habit of thinking we know – thinking we know what our partner thinks, will say, or will do in a given ...
Views: 1331 - Staying Home for Your Anniversary? 4 Ways to Still Make It Special - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2020 from Dixie SomersThere is a "new normal" these days. This "new normal" affects large events. Some people are pushing things off until later, but others are making the most of the quarantine. If your anniversary falls within the stay at home order, you can still have fun. Here are 4 ways to still make your ...
Views: 594 - Staying in Love: 10 Steps to Successful Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Gudrun FrerichsFrom very early on in life, we seek someone we can attach to, who understands us, cares for us, loves us, and gives us a sense of safety and belonging. We look to attach to someone who will be there when times turn rough, and most importantly, who shares our dreams for a happy future, for a ...
Views: 2745 - STEP UP YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS! - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2019 from Emma ViglucciLast issue covered Boundaries… A hugely important concept that we address in Element1-Context & Mindset, in our Successful Couple Strategy™… Boundary bridges show up everywhere in our life if we are attentive in making sure we lovingly hold our ground and take care of ourselves… Boundary ...
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