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Searching for success and not getting it soon enough, (remember we are an instant society with instant coffee and instant tea), puts us under enormous pressure to succeed and perform. So we often forget who and what we are. The result is that we follow the latest fads and the latest success ... Views: 971
We all want to be happy. But what is happiness? Is it the same for everyone? How do we know if we’re happy? And can anyone be happy all of the time? How can we find happiness?
These questions come to mind when we speak of life happiness. Our perception of life happiness is as individual ... Views: 1235
If you are like most people you make well-intended New Year’s Resolutions each December, only to falter and abandon them by the end of January. Exercise, eating healthier, getting more organized, spending more time with your kids, increasing income, finally getting to those projects that you ... Views: 986
Two of my favorite words lately are alignment and purpose. When these two words are in sync with each other you can access unlimited success and abundance and all the positive feelings that come with those things. But when these two words are out of sync with each other, that is when you get ... Views: 803
My intention for the week was to feel replenished and to fill up my depleted reserves with the juice of the universe so that when I coached and as I lived, I would be of service rather than just going through motions, half asleep.
Invitations to do other things tempted; a trip here, a party ... Views: 1580
In our previous article we looked at how WE are responsible for handing out puppet strings to people, things and situations which leads to our unhappiness. Now we will look at some more ways to release those strings and turn our lives around from unhappiness to happiness.
One of my favorite ... Views: 1637
Part 4 of 8
"Twelve Keys to the Kingdom of Your Heart’s Desire"
Thought cannot heal a broken heart, and thinking will never open a heart that is closed. Only feeling can accomplish such miracles. As Blaise Pascal said long ago, “The heart has its reasons which reason knows ... Views: 674
The last decade has been one of growth and change for me as I've pursued a path to greater well-being. I know firsthand that today's busy lifestyles can often cause us to mix up our priorities and loose that sense of wellbeing.
Along the journey I have found that each of us is blessed with an ... Views: 1126
People who know me, say that I am a very positive person. I’ve worked hard over the years at trying to find the positive in most situations and pass it on to others. I was recently sent an email by a friend who passed on one of the nicest stories I have heard. So in this season of giving, I’d ... Views: 2192
Living in the third dimension can be a little tricky for those that don't understand "THE GAME OF LIFE". Florence Scovel Shinn, the author of The Game of Life (referenced at Secrets of the Magdalene Scrolls) has frequently elicited different laws as they apply to adhering to the rules of the ... Views: 1321
Part 2 of 8
The essence of heart is emotion. Heart Freedom enables you to experience a bountiful variety and complexity of feelings. The supreme emotion is love, which by its very nature implies a relationship, the lover and the beloved. In modern Western culture, couple relationships are ... Views: 980
We have all enjoyed a good puppet show. A puppeteer pulls strings and makes the puppets hands and feet move and he speaks words that supposedly comes from the puppet? These little shows can be quiet entertaining.
So how is your puppet show? How many puppet strings have you given out? Is it ... Views: 2049
I had made a deal with myself to not look back. However, it was hard not to take one last peek in the rear view mirror as I left the city limits that day. It had been such a roller coaster ride for the past couple of years. I had made the first big move away from my hometown, almost quit the ... Views: 1126
Last week I hired a contractor to help me with the remodel of my family room which we have putting off for a long time. He just completed his first day of work and of course everything that could go wrong – did. Murphy’s Law at work. When he went to leave our house, his truck wouldn’t start ... Views: 1155
It's that time of year again. As we raise our glasses to times gone by and tip our New Year's hats to welcome the hope of the future, many have a feeling that there's something different about 2008. It's not just another year for another resolution. They sense this coming year is one big ... Views: 1881
Most of us at one time or another will find ourselves called upon to tend to the needs of a frail or terminally ill family member or friend. Any one of us could be called upon to care for an older parent, an accident victim of any age, or a dear friend recently diagnosed with a degenerative or ... Views: 687
I want you to consider that your life could be different.
Consider what it would be like if you had everything you wanted. Think of all the things you currently wish were different about your life. Perhaps you would not have kids. Perhaps you would have kids. Perhaps you would have had more fun ... Views: 715
SO…you have a difficult time getting to sleep. Your mind just won’t stop all its chattering. You can’t relax. Well, maybe you should just take a look at what’s been boggling and overloading that mind all day long.
In today’s fast-paced society we are constantly being bombarded with ... Views: 556
In western culture when we refer to health issues, we frequently think only of our physical symptoms and body ailments. We seek out measurement tests that give us evidence of the status of our body functions. We look for a variety of quick treatments to fix us up so that we can get back to the ... Views: 568
Life today can be quite stressful at times and with depression rates rising rapidly, it is even more important to consider ways that we can avoid unnecessary worry and start concentrating on being happier instead!
Studies have shown that happier people do in fact live longer that those who are ... Views: 1093
When you find yourself feeling like a failure because something hasn't gone to plan or you feel that you have not done something as well as you could have, it is all too easy to be harsh with yourself, put yourself down and be overly critical. When this happens, there is a great technique for ... Views: 1161
Do you sometimes find yourself trapped in the "I'm Right, You're Wrong Game"? Do you end up feeling tense or angry? Maybe you're not even sure how to do it any differently? Continue on and discover the steps that will help you feel less stress and more happiness, right away.
One way to start ... Views: 1223
"You sound like a broken record boy! But don't get too carried away with that idea, because we have a lot of work to do." It was sound advice from my manager at the time. I was just 20 years old and the youngest member of a new team that was launching a new radio station in Fayetteville, NC. ... Views: 1086
The imprint of the arrange to directly experience or to trust about something, to the human beings, is shaped by environing agents as, particularly, enculturation. In this forge, if we might be capable to establish a graphical register of the procedures involved, people (drafted as societal ... Views: 881
No one wants to be a coward, so if we know what it takes to be a coward, perhaps we can avoid becoming one!
When we read books or articles on how we can improve, or self-help books that tell us how we can help ourselves, we are in a twilight zone of assumptions and speculation. To get real, ... Views: 891
Peace is not about winning a war. Nor is it about avoiding war. It's not about freeing the oppressed, nor ignoring the Oppressed's cries for help. Those things, while noble in effort, are not "Peace."
Peace is a frame of mind. It is a way of life. It has its own rules that must be actively ... Views: 1505
Recently, I read The Alchemist by Brazilian author Paulo Coelho. If you haven't read it yet, the main character, Santiago, has a dream that he must go to the pyramids of Egypt. Here, he's told, he will find a treasure waiting just for him. Inspired, he followed his calling. What he found ... Views: 1221
Tis the season of holiday cheer and, most noticeably, gifts-gifts-gifts. I think Christmas decorations started showing up in stores in September, didn’t they?
As the season becomes more and more about fourth quarter earnings and over-hyped consumerism, more and more people are seeing the ... Views: 1566
This time of year, it's almost impossible to avoid the trap of perfection. We are bombarded with messages to find the perfect gift, create the perfect holiday, have the perfect family and so on. The weeks leading up to the holidays have been reduced to a crazed race to obtain the impossible. ... Views: 1128
Most people admire individuals who can successfully climb and conquer the almost insurmountable mountains of the world. Conquering Mt. Everest is not a hap-hazard undertaking. It requires meticulous planning and analysis of a variety of situation that one might face while climbing to the peak. ... Views: 1190
I seem to have lost count on how many times I've read and heard of celebrity marriages failing almost left and right. Not that I care (and personally I don't), it seems strange that we often see movie and TV stars as flawless people, living the fairytale life of riches and glamour. I suppose we ... Views: 618
Have you ever noticed how, at this time of year, there are lists and lists circulating? You can find a list of the 20 best films of 2007, the 10 worst dressed people, the 50 most interesting books. In addition to spending some of your spare time reading through these lists, how about taking ... Views: 1119
Do you have enough energy to create the life you want? Energy is the critical, invisible force that creates your vitality and aliveness.
Without it, you drag through life, tired, stressed, and drained. With it, you feel good, enjoy yourself, and have the fuel to create what you want in life. ... Views: 632
"Most men live a life of quiet desperation."
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Do you?
Do you force a smile on your face, stand up straight and go out to meet the world.
Do you stoically keep the dreaded commitments that fill your planner?
Do you unquestionably carry out your mounting ... Views: 1675
Today’s affirmation is:
“Today I am making the radical choice to be absolutely happy.”
Being happy is a radical choice. It takes work and it requires strength to be happy in our world. The news is filled with the negative. There is a camera, it seems, ready to record every negative event ... Views: 1465
"Savor. To appreciate fully; enjoy or relish: I want to savor this great moment of accomplishment.
[From Latin sapere, to taste.]"
~ American Heritage Dictionary
Savoring. It’s the term psychologists use to describe the concept of being in the moment/being present/being mindful and truly ... Views: 972
"Claiming Your Body Freedom – Body Freedom"
(Part 6 of 7)
by Al Link and Pala Copeland
Divesting yourself of your body’s armor, so that you can be fully at ease in your body and share it completely with your beloved, requires learning a few new things and unlearning some old ones. ... Views: 598
December is a time of celebrations, traditions, and festivities. It is a time to express love and generosity to those around us. It is a time of selfless giving and focusing on those in need. It can also be a time of spiritual renewal and deep personal reflection.
This December try adding ... Views: 1436
What’s Missing in The Secret?
The ‘secret’ law of attraction was introduced to many people for the first time in the phenomenal hit movie "The Secret". However, The Secret DVD does not go far enough to explain how the Law of Attraction really works. Let’s hope the ... Views: 1092
Change…..It can be brutal. I guess the hardest one is the death of a loved one. There are also lovely little changes like divorce, jobs going away, kids leaving home, new bosses, moving, the list goes on.
But wait a minute. If there wasn’t change, you’d stay an infant, and ... Views: 838
A man rushed into a veterinarian's office carrying his limp, lifeless dog. The vet examined the animal and told the man the dog was dead. The man asked if there was any way the doctor could revive the dog. The doctor left the room and returned with a cat, who sniffed the dog from head to tail ... Views: 1040
One of the reasons most people fail to achieve what they want is that they never get around to implementing the good ideas they have.
If you have a problem with procrastination, the first step is often being honest with yourself about the real reason you're not doing it.
When you can get to ... Views: 561
There are, essentially, three men in my life. With one, I have pledged forever. One is my sparring partner on occasion and best pal at other times. One is finally fading at age 89. They all have my heart eternally. Today, I am hitting the pause button to give thanks for these three kings in my ... Views: 646
There are, essentially, three men in my life. With one, I have pledged forever. One is my sparring partner on occasion and best pal at other times. One is finally fading at age 89. They all have my heart eternally. Today, I am hitting the pause button to give thanks for these three kings in my ... Views: 662
More and more it seems like life can be so hectic. It's as if we purposely overload ourselves with more things than we could possibly ever accomplish. Sometimes as I'm going to sleep I think about all the things I need to get done and when I'm awake during the day I think about all the things ... Views: 1260
Oranges have been from time immemorial a staple food in the Mediterranean countries. They have also been a major player in protecting the people of that region from heart disease. Thus, if you never thought of oranges as a ¡§must¡¨ food for your heart, here are some good reasons to start doing ... Views: 1002
There’s A Monster in the Bathroom
Does it seem like high-tech gadgets are taking over our lives?
Don’t get me wrong. I appreciate the benefits of technology as much as anyone else. But it’s a constant challenge keeping up with the latest gadgets, computer programs, ... Views: 1212
Life Reflection Exercise
by Al Link and Pala Copeland
The purpose of this exercise is to help you learn to become detached from the results of your actions. When you are detached from the results of your actions you can more easily stay completely immersed in the moment, fully enjoying each ... Views: 928
Someone told me they desire to be a teacher. First, we are all teachers, all the time. We teach by personal example. We teach others about the state of being, about the thinking process, and about relationship skills, to name a few. In short, we teach all the time, by mere presence. People ... Views: 2655
Make up Your Mind!
How do you want to experience your day? Well, “make up your mind” and do it now! It is all up to you. The world you experience each day is based on how you choose to perceive, process and respond. You are in total control of how your day will be experienced!
Notice I ... Views: 1316