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One of the most painful experiences a father can endure is divorce. Yes, men hurt as much as women, although it is always assumed that women are the only hapless victims. A lot of men going through divorce also feel loneliness, anxiety, disappointment, and depression. There may be feelings of ... Views: 2878
Divorce is one of the most emotionally demanding life transitions you'll ever encounter. One big pitfall is getting preoccupied and consumed with making sure everyone else is taken care of first. Some divorcees adopt a martyr role as they navigate the new waters of their life. "Yes, my life is ... Views: 2877
Separation and divorce are two of the biggest roller coaster rides you’ll ever find emotionally. The Law of Attraction can give you some traction so you can regain your footing and see your way forward in your divorce journey.
Our thoughts create feelings, which in turn create vibrations ... Views: 2866
How Do I Know I Am Ready for a Divorce?
A great question not so easily answered. Research has shown that even happy long-term marriages have rough patches that the couple manages to triumph over, not just survive. Yet, there are truly very bad marriages that often involve behaviors such as ... Views: 2861
In Virginia, either party of a marriage is permitted to initiate a divorce based upon fault or no-fault grounds. Fault based divorces are permitted to be initiated immediately provided that the required grounds are existing at the time of filing. Fault based grounds include abuse, desertion, and ... Views: 2856
How To Deal With A Negative Critical Husband: Moody Negative Husband
Last week I heard the following (names changed to protect identity) "Nicola, my husband is chronically complaining and forever in a bad mood. He manages to find something wrong with everything and is constantly feeling hard ... Views: 2848
Divorce is something that has rapidly increased in the US, as 50% of all marriages are expected to fail; unfortunately, this number is increasing. Does that imply that you should simply raise the white flag and give up now? No! absolutely not. If you feel your marriage is in danger of divorce, ... Views: 2830
Procrastination is a dream stealer. It's insidious and has the potential to snuff out our vitality and diminish how we feel about ourselves. According to the American Heritage Dictionary, to procrastinate means "to put off doing something, especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness". ... Views: 2808
With so many marriages ending in divorce, researchers have started investigating what makes some marriages withstand the test of time? Research has shown that couples who divorce seem to have several things in common. It’s important to review the factors that seem to make marriages fail as well ... Views: 2803
Mother In Law Acts Like She Is Married To My Husband: My Husband And His Mother Are Too Close
An integral part of a lot of marriages seems to be an irritating, annoying, or cold mother-in-law. I agree that there are some psychotic mothers in law whom you have to stay clear from. However don't ... Views: 2800
I have helped thousands of people get over the depression they felt after breakups and while each one of them had a completely different story than the others they all shared one common cause for the suffering they experienced after the breakup which is having false beliefs about both breakups ... Views: 2795
When we’re going through a stressful time like a divorce, how do you move forward? These are the moments that define who you are and reveal the important inner workings of your own mind. Sure, it’s easy to feel good about yourself when things are going your way. More important to ... Views: 2793
How Do I Seduce My Wife: How to Seduce Your Wife and Have Her Initiate Sex More
The husband who wishes to enjoy sex more often must get clear on the fact that his wife is not interested in any kind of an offer where she loses. A man's wife will almost always reject a seduction attempt if she ... Views: 2788
Relationship means a lot of work to make it stronger and last for years. It is sad that divorce is always an option for couples when things are getting complicated in their relationship. Although divorce is a painful reality experienced by most couples, of course, if you know how to avoid ... Views: 2778
Breakups hurt as anyone going through one will attest to. Some people feel sad for a while, change some routines in their lives, reconnect with friends, and bounce back rather swiftly. Others, however, become entrenched in insurmountable sadness and gut wrenching grief. Why is it that some have ... Views: 2777
My Husband Is Not Intimate With Me Anymore: Lack Of Touch In Marriage
Do you know why a 90% of couples get divorce? Is your marriage getting boring? It is almost inevitable to prevent Boredom and Fatigue in a marriage, which unfortunately are the causes of most divorces as a result of loss in ... Views: 2766
Attaining your goal in the game of love entails a great deal of dedication, energy, and hard work. Because so much effort is necessary, failing this game is undoubtedly upsetting. For this reason you'll find plenty of suggestions and guidance on how to fix your relationship. For a great article, ... Views: 2763
Has your spouse neglected you? Rejected you? Emotionally abused you?
Are you struggling to get over the pain of an affair?
If you're having marriage problems, the chances are good that you need to put some
hurt behind you.
It's one of the most common questions I get. "Mort, I want to ... Views: 2748
This is a recipe that is more common every day. It can be delicious or a complete disaster. The base ingredients are pretty standard, although sometimes there are a few variations. Here is the recipe for a blended family.
Children. The children are a key ingredient. They may be primary ... Views: 2746
Healing after a break up can still give you so many questions left unanswered at the back of your mind. Really, when will you realize that you're done grieving? Is it really enough for you? Are you aware with what you are feeling? Will you allow yourself to keep on asking reasons and why's ... Views: 2745
A positive trend becoming noticeable in marriage counseling and therapy is that more couples are going in for counseling before seeking a divorce. However, there are more useless and incompetent marriage counselors and marriage therapists than ever. So it's best to check out and look for the ... Views: 2744
According to the national Center for Health Statistics, the woman files two-thirds of divorce cases. A more amazing statistic is that when the couple are college-educated, divorces initiated by the wife is a whopping 90-percent!
What's more interesting that for the past one-hundred years the ... Views: 2742
People going through divorce often focus on the endings it represents – the ending of a relationship, a dream, a way of life. To thrive after divorce requires you to look at divorce as a beginning – the beginning of a new life, of new possibilities for loving relationship, of a sense ... Views: 2734
What to do to end a relationship successfully
Sometimes, things really do happen in threes. And my rule is that when something happens three times, I should have a serious look at whatever the issue is.
Yesterday, I had three people call me about their divorces. One is just beginning a ... Views: 2734
I have coached many women, straight and gay, going through separation and divorce. One of the themes I hear from women is about their bafflement about their conflicting emotions once the separation or divorce is final. They say things like, “I couldn’t stand living with him anymore!”, “She was ... Views: 2733
What if you were called into your boss's office and told that s/he was thinking about letting you go, that you were not fulfilling your job responsibilities, and that you were holding the company back rather than helping the company grow and prosper? Yes, you might be shocked or stunned. You ... Views: 2726
I Hurt My Wife Emotionally: How to Make Up For Hurting Your Wife
When a marriage goes through a crisis, it can either be the breaking point of the relationship or it can be a vehicle for moving forward as a stronger couple. Everyone makes mistakes within their marriage but some mistakes are ... Views: 2719
DIVORCE SURVIVAL KIT
By
William Cottringer, Ph.D.
A pending divorce can be a scary and devastating experience for a married couple. For every divorcing person, the future is nothing but uncertainty, anxiety and confusion. Such an emotional state is not good for focusing on priorities or ... Views: 2703
Dating after divorce can be intimidating. For some people, it may be a few decades since you've been out there in the dating scene. As a divorce coach and author, a big concern my clients have is what to do to ensure they have more success in their future relationships.
Here are some important ... Views: 2691
The divorce rate in the United States has increased tremendously over the past 75 years. Analysts have several theories on the reason behind this. The divorce rate is an alarming 45-percent for a first marriage and over 60-percent for a second marriage.
Based on my personal experience as well ... Views: 2688
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Two recent and very powerful studies about the state of marriage in America offer irrefutable proof that marriage in America is in decline.
A study by the Pew Charitable Trust, and another entitled the National Marriage Project at the University ... Views: 2678
My Wife Has A Bad Attitude: How To Deal With A Disrespectful Wife
A large number of husbands complain that their wives are nagging and distressing. Some of them find things to do and places to go outside the home in an effort to escape their wives pestering nature. If you feel your wife is a ... Views: 2672
Making Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Jealous To Get Them Back - How It is Done; We have all tried to use jealousy to our advantage throughout our lives, sometimes more successfully than others. If you have any experience with jealousy you will know that it can backfire a lot of the time and ... Views: 2667
My Husband Says He Is Not Happy and Wants To Leave: Husband Says He Is Happier Without Me
My husband says he is not happy is something that many wives find themselves saying after they've been married for a time. When you love a man and he confesses to you that he's unhappy it puts you in a ... Views: 2665
It’s not uncommon for the difference in parenting styles between parents to become very apparent after separation. Children usually experience some transition time to get acclimated to the unique rhythms of each household.
Realizing you have little control over what happens “over there” at ... Views: 2661
Ending a long term relationship can be devastating, destructive and depressing but… there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Having experienced at first hand a 21 year marriage blast apart with a hurricane force, I know that the effect is, to put it mildly, earth-stopping. If you’ve ever ... Views: 2655
Divorce. Separation. Gloomy concepts for most people. Sharing the news that "I'm getting a divorce" is the kind of pronouncement that can cause a hush at even the liveliest cocktail party. About 50% of all marriages end in divorce, and one in three Americans are already part of a blended family. ... Views: 2644
One of the most important things a person can do for their relationship evolution is cutting cords that still bind them to previous relationships and prevent them from completing those relationships in the highest of ways. Most people do not realize that when you have a relationship with someone ... Views: 2640
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
While we normally write positive stories about successful marriage, a recent interview caused us to alter course, albeit, temporarily.
A few weeks ago we interviewed a woman who had recently gotten divorced. Her story was so emotional and ... Views: 2629
Before answering your question "how to obtain my ex boyfriend to want me back"? Let me tell you that having a boyfriend is from the priceless gifts in life, a boyfriend whom you can take into account as your secret box. Unfortunately, quite a few couples found themselves struggling in their ... Views: 2598
Chances are, that relationship you’re ending has been
knocking at death’s door for quite some time now or should
never have begun to start with. The handwriting has been
on the wall but you didn’t have the courage to say that it’s
over. Bad advice from your peers, relatives and ... Views: 2593
How To Get My Wife Back When She Wants A Divorce: Wife Filed For Divorce Will She Change Her Mind
Marriage is full of both good times and bad times. No one ever truly knows what they're getting into when they march down the aisle on their wedding day. Obviously, there are going to be ... Views: 2588
Going through a difficult divorce? Disagreeing with your ex about child custody and visitation? Dealing with domestic violence? Ending a domestic partnership? Fighting over child support or spousal support? If you are going through any type of family law litigation, you may feel stressed, ... Views: 2585
Conventional wisdom says it takes just 21 days to establish a new habit. So what if that new habit involves getting over a breakup? Is it possible to exorcise your ex, clear your head, and heal your heart in just 3 weeks? It is when you enroll in a crash course in breakup survival, immerse ... Views: 2584
A common question most people who are recovering from a breakup is “how long to get over a breakup?” They are recovering from the end of their relationship and they are having a hard time coping with it.
If you and your ex had a bad breakup and you’re also wondering “how long to get over a ... Views: 2584
Living life as a separated or divorced person is like wandering into uncharted territory. Like a traveler in a foreign country, so much of what you will experience is new or unfamiliar. There's the legal process, your changing social network, the emotional roller coaster rides, creating new ... Views: 2571
CREATING HAPPINESS AFTER DIVORCE
Divorce is the loss of a relationship, and it's painful. You will go through a grief process that involves denial, sadness, and anger. Depending on your particular circumstances, recovering from the sadness and anger and moving into acceptance can take ... Views: 2568
If you’re in a difficult situation, the instinct is usually to avoid additional conflict and just curl up into a little ball. If that sounds like you- improve your game immediately! Inaction will be the downfall of all things you’ve built. When you sense trouble, you need to act. Rocking the ... Views: 2564
One of the hardest stages in the relationship cycle is moving on. Many of us ask the question, "Why am I still thinking about my ex?" We've all suffered through nights when we couldn't sleep because thoughts about the ex just wouldn't quit. That's normal. Here are 4 reasons why we continue to ... Views: 2555