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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Critical First Steps in Stopping a Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Ted KallmyerWhen a couple separates or are about to separate, emotions are using running very high and stopping a divorce is probably the last thing on either spouse's mind, but this is actually where one of the most important steps to restoring the marriage occurs. Giving each other space during this ...
Views: 996 - How To End a Relationship and Move on To a Healthier Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisHow you end a relationship matters. In fact it matters so much that it can affect your next relationship in a positive or negative way. So when ending a relationship you need to take that into consideration! There are two common feelings that can occur from a bad end to a relationship. They ...
Views: 995(3 votes) - Three Settlement Processes When Court Looks Like a Train Careening Out of Control - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldLet’s say you are involved in a litigation (court) process to address a parenting dispute and it looks like that train is careening out of control. You can’t foresee using mediation or collaborative law because either you or your former partner won’t agree to this. There may be a ...
Views: 995 - Feeling Disconnected From Husband: My Husband I Have Grown Apart - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyFeeling Disconnected From Husband: My Husband I Have Grown Apart If you are thinking about how to make your husband love you again, there are some simple ideas that you should consider. Many times women feel that the man they love is pulling away and they think the only instant solution to ...
Views: 994 - Want to Save Your Marriage? Bring Back Some Humour - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Liam NadenWhen a marriage or relationship gets into trouble, one of the first things that happens is that the two people begin to lose their emotional connection. Communication becomes stressful and difficult. Each begins to question why they are in the marriage. As result, what connection there is can be ...
Views: 994(1 vote) - 3 Resolutions Every Divorcing Mom MUST Make - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2010 from Resilient MomThe 3 Resolutions Every Divorcing Mom must make in order to have a great 2010. Even if you’ve already made your resolutions, every divorcing mom deserves to add these resolutions to your list. #1 TO TREAT MYSELF WITH COMPASSION We Resilient Moms are loving nurtures of our families and ...
Views: 992(5 votes) - Give Yourself a Fabulous Divorce Party - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraA divorce is a life-changing event that is usually filled with pain and sorrow. Although a person going through a divorce will have to undergo the process of grieving, there always comes a time when one would feel a great deal of relief knowing that he/she came out of the bad situation in one ...
Views: 992 - Do You Ever Think How Can I Change My Spouse? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2015 from Nicola BeerYou wouldn’t believe the amount of husbands and wives that come up to me and say “Nicola, how do I get my Spouse to Change? ”If you are trying to save your marriage by desperately attempting to change your partner to no avail - STOP! Want your partner to exercise more? Stop social media? ...
Views: 990 - I must have been crazy.....or was I? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Paula JonesI first separated from my, now, ex-husband around Thanksgiving in 2006. I knew something wasn’t right. I just wasn’t happy. I was actually, rarely happy. Don’t get me wrong. He was and is a marvelous, wonderful, generous, very handsome man. We rarely argued. He was good to me. Very good. ...
Views: 990(2 votes) - Dr. Romance: Guidelines for Co-Parenting after divorce - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Tina TessinaNo matter how angry or hurt you may be after a divorce, if you have children, you’ll still share a lifetime with their other parent, your ex. Dr. Romance offers guidelines for moving past the anger and hurt, and finding a way to co-parent your children that is good for ...
Views: 989(1 vote) - Releasing A Relationship - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Adam BenedettoLetting go of a relationship, whether it is a divorce, a separation, or ending a friendship, can be a very hard moment to go through. When we let go of anything we are emotionally attached to, we tend to prolong the moment with our desire and thoughts, especially if we are not the ones wishing ...
Views: 989 - 5 unicorn dating rules you must know - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2019 from jianghe chenWhether you want to find a unicorn girl for threesome, or for poly dating, adhering to the rules is the key to building relationships and successful dating. "More haste less speed". Only by doing the details of each date, the Unicorn girl will naturally establish an enviable relationship with ...
Views: 988 - How to Handle the End of Your Long-Term Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloHow to end a long-term relationship? It's never easy, especially when you've built your lives around each other and you thought it would last forever. Before you end a long-term relationship, make sure you've done all you can to salvage it. In addition to solution-based communication (rather ...
Views: 987 - Instead of Litigation and the Inherent Conflict of Interest - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldYou are in conflict with your former partner. You see a family lawyer who tells you s/he can be of assistance. The lawyer offers to send a letter of introduction to your former partner or their lawyer and in so doing, sets the tone for the process of settlement. That first communication often ...
Views: 986 - My Divorce Journal - Is It Really a Disease? - by Submitted on May 31, 2011 from Dawn SinnottLast week I was beginning to answer questions with the help of Al-Anon’s 12 Step recovery program. This week I am answering whether I have accepted that alcoholism is a disease. Then – 3/4/2004 “Al-Anon Journal question - Do I accept that alcoholism is a disease? How does that change how ...
Views: 986 - Parental Kidnapping and How to Avoid Becoming A Victim - Garrett Law Group - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2012 from Long SchippersAs documented by the Department of Justice, about 200,000 children are subjects of parental kidnapping each year. 6 % of these parental kidnapping incidents are open for six months or longer. Unfortunately, some haven't ever been closed at all. This is a shocking, albeit sobering, stat. The ...
Views: 986(1 vote) - Spicing Up The Bedroom For Married Couples: How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesSpicing Up The Bedroom For Married Couples: How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom If you are married and past the honeymoon stage, you are probably going through the normal problems of a lacking sex life. There are many factors that have led the two of you to this new (probably missionary) ...
Views: 986 - Baby Boomer Divorce: The Impact on Adult Children - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2018 from Dave MejiasThe National Center for Health Statistics and U.S. Census Bureau statistics for today’s couples in their 50’s and older doesn’t paint a happy picture. In 1990, five out every 1,000 marriages representative of this age group ended in divorce. Stats from 2015 revealed a 100% increase – with 10 out ...
Views: 985 - Look Before You Fall - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Gina HardyInspired by countless stories of friends and acquaintances jumping into relationships without "assessing" the scene, I have come to the conclusion, that to save us from self induced heartache we must indeed look before we fall in love. If possible. Easy to say when the emotions stirred by ...
Views: 984(4 votes) - Parental Separation: Who Do You See? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2006 from Gary DirenfeldThere is a dynamic that naturally evolves when parents only see lawyers to determine their ongoing relationship to children, post separation or divorce. Regardless of the disposition of the lawyer, on the mind of the parent, is winning or coming away with a particular outcome. The parent races ...
Views: 984 - My Divorce Journal - What Are You Doing to Fix This? - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2011 from Dawn SinnottLast week I was contemplating an eye opening question previously posed by our marriage counselor, this week I’m defensive about an eye opening question posed by my husband Then – 12/23/2003 “Last night was quite interesting. When ‘Carl’ came home from his AA meeting he was in a bad ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - Yes. They Shoot the Messenger in Child Custody/Access Cases - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldA parent called me asking for me to provide an assessment. I explained I do not provide court involved services anymore and explained why. The caller asked for a referral to someone who did. I offered the name of a respected colleague. The caller emailed thereafter and included in the email ...
Views: 983 - How to Identify the Best Divorce Lawyer in Boca Raton? - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2018 from K. SaluFinding a good divorce lawyer in Boca Raton is like looking for a needle in a haystack. A divorce or dissolution of marriage is a huge step that needs to be taken by a couple. Therefore, looking specifically for ‘Divorce Lawyer Boca Raton’ online can be hard. Luckily, we will mention some ...
Views: 982 - Making Co- Parenting In Divorce Work - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAfter taking care of the all the divorce matters, the party involved usually ends up very exhausted and tired. They generally forgot the issue that matters most is parenting. Being a parent is hard enough and much harder now that you are both divorced. This is the moment when you set aside your ...
Views: 982(1 vote) - "Separation as a Powerful Relationship Tool" - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2018 from Barry and Joyce VissellFor too many people, separation is a prelude to divorce. Taking time apart from a loved one is often thought of as the end of the relationship. But after 53 years together, and helping to guide thousands of couples, Joyce and I view separation as a sometimes vital necessity in a relationship ...
Views: 981 - 10 Ways to Cope During and After a Divorce - by Submitted on May 20, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireDealing with divorce is challenging in every respect. Divorce can be one of the most stressful times in a person’s life and simply coping with resulting changes in lifestyle and day-to-day routines becomes the new norm for a period of time. In fact, studies have shown that a newly divorced ...
Views: 981 - Being Friends With An Ex- Is It Possible? - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraA few weeks ago, I had an encounter with the past. At first, I didn’t know what or how to react, because its been months since I haven’t seen my former boyfriend, but as the conversation progresses, it turned out to be a good meeting. That night, I contemplated about the x- factor. During our ...
Views: 981 - TIPS FOR DATING AGAIN AFTER DIVORCE - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2012 from Holly HayesDating again after divorce can be very challenging at times. This is because when you become single again, you find that as a lady the number of youthful men available to you are very few compaired to the number of guys that were around you when you were young. This can discourage you but its in ...
Views: 981 - Divorce Mediation or Divorce Litigation - Which Will Work Best for You? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Allan Baron1. What is Divorce Mediation? Divorce mediation is a voluntary, confidential and structured process in which spouses who are seeking divorce come together in a safe, comfortable setting and communicate with the help of a Mediator "a trained neutral". Discussions take place in an environment ...
Views: 980(1 vote) - Chances of Getting Ex Back When They Don't Seem Interested - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2015 from Ayiba TiemoGetting dumped is one of the greatest pains you can feel. Its so distressing, frustrating and it brings out your weak point in you. Having someone close to you at your side today and the next day it seems the person is very far from you; she acts cold, distant and bitter towards you. That same ...
Views: 979 - Husband Refuses To Have Joint Bank Account: Married With Separate Bank Accounts - Husband Wants To Keep Finances Separate - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Refuses To Have Joint Bank Account: Married With Separate Bank Accounts - Husband Wants To Keep Finances Separate Husbands and wives have always fought over money. Mostly when they don't have enough, or one is given to spending and the other is not. Some fight over on what to spend ...
Views: 979 - My Divorce Journal - Step One - by Submitted on May 23, 2011 from Dawn SinnottLast week things were pleasant and I hoped that they would continue. This week I’m beginning to answer questions with the help of Al-Anon’s 12 Step recovery program. Then – 3/2/2004 “Journal question - Do I accept that I cannot control another person’s drinking? Another person’s ...
Views: 979 - My Divorce Journal - Vicious Cycle - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2011 from Dawn SinnottLast week I was pressured to feel my feelings and come to terms with them. This week I’m getting increasingly frustrated with the vicious cycle that had been a part of our marriage for awhile. Then - 1/24/2004 “I am so tired of being the leader. I would love to be partners in the true ...
Views: 979(1 vote) - Preparing for a Divorce - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireBefore you ask your spouse to terminate your marriage, you need to learn how to prepare for a divorce. Divorce preparation is important because a vindictive spouse can complicate the new life that you would like to begin leading. The following divorce checklist will help you with your divorce ...
Views: 979 - Choose Your Divorce Lawyer with Care and Consideration - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2012 from George PatelIf you are contemplating divorce, or if your spouse has left you, you are in a situation where nerves are frayed and tempers may be short. Your Weston divorce attorney should be someone with whom you can speak candidly and honestly. Your divorce lawyer must know your situation thoroughly in ...
Views: 978 - Minimize The Waves Of Divorce - by Divorce drops into our private pond and creates waves that last beyond our lifetime.
We must make ripples instead.
Divorce is never envisioned when we give birth to our children. They were conceived in love. We had full intentions of keeping that love strong always. As pre-divorced parents ...
Views: 978 - My Husband Doesn't Acknowledge Me: I Feel Like My Husband Doesn't Care About Me - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Doesn't Acknowledge Me: I Feel Like My Husband Doesn't Care About Me Years ago when I was working in a mental health center, I served on a committee that was redesigning the communications systems. In one meeting, a committee member named Susan said, "The receptionists sound ...
Views: 978 - Stressing about the holidays? Here's what you need to know. - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltWell, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday. But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and ...
Views: 978 - Avail the Legal Services of Professional Lawyers that Make Divorce Proceedings Easy and Convenient for You - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2012 from Steffan ColeIt is quite clear that a divorce process is both time and money consuming due to too much legal formalities and proceedings. It adds more stress and tension to the separating couples and makes them feel disturbed and irritated. Divorce petition, divorce nisi and decree absolute are three major ...
Views: 976 - Divorce and Its Effects - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2015 from Nicky SilohaDivorce is seen as a hazard to social life which seems to have taken all societies in its grip. The last century has seen increased divorce rates and it is true throughout the world. Especially in Europe and western countries people are finding it difficult to be married for a long time. ...
Views: 976 - Help Save A Million Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2008 from Tony & Nicki Vee (Intimate Relationships - Ultimate Solutions)Intimate Relationship issues are rife in our society, millions of people are challenged and stressed out when this fundamental part of their lives isn’t working. Many people get into intimacy with a partner to share the love that they all so desire, only to find that the relationship sadly gives ...
Views: 975 - How Can I Get My Ex Back? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomHow can I get my ex back? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc changed. My husband has left me for another woman.... she is younger, more exciting, more sexy, and he will not come back.... I hear this so often. And it is a sad thing to hear as it implies that if this other ...
Views: 975 - Is your partner cheating? A private investigator might help you clarify this - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2017 from Laura LyonsWhen people suspect that their partner is cheating, chances are, they truly are cheating. Women especially can sense changes in their partners’ behaviour. Regardless, certainty is always better and this is why many choose to hire the services of a professional, a private investigator, namely. ...
Views: 975 - 5 Essential Tips for Financial Planning After Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2018 from William GrigsbyGetting a divorce is never easy. In addition to the emotions caused, there are all the matter of moving households, dividing up goods and deciding custody if pets or kids are involved. Another important thing to consider is your finances. After a divorce, you likely won’t be able to continue ...
Views: 974 - Book Review: The Complete Guide to Protecting Your Financial Security When Getting a Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Debbie MolisThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Divorce. Divorce is a judicial declaration dissolving a marriage and releasing the husband and wife from all matrimonial obligations. Carolyn Ellis is the Official Guide to Divorce. The Complete Guide to Protecting Your Financial ...
Views: 974 - Dear Dr. Romance: If I am not strong, I cannot be an example for my children - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am mid-thirties mom with 3 children looking to divorce. I read your article "Family Violence Q & A" and I decided to write to you for help to stand on my feet again. I was a homemaker since I had my first child, but had lived very unfulfilled ...
Views: 974(1 vote) - Divorce Visitation - When Domestic Abuse Revels Itself in the Interest of the Controlling Parent - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2009 from Jeanne King, Ph.D.In helping people negotiate child custody and visitation schedules, I’ve come to see a pattern express itself in terms of parents’ desire for their children to have equal access to both parents. The moment I see resistance to equal access to both parents based on what a parent “may” do without ...
Views: 974 - How Long Do I Wait Before I Try To Get My Ex Back? Here's What You Need to Do! - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2016 from Michael UadialeWe broke up in March, did not have any kind of contact until May when I initiated contact via Facebook. We send each other emails and talk on the phone once in a while. Back in June I asked him if we should give the relationship another chance and he said he is not ready to get back with me ...
Views: 974 - Divorce, Emotions and Healing - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2013 from Carol FergusonFeeling that you are the victim of your circumstance in divorce is one of the things that comes up unless you're taking ownership. It's always a two way street, it's like what do you take responsibility for, because it's never just about one person, it's always about the collective, the two, if ...
Views: 973 - How Mediation Can Settle Legal Matters In A Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2013 from Diane CaudillThere is a reason the divorce rates are really high in the United States. When the honeymoon phase of a marriage is over, the couple will begin to really tackle issues that they will face as the years roll by. This includes things like finance, buying and owning property and having kids. In ...
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