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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Recently Divorced Finances - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Cindy MorusApril 8, 2008 This is part of our Financial Literacy Month Question and Answer series Question: What advice can you give recently divorced women on how to manage their finances now that they are facing life as a single mom on a limited income? What should be their first priority? Lisa A. ...
Views: 1437 - 3 Steps To Handling Divorce Threats or “I’m Not “In Love” With You” - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2017 from Nicola BeerMost people are aware now of the 40-50% average divorce rate in the west and expat communities. Knowing this doesn’t make that any easier if you are living in an unhappy marriage where divorce threats have been made. The good news is an unhappy relationship doesn’t mean it’s over. That’s ...
Views: 1436 - July is National Child-Centered Divorce Month - recognizing children's emotional needs when parents divorce or separate - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2008 from Rosalind SedaccaThe second annual recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month will take place throughout July across the United States. Professionals who deal with divorce issues -- therapists, attorneys, mediators, coaches, educators, clergy and others – will be joining forces to share valuable ...
Views: 1436 - Tips for Getting Your Ex Back After a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Andrew HunterTrust me, I know how bad it feels to be dumped. It feels like you are getting hit by a bucket of cold water. You suddenly find yourself lost and uncertain about everything--especially if the two of you where together for a while. It can feel like you've lost all your will to live. This is why I ...
Views: 1436(1 vote) - Child Custody And Visitation Issues Affect More Than Just Divorces - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2012 from James GarrettIn today’s culture, child custody and visitation factors happen in cases other than divorces. Custody and visitation legal rights need to be set for couples seeking divorce, grandparents, step-parents, former partners, and parties of extramarital affairs and one-night stands. In each of these ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - The New You! - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Womens Recreation, Inc.Reinventing yourself is not about getting rid of old ways and ideas. It is about taking away what you need from them; heartbreak, sadness, being stepped on and lied to, and creating a brand new person who sees their self a lot more clearly. The energy around a situation or circumstance is ...
Views: 1435 - How To Get Husband Interested In Me Sexually Again: How To Make Your Husband Want You All The Time - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHow To Get Husband Interested In Me Sexually Again: How To Make Your Husband Want You All The Time Marriages change over time and one of those changes is sometimes a loss of intimacy. Couples often settle into a routine, particularly after they welcome children in the family. This routine ...
Views: 1434 - Parenting Plan Templates vs. Court Forms: Does it Make a Difference? - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2012 from Christal StephensOne of the tasks you will be asked to complete during your child custody case is to create a parenting plan for your child. A parenting plan should contain the custody arrangements for your child and some basic philosophies for raising your child. Your plan, once approved by the court, shall ...
Views: 1434 - Waking Up By Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockWe know when it's not working; it's like a slap in the face. We thought that it was working but then something happens to remind us that nothing has fundamentally changed at all, and we find ourselves back at square one after all these years. We were smug for awhile, even bragging to friends ...
Views: 1433(1 vote) - How to Prevent Divorce - Ways and Solutions to Stop Divorce Before It's Too Late - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from John VickiHelping prevent divorce from happening can be easier said than done because it involves lots of difficult steps involving going through hate-filled arguments, painful feelings, and being able to face all these things with a positive attitude, no matter how hard it seems at first. Firstly, ...
Views: 1431 - An Angel in Disguise - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Tim ReynoldsHave you ever had something happen to you that was so bad it made you feel worn down? For me, that event was my first marriage. It was a nightmare. To be honest, I married a guy I should never have married. Even on our wedding day, I felt it wasn’t right. But I walked down the aisle ...
Views: 1429(3 votes) - How to Cure a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2007 from Paul GermanEvery day thousands of people are hurt by break-ups, divorces or the death of a loved one. Some seem to plummet into the abyss of broken hearts and others appear to brush it off and go on. So what’s the difference between these people? They both feel the hurt acutely. It may be only a matter of ...
Views: 1429 - This is why you can’t shake being pissed off all the time. But here’s what you can do about it. - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltHey, so does this ever happen to you? It may have been months since your divorce ended, and you thought you were doing okay. You were picking yourself up financially, making your home your own, and trying some new activities and were feeling pretty good about yourself. But then it ...
Views: 1429 - Freedom is the Reward for Letting Go - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileThe ability to move on after your divorce entails the letting go of the past with its emotional baggage and negative emotions. If you can accomplish this feat then the heavy burdens you have been carrying will lift and you will experience the liberation of freedom: the ability to move unimpeded ...
Views: 1428 - The Pain of Love - by Submitted on May 05, 2007 from Wayne MisnerThe Pain of Love A poet’s love poem takes us to the heavens, with memories of sharing beauty and joy. With the skill of an artist the poet paints, a word picture of hearts that embrace, dreams of futures that will never end. Those lonely years, finally the one that makes my soul sing. But at ...
Views: 1426 - Advice for Relationship Break-up - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Tara SpringettThe following case-study gives marriage and relationship break-up advice and demonstrates what can be achieved by practicing the simple self-help practice higher-consciousness healing as described in Tara’s book The Five-Minute Miracle. Sally came to see me because she felt depressed and ...
Views: 1425 - Most Common Reasons Why Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2015 from Mike HatcherThere is no better feeling than loving and being loved, and nobody can argue that. Sooner or later, most of us want to find that perfect person who is not only going to keep us warm at night, but who will be a constant part of all our plans and goals. Nonetheless, many relationships and ...
Views: 1424 - Your Holiday List - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Meghan GehanLately I’ve been reading a lot about the holidays: what to cook, how to decorate, what to buy (and what to ask for…). And gradually it dawned on me -- these articles are all about what to do for others, or what to ask others to do for you! Don’t get me wrong – I think “doing for others” is ...
Views: 1424(3 votes) - How To Confront A Suspected Cheating Husband / Wife: How To Confront A Cheating Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHow To Confront A Suspected Cheating Husband / Wife: How To Confront A Cheating Spouse The manner in which you confront your spouse can make or break the relationship. If you confront your partner at the heat of the moment, you might say something you will regret later on. In order to ...
Views: 1422 - Divorce: Don’t ask Why? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Shelley StileIn life, I have come to accept the fact that there are questions of mine that will never be answered to my satisfaction if at all. I have come to accept the fact that some things in life are beyond my comprehension and I must trust or have faith that certain occurrences are indeed outside the ...
Views: 1420(1 vote) - Instant Gratification vs. a Long term Strategy… what’s best? PART I - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from Adele TheronInstant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it, then the words combined; LONG – TERM. However if waiting that particular extended time will further HELP in the long run it stirs the question if waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best for you? When ...
Views: 1420(2 votes) - PARENTING GUIDELINES AFTER DIVORCE - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Darlene Lancer1. Tell your children the truth, with simple explanations. Tell them where the other parent is. 2. Don’t bring up grievances or speaking derogatorily about the other parent to or in front of your children. 3. Don't discuss financial, legal or other disputes with your children. 4. Don’t ...
Views: 1420(3 votes) - California Divorce Mediation - May Be Required in Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIf your divorce involves minor children, and you and your spouse can't agree on custody or visitation issues, you may be required to participate in California divorce mediation. After reading this article you will know how it works. California divorces are handled through the state's Superior ...
Views: 1419 - How To Deal With Child Custody Issues - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2012 from matthew inghamThe custody issue can be and often does become highly contested. In a lot of divorce scenarios the husband and the wife are able to settle all of the issues outside of court except the custody issue. When this happens, the ex's will schedule a final hearing whereby they will appear in the ...
Views: 1418 - Dealing With a Broken Heart - Powerful Strategies - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Chris RobertsIf you are interested in dealing with a broken heart, there are a number of issues you should be aware of. First of all, you should understand that no breakup is fun, and completely getting rid of any trace of pain may be impossible. However, there are some powerful strategies that will help you ...
Views: 1414(2 votes) - Working With Professionals - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Sam VakninSelecting the right professional is crucial. In the hands of an incompetent service provider, you may end up feeling abused all over again. Go through the following check list before you settle on a divorce attorney, a financial consultant, a tax planner, a security adviser, or an accountant. ...
Views: 1414 - 1—ADVICE, DIVORCE & MISSING MY DAUGHTERS - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2012 from Adrian (AJ) GarciaHow does a man get over a divorce or a relationship that had run its course? Other than one’s friends or the bars where can a man turn to get support or the needed help to just talk and figure out how to get back on the road to self confidence and feel good about himself again? A friend of ...
Views: 1413 - Getting Your Ex Back – How To Get Your Ex Into Wanting You Back - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Kevin TeoA breakup with your ex is no doubt a painful experience, and it can be nerve wrecking to devise a plan in getting your ex back. But what if you could have your ex want you back instead? That's actually possible, and here's what you can incorporate in a plan in getting your ex back. Make ...
Views: 1412 - Life Beyond Divorce: Creating The Best Life For Your Children. - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2012 from Jeni Hooper• Has your life has taken an unexpected turn because of separation or divorce? • Are you unsure what to expect from the future? • Are you feeling drained? • Are your children irritable or having mood swings? • Is communication in the family not as good as it used to be? • Do you want to ...
Views: 1410 - Rewriting the Script:After Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2012 from Dr. Carol BateyRewriting the Script: After Divorce By Dr. Carol S. Batey (Feb 13, 2012) Copyright Every individual in an event, marriage, divorce or situation perceives it differently. I was no different now, about my divorce. I rewrote my script after ...
Views: 1410 - A rant about having sex with an ex whilst healing - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2013 from Adele TheronThere is an article in the Daily Mail today entitled “Why ‘ex-sex’ CAN be a good idea: Sleeping with an old lover lessens psychological distress of break-up… if you’re not over him” Apparently research from the University of Arizona (published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology) ...
Views: 1408 - Husband Is Distant and Moody: Husband Distant and Withdrawn - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Is Distant and Moody: Husband Distant and Withdrawn There is some trouble between husband and wife? Don't worry. If you have grasped the following four rules for restoring the affection of a couple, everything will be OK again. I. Enumerate the other side's strong ...
Views: 1406 - Introducing New Partner Too Fast, Too Soon - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2009 from Gary DirenfeldEven though a spouse may have contemplated separation for years prior to informing their partner, to the partner, the news comes as a shock, even in view of a tumultuous relationship. For the children, the shock is often even greater. To intensify matters befalling the children, the spouse who ...
Views: 1406 - Getting Over a Break Up - 5 Tips On Getting Over Your First Love - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneFor most of us, getting over your first love can seem impossible. It's hard to believe that we can ever really be happy again or that we will ever find someone who 'gets' us the same way our love did. The truth of the matter is, we are all humans and believe it or not, we cannot love one person ...
Views: 1405 - 5 Steps to Getting Into the Groove and Getting Things Done - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Karen FinnMy husband laughs at me a lot because he thinks I'm just not hip. The funny thing is I agree with him. I often use slang that is WAY out of date and when I try to use more current slang it just sounds funny coming out of my mouth. He's not alone in laughing at me either. I remember the first ...
Views: 1404 - Divorce - Breaking Up or Breaking Free? - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2010 from Barbara KellySo often, when I speak with someone who is divorced, the word "failure" comes up. We have been taught by religion, our families, and our culture that divorce is a failure of commitment. The following stories illustrate the transformative power of divorce. Whether you are the person who ...
Views: 1404(2 votes) - How to Live with and *Understand* an Angry Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2013 from Rabbi Shlomo SlatkinOne of the most common yet challenging issues I see when working with couples is anger. Anger is one of the most powerful and most destructive human emotions. The long-term damage it can have on a marriage can be irreparable as it tears apart the trust and safety in a relationship. Here are a ...
Views: 1402(1 vote) - Husband Drinks Too Much On Weekends: Husband Binge Drinks Every Weekend - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2019 from Colten ReeseHusband Drinks Too Much On Weekends: Husband Binge Drinks Every Weekend Does your spouse show signs of alcoholism? In other words, does your spouse need more and more alcohol to feel "buzzed" or intoxicated? Here are 5 common signs of alcoholism addiction: 1. Does he/she drink to relax? ...
Views: 1402 - Divorcing parents - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Jainarain (Jai) KissoonYou have finally decided to go through with it, you are getting a divorce. As a divorcing parent, what do you need to think about? How do you minimize the affect of the divorce on your children? First and foremost, hire a good attorney, in the end you may find it worth it to sit down with a ...
Views: 1401(2 votes) - Advice During These Tough Economic Times - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2012 from Mike MillsMost of us experience economic problems every once in a while. This can be due to the economy itself but it may also be due to temporary setbacks that we experience in our lives. There are some options that are open to you, even if you live in a rural area and may have a difficulty in finding ...
Views: 1398 - Effect of Divorce on the Family Business - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Meghan GehanIt is an unfortunate American reality that half of all first marriages and nearly 60% of second marriages end in divorce. When business partners divorce‚ the financial and emotional challenges become more complex. In addition to negotiating the separation agreement‚ dividing marital assets‚ ...
Views: 1398 - How to Find The Best Marriage Counselor For Your Needs - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Peggy FergusonEveryone wants "the best". When you are looking for a marriage counselor it is important to find someone who is specifically trained in marriage counseling and has the credential of "licensed" or "certified" marriage counselor". This indicates that they demonstrated some level of competence ...
Views: 1398 - 10 Essential Single Mom Secrets (and Dad's too) on How to Keep It Together After Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship Coach10 Single Mom Secrets on How to Keep It Together After Divorce As a counselor and coach to hundreds of clients and a mom to two vibrant, smart, beautiful women ~ now young adults ~ I have learned numerous life lessons through the years. I learned to design and incorporate what I call ...
Views: 1397(1 vote) - Prepare for Divorce (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN) | DivorceForce - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownDivorce with dignity! Be committed to be on the healing in two years not five year track! Children want to be normal again, not kids of those divorcing parents who are always fighting. Believe in yourself and what the future holds! Lean into the divorce, move through one step at a time, don't ...
Views: 1397 - Three Simple Steps to Your Property Divorce Settlement - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2013 from Toby KingAt the end of most divorce proceedings, each ex-spouse nurses some bitterness, anger, and resentment towards the other party because of the way their property settlement in divorce may have been divided. Certainly, their respective divorce lawyers likely aimed at getting for their client an ...
Views: 1396 - The Division of Assets and Debts During a Divorce — How Mediation Can Help you Divide These in a Way That Makes Sense to Both of You. - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhether you have $10K or $10M in assets, the division of marital assets does not necessarily determine how much your divorce will cost you. The divorces we see on television, with high priced attorneys and high powered experts, do not have to be the rule, but the exception. Divorce mediation ...
Views: 1394 - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't think I want to be in this relationship after all - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am currently reading your book, The 10 Smartest Decisions a Woman can Make Before 40 and absolutely loving it. I have been married for a year and four months and we are going through a really tough time right now. I have suggested counseling and my husband ...
Views: 1393(1 vote) - Relationships: Can A Relationship End Before Two People Hate Each Other? - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship gets to a point where it is no longer working, each person is likely to feel different to how they felt in the beginning. When they spend time in each others company, they could be thinking about how long it will be until their time together will come to an end. However, ...
Views: 1392 - Co-Parenting Skills Classes Online For Divorced Parents Living In Different States - by Submitted on May 30, 2012 from Ari NovickIn an era where everything moves fast, coping with everyday errands is quite a struggle. If you want training or education, or need to take a court-ordered class on successful parenting skills, you might feel overwhelmed with all the options available. You could comb through lists of local ...
Views: 1391 - Men who Cheat by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomMen who cheat by Beth Shepherd psychic. Yes I do realise that there are women who cheat as well as men. But either way if the other person finds out it hurts them, it hurts a lot, and the damage it does to the relationship, their confidence and the trust that was there before can never be ...
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