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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Why Rebound Relationship Rarely Works - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you are a single woman over 30 and are actively dating, likelihood is you'll find many divorced men -recent or not- as your potential suitors. You -and your ex that you are not over with- are even perhaps on a rebound yourself! We all go through transitional relationships at one point or ...
Views: 16445(3 votes) - Why some people never recover from breakups - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiA research was carried out on the level of breakups around the world after which it was proven that more than 65% of relationships end in breakups. If you decided to carry out another research, you will discover that the majority of these people who broke up was not because they did not love ...
Views: 6616(2 votes) - Will A Trial Separation Save Or Break Your Marriage? Find Out Here! - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from Mika MaddelaMany couples out there with a failing marriage question whether or not a trial marriage separation will make or break their marriage. If you are seriously thinking about whether or not you and your spouse should get separated, please read on. Many couples with failing marriage living under ...
Views: 5917(2 votes) - “I Deeply Want to Find a Love that Will Last. But I'm still Hurt from a Cheating Ex? ” - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Nanette GeigerNanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes... ... Donna from North Carolina wrote me to ask me that question As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here's the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, I'm so glad that you know that you definitely need to let go of the past before you ...
Views: 1105(1 vote) - From a Bird's Perspective - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Chrissy KohlerWho’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ...
Views: 1498(6 votes) - The Ultimate Solution To The Puzzle: Why He Disappears/Dump You And How To Get Him Back - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangI've received so many requests for advice from women who are desperate because their men either broke up with them or became more and more distant and less willing to keep in touch or show affection. I can relate to that. I have had my share of similar experience in my 20's when a man whom I ...
Views: 12367(5 votes) - Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23, 2009 Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well (SET ITAL) I hate to give up on our relationship, but to stay feels like giving up on my dreams. (END ITAL) To walk away from what we hoped -- and promised -- would last forever is ...
Views: 1342(5 votes) - Co-Parenting with Your Ex - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2009 from Angie BlackwellDo you still define your ex in terms of your failed relationship, or do you relate to him/her strictly as "the other parent"? How you frame your perception of your former spouse has a tremendous impact on your co-parenting relationship. The two of you may not be friends, but you’ll always be ...
Views: 2501(4 votes) - How To Deal With A Break Up - 3 Ways - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangSo the relationship is over and you're wondering how to deal with a break up. Maybe it's the first break up you've had that really upset you. Or maybe it's not your first and you're looking for answers because even after all this time you still don't know how to deal with a break up. When a ...
Views: 8685(4 votes) - Life’s been giving us wake up calls - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from ray borjaSo here we are caught up in the midst of an upheaval in our lives. Our marriage is dissolving. Our house is no longer our home. The light of our relationship that once was a beacon in our lives leading us into the safe shores of contentment, has burnt out. And we are left alone, arms crossed ...
Views: 1288(4 votes) - You CAN Mend Pain from the Past and Create the Love of Your Dreams - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2009 from Nanette GeigerYou have ended a non-functioning relationship that does not work for you anymore. It was difficult to stop the relationship, because it wasn't horrible, although your heart wished to be truly fulfilled in love. Currently you find yourself being lonesome and have a difficult time shutting the ...
Views: 862(4 votes) - 8 Key Ingredients For a Successful Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Teal ScottMarriage is not just the act of two people making their relationship public and permanent. It is the promise which two people make to each other to enter into a bond which will constantly require growth from both parties in order to stay intact. For many reasons, marriage in this day and age is ...
Views: 6702(3 votes) - Consider Separation as a Part of Your Marriage Counseling Process - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2009 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamCan a marital separation save a marriage? Usually my opinion is: it depends… Whether the separation will help or hurt the marriage is unknown, unless you know the couple, have listened to them and assessed their mental state. Needless to say, a professional marriage counselor should ...
Views: 8215(3 votes) - Dealing with breakups and depression - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanI have helped thousands of people get over the depression they felt after breakups and while each one of them had a completely different story than the others they all shared one common cause for the suffering they experienced after the breakup which is having false beliefs about both breakups ...
Views: 3353(3 votes) - How to Get Him Back and Wipe the Slate Clean - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangI know, you just want to get him back. It seems like it should be simple enough. After all, you won his heart over once before; why not just do it again? Well, the problem is that the first time around you were entering new territory with a clean slate. You had the thrill and excitement of ...
Views: 12127(3 votes) - What Do I Need To Know To Get My Husband Back, 4 Real Questions To Ask Yourself - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2012 from Robert LeesIs the "what do I need to do to get my husband back" questions and answers leaving you with a bit of frustration? There is no surprise if they are. The main reason why you would be feeling that way is because your mind is not in the right place! For any uf us to make up from any relationship ...
Views: 1514(3 votes) - Your Holiday List - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Meghan GehanLately I’ve been reading a lot about the holidays: what to cook, how to decorate, what to buy (and what to ask for…). And gradually it dawned on me -- these articles are all about what to do for others, or what to ask others to do for you! Don’t get me wrong – I think “doing for others” is ...
Views: 1424(3 votes) - My Boyfriend Left Me - Do I Want Him Back? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangWow, what a punch in the stomach. You were just dumped. It can be a shock, even if all the signs were there. Now comes the hard part, what to do next? If you've just said 'my boyfriend left me, what should I do now?" the answer might not be what you expected! As humans it is our nature, ...
Views: 15779(5 votes) - Rebuilding Your Relationship To Rekindle The Passion - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Katarina PhangThere comes a point in almost any successful relationship where things calm down and cool off. There is no longer a major spark between the partners. They get comfortable in their relationship and develop a routine. They no longer find as much time to spend together. Often, this is not due to a ...
Views: 9713(7 votes) - How to Divorce-Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Martin Phillips-HingI am writing this article while flying over some spectacular snow-covered mountains in Northern British Columbia, Canada. In fact, I just read that these mountains have been featured in Hollywood movies as substitutes for the Himalayas.The view is of large peaks and deep valleys. At the bottom ...
Views: 1249(2 votes) - How to find help to save your marriage and stop your divorce now - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Tim PondMarriage is a life long commitment between two people who have realized that life will be more meaningful if every waking moment is spent with the other. It is a binding contract between God and man, and is honored by the state. Marriage forms the bonds of a family, as it is a bond in itself, ...
Views: 1177(2 votes) - Lessons After a Marriage and a Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenHe wore braces and his hair parted in the middle with heavy gel, I was 2 years older than him and thought he was a brat… but we ended up being high school sweethearts, got married and had two wonderful children. Around the seven year itch the ‘non fights’ began, what do I mean by this? He would ...
Views: 1313(2 votes) - Life After Divorce: Choose Your Own ending - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2009 from Rosemary Holmes-GullLife After Divorce: Choose Your Own Ending While divorce can be a heartbreaking event, the key to healthy adjustment is to accept the realities of your new situation and move on. The future lies in your hands because you have control over your choices. One of the hardest things to do is ...
Views: 2594(2 votes) - Moving on After a Tough Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaMoving on after a breakup is one of the hardest things to do. Most of the time, it's not something that just happens, but rather something you must will yourself to do. No matter how impossible it may seem, just remember that it will happen; you will move on. All you need is to make slight ...
Views: 3736(2 votes) - Newly Single and the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Meghan GehanFor those going through or recently divorced, the holidays add another layer of stress and anxiety: Will I need to interact with my ex? How do I handle the questions and advice from my family? How will I cope with being alone? How do I help my children through this time? This holiday season ...
Views: 1950(2 votes) - PARENTING AFTER DIVORCE - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Darlene LancerChildren intuitively know that there are problems in a marriage, sometimes despite their parents' best efforts to hide them. They may even believe divorce is a welcome relief from their parents' hot or cold war. However, they do not share their parents' need to separate, but on the contrary, ...
Views: 2225(4 votes) - Should I leave my partner? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dia ThabetShould I leave my partner? A few days ago, while surfing one of the forums, I came across a question by a woman asking, “Should I leave my boyfriend?” She says that he is “cold” toward her and doesn’t show any feelings toward her. She went on saying that he cares mainly about his work among ...
Views: 1472(2 votes) - Survive A Break Up The Easy Way - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2009 from Tim RyanThe majority of people at some point in their lives will go through the ugly experience of a break up. This is always a difficult time and the stress can cause physical symptoms such as nausea, sleeplessness, over or under eating to name but a few. So how can you get yourself from feeling all ...
Views: 1303(2 votes) - The State of Our "Unions" Address- What is Happening to Marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2013 from Dominique NicoleIs marriage really a dying tradition? Are all these statistics we keep hearing about, real? After two divorces myself and the experience gained from them, I have my own thoughts of why fewer people are running to the altar and more are running away from it. My curiosity and need for ...
Views: 1193(2 votes) - Why does remarriage fail 60% of the time? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2012 from Rhonda RabowWhy do 60% of remarriages fail? This, I am sure you will agree, is a staggering statistic and concerning to everyone who has been married or living with someone for several years, and is now ready to commit to a new and, hopefully, lasting relationship. With the high degree of divorces, the ...
Views: 1873(2 votes) - Why Leave it Too Late to Save Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from Nicole BaikieThis is a question I have given a great deal of thought too. Why is it that the minute someone hears a strange noise coming from their engine they immediately take their car into the mechanics for an expert opinion but their relationships can run itself into the ground for years and they will ...
Views: 1846(2 votes) - Why Men Act The Way They Do And How To Attract Them Back To You - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen are biologically different to women, and yet so many women seem to have no idea why their partners act the way they do. The very biological differences that draw so many people together are also sometimes the very things that can drive them apart. Biologically, men have almost the ...
Views: 14441(4 votes) - 7 Tips For Parenting From Afar - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2010 from Elinor Robin, PhD7 Tips For Parenting From Afar Whether afar is across town or across the country these tips will help any parent who is not currently sleeping under the same roof as his or her children, due to divorce or some other reason. 1. Remember that your child is a digital native. On the other ...
Views: 1695(7 votes) - 5 Don’ts When Discussing Divorce With Your Children! - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2010 from Rosalind SedaccaPreparing to break the news to your kids that you’re divorcing their other parent? Feeling insecure about how to broach the subject? Wondering how much to share during and after the divorce? How your children will react? How to handle their questions? How to deal with your special ...
Views: 1953(3 votes) - Dating after Divorce: The first steps - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2009 from Annie O'NeillThe first and most important thing to do before you start dating again is to learn to love yourself. If you are not happy with yourself you cannot expect someone else to be able to make you happy. Happiness comes from within. If you do not love yourself, ask yourself why and make some changes ...
Views: 1757(3 votes) - The Human Magnet Syndrome – We are all Human Magnets (Excerpt from Book) - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2013 from Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed. LCPC CADCINTRODUCTION About 30 years ago, my dad joked (or so I thought was a joke): “The soul mate of your dreams is gonna become the cellmate of your nightmares.” It takes some of us decades to realize that our parents were actually a lot smarter than we gave them credit for. What I thought was just ...
Views: 2559(3 votes) - The Joys of Being a Single Parent After Divorce - by Submitted on May 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraRaising kids is hard; raising kids alone is near- impossible. It’s absolutely not easy to raise kids when you’re a single parent. However, although it seems awful, (a lot of times it is!) it offers quite a number of astonishing benefits that can make everyday life easier for everyone. According ...
Views: 4562(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should a Mother Push Her Daughter to Contact Her Estranged Father? - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: If the child has not had a real relationship with her father for many years and does not see him more than 2 times per year, should a mother keep pushing a relationship with the father and child? Will it do more harm than good? Dear Reader: There is no way I ...
Views: 2082(4 votes) - Dr. Romance Video: Reluctant to Marry Again - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Tina TessinaTo view the video, click here. Video: Dear Dr. Romance , I'm reluctant to get married again. When a relationship that probably began in hope and joy has ended in failure, grief and pain, It's very understandable to be concerned about repeating an action that was so hurtful. ...
Views: 1549(4 votes) - 3 Tips Single Parents Need To Know - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaHow To Be a Happier -- and More Successful -- Single Parent Are you a single parent struggling with how to make it all work? Dr. Romance offers three tips to happier single parenting. 1. Be a Grownup. I know you’ve probably had a tough time, but you’re a parent, and your child’s ...
Views: 1631(1 vote) - 4 Reasons To Swap Regret Over Your Breakup for Excitement - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2013 from Michael BroderIf you’ve recently experienced a relationship breakup, regret is one of the many emotions you might be experiencing. But regret is usually just a form of temporary and needless pain. Here are a few perspectives to make the end of your relationship an exciting and bright start to a new ...
Views: 1840(1 vote) - 4 Reasons Why Couples End Up In Divorce-Are You Making Any of These Mistakes? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe last thing you ever expected in life was to be in crumbling marriage that was well on its way to divorce. It's heartbreaking to think back to the days when you and your spouse were so happy together. Your marriage doesn't have to end up in divorce. There are many couples who thought their ...
Views: 1096(2 votes) - 4 Steps to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Kevin TeoThe way to get your ex boyfriend back fast is to first leave him alone for some time to allow him to cool down before you initiate to get back together with him, but you don’t want to leave him alone for too long in case the good memories that you both shared starts to fade or in case he meets ...
Views: 907(1 vote) - 4 Ways To Stop A Break Up From Happening - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Andrew HunterAre you seeing some signals that your boyfriend may dump you? Don't just let it happen, take these steps to prevent a breakup. It may be tough to do, working at making it work will be worth it if you love each other. The most important first step is to talk openly, searching for ...
Views: 1700(6 votes) - 5 Most Common Questions about Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireNot a day goes by without at least one or more of these questions. We hope this list will help you in your decision. 1) Is my spouse entitled to half of everything I own? Generally speaking, yes. Most assets acquired during the marriage are considered marital property and are subject to ...
Views: 1343(1 vote) - 5 Things You Must Know Before Saying 'I Want a Divorce' - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Ed ShermanThere are ways to go about breaking up that will give you the best chance for a smoother trip through one of life's most difficult passages. This is an exceedingly sensitive time when it doesn't take much to stir things up. Fortunately, because we go through this with other couples a few ...
Views: 1243(1 vote) - Are You a Survivor or Enhancer? - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Meghan GehanWhen Theresa’s husband of 15 years announced he wanted a divorce, she was devastated. She says, “I couldn’t believe Alex threw our life away. But I’m strong- I got through it. I’ve moved on and put it behind me.” But has she? Six years later, Theresa and Alex “parallel-parent”, each doing as ...
Views: 1608(1 vote) - Are You Remarried? - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2013 from Tina TessinaDon't Let Divorce Muddy Your Marriage - 3 Tips Are you remarried? Are you trying to make this new relationship work. Dr. Romance offers three tips to help this new marriage work better than the first one. 1. Understand your baggage. You both have leftovers from earlier ...
Views: 1612(1 vote) - Breakup Advice For You - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Devango BobsBeing in a relationship with someone you really love can be the best thing that you will ever have. It awakens emotions on you that you never thought existed until the day you fall in love. And, then you start to believe in fairy-tales and wake up every morning feeling free and grateful. But ...
Views: 996(1 vote) - But I Didn't Want to Hurt You - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Meghan GehanI often hear this from clients: “I didn’t tell my wife I was unhappy because I didn’t want to hurt her.” “I haven’t told my children I’m sick because I don’t want them to worry.” “I can’t tell my boyfriend I want to see other people because he’d be upset.” In other words: “I can’t tell ...
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