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I am a great fan and admirer of Cirque Du Soleil and over the years have been very fortunate to see a number of their absolutely sensational shows.
At each of these shows, I have joined thousands of other people in the circus tent to reflect in total awe on the amazing and seemingly ... Views: 775
A Different Perspective on Getting the Contract or Making the Sale
Networking is great, and can provide us with many contacts. Out of those contacts, if we follow-up properly we will have several potential customers that we will meet with to ‘show our wares’ or provide quotes for services ... Views: 1125
A Disturbing Reality
By
Bill Cottringer
“Logic will never change emotion or perception.” ~ Edward de Bono.
After studying things like success, happiness, failure, frustration and anger for several decades now, I have come to the conclusion there may be a very disturbing reality too ... Views: 1403
A Few More Thoughts About Happiness
by
Bill Cottringer
“Breathe in common sense and breathe out nonsense.” ~The Author.
Happiness has as many different definitions and ways to get it as there are people on the planet. Here are a few more thoughts about happiness I have had recently, ... Views: 907
On a beautiful sunny afternoon in Vancouver, I was riding my bike to the bus station. I was on my way to catch a bus that would transport me and my bike to the ferry terminal. I had just spent the weekend with good friends and was happy about the unexpected warm weather.
As I stopped at a red ... Views: 1024
When I was about ten years old, I got lost!
My Father did not send out a search party and my Mother did not call the police. I had not wondered into the woods by myself, nor had I run away from home. Actually I was at home. I was in a room in my own house. But I was lost.
My Father was a ... Views: 1160
Last month I had the privilege of attending a conference with 500 other entrepreneurial women from around the world. We were there to focus on developing a life of purpose to serve in a greater way. It was an incredible experience, being in an environment with all of these other powerful women ... Views: 1188
Welcome to a New Year! Do you look ahead to this year 2013 with optimism or dread that you won’t live up to your own expectations?
No matter how many times you’ve visualized and fantasized a new you with stellar health, love, contentment and abundance, are you exactly where you want to be ... Views: 1385
As kids, we are taught to look up to the heroes in our community such as the police officers and firefighters who keep us safe. Some of us also immersed ourselves in the world of comic book superheroes – characters with superhuman powers who always managed to do the right thing and come out on ... Views: 1034
Patience. A virtue much sought, a commodity to be utterly desired. Stillness of soul in the midst of turmoil, perseverance in the face of trials, undisturbed faith under the onslaught of evil.
Maybe. Maybe not.
Mulling over the word, I found a brief flash of clarity: a redefining of my ... Views: 884
A New Year’s Resolution Worth Considering
By
Bill Cottringer
Normally, I am not one for making or suggesting good New Year’s resolutions, maybe because I have seen too many short-lived ones dissolving after just a few weeks. However, I am going to make an exception to my own rule this ... Views: 1498
A PRAYER FOR THE CAPABLE
And as you stand there
On time and
Appropriately clad for the event
With a high-fiber bar in your bag
And extra pens
Let us take this moment to applaud you.
You, the prepared.
You, the accomplished.
You, the bills-paid-on-time and the-taxes-done-in-March.
You, who ... Views: 1691
What if you read this beautiful poem every single day? What if you choose to start doing all the wonderful things that Christian D Larson is teaching us to do? How would your life change? How will your life look like? How will the lives of those around look like? Let's all start doing more good ... Views: 1313
On this day in 1987, I stepped up on an outdoor stage at Delaware Valley Regional High School in New Jersey and presented the following speech titled “A Question of Ethics” to my graduating class. As I re-typed it today, I found myself wincing a bit at my intensity and zeal.
Yet I can’t ... Views: 1203
When looking over the Internet, there is simply too much news and information on pretty much everything. If you are a football fanatic, it is no wonder that there are too many websites out there as well. If you are looking for a good source of news and information, just go to your trusted and ... Views: 89
January 30, 2009 marked the beginning of the 12th annual Season for Non-Violence. A Season for Nonviolence is an international 64-day educational, media and grassroots campaign dedicated to demonstrating that nonviolence is a powerful way to heal, transform and empower our lives and our ... Views: 1774
A Sharp Dressed Man
Traveling with a business man brought some unexpected revelations. However, one particularly stands out. We arrive the night before the "big meeting". You know the one you have spent weeks preparing for, the one with one of your biggest clients (a $50M plus deal), and the ... Views: 2226
I used to think it was all about the money. Reaching the end goal. Partly, because I’m really results-oriented and partly because of my background in corporate. It was always about winning and being successful. Boom! That’s where the rewards always were.
In corporate, my boss called to ... Views: 1618
A Simple Life Gap Map That Makes Sense Of The Ones You Have To Pay For
By
Bill Cottringer
“Life gets to be fun only when we begin to feel free to live it; but there is no real freedom apart from responsibility and ownership.” ~Dr. Henry Cloud.
Here are two important things you know ... Views: 1697
As I stood in line waiting for a table last week, a couple of people were leaving the restaurant. One of them was complaining about the food, the few waiters, and how long it took to get their order. Meanwhile, the other person was saying: “Gosh, I don’t know. I liked the variety of the menu and ... Views: 568
Lately, my heart has been uplifted by the joy and hope that is so strongly felt by everyone during the holiday season. Part of the Christmas celebration is to renew our faith in the light that naturally shines through each one of us. The deeper message of the season is that we can experience a ... Views: 1990
A VERY ANNOYING HABIT
by
Bill Cottringer
“I personally believe we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain.”
~Jane Wagner.
What could anyone complain about regarding this beautiful day? Oh, I imagine we can find something: The inconvenient travel and other ... Views: 848
A Will is a testamentary instrument where tester can distribute property according he/her wishes.
It is known that everybody wants to lead the happy life and his/ her only is concerned about the properties after the death. The person has the right to devolve his property after his death through ... Views: 806
There is no need to go to India or anywhere else to find peace. You will find that deep place of silence right in your room, your garden or even your bathtub. ~ Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Those who face life placidly and harmoniously do so admirably because of their level of deepened ... Views: 699
An absence of self-confidence is really a debilitating characteristic because it usually limits an individual in your options in life and jeopardizes your odds of success, which ends up in a self-fulfilling prediction.
The following is an exercise to start to build self-confidence: Let’s ... Views: 1079
Vivianna Torun Bülow-Hübe designed beautiful fluid forms of modern jewelry for the company Georg Jensen. In 1962 she was asked to create an object for the Louvre in Paris for their Musée des Arts Décoratifs exhibit. The theme given the artist was to create a piece about which they felt most ... Views: 1096
Imagine the scene…
A street artist drawing, painting, scene after scene of people living life…
Normally these pictures are still-life – A depiction of life with no life in them but this time, as you walk round looking at these pictures, they seem to come alive.
Men, women in all walks ... Views: 854
One of the key principles in leading a more fulfilling life is to pursue an abundant mindset. Most people live in a scarcity mindset, and they believe that there is not enough for everyone, and because they do not think they have a chance of obtaining their wants and/or desires, they just give ... Views: 2220
The greatest threat to your future success has very little to do with anything outside of you. The greatest thief of your potential is not someone waiting in an alley, eager to rob you; it is your own mind. Don’t become a victim to yourself and allow your dreams to be crushed because you are ... Views: 1617
ACCEPT ADVERSITY, BOUNCE BACK & GET GOING
By
Bill Cottringer
“All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.”
~Walt Disney.
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December in many countries centers around the spirit of giving. Even companies and individuals with no religious affiliation make special contributions during “the season”:
–Year end employee bonuses
–Meals for the unfed
–Shelters for the homeless
–Extra tips for servers at ... Views: 1030
Accept yourself as you are, you never get it done and you can't get it wrong.
The second secret to manifesting your dreams and desires is to learn that you will never be finished and you will always happily want to manifest new experiences. Imagine receiving everything you want right now and ... Views: 1331
Do you feel stuck in a rut?
Do you have the same things going on day in and day out?
Are you ready for a change?
These are questions with very individualized answers. Each of us are on a different path throughout our journey of life and we all have experiences that have helped to create ... Views: 1258
Acceptance; when your higher power created you he or she put together a priceless package and you were presented to the world, probably kicking and screaming. Maybe you even scored a perfect 10 on your Virginia Apgar assessment. As your life was beginning, in all probability, it was filled ... Views: 889
Life is hard - or hadn't you noticed? It can be hard to work out exactly what you want out of life. It can be hard to believe you can become a success in life. It can be hard to set goals. It can be hard to commit to a plan of action that requires constant attention and discipline. It can be ... Views: 1275
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Achieving true work-life integration - by Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT has been in the mental health field in varying capacities for the past 20+ years. She is the Founder and Director of MetroRelationship.com a psychotherapy and coaching practice specializing in working with busy professional and entrepreneurial couples who are struggling getting on the same page and feeling connected.
What are you striving for when you are in the pursuit of Balance in your life? Do you have a visual of a scale perfectly balanced in the middle? Are you looking to work 9-5 and then you are OFF? Are you looking to break down your day into thirds: sleep, work, live? What is balance? I believe ... Views: 662
We human beings all have purposes in this world. We were created by God so that we can find our spot under the sun and do what we were made to do.
Some are carpenters, others are executives, and others are sky divers and so on. It is really impressive the wide dimension of men’s possibility on ... Views: 654
Do you find it’s easier to notice other people’s successes than it is to acknowledge your own? Do you even acknowledge your accomplishments before you raise the bar even higher for yourself and set another goal to achieve? By neglecting to acknowledge your accomplishments, you may be missing an ... Views: 2933
Act from Fear and Die or Trust in Our Higher Nature
by Neil Fiore, 1st Lieutenant, 101st Airborne 1965-1966
I’d been in Vietnam exactly four months with an advanced unit of the 101st Airborne, when Francois invited a Special Forces Lt. Colonel, me and two other lieutenants to his exclusive ... Views: 1441
Action vs. Talking
I spent some time on Facebook today and saw a post by a friend asking for help with a situation. Within minutes about ten people posted they would help out, but I only saw one person asking specific information, and then telling how she would help. I’ve noticed this in ... Views: 1043
When I was a kid my mother’s younger brother Sammy was a guy to look up to. A marine during world war II, a foreman in an auto plant after the war, a decent house in a nice neighborhood, wife, two kids. He was a big happy friendly guy who was fun to be with.
On social occasions drinks were ... Views: 1042
Adding humor to our life is a wonderful way to bring in more balance. Seeing the amusement in even the most challenging aspects of life lifts our spirits.
Having a change in perception is the result of adding humor to our life. Instead of seeing the glass as half empty we see the glass as ... Views: 1588
Whenever you desire something bigger than yourself, you expand your mind, melt limitations, and turbocharge your energy. An example: Authors who were the most successful were the ones with "a sense of mission." They weren't just selling books; they were changing lives. Is it time for you to ... Views: 1337
Introduction:
As the global economy and packaging industry continues to evolve, there is a growing emphasis on redefining product packaging. Traditional box types have presented limitations and inconveniences, prompting a demand for improved quality. The dynamic nature of modern life, coupled ... Views: 277
Are you planning to stage an event in your society? It could be grand or small depending on the budget and other factors. The first thing you need to do is to find out the most appropriate outdoor stage for your event. Choosing the right stage for your event can be a daunting task and the bigger ... Views: 711
We all want parenting advice that provides us with the tools we need to raise happy healthy children. Good parenting does not result from using a standardized recipe or cookie cutter approach to the many challenges our offspring present to us.
Good parenting really comes from learning as ... Views: 1545
1. I am at peace with myself and accept my oneness with all life.
2. I draw from the wellspring of the Source to fill my heart with love, joy, peace, beauty, and grace. As I fill myself I have more than enough to nourish myself and others.
3. My wisdom guides me moment by moment to know ... Views: 1530
Have you ever wanted something so badly that your days and nights were spent dreaming about it? No matter what you were doing, your thoughts would eventually travel back to that “thing” you coveted. Then the day would finally come—the Day of Acquisition. You felt beyond excited. There were no ... Views: 1136
Be “aggressively patient” to get what you want in life. Aggressively patient? These two words DO NOT go together. This oxymoron is an excellent mindset for life and investing. So, let me tell you what I mean.
It’s a Lifestyle.
Aggressively go after what you want in life.
Be patient ... Views: 526
In the last post that I had put on this website I was talking in that entry about awards and, in particular, MVP, most valuable player. That was taken from Episode 80 of my weekly show and in that interview my guest, Fr. Michael Lightner, proceeded to make a reference to St. John ... Views: 1090