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I am 34 years young. I prefer it to say in this manner rather than the other standard way. And I’m writing this letter to myself - to my present self, and to my future self, and to my eternal self as well. This is the letter I will never forget as I want to document how I feel being thirty ... Views: 1856
Are you struggling with network marketing? Well if that is you, please read on. I will give you some training in MLM today as I talk about why it is important to have the right mindset in your business ventures. How successful you become really depends on whether you have the right mindset or ... Views: 2815
I've recently taken up a new physical practice -- Bikram Yoga. I'm loving it -- the heat, the focus it takes to stay in the postures while honoring my body's limits, and the flow state I acquire and that stays with me afterwards. The heat is intense, and staying present becomes a practice in ... Views: 1134
Respect is like air: if you take it away, it's all people can think about.
~Kerry Patterson - Author, Crucial Conversations
Respect is like air, I've heard it said. When it's plentiful, there's no issue. We take it as given. But when it's missing, you can't think about anything else.
I ... Views: 3167
People suffering from anxiety are often proponents of Murphy’s Law—anything that can go wrong will go wrong. Around the holidays, when we are so busy with many more tasks than usual, there is more potential for something to go wrong. And for couples, one or both of whom may be anxious, that goes ... Views: 924
One of the biggest issues I hear from entrepreneurs is how much they struggle with overwhelm. Unfortunately there's no easy answer to get you out of overwhelm completely, but if you start making a habit of the below 3 tips, chances are your life is going to get a lot easier.
1. Get very ... Views: 726
While we might think of fun as something for kids, it's also fundamental for adults. Fun is great for its own sake, for generating happy hormones and for helping heal earlier hurts.
Fun & laughter are also excellent for boosting motivation, raising determination & improving health for today ... Views: 980
Here's a challenge: Find inspiration in someone who bugs you. Yes, seriously. Find what it is this annoying person gives to the world. Look for why this person is special.
You want to know why?
Because when you do that, you realize that we are all beautiful, special individuals. We all ... Views: 1270
Phase I: Facing Judgment and Creating Awareness
You've heard the phrase, "be here now." While it has become quite over-used and sadly, cliche'd, it does have enormous value. Be here now is more than just being present - which I've talked about before. Being present in this moment creates the ... Views: 1156
Many times along your Entrepreneurial journey you will be called to step up or uplevel to a whole new way of BEing in your business. During these times you may feel a lot of internal turmoil or all your “stuff” coming to the surface. You see, after you’ve raised your energy vibration a bit, it’s ... Views: 1461
An extract from my forthcoming ebook "How To Make Money - Even In A Recession"
What is the meaning of life?
Many people have put much thought in to this question. Religions have fought and people have died over it. Funny thing is that they are all working on the same basic idea. I’m going ... Views: 1154
How often have you wondered why someone came into your life? How about a negative situation or predicament that had developed? What's trust got to do with it?
A good friend of mine explored the former conundrum with me a few years ago. We became fast friends, being open and transparent with one ... Views: 1384
Written by Traci Brosman
We have all heard the saying, “Work smarter, not harder”, but how many times do you feel like you are just spinning your wheels and not really going anywhere? Do you feel like you have tried everything and nothing has worked the way you expected it to? Or do you feel ... Views: 1471
Whenever you desire something bigger than yourself, you expand your mind, melt limitations, and turbocharge your energy. An example: Authors who were the most successful were the ones with "a sense of mission." They weren't just selling books; they were changing lives. Is it time for you to ... Views: 1411
Presidential election results still being counted November 6 didn’t deter the media from speculating about the “great divide” in our country. In retrospect, I wish Hostess had announced its decision to close down the Twinkie production line sooner. But my diehard faith in the process that ... Views: 1586
“Those that are succeeding and are thrilled and joyful in the unfolding will often tell you, ‘I've dreamed this since I was little. I imagined it, I pretended it, I used to practice with the hairbrush pretending it was a microphone.’ Purity is the alignment of energy. Doesn't matter what anybody ... Views: 844
One of the greatest qualities for anyone to cultivate is the quality of being resilient. I think this is especially true for someone in business for themselves.
The dictionary says resilience is: capable of withstanding shock without permanent deformation or rupture, tending to recover from ... Views: 842
Is a part of you dreading the holidays because you know that no matter how you slice the pie it means confronting certain members of the family you’d rather avoid all together?
If so, you’re not alone. The holidays are supposed to be the most festive time of the year but let’s face it – ... Views: 1624
Why “Use-It-Or-Lose-It”, Can Buy You More Years
You are going to live into your 90s, if you don’t get run down by a municipal bus. We want them to be healthy, fun, & productive years.
So what? We want to avoid Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.
• Here’s the latest research of ... Views: 1285
Sometimes, “life just happens” (and I know a thing or two about life happening!) And when it does, there are days when everything can just feel overwhelming.Your energy level drops, apathy sets in and you’re just ready to throw in the towel, back down, or just plain quit. This can show up in ... Views: 1229
Creative Destiny
Perhaps there is such a thing as fate and our lives may well be written on a celestial tablet somewhere. But if our lives are indeed predestined, why do we have the freedom to think and act independently? Why are we given the daily choice to pursue success or failure during ... Views: 2049
Life lessons can appear in the most unexpected places. I was working on one of my blogs last week at the kitchen table. The smoke alarm starts ringing. I look up and can see smoke coming out of the oven which triggered the alarm.
My teenage daughter had just 5 minutes prior put cookies in ... Views: 1223
FAQ
How do I improve my English is a question I regularly get and I would like to share with you the secret of improving your English.
Boring Secret
It is a boring secret which a lot of people don’t like when I give them that advice. It is to read every day.
Practice Propels you Towards ... Views: 1922
Some of the most valuable business assets you have that contribute HEAVILY to your success online are actually personal attributes! Don't get me wrong and think that traffic or great products aren't of value to your business success since obviously they are a huge factor! On the other hand ... Views: 889
Raining Down Blessings Upon You
B: Beliefs are at the core of our being, so be prepared to go deep to brighten up your thinking.
L: Learn to think in bigger and better ways. Let your imagination run riot and imagine your mind is overflowing with wisdom. Look harder and deeper at the universe ... Views: 1494
Spurts of Growth Blessing
B: Believe your ideas can grow to be great things, that your mind can achieve great things when you let yourself grow. Blast yourself with brimming ideas that you are growing and growing.
L: Life from the growing point of view lets you become more: experienced, ... Views: 1639
I almost gave up one day in the not-so-distant past.
Things hadn't been going as planned with some recent marketing efforts, and I couldn't shake this feeling that because these marketing campaigns were failing, that I was a failure.
And while I'm normally a glass-half-full, ... Views: 1135
I wasn’t going to mention it but several people — especially fans in Russia, Poland, Italy and Peru — have asked me about the “end of the world” later this month, scheduled for December 21st. Take it or leave it, here’s what I think:
My next book is titled Faith. It will be released February ... Views: 1042
"The only constant thing is change" ~ Heraclitus
I like change. It revitalizes and motivates me, it offers me a fresh outlook on life and it forces me to expand my comfort zone. Change stimulates the growth of the brain, because it creates new connections between the neurons. This happens ... Views: 1423
I've been thinking a lot about gratitude. I am a firm believer in the concept of, "you get what you give" and have seen it play out in my life (and the lives of others) on a regular basis. In everything we do and say in our lives, we are emitting energetic vibrations and those frequencies that ... Views: 1052
I’ve been contemplating much lately about what it means to be a heart-centered leader. The term “heart-centered” in the spiritual community has become somewhat of a cliché as it is now being used ever so frequently in mainstream business and life. Yet, we do not see much evidence that leaders ... Views: 1213
Everyone likes to think they’re a good listener. Do you think you are? Why do you think that? How often when you are listening are you actively taking in what is being said, and how often are you mentally forming your response and waiting for your turn to speak?
From the opposite ... Views: 1342
DREAM INTERPRETATION
So you’ve had a dream that you’re naked while you’re sitting at the table filled with family and friends at a holiday gathering. They’re all looking at you expectantly. It’s so intense it wakes you up.
Now you’re awake and wondering what in tarnation that dream was ... Views: 1874
1. Sit in silence with yourself every day.
Living an authentic life means taking action from the inner confidence of intuition. Most people have no idea what their intuition looks or feels like because they are so busy, busy, busy running around every day trying to do 10-thousand things at ... Views: 1566
Do you suffer from go go go mode? Do you have a hard time relaxing and enjoying yourself just for the pure sake of enjoyment WITHOUT being productive?
Do you tend to feel a bit guilty saying “no” when honoring your own needs above others?
Do you tend to over analyze things, over think and ... Views: 1371
I can remember what it felt like as if it were yesterday to be hiding out in my massage therapy and acupressure business in that uncomfortable comfortable place. I wasn’t attracting enough clients, and was terrified of promoting myself and putting my expertise out there for the world to see. So ... Views: 1331
Most of our activities in our lives revolve around our families. As a child we are dependent upon our parents,our siblings,as we grow our life revolves around our spouses, children and the extended family which become a part and parcel of our lives.In each stage of our lives we are introduced to ... Views: 926
11 years ago, when I smoked cigarettes, I would have done anything to get that next pack of smokes, when I ran out.
7 years ago, I would have done anything to get that Tim Horton's coffee in the morning.
If you were gasping for air right now, when would you give up your fight for air? If ... Views: 886
There are many reasons why we fail to feel good about ourselves. Throughout each day many daily concerns and personal thoughts can lead us into having a good day or a bad one.
A lot has to do with how we may be feeling about ourselves. Am I doing the right things. Am I doing what I ought to ... Views: 1432
There is a great power in giving thanks and Mike's tips are guaranteed to lift the spirits.
Balancing Act
The expression of gratitude is the ultimate balancing act in everyone’s life. We know whom we receive the good from and we offer our gratitude.
Harmony
The absence of a simple thank ... Views: 1584
How many of you feel that little voice inside keeps you from taking risks? Do you ever feel like it’s possible for other people but somehow, when you imagine yourself really going for it – you hit up against a tight knot in the pit of your stomach that knocks the wind right out from under you? ... Views: 1465
Are your personal relationships suffering because you’re working so hard to get your business off the ground? Are you always the last priority on your list because there’s never enough time to get it all done?
I'm at a mindset and marketing retreat in Fort Lauderdale (FL) with some if the ... Views: 1444
"I'm never going to be able to do this job; I'm just not smart enough."
"Why does my boss want me to present at the trade show? I'm a terrible public speaker, and I'll just embarrass the company."
"I wish I could stick up for myself at work; in every meeting, I let the others walk over my ... Views: 1379
When was the last time you took a serious objective look at your life situation?
Are you really satisfied with the way things are going?
Well, if you are an optimist or find yourself in a good mood, you may be tempted to say that things are all right in your life right now. And even if ... Views: 1189
1. Words and attitudes define us.
“Challenges, challenges, challenges. Difficulties, difficulties, difficulties … Avoid repeating such words; otherwise they will become the part of your life,” says Hammad Siddiqui, Deputy Country Director of the Center of International Private Enterprise ... Views: 1926
Sales People fall into 3 categories.
Can't afford to lose them
Can't afford to pay them
Can't afford to leave
Can't Afford to Lose Them
There are certain individuals who deliver so much value, that it usually takes half their working life for the pay structure to catch up with ... Views: 1147
Until recently, scientists believed that your brain was “fixed” after early childhood. In other words, whatever you’ve got is what you are stuck with for life. But now we know that far from being fixed, your brain has amazing capabilities of changing its very structure.
For example, take ... Views: 1069
Each of us has an image of who we are, and that image will be the greatest determining factor in our success or failure in every area of our lives.
Unfortunately, that image is primarily built by our failures, weaknesses, and disappointments. Why? Because your brain actually gives higher ... Views: 1181
I was driving down the freeway the other day when I saw a billboard with a picture of Christopher Reeve on it. The caption simply read, “Super man.”
People might have remembered him for his timeless portrayal of Superman. But they will never forget his tireless crusade on behalf of ... Views: 2046
1. Clarify definitions
When something is not clear or you are in a disagreement, clarify definitions. Many times we use a word in a conversation thinking it means the same thing to the other person and it does not. Example: A wife once said “I’m not in love with my husband anymore” in one ... Views: 1107