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- Five Ways to Win Your Man Back - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2011 from Janet Perez Eckles“I have to talk to you,” my husband said. His somber tone told me nothing pleasant would follow. We got in the car and I figured maybe this talk had to do with another job change, or a new way to tackle our bills. During our eight years of marriage, these issues called for serious ...
Views: 1587 - Signs He Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from Andrew HunterNobody would like to be cheated on. It is always an exceptionally crippling and embarrassing thing to endure. Sadly, there are certain individuals these days that will cheat on you. Listed below are a number of distinctive clues your man is cheating on you and what you might do to fix your ...
Views: 1586(1 vote) - Are You Cheating Me? - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2007 from Bill MitchellEver wonder when your spouse leaves for work if that is real destination? Have you felt distance and uneasy for no reason? Are you experiencing guilt not trusting your mate? Chances are you also feel a great sense of denial as well. I am right? Client after client asks me for advice. I'm a ...
Views: 1584 - Signals to Watch Out For With a Cheating Husband Or Wife - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2010 from Lydia OkelloDo you suspect that your wife or husband is having an affair? Where deceit and lies abound, mistakes are bound to be made. If you pay attention and not ignore what your intuition is telling you, there are a lot of signals to watch out for with a cheating husband or wife. If you are ready to face ...
Views: 1584 - Signs of Infidelity in Men – What to Look for to Tell if He is Cheating on You and Stop it - by Submitted on May 09, 2013 from Help For YouAs many of us women know, men are, unfortunately, known for their tendencies to cheat. For some reason, men say that they are weaker to temptation and if a pretty girl comes up to them and asks them for sex, they find it hard to say no. However, is that truly the case? Are men often getting ...
Views: 1580 - Time to Get Over A Breakup – How Long does It Take? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2015 from Alex J. StevensonJust got a breakup? There is no problem when you know how to recover from a breakup quickly. In this article, you will get some of the best tips on breakups. These will help you to get over a broken heart in almost no time. Getting over a breakup won’t take that much long time. So follow ...
Views: 1577(1 vote) - Who Really Cheats - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2010 from Womens Recreation, Inc.It seems like everyone wants to know who is more likely to cheat and what the signs are. Well the plain truth of the matter is that you absolutely have no control over the actions of another person. They will cheat if they want to. Whatever they want to do, they will do it. Don’t take it ...
Views: 1576(4 votes) - 21 Signs of an Affair That Cheating Husbands Are Compelled to Do - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Andrew HunterDo you think your husband may be cheating on you? I know the frustration and worry that something like this can cause. I’ve been there myself. Let me share a few things that a cheating partner can’t help but do. These are small things that can easily get overlooked, but these are the trail ...
Views: 1575(1 vote) - Infidelity: Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Spouse Cheats - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Debbie SchaeferLet's face it, infidelity causes deep personal pain, but your spouse's affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage. In fact, I hope the information I share with you here will help you save your marriage and help you rebuild the trust you need to fully recover from this painful ...
Views: 1569 - Do You Have A Shared Meaning For Your Marriage? Happy Marriages Do! - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2016 from Nicola Beer“Marriage isn’t just about raising kids, splitting chores, and making love. It can also have a spiritual dimension that has to do with creating an inner life together — a culture rich with rituals, and an appreciation for your roles and goals that link you..." according to Gottmans 40 years of ...
Views: 1564 - The Top Five Reasons Spouses Cheat - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Daryl CampbellIt feels like you can't go a single day without hearing about some celebrity or politician mixed up in some sort of marital affair. They are fully aware that in this time of camera phones, twenty four hour news and the world wide web that they are watched more closely than ever before. That does ...
Views: 1563(1 vote) - How To Survive Infidelity - Here's What You Must Do First If You're The One Who's Been Cheated On - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2008 from Doug and Chris YoungWhat you have to do first if you want to survive infidelity in your marriage or relationship depends on whether you're the cheated or the cheating partner, If you're the one who's been cheated on you have to be able to deal with discovering that your partner has been unfaithful to you. The ...
Views: 1558 - Trust Rebuilding After Infidelity: Is it Time to See a Professional? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Susie and Otto CollinsSaundra had an affair a year ago. Her husband, Rick, agreed to try to work things out and rebuild trust. This hasn't been as easy or as smooth a process as either of them hoped it would be. They are both willing to keep trying, but are starting to wonder if they need outside help. “Is it ...
Views: 1556 - Healing from Infidelity - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2011 from Steve CohnHealing from infidelity might seem like an intimidating undertaking or even impossible. However, with professional support from a Relationship Specialist, nothing could be further from the truth. Yes, the road to recovery is both demanding and long. And yes, setbacks are to be expected along the ...
Views: 1554 - How To Regain Your Focus by Dr. D Ivan Young - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2014 from Dr. D. Ivan YoungHow To Regain Your Focus How To Regain Your Focus – A message from God to you… If what you’re in the midst of right now has anything to do with God ordering your steps, there’s one thing you can be certain of, you will lose your focus. Be it due to the constant struggle, be it due to the fact ...
Views: 1552 - How You Could Tackle Cheating Husbands or Wives - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2012 from Deborah LindstromOur society is comprised of the basic foundation called the family. The society could be more cohesive when the foundation is strong. Marriage as well as the family have both been under attack in the past few decades. It's no longer considered as essential as it was once. A cheating ...
Views: 1550 - Be Cautious With The Truth After An Affair - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Daryl CampbellReestablishing two way communication following infidelity is vital. There is no real marriage should the two of you are merely speaking with one another about family activities. Although this is definitely important it should not be the sole item keeping the spousal relationship together. A ...
Views: 1546 - Sleeping Around The World - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2008 from FSB AuthorsThe morning after François Mitterrand's funeral, a photo showed the late president's mistress and illegitimate daughter standing by his grave alongside his wife and sons. That tableau has become famous internationally as proof that the French are uniquely tolerant of extramarital affairs. In ...
Views: 1545 - Requirements Regarding Clarity After An Extramarital Affair - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2011 from Daryl CampbellIt seems that after an affair things are in fluctuation. Your whole world appears to be turning around and around. What you felt you understood regarding your significant other has been called into question. Apart from any devastation their exploits have caused the relationship there is in ...
Views: 1542 - How to mend a broken relationship? - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Dia ThabetIs amending a broken relationship difficult? How do you mend a broken relationship? John and Kelly are trying to mend their broken relationship for 6 months now since John cheated on her. They find it very challenging and difficult to move on as Kelly keeps focusing on what John has done ...
Views: 1538(1 vote) - What to Do If You Think Your Husband Is Having an Affair - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you thing your husband is cheating on you then, I know what you’re going through. It can be difficult when you suspect your partner is cheating--or even if you know they’re cheating, but you just don’t have the proof. You walk around all day with a queasy feeling in your stomach and you ...
Views: 1531 - Should You Try to Salvage The Marriage After an Affair? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2018 from C Mellie Smith“Fix it, fix it. Fix it” These were Patricia’s words to her friends after Gavin’s death when they could not come to a truce in their marriage in the movie “Why did I get married too?” So you have finally said the “I dos.” It was a beautiful ceremony, and you both are all smiles. I married ...
Views: 1529 - Remedy for Spiritual Vampires & Bullys - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2012 from Sharice HarrisNo one can ever take away your divine inner essence but you can give it away by allowing energetic vampires freedom to lurk around in your life- Sharice Harris They can be physically, emotionally or verbally abusive or they can taunt, smirk, sneer and laugh at you for opening up and speaking ...
Views: 1523 - After Infidelity: Love Can Endure - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2012 from Joe JamesAfter infidelity the pain can be excruciating, but it is not always so. A lady who owned a brothel had a married boyfriend whose wife did not mind him sleeping at the brothel. When customers called the lady sometimes left her boyfriend's bed, briefly hired out her body and then returned to her ...
Views: 1521 - Are You Crazy, or is He Cheating? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2009 from Lisa DailyThe weird hang-up calls. The erratic work hours. The stories that just don’t quite add up. You have the gnawing, sickly feeling that your man is cheating on you. But how do you know for sure? Finding signs of cheating is like pulling a stray piece of yarn in a pair of socks. It only takes one ...
Views: 1518(3 votes) - Marriage Forums Could Help You Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2012 from Deborah LindstromThere is nothing inappropriate with what you’re doing, at least in a technical sense. You can believe that since there is nothing inappropriate with it, technically, then it won't inflict damage to your spousal relationship. Why do you feel this bothersome feeling that you’re actually doing ...
Views: 1515(1 vote) - Some Words That Can Save A Married Relationship After An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2012 from Daryl CampbellMaybe it is simply this era we all dwell in or possibly it's almost always been like this when it comes to a spousal relationship as a result of an extramarital relationship the two timing significant other seems to have difficulty saying, I am sorry. 3 words that have power to end many ...
Views: 1514 - Coping With Infidelity: Some Ideas On What To Do - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity may be difficult, but it can be accomplished if you refrain from making common errors. Couples may fix the destruction caused by the extramarital relationship by following certain methods. This process may reinforce the bond between you and your partner, enhancing your ...
Views: 1513 - When Is It Cheating? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2010 from Diana Weiss-WisdomThe Birds, the Bees, and Blended Families When Is It Cheating? Dear Dr. Diana, Unfortunately for my children and me, after ten years of marriage, I found out that my husband finds monogamy boring. He believes that all relationships get stale over time and that it’s only natural to wander. ...
Views: 1511(1 vote) - When Jealousy Visits Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2013 from Michael BroderPractically everyone whose been in a serious romantic relationship with all of the deliciously intense and passionate feelings that go with it, have at one time or another experienced jealousy, which is really the fear that ---to some degree--- your partner is not being exclusive to you either ...
Views: 1511(1 vote) - How to Forgive a Spouse for Cheating - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesYou’ve been betrayed. The person that’s supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it – leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever. It’s a horrible feeling. The foundation of your ...
Views: 1507(1 vote) - 3 Ways to Find True Relief from Relationship Pain - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2009 from Susie and Otto CollinsWhen you are in pain because of something that's happened in your love relationship or marriage, it can seem like there's nothing else in your life but the hurt and upset way you feel. You may have discovered that your partner lied to or cheated on you. Or perhaps you and your mate can't ...
Views: 1504 - 4 Quick Remedies For A Broken Heart - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2017 from treena murphyWhile the science is completely understood, there is evidence that married people live longer than their single counterparts. Taking it a step further, we could say that people really do die from broken hearts. If you have been through a break up recently, then it's perfectly ...
Views: 1504 - Cheating Spouse Signs - Losing Interest - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Daryl CampbellThere's a song from back in the day that says, "When you are trying to love two. It sure ain't easy to do." That maybe true but it does not stop countless cheating spouses from giving it the old college try. In the beginning they may be quite successful at it. They tell themselves that it is ...
Views: 1504(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Why this compulsion to cheat? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm looking at myself and asking the question, "Why this compulsion to cheat?" What will it take to keep my eye from wandering around? I'm divorced, technically, but trying to make amends with the ex. I love my kids, and an absentee father just doesn't fit my ...
Views: 1495(1 vote) - How couples can move beyond negative relationship patterns - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Craig PoultonAt times in our intimate relationships we find ourselves repeating the same pattern of conflict with each other. There can be an escalation where both partners end up feeling unresolved and more distant, and it can be hard to see how we can do anything different. Even though we may be aware of ...
Views: 1495 - The Wordallogic, "Hell No I Don't Want Them Back, But I Lost Myself When We Broke Up!" - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa WordHell No I Don’t Want them Back, but I Lost Myself When We Broke Up! by Aleasa M. Word *****ANY REPRINTS OR USAGE OF THIS ARTICLE MUST NOTE THE AUTHOR****** I remember going through a break up and talking about my situation over and over to my intimate circle of people (sorry I wore your ...
Views: 1493 - Betrayal, Cheating, Trust & Forgiveness - by Submitted on May 12, 2013 from Doron GilBetrayal is a common occurrence. Research shows that a large proportion of partners betray their “loved ones”. A person thinking that his/her partner is “unique”, “special” and “exceptional” might stop thinking it after finding the partner has been unfaithful. After all, he/she has become “just ...
Views: 1492 - Caught Cheating? Here's The Key To Winning Trust Back - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou never thought that this would happen. You cannot even believe that it’s happening now. Everything is so surreal, so unbelievable. You were caught cheating with undisputable evidences. Now, you have no choice but to come clean. Coming clean and ‘fessing it all up is probably the hardest ...
Views: 1485 - Ending a Relationship After Infidelity - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from nancy traversInfidelity is an unfortunate occurrence that strikes too many modern relationships. Cheating in any relationship can be devastating for both partners; both the person committing the infidelity and the person betrayed can be strongly affected by the after-effects of breaking the relationship’s ...
Views: 1485 - Is There a Silver Lining in Infidelity? Part 2: What Couples Can Do To Get Back On Track - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Daniela RoherIt is important to remember that in most cases affairs are symptoms of something deeper that is going on in intimate relationships, of which couples may not have been aware. And here is where I can see the silver lining. The affair is such a shocking event in their lives that couples cannot ...
Views: 1482 - Coping With Infidelity: Should I Stay or Should I Go? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from Joe JamesThere are several things people will do when they are coping with infidelity. Some are positive things while others are negative things. The positive methods that some people take come in the form of therapy or counseling. Negative methods might be drinking or a new addiction to drugs, gambling ...
Views: 1475 - Relationships: Why Doesn't It Always Work When Someone Ends Up With The Person They Were Having An Affair With? - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is in a relationship that is no longer as fulfilling as it used to be, they could take the time to talk to their partner about what is going on. This can then give them the opportunity to look into what needs to take place in order for their relationship to improve. Another Option ...
Views: 1470 - How to Find The Road to Forgiving Your Unfaithful Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2016 from C Mellie SmithWhen you first find out about your spouse’s infidelity you may feel as if there is no way to ever truly forgive them. You may feel as if the trust is broken beyond repair. But, the truth is, many people have overcome infidelity and gone on to have an even better, closer, more long lasting, happy ...
Views: 1466 - How to Forgive a Cheating Spouse – 3 Tips to Survive Infidelity and Betrayal in Your Marriage - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Help For YouWhen you find out that your spouse has cheated on you, you really don’t know what to do next. You love them with all of your heart but at the same time, you feel so lost. You don’t know how someone who you gave all of yourself to and who you put so much trust into could do something so hurtful ...
Views: 1465 - Dear Dr. Romance: I caught him at the movies with her - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been married for 15 years. At the present time we are seeing a Marriage counselor for our really rocky marriage. I know its going to take some time. We are working on trust, understanding, caring, appreciation, and a few others, all the essentials of a marriage. But a ...
Views: 1464(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is it appropriate for him to still have her in his life? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older ...
Views: 1458(1 vote) - 4 Common Myths Pertaining To Infidelity In Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Daryl CampbellNobody really wants to discover the individual they vowed to love through good times and bad is having a marital affair. The news by itself is devastating enough yet in addition to that there is a task which has to be confronted so that you can get a handle on this traumatic situation and get ...
Views: 1457(1 vote) - How To Move On After Infidelity In Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2013 from Daryl CampbellYou thought infidelity in marriage only happened to other couples. Undoubtedly during the course of your life you have known people that have experienced it firsthand. You may have done what you could to sympathize with the person be they a friend or relative. In the end however there was ...
Views: 1457(2 votes) - Tips To Win Back Lost Love - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2010 from Vijaykumar ShindeHave you decided to try to win back lost love? then your first step is to apologize. You might think you’ve done this. You might have said you were sorry several times. But if your ex thought you were apologizing just to stop a break-up, he or she might not think the apology was sincere. ...
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