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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- The Key to Real Choices - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2007 from FSB AuthorsIn the practical world I grew up in, sexuality and spirituality were not considered poetically. The logic of aiming for a successful life left little room for passion and visions. Practically from the moment I was born, I was urged to join society's routines that would march me through life. The ...
Views: 1266 - The Lover's Touch - by The Lover asked: How would you like me to touch you?
The Lover answered:
I would like you to touch me as if you were going away tomorrow, far far away, and you wanted to remember the feel of my body, the texture of my skin, the hills and valleys that make up the landscape of who I am.
I ...
Views: 1577 - The Lowdown on STD Screening: How it Works, and How to Prepare - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2013 from John DuganBefore a couple slips between the sheets for a blissful interlude, they're often encouraged to visit the doctor for a thorough STD screening, since a remarkable number of very serious medical conditions can be passed from one partner to another during sex. These tests may become a routine part ...
Views: 703 - The Modern Practice of Puja - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2017 from Robyn VogelSUMMARY: Puja is an ancient cultural tradition that has unknown roots. Some scholars believe that the practice began during Vedic times (1500 – 600 BCE) where the word puja has been found in the Sutras (which were composed to describe domestic rites, prayers, rituals). In these years, it ...
Views: 1945 - The Most Common Sexual Fetishes - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2015 from Mike HatcherIf you've always been involved in just normal sexual activities, you may be unaware of the number of sexual fetishes that exist. In fact, you may not have any idea how widely these fetishes are used. Usually, fetishes are something which you execute a lot of times, take delight in observing them ...
Views: 2371 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 962 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 1189 - The Myth of Celibacy and Spiritual Life - by If you are on the planet to become more loving and to evolve spiritually, how does sexuality fit into the scheme of things? In most spiritual traditions, sex has been held as an obstacle to enlightenment. Vows of celibacy have been praised as seekers try to conquer the "burdens" and "illusions" ...
Views: 5885 - The Myth of Perfect Sexual Control - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetThe Contest We have grown up inside an ambitious society where accomplishment has been highly valued. We are conditioned to do our best. There is a lot of pressure to do well and there are advantages for doing so. This is what makes our economy work, encourages free enterprise, and enables ...
Views: 1409 - The Only Way To Make A Guy Addicted To Your Love: Make Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2017 from Michael UadialeYou don't need to buy a magical potion or undergo plastic surgery and borrow a celebrity's face just to make a guy addicted to your love. If you want someone to fall head over heels in love with you, there are far cheaper and more effective ways of doing so. Tip #1: Look your best. Love at ...
Views: 3908 - The Perils of Impotence: It affects your Lovemaking Big time - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Radley TaylorWhoever says that physical satisfaction is not necessary and should be kept at the backburner is probably leading a very ignorant life or maybe something is wrong with him. We root for emotional support and stability, but what about the physical aspect of a relationship? What about the intimacy ...
Views: 1373 - The Perils of Peeping - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2008 from Sharon BellLady Godiva was an 11th century noblewoman who was against her husband’s plan of imposing heavy taxes on the people of Coventry, England. As a sign of protest, she rode naked through the market place. This prompted her husband, Leofric, the earl of Mercia, to abandon all taxes except ...
Views: 776 - The Politics of Love: We Are Elizabeth; We Are John - by Submitted on May 19, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe same dynamic is at play in our national and private yearnings. We want the same illusion of moral constancy in our politicians as we do in our marriages. But we inevitably find our leaders have feet of clay. And it’s common for couples to not even know what’s going on in their very own ...
Views: 918 - The power of play - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Martha Tara LeeI have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances ...
Views: 1378 - The Psychology Of Dating In 2012 - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2012 from Lynn LoopDating has come such a long way in the last decade. These days we have more opportunity and more fantastic and unbelievable ways to meet people than ever before. Once upon a time in a not so distant world people actually used to have to go out and meet people through a friend or co-worker ...
Views: 1267 - The relentless chase - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Darrell BeagleEverybody knows the typical story. A male will meet a female and start out chasing after her and hoping until this relentless pursuit can make her somehow see that he may be the greatest match for the woman's and she'll fall around love having him. Effectively, as most of us should realize, this ...
Views: 566 - The Role of Sex Toys in the Sex Industry - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2017 from Frederick Ray RayReality and expectations are often very distant. After we come of age, and come to know about physical attraction, we immediately make connotations with romance. In our minds, the pleasures of the flesh can only be associated with ‘making love’ with our special halves. However, that is not ...
Views: 815 - The Role Of Therapy For Sexual Minorities - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Lauri Allison LaBadie(And even those just questioning) Fortunately, the role of therapy for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons (sexual minorities) has undergone a revolution in modern times. In the past, persons from sexual minorities were suspicious of therapists - and for good reason! Often, the ...
Views: 1584 - The Sex Talk: 6 Things Parents Must Know - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2008 from Vanessa Van pettenI want to start off first by saying that I do not have a specific age recommendation for giving the sex talk because I truly believe that every child and family is different with a variety of values. Therefore these tips are simply things that most teenagers I speak with, wish their parents knew ...
Views: 1501 - The Single Man's Guide To Sexual Etiquette With Single Women - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2007 from Don DiebelPlease follow these steps to make a favorable sexual impression with single women: Have you got any sexual problems? If you do, be sure and discuss them with the woman you're with before you start making love. This way she is more inclined to be understanding and helpful if you tell her in ...
Views: 1056 - The Somatic and the Cerebral Narcissist - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2009 from Sam VakninQuestion: Are narcissists mostly hyperactive or hypoactive sexually and to what extent are they likely to be unfaithful in marriage? Answer: Broadly speaking, there are two types of narcissists, loosely corresponding to the two categories mentioned in the question. Sex for the narcissist is ...
Views: 11760 - The Splendor of Fantasy - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Addison BellIt’s late in the evening, and I’m walking with two of my lovers as the light, balmy breeze blows my hair. I look up and feel deeply connected to the moon and breathe it into my being. As we walk, I give one of my lovers a gentle hug, and then I lean sweetly into the other with an affectionate ...
Views: 1575 - The Story on Sex Books - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsJoseph Campbell said “I don’t believe that anyone knows what sex is. It’s the greatest mystery in human life…” Starting here, I believe is the most honest place for thinking about books on sexuality. It assumes that we give up our notions of right and wrong about sexual preferences, practices ...
Views: 1324 - The Struggle for Penis Sensation – Understanding and Overcoming Penile Sensitivity Loss - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2013 from John DuganMost men are not comfortable talking about it, but penis sensation loss is common - over 85% of men report some reduction in penile sensitivity. Loss of sensation is sometimes related to aging issues, but in many instances, younger men also experience diminished sensitivity. Loss of sensation ...
Views: 1173 - The Stupidest Trial Ever? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2008 from Cara InocencioAs a general rule I'm opposed to criminalizing victimless crimes such as drugs or prostitution, and a recent conversation with a friend further confirms my belief. Cary told me that he had recently been called to serve on a jury here in Los Angeles for the trial of a Latin American immigrant ...
Views: 1157 - The Symptoms And Natural Treatments For Sexually Transmitted Diseases - STD Remedies - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Dawn RowlettSexually Transmitted Diseases. The only sure way to avoid contracting one is by practicing abstinence. And, there are a lot of STD's these days. So many, in fact, that there are ones that are considered Common STDs. Many people are responsible in their sexual activities, but many are not. Unless ...
Views: 11844 - The Syphilitic Narcissist - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2007 from Sam VakninIt is common knowledge that brain disorders, injuries, and traumas are sometimes misdiagnosed as mental health problems. But what about "run of the mill" organic medical conditions? Syphilis provides a fascinating glimpse into the convoluted world of differential diagnoses: the art of telling ...
Views: 1053 - The three most important things your man wants from you sexually - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2019 from Todd CreagerFrom my work with couples in this area, I have found some clear answers to the question, what are the most important things your man wants from you sexually. In my private practice, I’ve been helping couples rekindle passion and keep it alive. I’ve been doing this for over 30 years with ...
Views: 1125 - The three things that make your woman want you sexually - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2019 from Todd CreagerIn my last article, I talked about the three most important things your man wants from you sexually. In this article, I share the reverse side of this topic and cover the three things that make your women want you sexually. The reason I changed the title is that there is more of a ...
Views: 3656 - The Top 6 Sexting Tips You Need To Know Before You Start Sexting - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2015 from Mike HatcherWe're all looking for that special someone with whom we can have a great time, laugh and be ourselves, but if you really want to meet such a guy, then you sure won't be able to if you're not open minded and don't do something about it. And since many people don't really have the confidence of ...
Views: 1617 - The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2015 from patti geierA couple concerned about the lack of sexual desire and activity in their relationship, came to see me for a consultation. They had been living together for two years, loved each other and had no problem being affectionate. Sex, however, seemed to have fallen by the wayside after the first year. ...
Views: 1010 - The Truth About Scents And Your Sexuality - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2008 from Janice WeeWhat attracts a woman to a man? Is it his physique? Hmm. That could be a factor. Or is it his dynamic personality? Or can it be what her nose says about him? Literally. Chemistry. That elusive thing that so many seek in that special relationship. The warm fuzzy feeling a woman might feel ...
Views: 1604 - The Truth About Sex, The Real Deal About Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2022 from Shubham SardaIntroduction: Sex is a hot topic these days, and that’s a shame. We all know there’s more to sex than just getting it on. In fact, sex is something that should be taken seriously, especially if you want to have healthy relationships. But what do we really know about sex? Is it good for us? Is it ...
Views: 535 - The Truth About What Happens to Your Vagina When You Haven't Had Sex in a While - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaSex can reduce stress, make it easier to sleep, and improve heart health (all that bumping and grinding counts as a workout, you know). Considering these amazing benefits, what really happens to your body when you stop having it—whether you're taking a timeout on ...
Views: 973 - The Ultimate Guide to Adult Dates: Finding the Perfect Experience with Deittivinkit - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2024 from jitendar singhNavigating the world of adult dating can be exciting but also a bit daunting. Whether you’re looking for a romantic evening, an adventurous outing, or just some quality time with a special someone, planning the perfect date can make all the difference. Enter Deittivinkit.com, a game-changer in ...
Views: 194 - The Velocity Of Gary - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2008 from Niama WilliamsYes, to write even on the dirty page, the page besmirched with prints of black and darker black, fingerprints and newsprint and my hoped for dreams finally more than a vision, my fantasies taking center stage and people around me, through telephone wires, saying yes, yes, yes! And that is ...
Views: 2192 - The Vibrator's History - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Jhon BrittoSure you've heard of vibrators, probably even used one. However, have you heard since what timed the idea of vibrator came into human's mind and when it was implemented into life? In case you haven't seen a vibrator, we need to explain that it's an adult toy used to vibrate either ...
Views: 1276 - The way to Treat Male Minimal Libido - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2012 from Adelina CinottiLow sexual generate (libido) is usually said for being an absence or deficiency of sexual fantasy and motivation for sexual exercise. It is also referred to as the biological need for sexual activity and is expressed in often as libido. The intensity of libido is extremely variable in between ...
Views: 1218 - The Women’s Sex Appeal - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Donna MartinUsually the sexiest women don’t call men names and they don’t sympathize with other women about how their men disappoint them. The sexiest women I know sincerely like men. They think men are pretty great. Rather than being threatened by a man’s testosterone, they respect how it makes men ...
Views: 8258 - The ‘outer’ course of sexual pleasure - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaDo you believe that sex and intercourse are synonymous? If yes, how would you feel if we say that they are actually not? Sex is not limited to penetration and it does not even have to be included in sex at all. Just outercourse can do the needful. This is what science says. According to a survey ...
Views: 811 - Things to say to your girl - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Darrell BeagleIf you are wondering things to say after a break up towards your girlfriend, you should be surprised through the answer. Most adult men assume that easy methods to win back their ex-mate girlfriend's cardiovascular system is by means of proclaiming the undying love and devotion. They erroneously ...
Views: 534 - Things You Never Knew About Sperm - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2015 from Mike HatcherYou have probably heard very many rumors about the sperm. Forget the rumors. Here are the facts from experts; They are fast and furious Sperm are fast and furious right from the start. According to Harry Fisch, A reproductive medicine professor, the first ejaculation usually has the ...
Views: 1664 - Things You Should Never Do in Bed: Things Men Shouldn't Do During Sex - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialThings You Should Never Do in Bed: Things Men Shouldn't Do During Sex Two people unite to climax together through the act of sex which is highly pleasurable and satisfying. When two people meet to make love the entire concentration should be on the act alone and not allow other things to get ...
Views: 860 - Things you should remember before sending nudes - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2020 from Grant DonovanWhether you are a twenty-something or not there are few things you should not do, before sending nudes of yourself to someone! Sexting is exciting, but you might live to regret it. You can enjoy the art of it, sending witty responses to sexting has its own charm. Also, just like physical sex, ...
Views: 1813 - This is One of the Scariest Things Humans Do - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulWhenever I meet someone new and we talk about how my 15-year old son is a pilot, they look at me sideways and say something like, “You’re a brave mom to let him fly.” As I’ve written about in other posts, allowing him to fly does, indeed, drag me into a regular practice of facing my fears and ...
Views: 978 - This is the Most Common Statement I Hear About Sex - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2019 from Sheryl PaulI hear a lot about sex in my work with clients. I hear about their fantasies, their shame, and their shame about their fantasies. I hear about their arousal confusion, their sex anxiety, and their struggle with desire. I hear about the common arc of sexuality in long-term relationships: the high ...
Views: 1101 - This Is Why Your Sugar Relationships Keep Failing - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2020 from Jessica LawAlthough the sugar relationship is carried out after you have negotiated with each other, there is no free lunch in the world. If you want a better life, you must redouble your efforts. Any relationship requires both parties to maintain, Sugar daddy and sugar baby are also the same. Although ...
Views: 802 - Three Common Penis Health Mistakes that Men should Never Make - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from John DuganA surprising number of men believe that the penis does not need much in the way of attention, beyond a quick shower every day or so and maybe the use of protection during an intimate encounter. Sadly, this is not true. A penis is a delicate structure that requires proper healthcare. The good ...
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