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With Hanukkah wrapping up and the Christmas/New Year’s holiday picking up steam, its time for some straight talk about how to do the season well. It’s common this time of year to wonder, how can I do this in a way that feels right? There are so many decisions to make – how do I make them so ... Views: 846
SABOTAGING SELF?
How are you sabotaging yourself?
"If you play it safe in life you've decided that you don't want to grow any more." --
Shirley Hufstedler
How are you sabotaging you’re potential for change?
We unconsciously use defense mechanisms to shield us from situations we perceive ... Views: 1496
JEALOUSY AND LOVE
Before we speak of the ill effects of jealousy or how jealousy in the heart and mind of an individual can produce illness, let us analyze jealousy itself as an emotion or passion. First of all, we realize that it is not something that we can attribute exclusively to human ... Views: 1791
How’s your game?
Timothy Galwey struck a cord in 1974 when he wrote “The Inner Game of Tennis”. The inner game is the game we play against internal opponents - the opposition to your greatness that lives within you.
These opponents are all reflections of fear. They show up disguised as inner ... Views: 869
Have you ever considered the awesome power of the Law of Attraction? It can manifest so many great things in your life. Have you ever considered using it to help others? Does it work that way? Can it work that way?
The Law of Attraction works upon the concept of like attracting like. You can ... Views: 1953
Have you ever woken in the middle of the night feeling anxious about your future and wondering, “Is this all there is? Have I reached my peak and it’s all downhill from here?” Do you feel that tightness in your chest or the emptiness in your stomach that you’re not doing ‘it’ right, that you ... Views: 1167
Physical Attraction
Physical Attraction (aka Sexual Attraction) is determined by the wavelength/gender of our Energy.
The wavelength of our energy is divided by gender and continually seeks to become re-united and whole.
We are sub-consciously seeking our sexual partner who makes us feel ... Views: 2017
A coach is a guiding, supportive and authentic vehicle through which the coachee learns to live their vision, be their purpose, carry out their mission in life and to live their true values.
A coach is guiding, supportive and authentic as in ‘guiding angel’ or ‘supportive assistant’ or ... Views: 1003
My Emotional Intelligence is my ability to consciously comprehend my own emotional States of Being.
Being ‘Emotional’ means that I am aware of the feeling that is my emotional state of being.
Being ‘Intelligent’ means I have a rational knowledge or logical understanding of the situation, ... Views: 1768
Relationships can be determined by type, quality and purpose.
Different types of relationship can have different qualities and a different purpose.
This is what makes all relationships individual and unique to those within the relationship.
Types of Relationship
There are many Types of ... Views: 818
Tiredness is a belief.
Tiredness is the belief that tiredness is the result of hard work.
However, doing nothing can also be very tiring.
I get tired when I am bored and under occupied, and I get tired when I am overused and overworked.
Tiredness is the result of living life in a state of ... Views: 1525
Wouldn’t it be great if there were a magic formula you could follow to know what actions to take, and when, so that you could always get the best results in every project or business you focus on?
There really isn’t a cookie cutter, step-by-step plan that you can use to prioritize action ... Views: 1454
When I suggest to addiction trained and mental health professionals that there may be more for a sober client to attain in life than sobriety through the successful completion of the 12-step program in AA, I receive various responses:
1. Looks of incomprehension;
2. Questioning of my ... Views: 1102
Anyone who is in a position of leadership must be able to exhibit the following qualities in this article. From a parent to an employer to a politician, these leadership qualities are essential to being a good leader.
LEARN TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY,
A leader that cannot communicate his ... Views: 2368
If you are struggling to find enough for clients for your coaching practice, you may need to take a look at your marketing strategies. In this article we are going to take a look at why email marketing is a natural fit for coaches.
First of all, what do I mean when I say, email marketing? I ... Views: 808
Are you feeling stressed out? Isn’t this time of year when families and friends come together to celebrate special holidays and connect supposed to be a time of joy and peace? Then why are so many people out there feeling stressed out, short-tempered and run down?
A key ingredient for success ... Views: 3142
When you think of that next step for yourself in your life or career/business how often do you say to yourself, "I just wish I could figure this out!"? Do you ask this question and then launch into a bunch of mental gymnastics of working really hard to find an answer? If so, you’re not ... Views: 2242
In this hard charging, never stop world we live in it can seem like if you stop to catch your breath for even a second, you’ll be run over by the tide of people trying to get ahead of you. Trampled like the crowds in Pamplona during the running of the bulls.
After all, it’s all about moving ... Views: 2146
The Power of Intention
In October 2008 I sat coughing in the San Francisco Airport waiting for a friend to pick me up and deliver me home. I had gotten a cold back East where I was speaking at a conference and was now feeling miserable. But truth be told, it wasn't just the sniffely sneezies ... Views: 1177
Anyone who knows me knows I am not a fan of winter. Understatement! Come October I turn into a bit of a bear (metaphorically speaking) and all I want to do is hibernate. Wake me up on the first of May when the earth comes alive; when I can see the world in multicolour, hear the birds sing, feel ... Views: 2499
An Introduction to John Nguyen...
In the evolution of my life, I have learned some powerful lessons from the most unlikely of teachers. One of the goals of my work is to share inspiring stories in the hope that you will pull something from my words that can positively be applied to your own ... Views: 1270
There are many kinds of heroes in life – war heroes, super heroes, emergency services professionals. Have you ever considered yourself in this category?
If you are like most people, you have developed the habit of moving through your successes, and accomplishments, in life much too quickly! ... Views: 1312
I hear from many people who voice problems relating to the low economy. The fact is I hear from subscribers who are anxious, have money problems and express feeling quite vulneralbe. Well I'm here to tell you, practicing Law of Attraction tools has nothing to do with sugar coating the issues. ... Views: 1425
When we talk about a very "sensitive" film we talk about a film that can take pictures under conditions where normal films "see" only black.
When we talk about a "sensitive" radio receiver we talk about a special machine that can receive signal where other ordinary receivers don't.
When we ... Views: 1293
When you look for a way out of any corner, the first thing you usually ask yourself is, “What do I need to do?” It’s an okay question to begin the process of moving into solution. But an even better question is, “What was I focusing on that led me into this corner?”
You can trick yourself ... Views: 1543
I want to share a poem I thought of during my last coaching session. (Yes, I have my own coaches.) At the end of the session, we kind of switched roles and I began coaching my coach. When I mentally switched gears from the client to the coach, I instantly relaxed.
It was so much easier to ... Views: 1215
According to Richard Bandler, creator of NHR, most of the problems and things that people do and bad feelings that they have work automatically but they weren’t there when you were a baby.
These are all learned behaviours, and when you hypnotically repattern someone what you are basically ... Views: 7811
Have you ever failed to come across the way you wanted to when you needed to the most?
Did you ever find yourself struggling to make a good impression or persuade the person you’re talking to whether in social situations, at interviews, or at presentations?
Does speaking to an audience or ... Views: 2395
As a child, whenever you were given something tangible (gifts) or intangible (compliments), you were taught to always acknowledge it by saying 'thanks' or 'thank you' because it was the right thing to do. You were being polite. But did you know that being thankful or grateful has other effects ... Views: 1578
Do you find yourself always saying 'yes' to other people's requests? Are you up to your eyes doing errands for others because you just cannot turn them down and say 'no'? Looking back on your life and the decisions you made in the past, Have you pursued a path – career or personal – that was ... Views: 3443
Definition of skimp: 1. To deal with hastily, carelessly or with poor material: concentrated on reelection, skimping other matters. 2. To provide for or supply inadequately; be stingy with; accused them of skimping defense funding. V.intr. To be stingy or very thrifty. Adj. Scanty; skimpy.
It ... Views: 867
Do you own your life?
"The meaning of life is to give life meaning." -- Ken Hudgins
When we own our lives, we accept what we've inherited and the experiences we hold in our memories. We also claim our right to create new conditions if we're not happy with what's come before. We assume ... Views: 1380
Many people find themselves in need of someone who can present unbiased advice from time to time. Personal friends or relations are not always a great alternative for supplying you with good counsel because regardless of their fondness for you their experience might not be adequate for giving ... Views: 5588
Vision boards have transformed the lives of celebrities like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Oprah Winfrey – and they have the power to transform your life too. They are a modern manifestation method combining concepts taken from creative hobbies like scrapbooking with motivational mind-mapping and ... Views: 6637
A few weeks ago, I challenged myself. I decided that I was going to stop living below my potential and skating by and actually do and be the best I could. This applies to the spiritual, emotional, mental and physical areas of my life. The area that was most beneath the bar was the physical area. ... Views: 982
Why is it that some people achieve seemingly impossible things while others shy away at the smallest challenge? Why is it that only a tiny percentage of the world population go on to accomplish some extraordinary things in their lifetime, while the rest simply tick along from birth to ... Views: 4894
Think of good nutrition as good medicine when you are dealing with stress.
We all experience some form of stress every day; and how we handle it depends on our state of health. I like to think of my health as my bank account; health reserves that I can draw upon in times of stress.
There ... Views: 1100
Gadday Mark Holland here, I was having lunch with some friends the other day and it occurred to me how focused we can get on what's not working in our lives and loose sight of the dreams we once dreamed. One of my friends is turning 40 and he treats it like the plague, he's really not looking ... Views: 1852
Chaos happens. It happens to everyone. Some people live in a constant state of chaos. It may not serve them but they accept and react to it like it’s normal.
Chaos is not normal. Chaos is a direct reflection of your beliefs and how you perceive a situation. In many cases, chaos is simply a ... Views: 1024
What are the biggest challenges facing successful business people today? In my work as a certified executive coach for C-Suite Executives, Directors, Managers, and Entrepreneurs, there are many recurring themes that seem to surface. One at a time, I’ll be sharing with you 12 of those top ... Views: 1221
Wulston Alderman FCILT explains why having a Mentor can help you accelerate your own career and personal goals and help you achieve far more than you might on your own.
Let’s first have a look at what has changed in the last 12 months. The economy has faltered, and we all have to face many ... Views: 2074
When one sets out to build and strengthen their relationship with their Self, it’s very much like building a new relationship with a potential significant other.
Think about it. When you first begin dating someone new, you are on your best behavior, sure to only say nice things and use your ... Views: 1574
Many of us will know what it’s like to experience the sense of frustration that goes with trying to attain certain goals but seeing no light at the end of the tunnel. It is then that some of us do the one thing that will stop us dead in our tracks...we sabotage ourselves.
When the dotcom ... Views: 1532
What are Mental Snapshots?
Mental snapshots are a simple, wonderful self reflective motivational exercise to see which areas of life are going really well and areas where things are just not where you want them to be. Completing the exercise will show you a portrait of your life right now-- a ... Views: 2466
Do you feel like your life has been more stressful? Your dreams and goals unfulfilled? Sometimes it takes a gentle nudge in the right direction and other times a serious shove is required. At times life is not easy, and some scholars will tell you it is not meant to be; it is through the ... Views: 2088
Do you often wonder where your day has gone? Does your "To Do" list frequently have as many or MORE items on it at the end of the day than it did at the start? Do you feel overwhelmed and stress is becoming a familiar companion? If this sounds like you recently, putting some time management ... Views: 2023
Are you ready to lead a life that is different than the one you are leading now? What will it take for you to stop doing what you’re doing and start living the life of your dreams?
Most will agree, it takes you engaging your energy and committing to change. You can’t get different results ... Views: 2019
Have you notice that the competition in the field of high ticket consulting is getting stiffer and stiffer by the minute? Every day, more and more people from across the globe are jumping on board hoping that they’ll earn their desired income through this endeavor. With this kind of competition, ... Views: 875
Sometimes along our journey there comes a time when a choice has to be made about how much effort we are putting into something. I’m sure you’ve all had the experience of wanting something so badly that you would do just about anything to have it or make it happen. Determination is one of the ... Views: 3837
A friend of mine recently lost over two stone. She went to visit her best friend, who she hadn’t seen in a while, expecting a big reaction to her very visible transformation. What did she get? Nothing. No shock, no excitement, no recognition, no pat on the back, no “well done”… nothing.
When ... Views: 5156