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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Can a Divorce Party Be Therapeutic? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2011 from Tina TobinWhen I first starting hearing about the increasing popularity of divorce parties, the first word that popped into my head was "tasteless." I had always thought of divorce parties as something that only the bitterest of women would consider. I also had concerns about whether these parties ...
Views: 1687 - Why is the Divorce Rate so High - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2011 from cedric riceThere are many reasons why we have such a high rate of divorce nowadays and no one person can realistically say that he or she can adequately answer that question. I will attempt to make some of my own observations about the situation and back them up with what I perceive to be fact. The ...
Views: 1173 - I must have been crazy.....or was I? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Paula JonesI first separated from my, now, ex-husband around Thanksgiving in 2006. I knew something wasn’t right. I just wasn’t happy. I was actually, rarely happy. Don’t get me wrong. He was and is a marvelous, wonderful, generous, very handsome man. We rarely argued. He was good to me. Very good. ...
Views: 990(2 votes) - You're Divorced. Get Over It! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Dana McIntyreOnce upon a time, I was a happily married mother of a 5 year old son and wife to my very own Prince Charming. We lived in a little neighborhood in a cute three bedroom house that even had a picture perfect white picket fence. Unfortunately however, my Prince Charming turned out to be more like ...
Views: 1782(4 votes) - 8 Tips For Saving Money During Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from matthew inghamOkay so you are at the point where you have made several attempts to save your marriage, each one of your attempts was unsuccessful…it is time to let go of the marriage and move forward with the divorce. Before you move forward with the divorce though, step back, pause for a second to take a ...
Views: 752(1 vote) - I Love Having Teenagers - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Bill McLeodI can’t tell you the number of people, who when I tell them that I have teenagers, say things like “Wow that must be tough” or “Good luck you will need it”. I don’t care, I love having teenagers. I really do. I can still remember what my life was like as a teenager. I can remember when I was ...
Views: 919 - Help Prevent Marriage Failure - Important Know Hows To Prevent Marriage Failure - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Johnny WayneIf you are afraid of marriage failure, think that in every relationship there comes a time that problems will come. Don't over react when marriage failure comes because it is normal and there are times that divorce is thought about, yet still not pursued. • If you have children and both of ...
Views: 1003(1 vote) - Healing A Broken Heart From Love - Time Is Your Friend - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Johnny WayneAre you in the process of healing a broken heart from love? This process is one of the hardest things to surmount; yes you can but it takes time. However, despite the difficulties you may face, sooner or later you will be able to realize that you are slowly conquering the negative emotions from ...
Views: 912 - What is Divorce and Child Custody Mediation? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Kathy Memel“The notion that most people want black-robed judges, well dressed lawyers and fine-paneled courtrooms as the setting to resolve their disputes is not correct. People with problems, like people with pains, want relief, and they want it as quickly and inexpensively as possible” - Chief Justice ...
Views: 1194(1 vote) - Does Mediation Work? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Kathy MemelDoes Mediation Work? There have been more than 50 studies on divorce mediation in the last 20 years. There appears to be enough data to lean favorably for the success of divorce mediation. Here is what the studies have found: Settlement Rates The research reflects that mediation produces ...
Views: 1180 - A Letter to Sara, My Deceased Ex-Wife - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2011 from Bill McLeodDear Sara; It’s been almost three and a half years since you passed away, five years since we divorced and seven years since you left me to be a sole parent to Jack and Michaela. I figured that maybe now we should talk again. First let me update you on the kids. Jack for the most part is ...
Views: 2159 - California Child Support Payments - Myth and Facts - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanOne of the greatest myths about California child support payments is that there is anything to argue about. California has a mandatory statewide guideline for child support, meaning that a judge must order the guideline amount unless the parents have a written agreement otherwise, or unless ...
Views: 2234 - California Divorce Forms - Can You Fill Them Out Yourself? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanSince I started the self-law movement in Berkeley, California in 1971, millions of couples have successfully filled out and filed their own California divorce forms, so you can almost certainly do it too. After reading this article, you'll know how to get started. Doing your own California ...
Views: 2367 - California Divorce Alimony - 5 Facts You Need to Know - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanWarning--I am a California divorce attorney, so the information in this article is only about California divorce alimony. If you are looking for information on alimony for any other state, this article may not apply to you. Before I get started, you should know that in the California legal ...
Views: 3399 - California Divorce Mediation - May Be Required in Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIf your divorce involves minor children, and you and your spouse can't agree on custody or visitation issues, you may be required to participate in California divorce mediation. After reading this article you will know how it works. California divorces are handled through the state's Superior ...
Views: 1419 - California Divorce Papers - What to Do If You've Been Served - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanBeing served with California divorce papers can put most people in a panic. Maybe you already knew your marriage was headed for the rocks, or maybe you thought everything was fine. Either way, it's an unpleasant experience. If this has happened to you this article will help you get up to speed ...
Views: 5010 - California Divorce Court - How to Divorce Without Appearing There and What to Do If You Must - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanGoing to California divorce court and letting a judge make all the decisions is not the best way to get divorced. If you and your spouse can work together to agree on the legal issues of your case--how you'll handle division of your property and debts, support, and parenting if you have minor ...
Views: 2340 - California Divorce Cases - Beware of This Common Trap - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanCalifornia divorce cases fall into one of two legal categories: an uncontested divorce (a default case) or a contested divorce. This article will explain the difference and show you how to avoid the common trap of falling into a contested divorce that turns into a legal battle. Almost all ...
Views: 1743 - California Divorce Separation - How It Differs From a Divorce and How to Get One - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanA California divorce separation is a legal separation where the court makes orders about children, support, and property but allows the couple to live apart while legally joined. This is useful for couples who can't live together but have religious or moral reasons to avoid divorce; or ...
Views: 1586 - Do Your Own Divorce Books - A Story That Changed the World - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThis story begins with an idealistic young lawyer who was working as Senior Attorney for Contra Costa County Legal Services in the late 1960s. While there he discovered that many people who came for help were not poor enough to qualify for free services, but were too poor to pay a lawyer. They ...
Views: 1093 - California State Divorce - How to Start Yours - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanCalifornia state divorce laws are not that difficult to understand if you have good information. With the right advice, instructions, and explanations, you can get your own divorce started without hiring an attorney, and save a lot of money on legal fees. This article will provide an overview ...
Views: 1624 - California Divorce Kit - What a Good One Should Include - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIf you and your spouse agree that you want to get divorced as easily and cheaply as possible, a California divorce kit could be just what you need to achieve your goal. As long as the two of you are willing to cooperate, you can work together to do your own divorce without lawyers and save a ...
Views: 1358 - Divorce Books - What to Look for and What to Avoid - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThere are huge advantages to doing your own divorce, but to be successful you'll need recent and reliable divorce books or kits created specifically for your state. The key word is reliable, because I've seen a lot of divorce books that definitely do not qualify. In particular you should ...
Views: 779 - Simple Divorce - How to Get One by Default - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThe easiest way to get a simple divorce in California is by default. This means that your spouse or partner doesn't respond when served with divorce papers. This article will explain how a default divorce works in California. In our legal system, any lawsuit is a struggle between two ...
Views: 1206 - Review Events and Adventures New York - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Thomas CableNew York Events and Adventures club had one of the most exciting activities calendars across the Nation during January 2011 and for several reasons…first, members got up close and personal with live penguins. This once in a lifetime interactive activity even included viewing three of the newly ...
Views: 1139 - Simple Divorce - How to Keep Yours That Way - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanMost people start off with a simple divorce case, or one that could probably become simple if handled right. However, such cases don't usually stay simple after an attorney is retained. Divorces tend to be fairly sensitive, so it doesn't take much to stir them up, but lawyers and the legal ...
Views: 792 - Legal Separation - How It Differs From Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThis article on California divorce separation will make the topic simple and easy to understand. You will know the difference between a divorce and legal separation by the end of this article. Since I'm a California Family Law attorney, I'll explain this topic according to California divorce ...
Views: 1310 - Divorce Court - Not The Place You Want To Be - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanTrue or false: If you live in the "sunshine state" you can get a divorce without even going to California divorce court. I believe the "False" sign in your head is blinking rapidly right now, and you are one hundred percent sure of your answer. I am not surprised at all, though, because through ...
Views: 799 - Simple Divorce - Know How To Get One - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanDo you know the best way to get a simple divorce in California? The simplest way is to get one by default. Before I tell you how a default divorce works, let me explain to you what it is. For those of you who already know, you can skip the next paragraph, but for those who do not have a clue ...
Views: 770 - Child Support Payments - What You Need To Know - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanMany seem to have the idea that California child support payments are not a priority when looking at the big picture, but in fact, this is one of the most important aspects of a divorce. It is actually one of the top priorities, and rightly so. Let's start by talking about the guidelines ...
Views: 823 - 3 Highly Effective Budgeting Tips for Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIn today's financially and economically difficult times, budgeting is especially important for divorcing or divorced people. Every singe dollar counts, and no one can just throw money around as if it grew on trees. Your budget should include a plan for both spending and saving. It's important ...
Views: 865 - Divorce Alimony - An Overview - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThe term alimony may seem foreign to some people, but it is actually just another term for spousal support. It is the financial support that the spouse with a higher income pays to the spouse with a lower income. During a marriage, both parties are obliged to support each other. When a marriage ...
Views: 832 - How to Maintain Job Performance During the Divorce Process - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Audrey SilcoxDuring the time of a divorce, individuals are often overwhelmed due to the many stressors. Some stressors may be the fact that your spouse wants a divorce, to decisions that need to be made but the uncertainty of how to answer them. Stress comes from the realization that even though your ...
Views: 4651(2 votes) - A Recipe for The Blended Family - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Lee BlockThis is a recipe that is more common every day. It can be delicious or a complete disaster. The base ingredients are pretty standard, although sometimes there are a few variations. Here is the recipe for a blended family. Children. The children are a key ingredient. They may be primary ...
Views: 3620 - Surviving the Pain of Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Lisa Merlo-BoothThere are many people going through the pain of divorce and breakup in our society today. Some have asked for the breakups, while others were blindsided by it. Most, however, struggle with the fallout of being alone. Below are five tips for getting through the pain of breakup or ...
Views: 1200(1 vote) - Simple Divorce by Default - The Easiest Way To Go - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanDo you know the easiest and best way to get a simple divorce in California? You may be surprised, because the easiest way is by default. If you want to know more about how to get a divorce by default, then you're in luck because this article will tell you exactly how to do so. To give you a ...
Views: 1117 - A Child Support Story With a Happy Ending - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanA great misconception about California child support payments is that the issue is always something to be argued about. This is totally wrong. I actually used to have clients, John and Ellen, who believed that child support would be such a difficult issue to settle. Yes, it is one of the most ...
Views: 843 - Child Support - What You Need To Know - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanMany people think that California child support and spousal support have nothing in common, but the two actually have a few similarities. Although they are not the same thing, there are just a few common characteristics between both kinds of support. Let me tell you a few points that apply to ...
Views: 756 - Divorce Communication Skills - Do's and Don'ts - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanOne of the most important and powerful things a person can possess is good communication skills. Sure, everyone has communication skills, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they're used correctly and effectively. After all, our sophisticated ability to communicate is one of the main ...
Views: 921 - Divorce Books - How They Came To Be - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanDivorce books are probably one of the most amazing things ever created. They have helped countless couples get divorced without having to spend so much on those expensive legal fees. We all know how costly legal battles can be, and divorce books help you do your own divorce, eliminating the need ...
Views: 814 - Divorce Court - What to Do If You're Afraid to Go There - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanThe idea of stepping into a California divorce court is terrifying for a lot of people, and it is one of the things most people think of first when they hear the word divorce. This, however, is wrong. Television, movies and media in general have made us believe that a divorce always has to go ...
Views: 965 - Family Law - What to Do During a Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Lilly GordonGetting a divorce is an unfortunate end to what usually starts out as a loving and fun relationship. But it is a reality in our society. It may not be easy to be the “bigger person” when you feel as though your heart is broken, or you’re so angry you could scream. It will not be easy to see the ...
Views: 896(2 votes) - Signs Your Man Is Cheating - 9 Changes When A Man Is Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneAre there significant signs your man is cheating?At some point, you may realize in the middle of the relationship that it is no longer working, that it is not healthy anymore and that you are not happy to be with each other's arm. Any suspicion of cheating or doubt in the relationship can put ...
Views: 5232(2 votes) - Get Over Being Dumped - 7 Helpful Guides Towards Successful Moving On - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneTo get over being dumped is a challenge for you! You will have the biggest fight with your EMOTION, so be ready. It might be too painful for you to recover easily especially on facing the fact that you're done and it's over.You always suffer from the pain he caused you, you feel worthless and ...
Views: 3842(2 votes) - Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - 3 Tips You Need To Know And Live With It To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneFor a woman who have experienced all the hurt and pain from break up, she always see to it to get her boyfriend back in her arms again. When you are in severe pain, you feel that you cannot live in this world again, that it's hard to face a new beginning. Even if you are so hopeless and lucky ...
Views: 931 - Getting Over a Break Up - 5 Tips On Getting Over Your First Love - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneFor most of us, getting over your first love can seem impossible. It's hard to believe that we can ever really be happy again or that we will ever find someone who 'gets' us the same way our love did. The truth of the matter is, we are all humans and believe it or not, we cannot love one person ...
Views: 1405 - Get Your Ex Back - 5 Great Advices To Get Your Ex Back In Soonest Time - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneIt is actually a difficult situation for you to move on from the pain of break up with your ex. Even if your relationship just ended, at some point you also want to get back together. Even if you are capable of doing so, it is easier to say but it's hard to find the great steps to make it ...
Views: 1045 - How to Win Love Back - Love & Get Ready On How To Win Love Back - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneTo those people who are just fresh from break up find it difficult and a challenge on how to win love back. You may be thinking that the break up came so unexpectedly and you were not ready. If it was a failed marriage or relationship of some kind you may want to try it again. The love is no ...
Views: 824 - Family Law Attorney Offers Tips for Avoiding Mistakes When Preparing Post-Marital Agreements: Practical Lessons Learned from the McCourt Trial - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2011 from Adam R. GardnerJanuary 14, 2011 By Adam Gardner Family Law Attorney Nachshin & Langlois, LLP Family Law Attorney Offers Tips for Avoiding Mistakes When Preparing Post-Marital Agreements Practical Lessons Learned from the McCourt Trial Most people think that the absence of a pre-marital agreement ...
Views: 905 - Top 10 Tips to Live Your Best Life - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteIf you’re not already living your best life its time to do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around. I challenge you to put your whole self in! An extraordinary life well lived and well told is an inside job. Here are 10 tips to get you headed in your highest and best direction: 1. Be ...
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