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The trouble with arguments is that they don't work.
I'm not talking about a good debate, where you have some great ideas, and they clash, and you start a healthy back-and-forth that feels fun. I mean arguments – where tension starts to rise, responses start to get personal, and you go around ... Views: 1658
SELL MORE TO EXISTING CUSTOMERS
• Analyze each account for cross-sell and up-sell opportunities
• Accompany your reps on key account sales calls – call on executives if possible
• Conduct customer satisfaction surveys and look for opportunities to improve service and to sell more
• Inspect ... Views: 2328
Feedback can be a valuable tool in personal and professional development. The opinions of others can give you insight into your own behavior that you may not know or find out on your own. Although it is very useful, sometimes feedback can be difficult to hear, especially if it has not been ... Views: 4802
6 Ways to Make a Great First Impression
The saying, “You only get one chance to make a first impression” is used often because it is very true. When meeting someone for the first time, how you act and what you say has a considerable effect on the other person’s view of who you are. It can ... Views: 1251
There are 12 barriers to effective communication that destroys any type of relationship. Be sure to overcome these roadblocks if you want happy relationships.
1. Criticizing. Criticism involves judgmental states that usually put down a person. "Don't do it that way", "You're wrong", "You're not ... Views: 3883
Most of us spend a good part of our day communicating with people. We may be talking to our kids, spouse or co-workers, or we may be talking to a classroom full of not-so-eager students. The way we communicate touches every aspect of our lives. In fact, we spend so much time communicating, we ... Views: 1202
A website copywriter knows that building trust is essential to any marketing strategy. No transaction can be performed without trust. In fact, without it, your business simply wouldn’t function. In internet marketing the trust element is intrinsically vital, web users have to overcome the ... Views: 1239
Marketing expert and author, Geoffrey Moore, has a usefulfill-in-the-blank method for creating a theme andpositioning statement for your business. I prefer to usehis same system for creating clarity for myself in what I'mselling, creating an elevator or introduction speech, andalso material for ... Views: 1250
Marketing expert and author, Geoffrey Moore, has a usefulfill-in-the-blank method for creating a theme andpositioning statement for your business. I prefer to usehis same system for creating clarity for myself in what I'mselling, creating an elevator or introduction speech, andalso material for ... Views: 1250
Do you wish you could tell your partner what you are feeling more easily? Are you looking for a way to have a productive conversation without playing the blame and shame game? Do your "discussions" sometimes last into the wee hours of the night leaving you exhausted the next day?
When you have ... Views: 2083
Today’s global marketplace allows us to communicate and conduct business throughout the world. Our daily lives are enriched with a multitude of cultures and accents. Daily communication provides ample opportunities to interact with individuals who speak “American English” as a second ... Views: 4134
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Access POWER - by Kim Elman submitted by Joseph Riggio
Introduction
If you’re anything at all like me, you’ve probably had periods in your life where the most fitting description would be that of being a “self-help junkie”. I know, it’s not a pretty or flattering description, and perhaps it’s not even obvious what I mean by it...
Built right ... Views: 10637
Cooperation seems simple: working together toward a common goal for the benefit of all involved. But amazingly it can be quite challenging, even when we have so many successful examples all around us. Human society is based upon the concept of cooperation, but finding a balance to ensure the ... Views: 4064
Typically, communication skills training is focused around improving our speaking and presentation skills, but improving how we listen to information is just as important. Listening plays a major part in effective communication, how we listen and what we choose to listen to has a big impact on ... Views: 6706
There are many advantages of team building events but for this a team must be well efficient. In these types of activities a corporate team building ability is must. So you can get its advantages from the post below.
If you check out firms creating glorious profits, you'll forever notice a ... Views: 794
Most people believe that money gets the world go round.
So did I… until my life changed in a way that things stopped being the way they used to be and started to change in ways that, at the time seemed harsh, difficult… even unfair…
… and then I decided to look for the gift in my present ... Views: 1660
Do you ever find yourself getting more and more angry and frustrated while trying to explain what is bothering you? Perhaps you feel like others are not really listening to you or trying to understand things from your perspective. In such circumstances, you may end up raising your voice or ... Views: 2838
I am currently working through a Beth Moore Bible Study and came to an interesting find. In Luke 2:42, we learn that Jesus was 12 years old when he went to the feast at the temple. In Luke 2:52, we learn that Jesus grew in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and men. In Luke 3:23, we find ... Views: 1137
Over the ensuing months we are going to cover in detail all the nuances of what I call “Assertive Communication” or being able to communicate in a much more positive and effective manner with the people In your life, whether it be work colleagues, including management, your friends, or just ... Views: 2253
Your mindset determines how you see the world. It determines your perception of the world, and this perception is like a filter. The great thing about filters is that they can be adjusted. Take a water filter. Maybe it is set to filter out only chlorine, but it also lets all the other yucky ... Views: 1399
I recently attended the funeral of a young man I'd known for all of his life. As with most funerals, it was a somber experience marked by the outward display of sadness.
Funeral services can be as formal or as informal as the family allows them to be. This particular funeral service was very ... Views: 1503
Building rapport over the phone may seem a little daunting at first, but it’s actually quite easy. Unlike face to face conversations, you don’t have to worry about looking awkward or doing something that might embarrass you in front of the person you’re speaking to.
When it comes to building ... Views: 4935
An excellent article appeared in Vital Smarts (a newsletter by the authors of Crucial Conversations, and Critical Conversations. I highly recommend it for the Q&A they have every issue. The URL is www.vitalsmarts.com).
An issue or so ago they published a letter from a school administrator who ... Views: 859
My friend Stephen attended a workshop over last weekend. As he relayed the event, he commented that the instructor had a favorite response to many questions… “Your choice.”
It is our choice, isn’t it? Yet, life doesn’t always feel as simple as those two words make it seem.
Sometimes, you ... Views: 1598
The story I’m about to share with you is over 2,600 years old, yet its morals still apply to any manager today who wants to coach their staff.
It was told by the Greek fabulist named Aesop; you may have heard of him. He was a slave who lived in sixth century BC and eventually was freed by ... Views: 1718
I don’t think I have to tell you, if you have picked this book and especially if you have kept reading so far, anything about commitment, because you are already committed not only to becoming a better speaker but also to your own personal growth.
It was June 2009, after I made the ... Views: 1862
Your project go-live date has changed – now what? Regardless of the reasons for the change (and let's face it, "the date has changed" usually is interpreted as "the date has slipped"), there are six steps you should take when communicating a change in your project's go-live date:
1. Consider ... Views: 3860
Use the following ten steps to replace old, ineffective arguments with an effective fair fighting session:
1. Fight to resolve an issue or solve a problem.
2. Identify the problem to be solved.
3. Take turns stating your case, using I messages.
4. Practice active listening.
5. Generate ... Views: 3092
We live in the communication age. We can talk to each other faster and easier than ever before. We have cell phones, blogs, e-mail, and social networks like facebook and twitter. There are so many new ways to communicate. So why is it that we have so much trouble communicating?
It seems ... Views: 1961
Improving communication is a major need for many organizations.
Whether you are a manager, supervisor, or frontline employee, there are always opportunities to improve communication. Often, communication problems occur when people don’t pay attention to the basics. Here are five keys to ... Views: 4099
In your relationship, are you trying to live a dream that you were sold or are you creating the reality that you want?
Throughout our lives we are sold two dreams; however, neither of them paints a realistic picture of a truly rewarding relationship. The first dream unfolds when we are ... Views: 947
1. Listen to other people. The most successful people let others talk more than they do.
Use questions to expand the conversation beyond small talk.
Ask probing questions to elicit a person’s dreams and passions.
Uncover ways that you can contribute to others and take action immediately.
2. ... Views: 3067
• For a company, who matters the most the customers or the consumers? Can you illustrate, drawing from your research and consulting insights, this distinction?
In a way we are all consumers. We all consume goods, merchandise, and food and on an energetic level we even consume energy from ... Views: 1428
Making people understand subjects not taught in school is difficult... and therefore so well worth it! How to create passive income is one such subject.
Research by various noted gurus establishes that all people can be categorized in four personality types.
1. The Sales personality, which ... Views: 1396
One of the biggest issues I've seen over the years working with clients is that of communications. So often, situations can go array simply for lack of crystal clear communications. Part of the problem is also part of the beauty; we all have different communication styles. And as much as this ... Views: 1587
Curiously, after leaving behind our country, our people and our culture, we begin to miss a lot of things, including things we never really missed while living there.
While we still live at home... eating out with friends we won’t order sancocho, ajiaco or any other typical food, since we ... Views: 666
No one likes to be criticized. I wish I could avoid it completely, but that’s not the way life works.
I have spent many an hour listening to clients complain about the criticism they receive from parents, spouses, and bosses. They clearly need my empathy and understanding and perhaps ... Views: 1153
We all have difficult people in our lives, and unfortunately, we must deal with them to get things done in life. It can be your ex, your parents or your in-laws. It could be your employer, employees or co-workers. Sometimes it’s the store cashier, the customer service agent or another ... Views: 5660
Aha Solutions Unlimited
There is a pink elephant between you and another person. You know what I mean. There is something left unsaid. There is some issue hanging in the air. It is like there's a big pink elephant hanging in the space between you and the other person. Perhaps the other person ... Views: 7876
In truth, skill in communication is one of the most vital things in life. To make progress on any front - whether it be professional or personal, intimate or casual, you simply must master this challenge. Why is it so significant? It is because you need to accurately convey thoughts, messages, ... Views: 1631
Interpersonal communication is the process of sending and receiving information between two or more people.
Types of Interpersonal Communication
This kind of communication is subdivided into dyadic communication, Public speaking, and small-group communication.
Dyadic communication is simply a ... Views: 39952
If you follow the five laws of effective communication skills, you will be a master communicator with great social and relationship connections. Friends and influence will easily flow from you.
1. Kill righteousness. The need to be right is a serious communication mistake couples make in ... Views: 2155
E-learning forums trigger some extreme reactions – you'll either love them, or hate them.
Some people just love electronic discussion boards. They see e-learning forums as a natural extension of emails and texting. And they get real value out of talking to other learners – it’s a great way ... Views: 1233
Having effective communication strategies in the workplace poses many benefits. They make for a more productive and healthy work environment. Unfortunately, a lot of people don’t really know how to communicate themselves properly. Let me give you an example…
Isn’t it funny how a simple ... Views: 4025
Imagine being alone all day, living in the same environment you've explored thousands of times. You have nothing to do except sleep and wait for your roommate to get home to feed and hopefully spend time with you. He’s been rather stressed out and crabby lately. Your quality time together has ... Views: 2415
Curiosamente, después de un tiempo de haber dejado nuestro país, nuestra gente y nuestra cultura atrás, comenzamos a extrañar muchas cosas, incluyendo algunas que nunca realmente extrañábamos o consumíamos regularmente cuando aun vivíamos allá.
Es muy común que cuando aun estamos en nuestra ... Views: 1002
Empathy is vitally important in good communication. Many people confuse empathy with sympathy, but empathy is much more.
My dictionary defines it as "the quality or process of entering fully, through imagination, into another's feelings or motives." In the fullest sense, it implies putting ... Views: 25457
"Pins and needles, needles and pins; it's a happy man that grins." These classic words were made famous by Jackie Gleason in his role as Ralph Kramden in the 1950s TV sitcom, The Honeymooners. So why in the world was America's favorite bus driver so intent on repeating this phrase whenever he ... Views: 3680
In the workplace, we make presentations all the time, be it to internal or external stakeholders. One of the reasons many people fear making presentations to the boss or clients is they are afraid of being the focal point of everyone's attention and don't want to risk making a fool of ... Views: 1127
When you have something important to share with your sweetie, but feel like all you want to do is blame him (or her) here is exactly what you need to move forward.
Take these 4 steps with ease:
1. Take 5-10 minutes to journal what you are upset about (don't skip this very important ... Views: 2406