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Anger is a powerful emotion that can affect the whole your life. It may ruin your relations with family, friends, and co-workers. It can affect your health and emotional well-being. But you already know that all, don’t you? You are here because you know you have a problem with letting it go. ... Views: 1361
Conflict can be defined as “a perceived divergence of interest, or a belief that the parties’ current goals (needs) cannot be achieved simultaneously.” Does that mean conflict is a bad thing? Not necessarily! Conflict has many benefits. It produces change. It builds collaboration. And, it ... Views: 1359
Do you ever get tired of New Age gurus preaching that you shouldn’t be angry. If you’re anything like me, sometimes you are angry. I’ll bet you’re angry when people you trust betray you. I’ll bet you’re angry when people make promises they don’t keep.
Anger is a wonderful messenger. It is ... Views: 1358
Anger management techniques for children is a growing field and one that's increasingly important for today's kids.
1) Adult role models are the ones who teach children how to respond to feeling angry. Yelling and screaming and reacting with physical violence is something that kids learn ... Views: 1357
Meaningful anger management techniques are crucial for you to be healthy in body and mind.Bad habits are hard to break if one learns unhealthy behaviors from a family member growing up. Once a habit is learned it can be hard to let go of, but it can be done if one wants to. People have gotten ... Views: 1354
Everybody gets angry, even me. Professionally, I've been helping people understand and reduce their anger for twenty years. And in all honesty, I do practice what I preach. I experience far less anger and frustration than I did when I was younger, perhaps some of which is due to age. People ... Views: 1354
Marco* first came to therapy to help manage his anger. Marco stated that he has been angry for a long time now. He stated that he has a very bad temper, snaps at everything, and gets into physical fights at least three times a month. When asked where he learned to be angry, Marco had no problem ... Views: 1354
"Two things define you; your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything."
In my article on March 2, 2014 and chapter two in my book Backbone Power The Science of Saying No, I speak about the importance of being able to say No when you mean No. After listening ... Views: 1353
I learned to be critical of myself at a very early age. I never did anything right; everyone else was better than me; and even worse, I was never good enough, period. It didn't help that during my impressionable formative years, society taught that the more you denigrated a child the harder ... Views: 1353
We are brought up in a STUFF IT society. In other words, it is more important to be politically correct and look good than it is to tell 'our truth' even if our truth is upsetting. Because we are brought up in a STUFF IT society there are things that people stew about for years then one day ... Views: 1351
The first step in starting seeds indoors is to make allies. In this context, the first ally you may consider recruiting is your spouse. Next set of allies is your children or whomever also lives in your home. This is because your activity, (which may be exploiting personal interest to combat ... Views: 1350
We all have thoughts that seem to take on a life of their own in our heads. For some of us they are negative, destructive thoughts that have been with us since childhood. Dad may have called you bird legs or a teacher in frustration said you were stupid. What they said not only stuck but was ... Views: 1350
It is actually possible to become addicted to negative emotions. When you get into a pattern of thinking that causes certain emotions, those emotions in turn feed the negative thinking patterns that created them in the first place. When people feel empty inside, they tend to fill the gap with ... Views: 1347
Sometimes we realize that we have become angry too quickly and that there are also no really objective reasons to justify this level of anger. It is possible that this happens to us in a continuous way, but ow to stop being angry for no reason?
1. Control your perspective
It is possible ... Views: 1347
For the most part, I don't associate with people who difficult to get along with. Being a sole entrepreneur, I am not subjected to dealing with obnoxious coworkers, irate customers or demanding bosses (although I am tough to work for but fortunately I get along very well with myself). Socially, ... Views: 1346
Years ago, I wrote to a Psychiatrist about Self Hypnotism, and told him that I thought that self hypnotism and bio-feedback was same thing, but without a machine.
He said,that I could teach the subject, but not call it bio-feedback, which I understood.
You can not damage your brain, and it ... Views: 1346
Most Personality Disordered people are prone to be angry. Their anger is always sudden, raging, frightening and without an apparent provocation by an outside agent. It would seem that people suffering from personality disorders are in a CONSTANT state of anger, which is effectively suppressed ... Views: 1345
Anger kills. Usually it doesn't result in a homicide. It isn't even recognizable as anger.
Instead, a person suffers from one of these common forms of anger in disguise. (What you thought that all emotions come nicely labeled for your convenience?)
* Resentment
* Frustration
* Hopelessness
* ... Views: 1343
Woke up in a pretty mood. Its 6.00 in the morning. I tell myself: I love myself ! Nothing can go wrong today. I'm Ken Onu, the master manifestor! I understand the way the Law of attraction works. I know that all I have to do is keep the energy positive and I will attract like energy. Hey I ... Views: 1341
The U.S. Department of Veterans’ Affairs reports that one in five combat veterans develops Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, either during or shortly after combat. The Mayo Clinic defines PTSD as having three main categories of symptoms: “re-experiencing symptoms,” “avoidance symptoms,” ... Views: 1341
As we enter a 2011, I would like to mention some of the most important skills almost anyone could find useful in their life. One of the things I like most about the new year is that we can start fresh. That is, take inventory of the things we want to change and then put into practice those ... Views: 1340
We all seek to be powerful. I'm not speaking necessarily about having authority over others but we certainly want to have control over our own lives. Yet even the most well-intentioned, enlightened person wants to control a particular situation or individual at times. Certainly, parents impose ... Views: 1339
Anyone who has studied positive thinking, New Thought or the Law of Attraction understands the concept of acting “as if.” You know—acting with confidence and grace even when you’re shaking in your boots, or putting a smile on your face and acting happy even when you woke up feeling terrible. ... Views: 1339
When I was younger I must have fallen asleep for twenty years like Rip Van Winkle. Then when I awoke, somewhere in adulthood, I noticed a most unusual evolving phenomenon: in a world where only two distinct races existed (black and white) there were now Hispanics, Asians, Latinos, and others. ... Views: 1333
It seems only common sense to make sure that awareness is at the very foundation of our self-protection studies. And, while this is a given for most people, I've found that the majority tend to focus only on watching for actual dangers.
What I mean is...
...everyone is watching for the ... Views: 1333
To overcome anger management problems its critical to view anger as an addiction that you are trying to change.The reactions I get to this statement is almost always a blank or puzzled stare.
What I am trying to say is that over time you reach a sort of physical homeostasis. You get used to ... Views: 1331
Feelings and emotions just happen to us. We cannot rid ourselves of them. All we can do is control the way they influence our lives. The same rule applies to anger. We cannot wish it away but we can manage the way it powers our lives and those around us.
Anger ranges from anything between a ... Views: 1331
If you've read my book, The Secret Side o f Anger, or attended one of my lectures on the topic, you know that while there are thousands of events that can trigger anger, there are actually only three root causes: hurt, fear, and frustration. In any given circumstance, you can trace anger back to ... Views: 1330
If you've been following the presidential debates, you are well aware of the bullying behaviors of some of our candidates. Gone are the days when politicians debated national and global issues. Shockingly, but not surprisingly, the debates have mutated into verbal warfare against each opponent. ... Views: 1329
We all get angry. It's a normal, useful, healthy emotion. It's not our anger that gets us in trouble. It's the way in which we express, or suppress, it that that exacerbates the situation.
The majority of people I've met believe that there are only two ways of handling anger: the first is ... Views: 1329
Anger is a very powerful emotion which many conclude is a bad feeling. Whether one chooses to use it in a constructive manner or in a hostile way, it carries a lot of punch (figuratively speaking, of course). As you become angry your body's muscles tense up. Inside your brain, neurotransmitter ... Views: 1328
I'm a very polite person. I was taught to always say "please" and "thank you" when I was a child, a practice that has continued throughout my adult life. However, I never realized the latter phrase could be used as a means of eliminating anger. You might think it an odd concept but let me ... Views: 1327
When dog training comes to mind, lots of people think about tricks or dog shows. Both behaviors are evidence of training, but training goes further than a show. If you keep your pet indoors, then you have already gone through one step of training: housetraining. Could you imagine having a ... Views: 1327
Have you ever found yourself in a situation that was somewhat confusing, uncomfortable or perhaps even dangerous? Sometimes it's hard to understand why things happen or why we must participate in particular activities. We don't often understand why certain people enter our lives or why they ... Views: 1326
What you are about to read are a few remarkably simple ideas that can be worth their weight in gold to you if you are struggling to control your anger. They are tested ideas. Others are using them daily and now it's finally your turn.
Listen, for a person who is angry more often than ... Views: 1326
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Do you feel angry at all times, even for no reason? Though anger is a natural emotional process, sometimes it goes beyond from what’s considered normal. You develop the urge to hurt others or yourself verbally or physically.
There are ways ... Views: 1326
We live in a harsh and judgmental world where people are quick to point out the faults and imperfections of others yet seem oblivious to their own. Some misguided souls believe they have a moral obligation and civil duty to help you to be a better person by telling you what a failure you really ... Views: 1324
Check out Webster's dictionary. Anger is defined as "a feeling of discomfort or displeasure brought about by feelings of helplessness and powerlessness." My personal definition of a victim is one who views themselves as having no power or authority. Many times, a victim will claim that in a ... Views: 1322
Emotions happen. We can, however, make choices about how we manage them. If you consider emotions simply as a form of life energy, you can begin to reframe the notion that there are "good" and "bad" emotions and direct that energy in positive ways.
The energy of anger, for example, can make ... Views: 1321
The biggest obstacle to most of my clients’ healing and recovery is their inability to understand and accept their feelings, and the emotional and behavioral clues that indicate where the problems lie. Most of us learn early that being too open with our feelings and thoughts is dangerous. ... Views: 1321
We might 't be accustomed to power style yoga because it is not really fully shown us. Power Yoga is called the american type involving Ashtanga Yoga exercise which in turn brought by your Indians. Beryl Bender Birch ended up being the one who gave the definition of Power Style Yoga. This ... Views: 1320
A close look at the life of president Trump, one will come to a definite conclusion that he is a goal-oriented person. He would impulsively pursue an objective, regardless of its feasibility, and does not rest until he achieves it.
After the election of Barack Obama, he found a new goal in ... Views: 1320
Do you experience extreme feelings of frustration? Do you see red when something doesn’t go your way? Do you get aggressive and agitated easily? Well, if the answer is yes then you are a potential candidate for anger management classes.
Anger can manifest itself in numerous ways. Crimes of ... Views: 1319
Perhaps many friends have experienced a deep feeling of regret for making wrong decisions when in angry situation. we come to realize it is so different to make decisions in peaceful state and in argry state. A win-win decision is welcome and great if we can try to take actions or make decisions ... Views: 1318
Anger has gotten far too negative a rap over the last few years. I know that may sound strange coming from a guy who makes a good chunk of his living from teaching an anger management course but I really do believe it to be the case.Anger is part of being human. We all get angry, you just can't ... Views: 1317
It is human to be angry. But to a certain point, it becomes unhealthy so you should take action before it comes to this. There are those who get temper on small provocations while others can suck in all the annoyance for years without any sign of anger.
Well, anger will always find a way to ... Views: 1316
“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” – Mark Twain
What was the last thing that made you angry? The bad driver cutting you off? Your kids not picking up their toys? You were passed over for a promotion?
How long ... Views: 1315