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Remember the good old days when you actually thought you could get away with “the dog ate my homework?” Or – updated version – “My baby sister deleted my homework with one swipe of her pureed banana fingertips”?
How well did it work then? Uh-huh. So why do you keep running the same refrain ... Views: 1543
I recently read an article that stated, according to research, despite unemployment and any number of economic and social indicators to the contrary, 80% of the population holds “unrealistic, optimistic beliefs” about their own future.
It really got me to thinking about the two sides of ... Views: 1658
So, your 30th birthday has come and gone and you are trying to define for yourself what it means to be a single woman who doesn't have children. Sound familiar? If so, you are probably already aware of how society can, at times, make you believe that something is missing from your life if you do ... Views: 2574
Like all marketing tasks, performing an appointment setting campaign does have its challenges. Perhaps, on your own, you will not be able to do it right. But that should not be a problem, since you can outsource it to a competent lead generation agency. Still, it is still your job to know more ... Views: 1448
How much is enough and how much is too much? Learning to stand in our power teaches us a delicate balance at the most advanced levels.
As a standard of practice we are never taught how to become intuitively aware of non-verbal communication. Most leaders just go blasting their way into the ... Views: 1631
The effective use of personal energy is something we are never taught when we are growing up, yet it can make all the difference both in our personal success as well as the business success in our life.
Emily, during a recent retreat at Epona Ridge, had an opportunity to work with Cierba who ... Views: 1817
In a perfect world, each area of your life would balance out neatly. You’d work from 9 to 5 each day, take an hour-long lunch, and then come home and spend uninterrupted quality time with your family, and of course there would be plenty of time to exercise and indulge in hobbies or favorite ... Views: 1442
Before a recent massage session, my massage therapist (Mary Rose Lam) told me how she made a horrible mess that morning.
She accidentally spilled her blueberry smoothie all over her gray carpet. That left a big green stain. She was frustrated but told the story with a smile. I hadn't been ... Views: 1779
Finding a Story for a Specific Communication Purpose
Tom had a major presentation coming up in less than a week, and he was concerned. This presentation was important not only for his team and his company, but also for his career.
He knew that if he did well it would make all the ... Views: 892
The Wordallogic: Love or Security - A Personal Decision
by Aleasa M. Word
Copyright 2012 All Rights Reserved
Each day we are faced with choices. Sometimes it’s very hard to decide which road to travel on. On second thought forget that I said sometimes and instead replace that with most of ... Views: 1516
“The enemy is fear. We think it is hate; but, it is fear.”
Mahatma Gandhi
There are basically two major motivators in our lives, fear and love. The problem is that fear is the one that we predominantly use to dictate what decisions and what direction we are going to take in our lives. When ... Views: 1742
Diving can be Recreational or Technical. Diving in Arctic and Tropical Waters is classified as Technical and Recreational Diving respectively. It is a fact that the selection of Diving Gear is based on the specifics one is going to do, whether it is for Recreational purpose or to gain some ... Views: 926
Dear Bully,
What makes you think you can treat other people the way that you do?
What inside you tells you it is OK to ridicule, push around and threaten those that cross your path?
What do you gain from it? Do you really get that? Or are you fooling yourself?
I want to tell you ... Views: 1630
I have conquered my fear of heights!
For years my story was that I was scared of heights. Whenever I was in a place high enough where you could look down my heart would pump faster, my knees would get weak and I could barely breathe.
My most vivid memory of my fear of heights was when I ... Views: 6398
Some people come upon their life path quite early in life, or at least they happen upon it, but for others it isn't so easy...
Like many of us, I was a "victim" of circumstances. I had my first spinal fusion while I was in Grade 12 and that pretty much changed the course of my life... instead ... Views: 1685
When you are busy getting tasks done but you don’t get it all done are you hard on yourself, thinking you are a failure? Stop being so hard on yourself and start using a planner to help you accomplish more that you want to do guilt free.
I lift weights at the gym 5 days a week. My gym ... Views: 1645
“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” ~ John F. Kennedy
The Jewish High Holy Days have come and gone for another year. During this time of introspection, I considered the dreaded words of our prayer book, ... Views: 2336
Depression and life experiences
Feeling depressed lately?
At any one time or other we all have had some feeling of depression.
This feeling that things are not going the way we want it to be and there is nothing we can do about it. We feel boxed in, as if there is no desire to do ... Views: 1246
HUSBAND / WIFE
The Real Wife—
Teaches her children to love and serve God always
Honors her husband and loves him sacrificially
Engages in learning activities that promote holiness in her marriage
Redeems and restores her husband when he falls out of grace
Expects her husband to be her ... Views: 1778
HEALTH / HEALING
We squander health
In search of wealth;
we scheme and toil, and save,
then squander wealth In search of health;
and all we get is the grave.
The system has made us secondary with our primary care physician.
Sugar and spice are not very nice.
Health begins with a good ... Views: 1515
The secret is out on how to achieve life goals… Those who write their goals accomplish significantly more than those who do not write their goals.
What’s more, in a recent study at Dominican University, it was shown that those who wrote down their specific goals and elicited the help of a ... Views: 1721
What’s humor got to do with it?
Don’t take your self so seriously. You’ll not get out of this world alive.
One’s sense of humor involves the capacity to appreciate incongruity, absurdity, an unexpected future, a pleasant surprise, or a startle.
Humor helps soften life’s blows. For instance ... Views: 1415
"Some things simply are. There are no explanations, no logic, simply a reality that is many times beyond control. Sometimes, we must find our own inner strength, our own place from which to draw the courage and fortitude necessary to allow us to live and move beyond that which is painful. Other ... Views: 2956
As a member of The National Writers Union for many years, I have been aware of the problems experienced by educated, professional writers. Many have been deprived of their contracted fees. Others have had their writing plagiarized or syndicated without their consent and without payment to the ... Views: 1906
IT lead generation is tough work, there is no mistaking it. The number of experienced appointment setters that can generate sales leads is dwindling, making competition for top talent fiercer. For a simple IT consulting services provider, how will they be able to compete on this? Well, you might ... Views: 1040
"One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman."
Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex (1949)
With same-sex marriage becoming a legal reality throughout the world, many more children are going to be raised by homosexual (gay and lesbian) parents, or even bytransgendered or transsexual ones. ... Views: 1757
Did you ever just “get it?” You know what I mean, right? There’s some thing that you thought you understood; you’ve heard it a bazillion times, agreed with, repeated it to other people, maybe even taught it. Then, in a moment, it comes to you in a slightly different way and you embody it. That ... Views: 1118
COMMITMENT
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, ... Views: 2698
CHANGE
Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or ‘present are certain to miss the future.
—John F. Kennedy
Someone was hurt before you, wronged before you, hungry before you, frightened before you, beaten before you, humiliated before you, raped before you… yet, ... Views: 3086
BETTER
It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.
—Buddha
Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you ... Views: 2809
Working mommy guilt can be one of the biggest drawbacks to working outside of the home. However, I want to assure you that this does NOT have to be the case! In fact, guilt is completely unnecessary and a waste or your precious (and very limited) energy.
Why do so many working mothers ... Views: 1527
How would you like to be happier with your life and happier overall in five simple steps? Did you know that happiness is 50 % genetics and depending on who´s formula you follow the rest is a combination of your circumstances, your attitude and what you choose to fill your day with. When you are ... Views: 1923
Friends are an important part of a person's life. So it's worth asking ourselves: How many friends can a person realistically have? Thus, we can set the right expectations for ourselves in building a social life and attain the best results.
On social media website like Facebook, you can have ... Views: 1918
No matter how near or how far; you inspire me. No matter how rich or how poor you are; you inspire me. No matter what language you speak; you inspire me. No matter the color of your skin; you inspire me.
No matter if you have new clothes or if they’re worn thin; you inspire me. No matter ... Views: 1575
It is a fact that the information technology market is very challenging, what with competition trying to one up the other in a very discerning market. That is why you need to have a method of gaining more sales leads coming your way. So, how will you do that? Simply put, it will be through a ... Views: 940
One thing that you should remember in your lead generation campaign is that selling is not an inborn talent. It can be nurtured in almost anyone. What you need are the proper tools and methodology to maximize the learning curve of your potential sales people. You need them to be in their top ... Views: 2266
Generally, failure is viewed as something negative. For those experiencing it, it may become the end of the road and therein lies the monster for simply, fear of failing again may cause a reluctance to move on.
It is said that success is failure turned inside out. Thus, far from being ... Views: 4892
There's a moment when negative thoughts arise in your head, unbidden. In that moment, you need to decide how you are going to think about a given situation or person. You know what I'm talking about. It's that moment where you feel the urge to indulge in a negative thought or say a negative ... Views: 1575
Lead generation is tough work, that is a given. And if you do not have the skills to arrange a meeting with prospects, you might as well leave it to those who can. That is why outsourced appointment setting has become a very popular work. Even so, you must be careful over this task. The people ... Views: 5845
There is a saying “you cannot be mad in nature.” You may start out being upset, but as you walk amongst the tall oak trees and pines, nature brings peace to your soul. As you walk further you hear things; a squirrel running, birds chirping and the sound of water from a nearby creek. Being in ... Views: 1613
Transitions tend to be a time when we are very emotional. Part of the problem, then, is that we're not staying present if we're stuck in our emotional roller coaster. I hesitate to use the phrase "staying present" because it is so overused and people tend to glaze over when they hear that. But, ... Views: 1612
If you or someone you know has been arrested in California for a crime and is placed in jail, it is important you to know what your options are for posting bail. Many people are unprepared for thewhole experience; not only is there the severity of actually being arrested, but it is also the ... Views: 801
Professional resume services offered by well trained and qualified individuals, by some people, are thought to be not needed and not worth the price. Well, I guess my first question might be, "Are you interested in gambling with your future on developing your own resume?"
That wonderful ... Views: 1518
Ever wondered how you can get good sales leads? That is the question that is foremost in the minds of a lot of IT consulting services. It is a fact that IT infrastructure and services play a key role in supporting a myriad of business operations, and they are constantly changing. This opens up ... Views: 902
You might be thinking, wait, isn't happiness the same thing as quality of life? No. Quality of life is an attempt to describe material comforts and subjective ones as well, which includes happiness.
When looked at this way, it seems that happiness is the cornerstone of quality of life, the ... Views: 827
"Then I was standing on the highest mountain of them all, and round about beneath me was the whole hoop of the world. And while I stood there I saw more than I can tell and I understood more than I saw; for I was seeing in a Sacred manner the shapes of all things in the Spirit, and the shape of ... Views: 2019
Does “Need” have a place in personal goal-setting?
Meet Beth Ann…
Beth Ann looks in the mirror and does not like what she sees. “I am so fat.” she says to herself in a whisper. She feels angry and hopeless. In that moment she thinks that she cannot continue to go on like this and decides ... Views: 3573
Our overweight society is always trying to find a quick and easy fix to the weight loss craze. A Non-Diet weight loss approach does not always seem like a popular solution because it is not one of “Instant Gratification”, but let’s see how we can make it work for you!
The Non-Diet Approach is ... Views: 1514
Workplace fires are much more dangerous than a home fire because they can be so unpredictable. Any given workplace may contain hazardous materials, chemicals, tools, machines, extensive lighting systems, equipment, machines from photocopies to dishwasher to forklifts, and much, much more. Each ... Views: 829
Question #1: Yahweh (Jehovah) God Almighty operates on this principle in His justice system: "You must take life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burning for burning, wound for wound, and bruise for bruise." (Exodus 21:23-25). What does this principle ... Views: 3849