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Failure is an interesting taskmaster. It either wearies us, or it empowers us. Without the lessons failure brings, the successes will be few.
John Keats wrote,
"Failure is, in a sense, the highway to success, inasmuch as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what ... Views: 1275
Much like the California gold rush back in the day where not many people were enthusiastic about finding gold until the initial few actually gained the Midas touch, the internet has had its share of spam sites, programs, courses and jobs that have cheated many. Don’t let that deter you though; ... Views: 1346
The Boss sings about it. Self help gurus write about it. Setting goals is the ideal way to live your best life and most of my clients get that. However, how do you get to the point where you get that gusto to want to be a goal setting machine?
The bottom line is, exactly how do you find ... Views: 5793
Each of us has our own way of life, "indifferences" as they call it. But the reality is that even how different we are and the way we live, there are universal truths, values and principles that are governing our world. These truths are both simple and general that if you try to learn and apply ... Views: 1319
Enlightening quotes are the best source for gaining inspiration. These type of quotes are available in the quotation dictionary and quotation treasures. Enlightening quotes can be in different category and my favorite category is life quotes. The reason I love life quotes is because it gives us ... Views: 5646
INTRODUCTION
You don’t ask the river “How often does your water flow’…
Because if the river is healthy, its water will flow all the time. All day, every day.
It is only when there is a block and the flow stops that its waters become stagnant, its crystalline clarity goes and the life in ... Views: 1592
I have a love-hate relationship to conflict. I love it when things “work out,” but hate it when they don’t. My fear of things not working out, of people’s feelings getting hurt, or of me losing something important are usually high on my list of justifications for not saying certain things, not ... Views: 1291
Going From The “What To Do” To “How To Do It” Level Of Self Growth
By
Bill Cottringer
“Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow - that is patience.” ~anonymous.
The common purpose of life for us all seems to be ... Views: 1532
Some people may find it odd that I, a woman in my 30’s, who has never been married choices a couple’s therapist as one of my greatest idols. His name is Harville Hendrix, PhD. He is the author of the bestselling book, “Getting the Love You Want” and co- founder of Imago Therapy that was ... Views: 1359
Happiness is not living in a fool s promised land. It is not Living in oneself unaware of outside world. Life is not a layer of rosebushes. Here one has to sputter and combat for justice. All our activities are with a opinion to such outcomes. But ofttimes we neglect to attain that result. ... Views: 2871
What is “Second Chance Living”?
It is having another opportunity to start your life, love, happiness and success stories all over again.
When I teach on second chance living, many people come and make the claim that their second chance has already come and gone. Not so, second chance ... Views: 1636
Just because you can’t seem to lose weight doesn’t mean you have no willpower.
That’s one of the primary messages Dr. Eric Berg, a nutritional researcher and weight loss expert (www.findyourbodytype.com), has for dieters. His belief, borne out through both research and practical application, ... Views: 754
Introduction:
Selling Self help Ebooks is big business.
It seems that millions of people, just like you and me, are seeking ways to improve their lot in life.
They are looking for ways to make life changes, to make their life work. They are hoping to feel better about ... Views: 1428
People become victims of drug misuse for another and often mysterious reason. But whatever these reasons out are, it is positive that this trouble shipwrecks havoc in the biographies of its dupes and the society. It is tested that there is a association between the increasing crime rate and ... Views: 978
How did you start your day today? When you leaped – or dragged yourself – out of bed, were you ready and alert for all the wonderful opportunities that today will offer, or did you slouch, on automatic pilot, to the bathroom in the normal early morning daze. If, of course, you were awoken by an ... Views: 2849
As we embark on another new year of life, I find myself experiencing a mixture of emotions about 2010. I’m excited about the possibilities of this New Year and inspired by the energy of creation that exists at this special time. Similar to last week, there is a magical quality to this first ... Views: 1338
Have you ever been in a car accident? It is not a pleasurable experience and it could result in considerable damages and injuries to you or someone else. I bring this topic up because it has become interesting to me to observe the different ways that we drive our vehicles and how it could affect ... Views: 1177
Did you ever stop to think about all the people that come into your life?
In our ever-evolving society, even the most timid, reserved or reclusive person has several people contacting and connecting with him/her every day. Whether it is telephone, Internet, fax, or a direct contact, people are ... Views: 1197
Step One found you having a love affair with yourself.
Step Two was about writing your own affirmations to help you stay positive.
Step Three got you off the sofa and exercising your right to be fit and trim.
Step Four was all about taking the time to meditate and getting centered in ... Views: 1206
Step One found you having a love affair with yourself.
Step Two was about writing your own affirmations to help you stay positive.
Step Three got you off the sofa and exercising your right to be fit and trim.
Step Four was all about taking the time to meditate and getting centered in ... Views: 1209
Step One found you having a love affair with yourself.
Step Two was about writing affirmations to help you stay positive.
Step Three got you off the sofa and exercising your right to be fit and trim.
Step Four was all about taking the time to meditate and getting centered in your ... Views: 1157
Step One found you having a love affair with yourself. Step Two was all about writing your own bestseller – affirmations that keep you going even on the days when everything, including the car (or cat or toddler), overheats. Step Three got you off the sofa and exercising your right to be fit ... Views: 1292
So are you enjoying the view from the top? Elevation in one’s life does have its rewards besides living above the smog. It is the freedom to baste in the beauty that is moi – the mind that continues to amaze, the body that struts its stuff and is adored by the mind and the soul that lovingly ... Views: 1203
I am a fan of happiness. I like to read about it, write about it, teach it and live it! Happiness comes easily to me but I understand that that isn't the case for everyone. I've come up with what I think is the exact formula needed.
Excitement + Freedom + Joy + Inspiration + Love = ... Views: 2860
In an episode of the Biggest Loser, the contestants were challenged to run a race. The race wasn’t designed to be a simple undertaking. Each participant was required to wear a special belt. Attached to these belts were weights in increments of the amount of weight they each had lost over the ... Views: 1865
Positive, Possibility, Power Thinking – How to Integrate It Into Your Life
By Karl W. Gruber
I have long been a disciple of the philosophy of Positive Thinking (beginning, of course, with Dr. Norman Vincent Peale in the early 20th. century), and many other great inspirational thinkers and ... Views: 1480
My friend Mano Watsa is more than a basketball player. He was a four-time OUA Conference All-Star, two-time All-Canadian point guard and captain for the University of Waterloo. In 1999 he toured with the USA Athletes In Action team, was awarded the National TSN Award for combining excellence in ... Views: 1453
Happy, happy New Year!
If you are like me you cannot wait to let go of 2009 and all the garbage that came with it (and did there not seem to be more in 2009 then any other year???) then take today to reflect and let go of everything negative and upsetting and just down right sucky from 2009 ... Views: 1477
I love the New Year. I feel like I am the threshold of a new year. I am glad that there is a week between Christmas and the New Year because it gives me a chance to recover, regroup, and rethink. Of course, I would like to think of a new year as a fresh, blank, Big Chief Tablet to write ... Views: 2535
Did you know that you are ten times more likely to make a change in your life by setting a New Year's resolution than someone who does not set one? That gives you pretty good odds to stack against making no resolution this year at all. You are even more likely to achieve your goals if you write ... Views: 1114
These few days before the start of the new year have a magical and sacred quality to them. I appreciate the lull in activity that often takes place this week and the opportunity we have to reflect back on the year that is ending, as well as to create new possibilities and intentions for the ... Views: 1269
As the holidays come and go, one of the most popular remakes we see on network television is the holiday classic called A Christmas Carol. Kelsey Grammar sings about days past in the musical, Vanessa Williams reconnects with her long lost friends while Susan Lucci discovers what a Grinch she ... Views: 2067
Flaming is the name given to abusive attacks by email. I've been working on the Internet for several years now and it is very, very seldom that I run into this kind of situation. Less than 24 hours ago, I was flamed.
This flaming gave me pause for consideration. In fact, it ruined most of my ... Views: 1359
Over the passed 35 years I have had so many jobs I can’t count them. And I am still not in the right career. Somehow I was never satisfied doing office work. There was always something missing. I don't belong in an office! At 60 I was asking where do I belong?
It's been a life ... Views: 1128
Maintaining Contact with your Diamond Consciousness in these Accelerated Times
Imagine a world in which we are all Connected and Vertically Aligned with our Authentic Diamond Self and our Soul’s Divine Purpose, saying “YES” to living fulfilled, purposeful lives…creating the Wealth of Being ... Views: 3233
What are you giving for the holidays? You may be making lists, shopping like crazy, or trying your hand at things home made this year. I'd like to offer another choice.
The very sudden passing of the husband of a dear friend has caused me to go back to the roots of my business. The subject of ... Views: 1150
This is Part 3 of a 5 part series addressing the delicate issue of asking an elderly parent to retire from their driving career. In our previous article "Giving Up the Keys…Who Should Do the Talking?” we discussed “who” should actually participate in the conversation of driving cessation. ... Views: 1486
A powerful symbol, the Inuksuk, stands as a guide to the Inuit tribe of the Canadian Arctic. Built of stones it is a messenger to those who cross the barren tundra of these lands; a signpost where food is stored or shelter can be found; a map to help arctic travelers navigate safely across the ... Views: 2464
In my professional business coaching practice, I encourage clients to take intentional steps to bring an attitude of gratitude into their life. One very effective way is to begin a gratitude journal. The homework I give to clients is to set aside 10-15 minutes each day to write the things for ... Views: 1315
Along with listing and writing Christmas cards is the list of guest we’re inviting over during the holidays. “Gee, this year the Butterfields and Hamburgs are coming. I must put my best foot forward. You know everyone will be talking about how lavishly I entertain my guest. Have to make a ... Views: 1249
Hi everyone, the last month for me, was filled with numerous experiences I perceived as challenges which tested the level of faith I have in my path, process and what I’m doing, and as such I felt compelled to write about this topic. I figure there are many more out there that are going through ... Views: 2515
Silence A word so powerful it can bring fear or peace; happiness or loneliness; confusion or understanding. A silent world can be a lonely world. Fear that slowly enters the mind can have a profound impact on the existence in a silent world. A siege of negative emotion can flood a time, ... Views: 838
In Feng Shui, as in life, certain factors or areas must take priority over others. In Feng Shui, the three most important areas of a home or apartment are:
- the main door
- the kitchen
- the bedroom
If positive energy (chi) collects outside and flows into these spaces, you’ll bring ... Views: 959
Usually when we think of clutter, we're referring to stuff seeping out of basements and closets and garages. We all have things we don't use anymore, whether it's clothes, toys, old gifts, knickknacks, and odds and ends. Most of the time our clutter ends up in piles and we forget what is ... Views: 2293
Chasing happiness has become an all too common practice in our modern world. If it is not the promotion we are chasing it is the boat or the car. Why is it that many of us are always in pursuit of those last few pieces of our lives that we believe will give us our ideal life? Why is it that ... Views: 1265
Studies show that teenagers today are lying more. They are cheating and stealing more, too. The latest Report Card on the Ethics of American Youth, by the Josephson Institute of Ethics, shows teens are lying more often and more easily than ever. The report indicates an increase in lying, ... Views: 2108
Dealing with idiots is hard. Its one of the hardest areas of my life. Now, before we go any further, yes I realize that seeing someone as an idiot is part of the problem. I am using my phrasing the way I am just because we can all identify with the sentiment. Its has more a draw than “dealing ... Views: 5139
My Ghetto Roots and Why I Like It That Way
Oh, you poor thing, you grew up in that terrible ghetto.
Wrong! We ghettoites have a secret advantage, the same advantage the weeds have over the cultivated posies, the same advantage wild animals have over ones of the same species who were ... Views: 2988
Life can be challenging. Oprah Winfrey allowed us different “lenses” in which to examine this challenging life through. We are appreciative of this on many levels. Her entrée to the entertainment industry allowed several barriers to be removed and Oprah has continued to remove the darkness ... Views: 2690