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The sensitivity to rejection is psychological and this is actually over sensitivity to the rejection procedure from anyone and this happens to people who are in a neurotic state of mind. The borderline cases of neurotic disorder are all about the suffering of the person who are working ... Views: 1325
When conflict arises, are you the person who's quick to apologize, wanting to sweep everything under the rug so the tension goes away? Or are you the one who tends to hold that hurt for a while, allowing the offensive words to gain a life of their own?
Most of us identify with one approach ... Views: 1323
Infidelity is a huge problem in marriages and occurs within 30-60% of marriages at some time. It does not JUST happen. It is a symptom – not a cause. Cheating can occur for a number of reasons. Depression, boredom, lack of sexual intimacy, and need for excitement, are a just a few reasons that ... Views: 1321
Dr. Romance writes:
In my clinical experience, I've encountered many clients who are afraid to admit they're wrong. This comes from a culture of blaming and accusing -- where one's early family may have picked a "culprit" when something went wrong, and focused on blame, rather than ... Views: 1320
A patient once asked me “how do you forgive someone who has hurt you?”
In order to go forward, you must come to terms with your past. Some of what has happened in your past, we must forgive. Whether it be a parent, sibling, or significant other, bad things can happen that are difficult to move ... Views: 1320
“How to get someone quickly?” is the question every person ask after breakup.
From T.V series to movies we all heard that the relationship is about a bicycle-based on two wheels. Here we discuss all information about “How to get someone quickly?”
If anyone of the wheels is damaged or ... Views: 1320
We've all heard the phrase "opposites attract." But what happens when that happy union of opposites starts to rub you the wrong way?
At my Soul Blazing Sanctuary, I often work with couples where one person is very intellectual and not interested in social activities, while the other person is ... Views: 1320
Today we continue with part two of our five part series on “turning your life around”. We began last week with the building – and for many the rebuilding – of your personal foundation. What do you, as an individual, stand on? Now we are here to learn the next step that is as vital as that of ... Views: 1319
What is the first thing you do when you realize you’ve made a mistake or let yourself down?
You know what I’m talking about. Maybe you said you would be somewhere for someone, and then you forgot. Or, you want to lose weight, but you couldn’t resist that piece of chocolate cake last night. ... Views: 1314
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Letting Go - by Kasia Jarosinska (www.spiritualshifts.com)
I’d like to discuss a popular concept in modern spirituality: “Letting Go”. This is the idea that we must release something that no longer serves us. In theory, “Letting Go” beholds within itself the necessary components for relief, moving on and healing. The reality is, that letting go is a ... Views: 1309
Have you ever wondered what it takes to create good church logos? Frankly speaking,NOTHING. Yes it does not take anything to make religious identities that are at their best. A Religion is pure, simple, divine, ethereal and spiritual then obviously a religious representation should fork up the ... Views: 1305
Service Industries are tertiary industries dealing with the provision of services to business and consumers; thus, it is a necessity for the service industry to adopt Industrial corporate identity that rightly portrays its corporate message. Service logo designs should be designed according to ... Views: 1304
People all around us love to maintain their relationships in its most healthier manner, and they used to follow various tips and techniques to manage it in the perfect way. There are various factors which play their crucial role in determining the success of any relationship, and one such ... Views: 1303
Usually after a terrible event in our lives, we tend to blame everybody else, or even God, or the Universe. I did this too, mainly after relationship break-ups. I knew that this was not the right thing to do, but still, I had all this anger against the unfairness of the situation.
This is so ... Views: 1302
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Healing Your Family - by Candace Czarny CFM, ASID, LEED AP, Subtle Energy Expert
Hopefully when a person thinks about family, they feel warm and loved unconditionally. We all know that unfortunately that isn’t always the case. If you feel like your family and home could stand to be more accommodating to the goals you have in mind for your family, it may be time to consider ... Views: 1299
So what does divorce for men really entail? Well for those who haven’t experienced it yet, it can be quite difficult to explain. Those who have however will tell you that it’s one of the most painful, difficult, traumatizing, and confusing experiences you will ever have to deal with in your ... Views: 1298
Forgiveness has been around for thousands of years. It is mentioned and/or discussed in sacred writings of many religions. So it is well grounded in the realm of spiritual teachings. Up until recently, the fact that forgiveness was a tenet of religion was enough for most people. One forgave ... Views: 1295
I call this the other "F" word.
No, not because it is insulting or deragoratory in any way. It is just that it has so much charge associated with it, almost like the word "God". Many people are turned off by it, and some people get defensive when this word is mentioned as a possibility to ... Views: 1294
You want to get your ex boyfriend back and will do almost anything just for that to happen. The pain of not seeing and speaking to him is killing you slowly. Does that describe your situation today? This article will show you some really quick tips that will get him to return to you sooner than ... Views: 1289
When conflict with your partner escalates to anger, name calling, slamming doors and irreparable damage it may be time to take a closer look at what is really going on. I get asked frequently how to fight fair without saying hurtful things that can not be taken back. Most likely something is ... Views: 1287
The first thing that you must do is to divorce your mind of all hostility. Hostility in your mind will come through in your conversation, attitude, and demeanor even if you try to hide it. The best way to handle this is to just divorce your mind of all negative thoughts about the person that you ... Views: 1287
Have you ever danced with someone who was in total control, who knew exactly when to turn and step to create a flowing movement of beauty and grace? When you allow the other person to lead, you accept their guidance and give up control. And together, you create a joyous sequence of steps that ... Views: 1286
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm a 32 yr old man who is lost when it comes to relationships. I just had a chance with a nice woman which I subconsciously messed up. I didn't accept her for who she was . I was controlling, verbally abusive, and not compassionate with her. The ... Views: 1280
What do you do when you love more than one person in your life, but they are at odds with each other, and you find yourself torn between them?
It's a pretty common scenario. For one reason or another, a daughter or son doesn't approve of who you, as a divorced person, are dating. A mother or ... Views: 1278
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This is similar to a sample of one lesson of Spirit Quest. This really isone in every of 30 unique discourses you will collect every week as part of your mail account in the event you buy this seminary course. At the conclusion with theprogram, you are going to be sent a Master of ... Views: 1275
What triggers your mind when you think of the profession of dentistry?
Money and money! This word is often consociated with this particular profession; this is the reason; every single student wants to be a tooth doctor. Undoubtedly, loads of tooth doctors in the city would bring loads of ... Views: 1274
There is an old proverb that says: If you love someone set them free.
If they come back to you it was meant to be.
For years I thought this quote was about letting go in our relationships. Not holding on too tight, giving them freedom to leave without being possessive or controlling.
OK, ... Views: 1274
My upstairs neighbors are moving out today.
I wasn't aware of their impending departure until around eight o'clock this morning when the hustle and bustle of furniture and belongings exiting the building began. I have to say I feel a little sad at the thought, even though I would have to ... Views: 1273
As a child, I loved to hear and read stories. Mythical creatures with magical powers, Kings and Queens and their children (of course I was the Princess!) and the Knights of the Round Table. How I loved to read about King Arthur and his Camelot. But for some reason, I always identified with the ... Views: 1273
“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” - Lewis B. Smedes
Negative emotions consume you. They keep you from experiencing the good you desire, the good that is rightfully yours. Stored up negative emotions of anger, regret, resentment, and sorrow can ... Views: 1273
I am often asked why I write these journal entries or articles on a monthly basis and not long ago I would have probably thought that I would be silly to do such a thing. Oh well, I have changed and it is what it is. I would not call myself an author, but just someone who enjoys speaking with ... Views: 1273
Some people will complain that “all men cheat” or that it’s just hard-coded into their genetics. However, these sweeping generalization are usually no more than the diatribes of the bitter and scorned. If you’ve been cheated on, it may make you feel better to say something like this, but deep ... Views: 1271
Sometimes our perceptions can get us into trouble. What appears so clearly to be our reality may not be real at all. Or it may be partially correct, but not the whole picture. We humans have a tendency to interpret our partial experiences as the whole truth and ignore other people's partial ... Views: 1267
Dear Dr. Romance:
My husband left me this past April. We are in our early twenties and we have been together since we were teenagers. We grew together so well, until he left me. He is Hispanic and very dominating and controlling. He wants to call all the shots and refuses to compromise. I ... Views: 1267
Sometimes the best way to say something is the way someone more literary than you has said it. In that vein, here are some relationship quotes of note:
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks ... Views: 1266
Who under the age of 13 hasn’t had their heart broken by someone breaking up with them? I would venture to say, no one. It happens; usually more than once. But we cannot exist without love. And love does not exist without heartbreak. That’s just the way it is. So . . . someone broke up with you! ... Views: 1263
The Power of Forgiveness
True forgiveness is powerful. Like the truth, true forgiveness sets you free. It has this remarkable ability to lift weight from your shoulders; it enables freedom to feel without fear. Forgiveness can give you back your life, or just fill a hole where pain had ... Views: 1263
In life it is easy to get this the wrong way around and remember all too easily the things that do not matter whilst overlooking the things that do really matter. We tend to tie ourselves up in knots when thinking about silly little things instead of focusing upon things that have far greater ... Views: 1259
Morality is inbuilt in every individual, but sometimes, due to various external pressures and temptations, you will be compelled to say a big blatant NO to ethical values and moral sciences. It will be only one night, but the mistake which you have committed for that small span of time may haunt ... Views: 1259
Finance is the science to manage funds that involve money transactions with time and risk being its key areas; thus, financial logos should be designed in a way which depicts trustworthiness and loyalty of a finance related business. These brand marks should represent the financial company or ... Views: 1258
It’s the Release That Teaches!
“That’s not fair!”
“You promised!”
“Why won’t you listen to me?”
“Why should I change, what about You?”
*Are you tired of the same old stuff day in and day out?
*Are you sick of being the only one who is changing?
*Do you wish people would simply “Get ... Views: 1256
One of the core elements of mindfulness is learning how to identify where emotions are occurring in the body. Emotion is not just an experience of the mind, after all. It is a visceral, whole-self experience. And when you can notice and become aware of the emotions in your body, you can treat ... Views: 1256
Dear Dr. Romance:
I recently read your No Cooperation? Solve it Yourself! If I am to solve the problem for myself won't that just create resentment that the other party is unwilling to help?
Dear Reader:
Well, you could choose to be resentful, or you could focus on how great ... Views: 1255
Many of us are prone to hold on to our failures; as a result of our own tendency to do so, we inadvertently think that God also holds on to our failures and treats us accordingly.
There is no doubt that, at times, we suffer in our current circumstances due to a prior failure. For example, ... Views: 1254
When you try to win ex boyfriend back you may feel like you need to go begging on your hands and knees. You may feel that you have to lower yourself and lose every bit of pride that you have. The breakup may have gone a long way towards hurting your pride as it is, there is no need to further ... Views: 1253
If you have made a mistake in your relationship remember that it is not the end of the world. You can repair things if you are willing to work.
First of all look at yourself in the mirror and admit to yourself that you have made a mistake. Denial of wrong doing is the greatest mistake that we ... Views: 1252
Live forgiveness every day rather than just talk about it on Sunday. – Author unknown
Those Sunday talkers…
In addition to practicing forgiveness, a person who practices acceptance, being accountable and emulating love, is authentic.
As a kid and as a young adult I could never ... Views: 1251
Learn to practice awareness of intent, to move out of your painful feelings and into your inner peace.
Those of you who have been practicing Inner Bonding know that the basis of the Inner Bonding process is the intent to learn about loving yourself and others.
It is the intent to learn ... Views: 1250
Zzzzziiiiiip...CRASH!...and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al's Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window…followed by a shrill and sobbing "GET OUT!...GET OUT!...GET OooooUT!"
See, IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart…he had ... Views: 1250
A relationship is similar to a amusement park ride. You'll notice downs and ups, round and round, backwards and forwards, and even sideways. Occasionally the ride is dull. In other cases it can be exciting; and in some cases it can be frightening. However, you'll also find instances when the ... Views: 1245