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- How To Work On A Marriage During Separation: Saving A Marriage After Separation - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2018 from Henry JosephHow To Work On A Marriage During Separation: Saving A Marriage After Separation I sometimes hear from panicked folks who worry that their trial separation is going to mean that they can't save their marriage. They are often concerned that since they are no longer living with their spouse, ...
Views: 2978 - ***To Date A Beater or Not? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Teagin Maddox,Any man who hits a woman is not a man who can be trained not to hit a woman; it is one of the lowest things a man can do. It cannot be undone, and it cannot be explained; he will not grow out of it or find someone whom he won’t abuse. His aggression speaks to his raw character and tells you ...
Views: 2974(3 votes) - Emotional Abuse: Beneath Your Radar? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2010 from Darlene LancerThere are three million cases of domestic violence reported each year. Many more go unreported. Emotional abuse precedes violence, but is rarely discussed. Although both men and women may abuse others, an enormous number of women are subjected to emotional abuse. Unfortunately, many don’t even ...
Views: 2974(3 votes) - Jealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyJealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners Is jealousy a problem in your relationship? Does it keep you awake at nights? Are you experiencing feelings of insecurity and even low self esteem because you feel so jealous over your partner? Then here is the only choice you have if ...
Views: 2966 - ***Ending Cycles Of Violence: What Part Will You Play? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2014 from Grace ChattingI recently had an email from one of my readers, who felt very irate about what he described as the “M” omission in my articles on abusive relationships. He went on to explain that although he agreed with WHAT I said about abusive relationships, in his view it had all been said ...
Views: 2959(1 vote) - Women Battering Men - The Other Side of DOMESTIC ABUSE - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Roni Weisberg-RossLet’s begin by talking about Domestic Abuse in general - how it is regarded and dealt with in our culture. As a psych intern I was taught that we must report Child Abuse, Elder Abuse, a credible threat by one individual to physically harm another or a credible threat by an individual to ...
Views: 2948 - My Husband Ignores Me Sexually: Being Sexually Rejected By Husband - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Ignores Me Sexually: Being Sexually Rejected By Husband So you find your husband doesn't want to have sex? That indeed is amazing to you because when you were first married, all you had to do was "show up," and he was ready. The last thing you thought would happen to the two of you ...
Views: 2938 - Ex Boyfriend Won't Return My Belongings: Why Hasn't He Returned My Things - by Submitted on May 25, 2019 from Amora StevieEx Boyfriend Won't Return My Belongings: Why Hasn't He Returned My Things We all give off signals when we like someone and when we don't, so the key to figuring out if he still wants you is to learn to read those signals. It is important for you to remember that just because the two of you ...
Views: 2935 - I Think My Wife Hates Me: My Wife Hates Me but I Love Her - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Think My Wife Hates Me: My Wife Hates Me but I Love Her "I think my wife hates me," said the man unsure of what was going on in his marriage. Hate is a pretty strong word. Typically it doesn't have a place in a marriage but you may definitely be sensing that your wife has started to feel ...
Views: 2934 - Why Women Dump Men - Do You Know Why She Left You? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeIf you really stop and think about it you might still have a difficult time figuring out why women dump men. That's because many men still find women to be a huge mystery. It's part of their charm most of the time but in moments like these can be the bane of your existence. The good news is that ...
Views: 2926(1 vote) - Abused Children: Do Abused Children Need To Forgive Their Parents? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to moving on and letting go of an abusive past, it is not uncommon to hear that one needs to forgive. The act of forgiveness is highly regarded by many people and in numerous schools of thought. Religion has also espoused this outlook from the very beginning. So is it really a ...
Views: 2925 - My Family Doesn't Like My Husband: My Family Hates My Husband - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Family Doesn't Like My Husband: My Family Hates My Husband I have no idea how many age old dilemmas exist, but I'm sure there's a mountain of them. One of those ugly dilemmas is when you are married to someone your family says they don't like. Honestly, my heart goes out to you, because if ...
Views: 2921 - Misunderstanding Abusive Men Like Chris Brown - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Teagin Maddox,An article about Chris Brown captured my attention recently because of the title, "The Real Reason Everybody Hates Chris... Brown, That Is (It's Not Why You Think)". It was written by Keli Goff, an Author, Commentator, and Contributing Editor at TheLoop.21.com. She also appears as a regular ...
Views: 2917(4 votes) - Abusive Relationships: Changing Your Victim Mentality - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2012 from Karla DowningAbusive relationships challenge our ability to take care of ourselves and leave us feeling victimized. It is important that you work on changing your victim mentality. Many of us complain that we are victims in our relationships. By claiming we are victims, we are giving up our power to do ...
Views: 2915 - How To Beat a Sociopath at His Own Dating Game! - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2015 from Dr. Anne BrownRemember Sociopaths are opportunists and you are at risk for being that opportunity for him. I need five commitments from you if you want to avoid the wake of destruction that comes from dating a Sociopath. 1. Commitment to your Heart: Healing a broken heart takes time in pain and sorrow. ...
Views: 2902 - How To Deal With In Laws Who Don't Like You: Husbands Family Treats Me Like An Outsider - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Deal With In Laws Who Don't Like You: Husbands Family Treats Me Like An Outsider Marriage comes with it the challenge to deal with your in-laws. Whether you're newly married or have been married for several years already, there's always an adjustment period when it comes to ...
Views: 2902 - Is My Ex Looking At My Facebook Profile: How To Know If My Ex Has Been Stalking Me On Facebook - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenIs My Ex Looking At My Facebook Profile: How To Know If My Ex Has Been Stalking Me On Facebook It isn't uncommon to go through a breakup and find that you still have feelings for your ex. Many people who have gotten out of relationships find that they really would like to know if their ex ...
Views: 2900 - My Husband Stays Out Late With His Friends: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Come Home - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Stays Out Late With His Friends: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Come Home Does your husband enjoy escaping to work, church, or other places in order to avoid coming home? If you want to entice him to come back, I suggest using these five uncomplicated, but positive actions ...
Views: 2894 - How to Win Back My Ex Girlfriend - Get Her Back Fast! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Phillip TomIf you are in search of ways on "how to win back my ex girlfriend" then this article will show you how to avoid making the biggest mistake of your life before it's too late. You are going to find out how you can win back your ex girlfriend without risking costly mistakes that may drive her away ...
Views: 2892 - ***Trait-Traction: The Real Danger For Women - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Teagin Maddox,A destructive man has to get traction with a woman in order to establish power and control. His ability to gain momentum when he meets you is based on how you perceive his contact, how you interpret his communication, and how you respond to his gaze. If you are on his radar, or already in ...
Views: 2886(3 votes) - Abusive Parents: Why Do Some Parents Abuse Their Children? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperAbusive parenting if often something that goes on covertly in our society. To the outsider it might not even be noticed. With how a family or parent presents themselves to the outside world being the complete opposite of how they our behind closed doors. These people can hold positions of ...
Views: 2871(3 votes) - Husband Contradicts Everything I Say: These Communication Improvements Will Help To Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Contradicts Everything I Say: These Communication Improvements Will Help To Save Your Marriage Saving your marriage is completely dependent on your ability to communication effectively with your spouse. Top marriage researchers report that marriages fail first and foremost due to a ...
Views: 2868 - My Husband Is Secretive With His Phone: My Husband Hides His Phone From Me - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Is Secretive With His Phone: My Husband Hides His Phone From Me A husband's emotional cheating can cause a lot of problems in your marriage and family. In fact, a lot of relationships have broken because of it and some experts even say that an emotional affair is more destructive ...
Views: 2867 - I Love My Ex Boyfriend And I Want Him Back - I Still Love Him - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2016 from Patrick UadialeSo, your boyfriend hates you, or perhaps he said he doesn't love you anymore and you feel like you've just lost the most important thing in your life. Don't worry too much, most of the time this is not a statement of true feelings, and more of a reflection of a moment of anger or situational ...
Views: 2866 - I Want to Get My Relationship Back! Stunning Ways to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from Charles Uadiale"I want to get my relationship back," is a phrase said by a lot of people from time to time. When you break up with your boyfriend you will be left frustrated. Either relief is going to wash over you for the reason that you are going to feel free of the anxiety and conflict that saturated the ...
Views: 2863(1 vote) - I Pay All Bills In My Marriage: Tired Of Financially Supporting My Husband - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenI Pay All Bills In My Marriage: Tired Of Financially Supporting My Husband Money problems in marriage are more common than you think. You might be surprised at how the smallest money issues can erupt into something so serious that they lead to divorce. However, that doesn't mean you have to ...
Views: 2857 - My Ex Cheated On His New Girlfriend With Me: Why Did My Ex Cheat On His Girlfriend With Me - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenMy Ex Cheated On His New Girlfriend With Me: Why Did My Ex Cheat On His Girlfriend With Me You had sex with your ex boyfriend. You now feel that with the renewed connection the two of you have experienced that he'll feel compelled to come back to you. It's understandable why you'd have such ...
Views: 2857 - My Wife Left Me How Do I Get Her Back: My Wife Left Me but I Still Love Her - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2017 from Michael BradMy Wife Left Me How Do I Get Her Back: My Wife Left Me but I Still Love Her Many people are taken by surprise when their spouse picks up and leaves them. I have seen it happen all too often. The worse case scenario is when your spouse leaves and refuses to talk to you. How can you begin to ...
Views: 2851 - Narcissist's Frustrating, Negativistic, and Passive-Aggressive Behaviors - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2016 from Sam VakninFrustrating one's nearest and dearest has the dual "advantage" of simultaneously satisfying the narcissist's masochistic and sadistic urges. By withholding love, sex, intimacy, and the fulfillment of other people's desires and needs, the narcissist torments them even as he obstructs his own ...
Views: 2848 - How emotionally mature are you in love? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Gina HardyMost of my lovely couples come to me in relational angst when their bag of long standing coping “tools” has run aground and they have nothing left with which to communicate their feelings and needs in a healthy way. Many couples just cope, rather than experience deeply fulfilling and ...
Views: 2844(1 vote) - I Chased My Ex For Months: When You Stop Chasing Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaI Chased My Ex For Months: When You Stop Chasing Your Ex Imagine having your ex chase you around, like they did when you first fell in love! Imagine your ex getting jealous and wanting you only to themselves, like they did when you first fell in love! Imagine your ex literally nosing ...
Views: 2844 - I Need Attention From My Wife: Tired Of Begging For Attention From Wife - My Wife Doesn't Pay Attention To Me - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Need Attention From My Wife: Tired Of Begging For Attention From Wife - My Wife Doesn't Pay Attention To Me There are few things that impress a woman more than a man who has outstanding manners. Now, that may at first seem rather ho-hum...why would a woman be so impressed with a man who ...
Views: 2839 - A Letter to Family and Friends of Abused Women - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Penelope Van BuskirkYou have watched and worried about your daughter or friend who married several years ago. She and her husband have attended family dinners and outings. As parents and friends, you have seen bruises on her; a black eye one time and a bruise on her cheek another. You have carefully approached her ...
Views: 2833 - My Husband Cheated I Don't Love Him Anymore: Falling Out Of Love After Infidelity - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Cheated I Don't Love Him Anymore: Falling Out Of Love After Infidelity Infidelity can actually destroy a marriage by destroying mutual trust and faith which is the very basis of every marriage. Surviving infidelity can be very difficult for a couple but if you both have decided to ...
Views: 2833 - Abusive Mothers: Why Are Some Mothers Abusive? - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some mothers out there who are loving and supportive and these are the epitome of the mother archetype in action. And then there are mothers who are anything but loving and supportive. These are mothers who have gone against their natural inclination to nurture. Instead of doing all ...
Views: 2827 - Wife Won't Sleep With Me: What To Do When Your Wife Won't Sleep With You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2018 from Henry JosephWife Won't Sleep With Me: What To Do When Your Wife Won't Sleep With You EVERYBODY is turned off by the notion of somebody using them. NOBODY wants to be manipulated by someone else who's trying to benefit themselves but not you. Given this, I want to give you a counter-example that just ...
Views: 2818 - My Husband Makes Me So Angry I Want To Hit Him: I Hit My Husband When I Get Angry - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Makes Me So Angry I Want To Hit Him: I Hit My Husband When I Get Angry Anger is one emotion that everyone experiences from time to time. It is built into our system and has a purpose for our lives. Thomas Fuller called it 'the sinew of our souls,' as long as it is expressed ...
Views: 2817 - When A Guy Says He Needs Time To Think: When A Guy Says He Needs Time To Figure Things Out - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaWhen A Guy Says He Needs Time To Think: When A Guy Says He Needs Time To Figure Things Out Your man has recently come to you with a confession. He says he needs time to himself. The moment the words left his lips, your heart sank. As much as you want to believe it's nothing to worry about, ...
Views: 2815 - How To Rebuild My Marriage While Separated: What Is My Husband Thinking During Separation - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Rebuild My Marriage While Separated: What Is My Husband Thinking During Separation The increasing rate of divorce is a proof that most couples find it hard to resolve marital problems and they end up in divorce. If you are experiencing rough times in your marriage, you can save ...
Views: 2814 - Fear and Abuse - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2011 from Laura Bonetzky-JosephEver wonder why victims stay with their abusers and DON'T leave? Many are handicapped by the years of fear and control instilled in them by the abuser. Fear of homelessness. Fear of the inability to provide for the children. Fear the abuser will kill the other parent, children, or everyone in a ...
Views: 2813(3 votes) - My Ex Dumped Me but Still Tries To Make Me Jealous: Dumper Trying To Make Me Jealous - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2019 from Lyra NoaMy Ex Dumped Me but Still Tries To Make Me Jealous: Dumper Trying To Make Me Jealous Break ups are rough and what makes them even harder is having an ex who likes to push your buttons. How do you know that your ex is trying to make you jealous? The signs are usually very basic. One way is if ...
Views: 2811 - Is My Ex Boyfriend Over Me - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Wants You Back (19 Signs He Still Loves You) - by Submitted on May 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeHow will you ever know if your ex wants you back... if you don't even know the SIGNS that your ex wants you back? You probably have seen some behavior from him that you think might be a sign, so I'll do what I can to give you some hope. What can you do to get your ex back? What are the ...
Views: 2800 - Avoid Dangerous Dating Personalities - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeWhen coaching post divorce, one of the first things I do is introduce clients to the different types of people they will run into. It is vital to understand that some people have baggage. Also, some personality types just do not mesh. In the past people dated from work or social settings. There ...
Views: 2799(3 votes) - I Saw Red: How to Stop Rage in its Tracks - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2011 from Marcie HambrickMany people have had the experience of anger that goes out of control. What mechanisms are at work when anger turns to blinding rage? Researchers have termed this kind of response as reactive aggression and discovered that when one is engulfed in a rage reaction, the thinking part of the brain ...
Views: 2798(1 vote) - I Just Want My Ex Boyfriend Back - He'll Come Crawling Back With This Surefire Tip - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2016 from Michael Uadiale"I want to get my ex back, but everything I do seems to push him away!" "How can I get my ex boyfriend back when everything I do seems to take us farther apart?" I get questions like this every day from women who want to repair their relationships with their ex-boyfriends--but who seem to ...
Views: 2783 - Husband Loses Temper Over Little Things: My Husband Gets Angry At The Smallest Things - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHusband Loses Temper Over Little Things: My Husband Gets Angry At The Smallest Things Understanding men is often made out to be something that only occurs if you spend a lot of time communicating with men. That's true, but it's also affected by the type of communication; typically in a ...
Views: 2767 - My Wife Rejects Me All The Time: My Wife Rejects My Advances - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Rejects Me All The Time: My Wife Rejects My Advances A normal woman loves intimacy. It's what she daydreams about. It's what her fantasies are filled with. It's what she wants all the time. Why then, do so many women avoid, withdraw from, and resist intimacy? Actually, normal ...
Views: 2766 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Sabotage Healthy Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperTo have a relationship that is healthy and functional is something that most people want in this world. Now, for some people this is reality and for others; this is often nothing more than a good idea and something that eludes them. And while there are people who have fulfilling relationships ...
Views: 2763 - Advice on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Guaranteed Way to Make Him Love You Again - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2012 from Patrick UadialeWouldn't it be nice if the world was full of guaranteed advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back? Everywhere you look there would be advice that is sure to work and your heart would be certain to be spared the pain of a final breakup. Unfortunately, there are very few guarantees in ...
Views: 2762 - Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Is Still In Love With You - 18 Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2016 from Michael UadialeWe have collected a pretty good list of signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. How many signs? 18 signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. To learn the killer, advanced strategies to get your ex back, simply click here! Why did we make this list? Well, at first, when your heart is ...
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