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- Relationships: Should Someone Look At Their Childhood If They End Up In Abusive Relationships? - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen something works, there is generally going to be no reason for someone to take a closer look at it. One example of this is that when one has a car that works, they won’t need to take a look under the bonnet, for instance. Yet, this would change if their car was to no longer run as it ...
Views: 1356(1 vote) - Ready to Start Dating Again - Why Not Try Your Ex Boyfriend? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberAre you ready to start dating again? How about giving your ex a try? You can probably sit down and write a mile long list of all the reasons that dating your ex boyfriend is a bad idea. At the same time, it's quite likely that you could write an equally long list of all the reasons it's a great ...
Views: 1355 - How to Get Him to Take You Back - Tips to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back In Your Arms - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou're thinking of how to get him to take you back. Your boyfriend has left you and all you can imagine at the moment is what he is up to and if or not he is hanging out with a new girl. You feel lost and empty. Getting him back is your main priority at the moment however you don’t know how to ...
Views: 1354 - How To Stop Being Possessive Wife: How To Stop Being Possessive With Husband - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Stop Being Possessive Wife: How To Stop Being Possessive With Husband Possessiveness in marriage is the desire to dominate or control every aspect of a spouse's life. It may be with regard to friendships and relationships, jobs, hobbies or even programmes that can be watched on TV. It ...
Views: 1352 - My Boyfriend Says He Needs To Be Alone: My Boyfriend Says He Needs Time Alone - by Submitted on May 08, 2019 from Kayla EdenMy Boyfriend Says He Needs To Be Alone: My Boyfriend Says He Needs Time Alone Your boyfriend says he needs time. Time is the last thing you need or want. You know that you absolutely adore him and that there's no other man for you. However, none of that really feels as though it matters when ...
Views: 1351 - Abuse Campaign of Pathological Narcissists - by Submitted on May 19, 2016 from Randi FinePathological Narcissistic Abuse Written by Randi G. Fine Excerpt from my upcoming book, Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Guide to Healing Pathological narcissistic abuse is far more damaging than any of us can possibly conceive. Have no doubt—it is both ...
Views: 1348 - Relationships: Is Someone A Victim If They Always End Up In Abusive Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people end up in relationships that have a positive effect on their life, there are others that don’t. And while this can mean that they are used to being with people who are not a good match, this could be an understatement. Instead, they could find that they end up with people ...
Views: 1348 - My Husband Resents Me and Wants A Divorce: My Husband Resents Me How Do I Fix It - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Resents Me and Wants A Divorce: My Husband Resents Me How Do I Fix It If you've been putting in a lot of effort trying to get better at understanding men, then you may have already stumbled upon this perplexing predicament when you are trying to work together with your man. There ...
Views: 1343 - BEWARE OF THE DARK TRIAD - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2018 from Darlene LancerThink of the Dark Triad of Narcissism, Psychopathy, and Machiavellianism as the Bermuda Triangle – it’s perilous to get near it! The traits of all three often overlap and create personality profiles that are damaging and toxic, especially when it comes to intimate relationships, where we let our ...
Views: 1342(2 votes) - Can You Still Win Your Ex Back? - Signs That Your Ex Is Still Interested In You! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeThe pain of coping with a broken up can at times feel intolerable. Ending a relationship with a person you adore can at times lead to hurt and depression. If you still have strong feelings for them and are desperate to win your ex back forever, there is still hope! Knowing the signs that your ...
Views: 1340 - Problem Marriage Married To Someone With Low Self-Esteem: How To Support A Partner With Low Self Esteem - by Submitted on May 22, 2018 from John BraxtonProblem Marriage Married To Someone With Low Self-Esteem: How To Support A Partner With Low Self Esteem When a wife has low self-esteem it is very probable that there will be marital problems. Self esteem issues can contribute to infidelity, child or spousal abuse, divorce or financial ...
Views: 1340 - He Has A Girlfriend But Texts Me Everyday: Why Is My Ex Contacting Me When He Has A Girlfriend - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenHe Has A Girlfriend But Texts Me Everyday: Why Is My Ex Contacting Me When He Has A Girlfriend "My ex boyfriend still texts me!" said the very excited woman who has been nursing a broken heart. Unfortunately, today, you're playing the role of the dumped woman who is all aglow now that her ex ...
Views: 1339 - Make Her Jealous To Get Her Back: How To Make A Girl Jealous And Want You Back - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2017 from Michael BradMake Her Jealous To Get Her Back: How To Make A Girl Jealous And Want You Back Do you want to make your ex girlfriend jealous and want you back? Actually, it's never too late to get her back again for good. It is a fact that every break up can be reversed only if you know exactly what to do ...
Views: 1338 - I should have said “NO” but I couldn’t. Have I been manipulated? - What is Emotional Manipulation and how does it work? - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Zita FeketeHow many times have I felt that way and how often have I heard this sigh coming from others before I began to deal with Emotional Manipulation? Weeding out manipulative attempts from straightforward communication or rightful influence is not always an easy ride. Cloud of negative ...
Views: 1337 - I Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2018 from John BraxtonI Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband You don't love your husband anymore and you want to save your marriage. If you are a woman in this situation you may feel as though you are facing a future in a loveless relationship. Many women find that their feelings ...
Views: 1335 - My Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful Most often in a relationship, especially marriage, in order to get what you want you've got to give something too. You'll find that if you make the choice to remain calm, refusing to be drawn into bickering or any type of ...
Views: 1335 - Create A Powerful Circle of Strength - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Trudy-Ann EwanWe all know that life can throw many curve-balls that can leave you overwhelmed and ready to give up. When we have so many things going on in our lives the last thing we need is unhealthy behaviours from either friends or families. Don’t for one minute think that you are “allowing” their ...
Views: 1333 - My Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me Everyone has some small habits that are bound to drive the people closest to them a little batty. It may be the foot tapping that never ends or perhaps it's the talking loudly when all you want is peace and ...
Views: 1333 - Who is in Command? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2010 from Elsabe SmitI am always fascinated about how our questions get answered - and sometimes how we are steered in a direction without even asking the question. Someone very dear and close to me is at a point where he has no dignity or quality of life left. He had told me in so many words that he is not ...
Views: 1333(2 votes) - Don't STUFF Anger, Rage and Upsets - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Frederick ZapponeWe are brought up in a STUFF IT society. In other words, it is more important to be politically correct and look good than it is to tell 'our truth' even if our truth is upsetting. Because we are brought up in a STUFF IT society there are things that people stew about for years then one day ...
Views: 1332 - How to Get My Ex Back - The Smart Way to Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2011 from Charles UadialeAre you thinking how to get my ex boyfriend back however all you can experience is heartbreak and pain? Have your attempted all you can to attempt and make your ex boyfriend review his decision to however he doesn't still feel like talking to you? Fortunately nearly all relationships can be ...
Views: 1332 - Husband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery Is it unreasonable for your husband to want a sexy wife? What if you just had a baby and it seems like an impossible task to lose that baby belly? You may be thinking, "He should love me just as I am!" The stress of ...
Views: 1331 - How to be strong - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2012 from sheron blakeI sat on the hospital bed, whilst the kind nurse was stitching up the left eye well the eyebrow where the blow had made contact and then that was when 10 years of hate had come to the surface...."I want to report an offence", the young nurse looked down at me and nodded and left me there I knew ...
Views: 1330 - In America You Are Allowed To Say NO! - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2014 from Dr. Anne Brown"Two things define you; your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything." In my article on March 2, 2014 and chapter two in my book Backbone Power The Science of Saying No, I speak about the importance of being able to say No when you mean No. After listening ...
Views: 1330(1 vote) - What Can I Do to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Simple Steps to Win Him Back! - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Michael UadialeIs the question "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back" in your mind daily? Does he seem to pull away further from you regardless of what you do? Is this what you are experiencing? Let me advise you on what to do to increase your chances of winning back your ex boyfriend. You wouldn’t be ...
Views: 1330 - Is My Ex Using Me: How To Know If Your Ex Is Stringing You Along - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2017 from Michael BradIs My Ex Using Me: How To Know If Your Ex Is Stringing You Along Unsure as to whether or not your ex still has feelings for you? Don't wonder anymore, because there are 10 definite actions that will ALWAYS mean one thing: your ex has feelings for you. All you have to do is match these actions ...
Views: 1329 - Relationships: Does Someone Need To Warn Others If They Have Been With Someone Who Is Abusive? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone’s relationship comes to an end, they can have to the need to carry on with their life. There is then going to be no reason for them to spend time talking about the person they were with. The Reason If this is because it ended badly, it will be normal for them to want to put ...
Views: 1329(1 vote) - Stop the Cycle of Abuse! - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2013 from Heather WattersConstantly leaving and being persuaded back into the trap of an abusive relationship is a cycle that needs to stop, and you can stop right now. This cycle will not end until you completely end all contact with your partner. Do not under estimate the power they have over you, and stop ...
Views: 1329(1 vote) - JBL 002: We Broke Up But I Still Love Him - Why Is It So Hard For Him To Let Me Back In - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2016 from Michael Uadiale"I still love my ex boyfriend" is a phrase that may be on your heart and mind if you've just gone though an emotional break up. Right now you're probably feeling depressed and in pain. That's ok, those are normal feelings for a woman to have as they remember all the special moments and memories ...
Views: 1328 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm having trouble letting go of a guy who mistreats me - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm still having a bit of trouble letting go and cutting off communication with a guy who mistreats me. I understand in my head that this is not right, but I can't seem to get it emotionally. Yesterday was his birthday and particularly difficult to ...
Views: 1327 - How To Live In Same House When Separated: Separated But Living Together Boundaries In Living Together - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHow To Live In Same House When Separated: Separated But Living Together Boundaries In Living Together Are you separated but living together? You are not alone as a growing number of married couples have decided against living in separate residences and set up camp in their family home under ...
Views: 1327 - How To Make Up With Your Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend - How To Get The One You Love Back - by Submitted on May 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeSo you recently broke up with the one you love and you feel like you can't live without them. You think about it everyday; your relationship was not meant to end and you want your lover back in your life, back in your arms. Well, pull yourself together and stop moping because here are a few ...
Views: 1326 - Domestic Abuse - by Submitted on May 08, 2014 from Dr. Anne Brown"Never make yourself feel like nothing, to make someone else feel like everything!" Rationalizing has to be prevalent when there is Domestic Abuse because how else could you convince yourself to stay. First you have to recognize that you are being emotionally, physically and or sexually ...
Views: 1325(1 vote) - 205 When To Give Up On An Ex - When To Stop Trying To Get An Ex Back - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2016 from Michael UadialeI suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ...
Views: 1324 - Domestic Violence: Recognizing the Three Phases--Part Three, in a Series of Six - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Gayle Joplin Hall“I just could not understand the rage in the beginning. It was like the harder I tried to be perfect, the angrier he would become. I was beautiful--the perfect wife, perfect mother, perfect in my job, and kept a perfect home. What was I doing wrong to make him act this way, threaten me, and ...
Views: 1323 - I Begged Him To Stay But He Left: Begging My Boyfriend To Stay With Me - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaI Begged Him To Stay But He Left: Begging My Boyfriend To Stay With Me So your boyfriend left and you are wondering what to do now to get your boyfriend back? I know how you feel, who among us hasn't been down that road before? First of all don't go chasing after him. I realize your first ...
Views: 1321 - Narcissist in Your Life? Get The Support You Need.... - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2018 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachIf you have been dealing with an individual who has severe Narcissistic or Sociopathic Traits, your experience has probably left you reeling and searching for answers! I may be able to help you through your challenges. I am a sought after Relationship Coach and author that specializes ...
Views: 1320(1 vote) - Unspoken Words of Every Child - by Submitted on May 29, 2011 from Randi FineMany of us, myself included, have suffered through difficult childhoods. It is with greater clarity that we are able to evaluate our past from an adult perspective. Though we may be cognizant of the root of our pain, our childhood experiences were tightly woven into the cloth that made us who ...
Views: 1320 - HE Said; SHE heard. - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from PD RiversHE said "You are gaining weight every day. Your body looks like you swallowed the Pillsbury Doughboy." SHE heard "Oh, God, I have to stop taking this medication. It doesn't matter that it is all that is keeping me alive. I am fat and my husband doesn't love me any more." Are you laughing? You ...
Views: 1318(1 vote) - Top 3 Ways to Teach Your Child to Accept Children Who Are Different - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2019 from Laura St JohnYour children are going to encounter other children who are different than them. Here's three ways to teach your children to accept other children. 1. Understanding: We all have situations. There are always underlying circumstances that people are going through that they don’t outwardly ...
Views: 1318(1 vote) - My Husband Spends All Our Money On Himself: All My Husband Cares About Is Money - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Spends All Our Money On Himself: All My Husband Cares About Is Money One of the most common causes of arguments between couples is disagreements over money, mostly about how it should be spent, or not spent. Arguments over money generally fall into two general areas, differences in ...
Views: 1317 - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Suffer In Silence When They Are Abused By Women? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone thinks about abuse, there is a strong chance that they will think about what some men do to women or how some parents treat their children. But if this is not the case, they might think about men who are abused by women. The reason they are more likely to think about this kind ...
Views: 1317 - Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship - Be Very Quiet - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Daryl CampbellYou don't get the full gist of it in the beginning of the relationship. And as far as your significant other is concerned you are not supposed to. If you did than the chances of you still being in the relationship would drop considerably. So they went about sweeping you off of your feet and ...
Views: 1316(2 votes) - I Still Love My Ex - Ways to Move On After a Breakup! - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2011 from Charles WealthYou have been in the relationship with your ex for a short time or even for a long time and all of a sudden they decided to breakup with you. "But, I still love my ex!" this is a statement made by a lot of people after a breakup, but you must not forget to take yourself into consideration. If ...
Views: 1315 - My Husband Cheated On Me But Says He Loves Me: Is My Husband Going To Be Content With Our Marriage After His Affair - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Cheated On Me But Says He Loves Me: Is My Husband Going To Be Content With Our Marriage After His Affair Forgiving someone for cheating on you is never an easy task. The feelings of hurt, betrayal and seemingly endless pain can get in the way of honest healing. In this article, I ...
Views: 1315 - Ways to Get Your Ex to Contact You Even After a Painful Breakup! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Charles WealthDo you want to know how to get your ex to contact you simply for the reason that he or she is paying no attention to you or simply plain dislikes you at the moment? Don’t be troubled tensions are more often than not high immediately after a relationship comes to an end and its normal if your ex ...
Views: 1313 - Domestic Violence: How to Leave An Abusive Relationship Safely - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Penelope Van BuskirkLeaving an abusive spouse can be very traumatic, however, you are not alone. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, an estimated 1.3 million women are victims each year and the numbers are growing. In so many cases, you as the victim of Domestic Violence are under the ...
Views: 1312 - Counseling Careers - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceCounseling careers - It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their lives. To take a person who is going through an emotional torment or who is undergoing an emotional improvement in their goals or their personality. To take someone who is anxious ...
Views: 1311 - Techniques of Sexual Harassers - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2018 from Piercarla GarusiHarassment is rife, certainly in London. It happens in all environments: from entrepreneurial environments, to very reputable companies, to day to day life. It happens regularly, and it is justified by society. I have experienced it many times and I have been disgusted by the low level of ...
Views: 1310 - Unexpected Trauma after Abuse - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2019 from Darlene LancerCodependency robs us of a self and self-love. We’ve learned to conceal who we really are, because we grew up pleasing, rebelling against, or withdrawing from dysfunctional parents. This sets us up for trauma. As adults, even if we’re successful in some areas, our emotional life isn’t easy. ...
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