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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Important Steps to Getting An Ex Back – From a Breaking Up To Making Up - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Kevin TeoMoving on from a break up to getting back together with your ex is by no means easy, but if you incorporate the following four important steps to getting an ex back, it should be easy for you. Step 1 – Acknowledge The Break Up The first of the four steps to getting an ex back is to ...
Views: 1050 - Collaborative Divorce: The Best Way to Divorce in California - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2016 from Diana MercerYou have decided your marriage is not working out. You want to divorce, but your friends have told you horror stories about dragging your divorce through the court system. You remember reading an article about Gwyneth Paltrow’s “conscious uncoupling” and her decision to use mediation instead of ...
Views: 1049 - Temper Tantrums: How to Prepare Your Toddler for the Changes of Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2016 from Dixie SomersDivorce is not just a painful situation for the adults involved in the decision, but perhaps even more so for toddlers. Sometimes adults think that divorce doesn't have as much of an effect on younger children, because they do not fully understand the relationship. While that is true in a sense, ...
Views: 1049 - Mediation and Financial Security for Families - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesDivorce, with all its emotional and financial upheaval, is frequently wrought with stress, fear, and staggering new challenges. In the economic times we now find ourselves in the stress, fear and challenges are being felt by everyone, not just families touched by divorce. The constant media ...
Views: 1048 - Who Started It Doesn’t Necessarily Matter! - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldWho Started It Doesn’t Necessarily Matter! Remember in the Wizard of Oz, when Dorothy began her stroll down the Yellow Brick Road? Eventually she came upon a fork in the road. There she stood, unable to determine which way to go until the voice of the Scarecrow came from behind. With arms ...
Views: 1047(1 vote) - My Divorce Journal - Approval and Affirmations - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2011 from Dawn SinnottLast week I was noticing who has expressed concern about my behavior and the recognition of when my life is unmanageable. This week I’m addressing how I’ve sought approval and affirmation from others. Then – 3/27/2004 “Journal question – How have I sought approval and affirmations from ...
Views: 1046 - Get Your Ex Back - 5 Great Advices To Get Your Ex Back In Soonest Time - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneIt is actually a difficult situation for you to move on from the pain of break up with your ex. Even if your relationship just ended, at some point you also want to get back together. Even if you are capable of doing so, it is easier to say but it's hard to find the great steps to make it ...
Views: 1045 - Co-Parenting After a Divorce—Tips from a Mediator - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Brian JamesCo-parenting starts the day the decision is made to divorce has been made. Even the most amicable divorces need a plan for future co-parenting. Putting your children's best interests first, no matter how much you may dislike the other parent, is the key to co-parenting. The first thing you ...
Views: 1044 - Jealous after Divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltYou know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce. When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house. Or when you hear about the trip your ex is taking to Europe ...
Views: 1044 - Is There Life After Divorce? - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2008 from Elizabeth SavinoWhen one door closes another one opens; But we often look so long and regretfully Upon the closed door, That we do not see the ones which are open. -Alexander Graham Bell When I ask women who are going through a divorce, “What do you think you can gain from this?”, I’m usually met with blank ...
Views: 1043 - My Husband Beats Me but I Love Him: I Love My Husband but He Beats Me - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Beats Me but I Love Him: I Love My Husband but He Beats Me Myths and Expectations about Fighting: There are many myths and expectations about fighting in marriage. Couples come into my office frequently believing that fighting is a necessary part of being a couple; that all ...
Views: 1043 - 10 Tips for Surviving Your Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Julie GillDivorce is a difficult decision and one that shouldn’t be entered into lightly. The success of your divorce will depend on how well you manage the process. There are so many questions, decisions and a great deal of uncertainty. As hard as it is to believe, you will get through this and you ...
Views: 1042 - The Garage Sale - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2007 from Wayne MisnerThe Garage Sale Look at where you are in life. Look at each other. Each of us is a composite of our experiences--the good, the bad, and the ugly. When someone comes into our life they accept us for who we are, baggage and all. Imagine we are in a “Garage Sale,” sitting in a driveway on ...
Views: 1042 - My Husband Is Financially Irresponsible: My Husband Won't Stop Spending Money - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Is Financially Irresponsible: My Husband Won't Stop Spending Money Most adults do the responsible thing and try to save money, invest money in things that will bring a return and build their own financial situation up. However, there are some individuals that do the exact opposite, ...
Views: 1041 - The Fork in the Road: Which way you travel is Important - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhenever we meet bumps in the road, there is usually more than one path to choose. We make these choices as we choose a school, a career, a home, and a mate. But these choices, like all choices, are rarely written in stone. One of the beauties of life is that we get to evaluate and consider ...
Views: 1041 - Dealing With A Selfish Husband: Selfish Behavior In Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2019 from Colten ReeseDealing With A Selfish Husband: Selfish Behavior In Marriage Relationships: Tips to Recognize if your Partner is Emotionally Abusive Ever look around at who stays married, and who doesn't? Overweight people far outnumber the thin and beautiful in successful marriages. The svelte and ...
Views: 1040 - Divorced and Dating? Words of Wisdom - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2012 from Holly HayesDivorced and relationship are not two mutually exclusive words. Many folks have had the misfortune of failed marriages for a varied range of reasons and in due time, they find themselves ready to go out there and try their hand at love once again. After all, we all long to have someone in our ...
Views: 1040 - How To Make A Marriage Last A Lifetime: How To Make Your Marriage Work - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Make A Marriage Last A Lifetime: How To Make Your Marriage Work When we get married, we always want to last it forever. No one signs the papers, thinking, "this is going to end one day, anyway." If you want it to end, then why would you get married in the first place? But, it's ...
Views: 1040 - Planning Ahead for Summer Fun for Your Children During or After the Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesAs the summer months approach, activities that are unique to summer remind us of how important it is to plan year-round. With your children out of school, many parents look for programs and activities to bolster academics, spark interests and passions, or supplement athletic talents by ...
Views: 1040 - Why Should a Family Law Attorney Conduct an Asset Search? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Edward Amaral, Jr., Esq.If used properly and if conducted by a reputable asset search company, asset searches can be used as a valuable tool in divorce. Before you enter into discovery, or accept your adversary’s financial statement, shouldn’t you be certain that all assets are declared? What happens to an attorney who ...
Views: 1039 - Women File 80% of Divorces: 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Following Suit - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2018 from Hannah WhittenlyRoughly 80% of the divorces filed are done so by women. This trend seems to indicate that more women are unhappy in their marriages than their male counterpart. Here are some questions to ask yourself before deciding to file for divorce. What is the Full Scope of the Situation? Before deciding ...
Views: 1039 - Child Custody Lawyers Illinois and Experience - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2012 from Matthew ThorSome child custody lawyers Illinois have a tremendous amount of experience and others have very little. It's hard to argue that experience doesn't come with some advantages. In fact, it's not even true to argue that. Experience does provide a certain advantage to an attorney. Child custody ...
Views: 1038 - Separated parents in dispute: Don’t drag in your service providers! - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2006 from Gary DirenfeldSeparated parents in dispute: Don’t drag in your service providers! Separated parents in high conflict have a way of dragging others into their dispute. Not just family friends, and neighbours, but every professional associated with the children. The parents seek to bolster their claims to ...
Views: 1038 - Check the Pulse Before Pulling the Plug - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldCheck the Pulse Before Pulling the Plug There was an episode on a TV medical drama where a patient was awaiting delivery of a liver from an organ donor. An intern assigned to the donor patient removed the airway and the patient stirred. The intern was taken aback; the donor was not yet brain ...
Views: 1036 - My Wife Suddenly Stopped Loving Me: My Wife Loves Me and Hates Me - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Wife Suddenly Stopped Loving Me: My Wife Loves Me and Hates Me Has someone pointed out to you that your wife doesn't seem to love you anymore? This has probably come as a total shock to your system! Obviously, this person who pointed this out to you, has noticed something that you have ...
Views: 1036 - Common Marriage Problems - 6 Significant Problems To Learn From - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2010 from Johnny WayneMarriage is not a constant happiness. Common marriage problems can happen anytime with no warning. Life for couples on the first part of marriage is intimate and almost close to perfect, but things will change as time goes by, bad habits and personalities will all be revealed. The different ...
Views: 1034(1 vote) - How To Deal With An Inconsiderate Husband: Is My Husband A Narcissist Or Just Selfish - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Deal With An Inconsiderate Husband: Is My Husband A Narcissist Or Just Selfish As they grapple with and struggle with problems and issues in relation to their spouse, many people don't realize what is often the REAL underlying reason for their spouse's uncooperative, damaging attitude ...
Views: 1034 - My Husband Can't Satisfy Me Sexually: When Your Husband's Sex Drive Is Gone - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Can't Satisfy Me Sexually: When Your Husband's Sex Drive Is Gone As a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it's always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband ...
Views: 1033 - Gaslighting: What is it & How to spot it? - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2021 from Kerry SmithGaslighting means trying to convince someone that they’re wrong about something even when you know they’re right. Depending on the severity of the situation, gaslighting can be anything from a petty irritation to a form of serious emotional domestic abuse. Here’s a quick guide ...
Views: 1032 - How To Save Your Marriage By Yourself: How To Save Your Marriage When Your Spouse Doesn't Want To - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Save Your Marriage By Yourself: How To Save Your Marriage When Your Spouse Doesn't Want To What to Do When your Spouse Tells You that He or She is Considering a Divorce Have you just been told by your spouse that he or she wants a divorce? If so, you are basically left with three ...
Views: 1032 - What Happened? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Wendy MacKayWhat Happened? This is likely a question you ask yourself over and over again. You thought you had a great relationship, the home, the kids, the pets, a secure income. Where did it all go wrong? I can't tell you what happened, or where it began going wrong, but I can tell you that you are ...
Views: 1032 - Letting Go: 5 Keys to Moving on After Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2015 from Karleia SteinerFew things in life are as difficult to recover from as divorce. This is especially true when there are children involved. Whether you wanted it or not, there are things you have to tackle if you want to live a happy and fulfilled life after your divorce. While the road to happiness may seem ...
Views: 1031 - How To Make Your Wife Happy: How To Make Wife Happy When Angry - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2018 from Henry JosephHow To Make Your Wife Happy: How To Make Wife Happy When Angry You want to know how to make your wife happy. You can tell that she's not as happy as she once was. She seems sad and maybe even a bit frustrated by what's become of her life. Perhaps she feels overwhelmed with everything she has ...
Views: 1029 - Wife Doesn't Like To Be Touched Sexually: What Does It Mean When Your Wife Doesn't Show Affection - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2018 from Henry JosephWife Doesn't Like To Be Touched Sexually: What Does It Mean When Your Wife Doesn't Show Affection I don't mean to do it...really, I don't...but it seems to happen anyway...usually, right after I name nonsense for what it really is. For instance, a man recently said the following to me: "I ...
Views: 1029 - Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownTake the time for a self-journey. Getting on a journey with your self requires courage, consciousness, feedback from a trusted advisor, vulnerability, insight, and the refreshing ability to apologize for starters. Knowing your strengths and challenges, competences and incompetence’s, where you ...
Views: 1028 - Help Save My Marriage - 4 Tips To Help Save Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Johnny WayneThere are 4 known best tips to help save my marriage. The steps are very practical and simple to apply and i tell you these are all inexpensive steps. These are more like a common sense. Yet, there are still a lot of couples who disregard the need of doing these. • The very first thing that ...
Views: 1027 - How Decisions In Court Cases That Revolve Around Child Custody Are Made - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2012 from daniel perryThere is no doubt that cases regarding child custody are some of the toughest cases there is. But these cases involve people who go to the courts in the hope that the latter provide some arbitration. A resolution has to be reached, somehow. Most of these cases are decided on by single judges. ...
Views: 1026 - Child Custody - The Process of Obtaining Custody of Your Children - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Steven TabanoFighting for the custody of your children is not only heart-wrenching but can have life-long effects on the well-being of your children. There are two types of custody. Physical custody is the actual physical possession and control of a child (a person under 18 years old). It refers to the ...
Views: 1025 - Gender Politics in Child Custody Cases - by Submitted on May 30, 2012 from Wayne MiltonIn 1979, the film “Kramer vs. Kramer” was released. The hit film focuses on brutal child custody battle between two estranged parents. Lawyers on both sides unleash sometimes vicious character attacks on the other’s client. Ultimately, the mother is awarded sole custody of the young child, ...
Views: 1024 - REPRESENTING YOURSELF IN YOUR FAMILY LAW CASE - by Submitted on May 31, 2019 from Candice BrennerREPRESENTING YOURSELF IN YOUR FAMILY LAW CASE Representing yourself in your family law case can be not only overwhelming but down right terrifying. For many, this will be the first time you have ever stepped into a courtroom, spoken to a judge, filled out court documents or participated ...
Views: 1024 - Learn to Get An Ex Back – What You Must Think About Before Getting Back With Your Ex Spouse. - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Kevin TeoYour marriage has gone through a rough patch, and now you and your partner are not together anymore, but you soon realized that the breakup was a big mistake. So you might be thinking of learning how to get an ex back, but is that what you really want to do? Consider the following points ...
Views: 1023 - Making Your Divorce A Little Easier - by Divorce is a turbulent time. As such you may find yourself thinking and doing things that you would not normally do. Often times you will hear somebody say, "I just don't know this person anymore. They are right. Most people do go through some sort of metamorphosis during their divorce. The most ...
Views: 1023 - How To Restore The Intimacy In Your Marriage: How To Build Emotional Intimacy In Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Restore The Intimacy In Your Marriage: How To Build Emotional Intimacy In Marriage When you are in a long-term relationship like marriage, things will not stay the same through the years. Life becomes a routine. The demands and responsibilities of married life can take away the ...
Views: 1021 - I'm Not Happy In My Marriage: Living In An Unhappy Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI'm Not Happy In My Marriage: Living In An Unhappy Marriage Every living thing needs love and nurturing to grow. The same is true with your marriage. Most people only give consideration to their marriage when they are experiencing marriage problems, but when their marriage is going along ...
Views: 1021 - Clean Divorce for the Kids: 5 Steps You and Your Soon-To-Be Ex Need to Follow - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2015 from Rachelle WilberDivorce is never an easy process, and it becomes even more difficult when there are children involved. Here are five steps you and your soon-to-be ex need to take so your children go through the experience with as little trauma as possible. Keep the conflict away from your children You and ...
Views: 1020 - Dupage County Divorce Lawyer helps you sort out any family legal puzzle - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2012 from Matthew ThorMost of us now have lost our tolerance in the recent rate race of life. We are so much impatient that we cannot bear anybody if he or she is a little bit irate. The process is true in our family life also. That is the most probable reasons for getting separated from our dear and near ones also. ...
Views: 1020 - How Divorce Disputes Can Be Resolved Through Mediation - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Diane CaudillAll marriages should be all about the fairy tale, but this is not always the case. Obviously, reality is hardly ever that way. Money and raising kids are often tense issues a lot of couples fight over which can be rather challenging. Issues that couples fight over are common everyday issues. ...
Views: 1020 - Joint Custody: Making it Work - by Submitted on May 26, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraParents who want to make joint custody work must do everything they can to put the best interests of the children first. Any divorced couple can attest that co-parenting after a divorce is hard—it requires a great deal of commitment and effort from both parents. While the real desire of a ...
Views: 1018 - What Do Victims of Domestic Violence Need to Know? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2018 from Dave MejiasIf you’re in an abusive relationship, there is help. No one need stay and take abuse from another person. Acknowledging what’s happening and reaching out for help is difficult for victims of domestic abuse. Educating yourself about your options can help you take the necessary steps. At MM&A, we ...
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