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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- How to Use Transitions as Opportunities for Transformation - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Teri GoetzWhen I talk about transitions, I am speaking about the major milestones in one's life. The saying that "the only constant in life is change" is true. But there is something a little different which occurs when we are facing one of life's major milestones - divorce, empty nesting, career change, ...
Views: 1390 - How To Deal With A Controlling Spouse: How To Deal With A Jealous And Controlling Husband - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2018 from John BraxtonHow To Deal With A Controlling Spouse: How To Deal With A Jealous And Controlling Husband Life is full of surprises and, unfortunately, some of them are not so pleasant. One of these painful events is discovering that you have fallen in love with a controlling spouse. What was once a fun and ...
Views: 1388 - Do My Children Have One Home or Two? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2011 from Jill DarceyI'd like to firstly take your attention for a few minutes while I answer a really important question that I've been asked ... "Are my children meant to have one or two homes now we're divorced?" It's strange that this is one of the most confusing for parents to come to terms with - and yet it's ...
Views: 1387 - How to solve a loveless marriage - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from tiggy maxIs it feasible to “bring back to life” a dead end marriage? If you're in what can sometimes feel like an empty loveless marriage, you may very well find yourself asking this question, time and time again. Sometimes, there is only one person in the relationship asking this question, and the ...
Views: 1387 - "How To Identify What The Question "Should I get a divorce?" Means To You" - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2004 from Karl AugustineDeciding about whether you should get a divorce or not is an agonizing experience to go through. If you are asking yourself "should I get a divorce?", you've been thinking about your relationship's state for a while or an isolated incident that occurred was so terrible, that you want to just ...
Views: 1384 - 5 Things To Do To Get Over A Breakup and Feel Empowered - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2016 from Julia Maria NicaAt some point after sobbing one to many times you are probably going to find your self asking. What are some things to do to get over a breakup? When a relationship doesn't work out, and you look at it realistically. Most relationships are not healthy. A healthy relationship is designed with ...
Views: 1384 - Wherever You Go, There You Are. - by Submitted on May 02, 2014 from Anthony DiazHow many times have we gone on vacation or somewhere away, have an amazing time only to return home wishing we were back? I don't know about you but it has happened to me countless times. Why does this phenomenon occur in our lives and what does it mean? When we are in a different place, ...
Views: 1384 - How To Fix Communication In A Marriage: Poor Communication In Marriage - Communication Problem In Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Fix Communication In A Marriage: Poor Communication In Marriage - Communication Problem In Marriage Now I'm really putting myself in the firing line - but with good cause. Why? Simple, really. Because I'm sick of the way both casual commentators and some of the experts ...
Views: 1382 - ***The Impact of Divorce on Families - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2009 from Garrett CoanAs a licensed mental health professional, I work with many individuals, couples, and families who are affected by divorce. I see the devastating effects that breakups can have and am dedicated to helping people develop the skills to cope with experiences like divorce. Major Disruptions The ...
Views: 1381(2 votes) - When To Leave A Marriage With Kids: Should You Stay Married For The Kids - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackWhen To Leave A Marriage With Kids: Should You Stay Married For The Kids It isn't unusual to overhear conversations like this. One lady told another that she should NOT stay in her marriage for the sake of her children. She offered the usual: make yourself happy; why should you be punished to ...
Views: 1381 - Preparing for Divorce in the Face of Emotional Abuse! (by: Dr. Anne Brown RNCS) - by Submitted on May 19, 2017 from Dr. Anne BrownThe History For years women and children have been considered to be property of men. There were laws enabling men to punish their wives physically. By the 1920’s all states had made “wife beating” illegal, however it has only been since the 1970’s the courts have treated it as a serious crime ...
Views: 1380(1 vote) - Be the Butterfly - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Meghan GehanOver the past two years, I’ve used various activities to cope with my divorce: yoga, meditation, coffee dates with friends, workshops and the OJC retreat, etc. One simple, yet effective coping mechanism has been inspirational quotes taped to my bathroom mirror. They change periodically depending ...
Views: 1377 - Ten Quick Tips to Survive Divorce and the Holidays! - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2017 from Dominique NicoleTen Quick Tips to Survive Divorce and the Holidays The holidays can be a rough time for those recently divorced or those facing it soon. With all the emphasis on family get togethers and social gatherings, it can feel like an agonizing and long stretch of time for many. So, what can you ...
Views: 1377 - Grandparents Can Help Grandchildren Cope with Parent’s Divorce! - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Rosalind SedaccaToo often, grandparents are caught in drama between parents during and after their divorce. While they want to help in any way they can, many grandparents just don’t know how to ease the hurt, confusion and other emotions affecting their innocent grandkids. Since every divorce is unique there ...
Views: 1376 - Phases To Breakup - by Submitted on May 02, 2013 from Smith Barlay"Families break up when they get hints you don't intend and miss hints that you do."(Robert Frost) Nowadays we witness many cases where couples breakup or divorce and it often comes as a surprise to us, because until that moment we had no clue about it. Still, there are always warning signs ...
Views: 1376 - 4 Words That Changed My Life - "I Want A Divorce" - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2008 from Scott Thayer-4 Words That Changed My Life…”I Want A Divorce”- By: Scott Thayer The scoreboard reads the following… bottom of the 9th, bases loaded, 2 outs, 3 balls and two strikes. You are up to bat and the weight of the entire season is on your shoulders. You strike out, the season ...
Views: 1375 - Divorce Happens; It's About Picking Yourself Back Up - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2017 from Harper HarmonDivorce is tough - there's no way around it. Most people who get a divorce feel at least a little lost, sad, or angry afterward, even if they wanted the divorce in the first place. Getting divorced signals the end of one phase of your life, and the transition can be hard, even if it's for the ...
Views: 1375 - HOW TO CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT YOUR WAY - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2010 from Barbara MillerThe following are excerpts taken from my new book, You Lost Your Marriage Not Your Life. I survived crushing change through divorce and found the strength to create a new life—my way, and so can you! My story begins with returning home from visiting my ill mother to find a near empty house and ...
Views: 1375 - You already have what you need to kick some serious butt. - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltSo, you want to know about one of my favorite guilty pleasures? You might have a similar one. I love watching House Hunters on HGTV! There’s nothing better to do on a lazy Sunday morning, coffee in hand (or let’s be honest…a homemade mimosa) than curled up on my couch watching TV, and ...
Views: 1373 - Divorce Stress? Navigating New Household Routines - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from Stress-Relief Author/Expert Susie MantellQ: Dear Susie: I have always been the “go-to” person who can always the job done. Lately I feel off-balance. In our marriage we shared responsibilities for the household, kids, and one another. Over time, as it became clear that we had different goals, our marriage could not survive. Though I ...
Views: 1372(1 vote) - My Husband and I Sleep In Separate Rooms: Husband and Wife Sleeping In Separate Rooms - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband and I Sleep In Separate Rooms: Husband and Wife Sleeping In Separate Rooms Lack of intimacy can destroy relationships although some of you guys may think that sex is not everything in a relationship. But deep down inside you, you will feel that there is something missing without ...
Views: 1372 - Fathers Preferred Over Mothers For Child Custody - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2015 from Mike HatcherWhen it comes to custody decision, mothers have always been the primary candidate for residential custody, while fathers only get visiting rights. The situation often gets reversed in case mother is “not good enough” to be able to take care of the child according to the investigation done by ...
Views: 1371 - Marital Counseling: How to Make The Most of the Opportunities of Marriage Counseling - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Peggy FergusonPeople seek marriage counseling because they need help or are in pain. In any given couple, there is usually one who is more interested in counseling than the other. With a list of complaints, each partner usually feels compelled to make his/her case to the counselor about their spouse being ...
Views: 1371(1 vote) - Couples Splitting Up Should Try Mediation First - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Erin JohnstonMost couples separating or divorcing find that they are in a period of high conflict. Some have experienced constant arguments and fights for months or years; some are reacting to a sudden change of heart. Regardless of the circumstances and presentation conflict between the between the ...
Views: 1370(2 votes) - How to Manage Your Feelings as You Cope with Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from Donna Marie ThompsonDivorce often plays havoc with our emotions. Even when you think you've got it all pulled together, sometimes unwanted feelings can take over your psyche. Two steps forward, one step back... or on a paritcularly bad day, even three steps back. In time, you can observe these feelings as they ...
Views: 1370 - Kim Kardashian's Divorce: a Reminder about Relationship Mistakes to Avoid - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2011 from Rosalind SedaccaSadly, celebrity divorces make all the headlines for all the wrong reasons. They showcase the most unconscious behavior, especially when it comes to relationships. Kim Kardashian’s marriage gone off tracks after such a short time is just one more example. It appears Kim spent more time ...
Views: 1369 - Recovery From Divorce and Personal Finance Planning - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Carol FergusonThe financial advice I would give to divorced women is: education. Find something that can educate you; whether it's creating more income, or managing money or something educational about finance. Doing something, I'm a big believer in do what you love, because when you do what you love, the ...
Views: 1369(1 vote) - Children Of Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2012 from Kelly TobeyChildren of Divorce Easing their Pain - and Yours - with Openhearted Boundaries By Kelly Tobey What can we do to make divorce less devastating for children? In an ideal world, all children would be fully loved and supported by their blood parents who, in turn, would totally love and ...
Views: 1368 - How to Win Your Ex Back - Tips to Recapture Their Heart! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeAre you feeling depressed and sad for the reason that you just broke up with your ex? At present you want to know how to win your ex back. In that case this piece of writing is for you... I have experienced what you are experiencing. I was confused and lost at the time I broke up with my ...
Views: 1368 - My Husband Is Always Annoyed With Me: Husband Gets Irritated Easily - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Is Always Annoyed With Me: Husband Gets Irritated Easily A successful marriage includes many compromises along with unbridled commitment and love. However, disagreements arise in even the best of marriages. A strong marriage, though, can avoid the small arguments and successfully ...
Views: 1367 - My Husband Wants A Divorce But I Still Love Him: I Still Love My Husband Don't Want A Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Wants A Divorce But I Still Love Him: I Still Love My Husband Don't Want A Divorce Your husband has announced that he wants to divorce you. You love him still and have failed to make him understand the need to continue with the marriage. Obviously, you have reasons to feel ...
Views: 1367 - Surviving Your Divorce when the Courts are New to Emotional Abuse! (by: Dr. Anne Brown RNCS) - by Submitted on May 19, 2017 from Dr. Anne BrownPrepare to Fight When one person only wants to control and sabotage during the divorce, mediation is usually not an option and a waste of money. I have seen victims of emotional abuse in their marriage be victims of mediation because they are the only person bringing adult behavior to the ...
Views: 1366(1 vote) - Breaking Up is Hard to Do!! - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2014 from Dr. Anne Brown(A simple way to let go with dignity) "The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread." Mother Teresa If schools had offered a course called "Breaking up is hard to do", I suspect we all would have enrolled. Why aren't we taught these difficult challenges ...
Views: 1366(1 vote) - Ready for Divorce? - by Submitted on May 15, 2009 from Vikki Ziegler"Recession" may rhyme with "depression," but there are plenty of ways to avoid having the economy write the sonnet on your marriage and — more importantly, your happiness. By an almost two-to-one margin, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers is seeing a drop in the number of divorces ...
Views: 1365 - How to Find the Best Divorce Coach for You - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2012 from Karen FinnFor most people, divorce is made up of a bunch of unfamiliar events, requirements, emotions, and behaviors. It's usually a very confusing period of time. Because divorce is so confusing, unfamiliar and legal, it's in your best interest to have exactly the right experts to help you ...
Views: 1363 - Dating After Divorce… - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2012 from Adele TheronI’m often asked: ‘When is a good time to start dating?’ One of the difficulties women face when they’re ready to start dating is where and how to start. Starting too soon or for the wrong reasons is not going to help re-build your self-confidence or help you become open to new intimate ...
Views: 1362(2 votes) - Effects of Divorce on Children - by Submitted on May 20, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireEffects of Divorce on Children For a married couple with children, the impact of the divorce on children should be one of the biggest concerns when the question of a divorce is raised. Research shows that a child's reaction to divorce is greatly shaped by a number of factors, including age, ...
Views: 1361 - California Divorce Kit - What a Good One Should Include - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIf you and your spouse agree that you want to get divorced as easily and cheaply as possible, a California divorce kit could be just what you need to achieve your goal. As long as the two of you are willing to cooperate, you can work together to do your own divorce without lawyers and save a ...
Views: 1358 - Do I Have to Be The Good Wife? - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteWhether in the media or creatively integrated into television dramas we've watched time and again the dutiful wife standing beside her husband who's been caught in some sex scandal, criminal act or any other type of behavior requiring a public mea culpa. Some look sincerely supportive. Others ...
Views: 1358 - Telling Kids about Divorce? Avoid These 6 Mistakes. - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2008 from Rosalind SedaccaGetting psyched up to tell your children about your pending divorce -- or separation? Not sure what to say? When to say it? How to say it? What to expect after the conversation? What to do next? How do deal with your special circumstances? What therapists, mediators, attorneys, clergy and other ...
Views: 1358 - Why Your Spouse Should Be Your BFF* - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2017 from Marcia Naomi Berger“Marriages are forms of super friendship,” says John F. Helliwell, Senior Fellow of the Canadian Institute for Advanced Research Some marriages begin with love at first sight. Usually, but not always, they fail after the initial buzz wears off. Others begin with a friendship that grows ...
Views: 1358 - Dating After Divorce - How Do You Know When You're Ready To Date Again? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Carol FergusonI am going to share with you my thoughts on getting over divorce and dating after divorce. As my mentor, T. Harv Eker says, "Don't believe anything I say". And why is that? Because I can only speak from my experience. Nothing I am going to say here is right or wrong, true or false. However, I ...
Views: 1357 - How to Avoid the Mistakes Most People Make in Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2012 from Elizabeth GolembiewskiIs there a lesson for us in Tom and Katie’s (Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes) relationship failure? Why Didn't It Work? Why weren't their extravagant dates in helicopters, a marriage proposal on the Eiffel Tower, a wedding in an Italian Castle, traveling the world, having a daughter who wears ...
Views: 1357 - Do we pretend Divorce is an easy option? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Annie O'NeillThere was an article in the Daily Mail (Femail - onliine) today - 'Yes, of course, divorce shatters lives. So why DO we pretend it's an easy option?' by Yasmin ...
Views: 1356 - Going Through A Divorce? How To Stop Negative Thinking In It's Tracks - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2014 from Savannah CoulsenOften you lose two things in a divorce: your marriage and what feels like a piece of your identity. Marriage has a funny way of making two people seem inextricable, two sides of the same coin to use a cliché. But then somewhere in the marriage, its sanctity fell apart and you’re left wondering ...
Views: 1354 - Separating from an Abusive Partner - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2009 from Gary DirenfeldIf you are in an abusive relationship and are seeking to separate or divorce from your partner, your safety may be at risk and your ability to achieve a reasonable separation agreement may be compromised. Abusive relationships are characterized by one party seeking power and control over the ...
Views: 1353 - Choosing the Right Divorce Attorney: 5 Questions to Ask - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2012 from Nancy KayWhen it comes to making the best decision about which lawyer to hire for their divorce, many people rely on getting a referral from a friend of relative. Although this is a common way to choose a lawyer, it can lead to a mismatch in expectations between how the client thinks that their case will ...
Views: 1352(1 vote) - How To Stop Being Possessive Wife: How To Stop Being Possessive With Husband - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Stop Being Possessive Wife: How To Stop Being Possessive With Husband Possessiveness in marriage is the desire to dominate or control every aspect of a spouse's life. It may be with regard to friendships and relationships, jobs, hobbies or even programmes that can be watched on TV. It ...
Views: 1352 - 3 Tips to Thriving after Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2013 from Jenny PotterLife after divorce can be a challenge. Wait...let me restate that...life can be a challenge. Divorce can make the challenges feel insurmountable. At least it did for me. I fell madly in love at 19 and spent the next 18 years building a life with my soul mate. We created a life that appeared, ...
Views: 1351 - For The Weak At Heart, How To See Things You Do Not See About You And Others - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2010 from Dr Char Richards, DD,Msd,CHT,NLP,CLC,DEFor The Weak At Heart The Best Things Are The One Given To Times Of People Seeing What Is Really Important To Them, Such As Our Children, Our Lovers, Family, Friends And Other Loved Ones Because Some People Get Stuck In Spots Where They Think Only One Thing Matters Or They Are Hurt Or ...
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