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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- My Husband Is Always Angry and Moody: Why Is My Husband So Moody Lately - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Is Always Angry and Moody: Why Is My Husband So Moody Lately Most marriages die a slow, agonizing death from too little compassion. Compassion is sympathy for the hurt or distress of another. At heart it is simple appreciation of the basic human frailty we all share. When you feel ...
Views: 1767 - Couples Therapy - How to Deal with Your Spouses Annoying Habits - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola BeerWhat are your spouse's most annoying habits? Is it the way they talk, eat, sit, clean up or snore when they sleep? Do they perhaps hum an annoying tune or crack their knuckles? And when was the last time they did something that irritated you? Last week? Yesterday? An hour ago? One of the most ...
Views: 1766 - Introducing the Tantrum Club! - by Submitted on May 19, 2013 from Adele TheronIT’S TIME TO THROW A TANTRUM! Women since generations ago, have been told to be polite, ladylike, calm and collected and in the midst of struggle to rise above and push through. But what’s the definition of pushing through? Some people are content to spend hours rationalising whether their ...
Views: 1765(1 vote) - Divorce - Defying the Odds When the Cards are Stacked Against You - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Nicole NenningerOn the list of major life stressors, divorce comes in second; only the death of a spouse is first. It used to be that the death of a spouse was the number one reason why marriages ended. Now it's divorce (Steiner, Suarez, Sells, & Wykes, 2011). And, even though people are aware of the ...
Views: 1764(2 votes) - Dr Romance Video: Should you stay in your marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2013 from Tina TessinaClick here for video. Dr Romance: Should you stay in your marriage? Marriage can be frustrating and disappointing, especially if you don't have the skills to fix it. But giving in to the frustration and leaving may turn out to be the worst thing you ever did. Consider these ...
Views: 1764(2 votes) - How to Change the 5 Negative Thought Patterns that Lead to Divorce... and Transform Your Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola BeerAfter the honeymoon period in a relationship is over, and our partner raises complaints about us, or does things we don't agree with or is somehow absent, we often start to make or draw slightly negative conclusions about them or the relationship. Typically it starts off as a thought one day, ...
Views: 1764 - Opposites Attract, But They May Not Last, Unless… - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2014 from Michael BroderMost couples can name several ways in which they’re opposites: neatness versus sloppiness; extroversion versus introversion; being high-strung versus laid-back preferring city versus country living, etc. And I'm sure you have something in mind that's specific to you. It’s true that quite often ...
Views: 1764 - "Divorce Advice: Getting Divorce Advice From the Right Source" - by Submitted on May 29, 2004 from Karl AugustineGetting the right type of divorce advice depends on what type of divorce advice you want and what you want to use it for. When looking for advice about divorce, it is smart to clearly define what you are seeking the advice for so you can be sure to look in the right places. Seems simple enough ...
Views: 1763 - Divorce, Debt & Credit... Facts you need to know - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2008 from Mike KillianBefore a divorce, during, and after getting a divorce you need to concern yourself with credit... credit establishment, credit files and credit scores. Though divorce and credit is a concern for both men and woman, woman tend to have the greater credit difficulty due to societal standards. ...
Views: 1763 - Are You The One Who Wanted It To Work? - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2013 from Tina Tessina3 Must Do's + 2 Don'ts That Can Help You Today Are you about to be dumped? Your mate/date is losing interest? The signs are: lack of attention in conversation and being together; irritability -- refusal to talk about it, no sex or less interest. Here's what to do if you ARE dumped. 1. DO ...
Views: 1762(1 vote) - Top 10 Tips to Live Your Best Life - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteIf you’re not already living your best life its time to do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around. I challenge you to put your whole self in! An extraordinary life well lived and well told is an inside job. Here are 10 tips to get you headed in your highest and best direction: 1. Be ...
Views: 1760 - Fair Fighting Rules for Separation and Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from TR CarderEmotions can run riot during separation or divorce. High value topics such as child custody, property division, child support and security get shuffled with advice and criticism from all corners, to create a mental tangle that can shake up even the coolest customer. Add a couple of divorce ...
Views: 1758(2 votes) - Attempting a Better Relationship After Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Ray Kadkhodaian,CAC,LCPC,CADC,PsyD & Jean Kadkhodaian,MA,CH,Rev.Better relationship? The Chicago Cubs? You may be asking what the two have in common. Back in 2003, it was extremely disappointing watching the 7th game between the Chicago Cubs and the Florida Marlins. The game started out great and somewhere along the way, it headed south. There were many Cub ...
Views: 1757 - Caring For Parents = Divorce? - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2013 from Tina Tessina7 Tips To Keep Your Marriage On Track When Helping Family Members If your parents are elderly and becoming infirm, or if there are others who require special care in your family, due to disability or illness the situation you will need to figure out how to maintain a balance between your ...
Views: 1756 - My Wife Has Lost Her Feelings for Me: My Wife No Longer Has Feelings for Me - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Has Lost Her Feelings for Me: My Wife No Longer Has Feelings for Me My wife has lost her feelings for me isn't something you ever want to hear yourself saying. Even though we're all well aware of the staggering divorce rates, we still get married with the intention of being with our ...
Views: 1754 - Dear Dr. Romance: The most traumatic experience of my entire life - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Recently I have been trying to cope with the most traumatic experience of my entire life. I am a grandmother and homemaker who has been deserted by my spouse and left both homeless and penniless. (I am staying at the home of a friend now.) After weeks of ...
Views: 1752 - Divorce getting you down? Here's the secret to coping. - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltAt this point in your divorce journey, you may have already done some research. You may have already talked to a lawyer. You may have already gone on some support forums to see if others have experienced the same crap that you are feeling right now. Some of what others on the forums, or what ...
Views: 1752 - Looking For Love After Divorce? - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2013 from Tina TessinaDon't Repeat Past Mistakes. Follow These Three Tips Looking for love after divorce? Here are three tips to help as you begin dating after your divorce. 1. Be suspicious if it all seems “too good to be true” – it probably is. If your subconscious, neurotic needs are running the show, it’s ...
Views: 1752(2 votes) - My Husband Was Fired From His Job: Dealing With Husband Being Fired - What To Do When Your Husband Gets Fired - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Was Fired From His Job: Dealing With Husband Being Fired - What To Do When Your Husband Gets Fired If your spouse loses his or her job, it can be a very scary situation. You may wonder how in the world your family will pay the bills you receive each month - or even how you're ...
Views: 1752 - Things women should know and avoid in a relationship - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Dia ThabetThings women should know and avoid in a relationship What are the obstacles that stand in the way of the relationship’s happiness? How can a woman drive the man she loves away? Being in a relationship is like a company that is shared between two people. Every relationship and marriage ...
Views: 1751(4 votes) - 4 Tips for a Cheater: Get Your Marriage Back on Track - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2016 from Tina TessinaTo recover from infidelity and save your marriage: 1. Tell the Truth. Assuming your spouse found out, you didn't confess—this is the time to tell the whole truth. It's probably best done with a therapist present, to keep a lid on the emotional reactions. 2. Give your Spouse the ...
Views: 1750 - The Top Secret to Performing Courageous Acts - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2012 from Debbi DickinsonMy definition of courage is to feel the fear and do it anyway. Through recovery regardless if it’s divorce or addiction; I see women continuously performing courageous acts. These are actions they take that move them forward and they need to be acknowledged and celebrated. So, what would ...
Views: 1750 - Dating After Divorce: Be Careful About How You Tell Your Kids - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Rosalind SedaccaBy Rosalind Sedacca, CCT We all know divorce creates havoc in any family’s life, especially when children are involved. Moving on after divorce can also be challenging. It’s a time to be very gentle, both with yourself as well as with your children. Chances are, you made a considerable ...
Views: 1746 - Divorce Counseling: Getting Through Divorce with Hope - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Krystal KuehnNo one gets married thinking they will get divorced some day. Most people have goals and dreams of being together forever, raising a family, and sharing life for better or for worse. They plan on being a team, growing together, and supporting one another. But somewhere along the line, they ...
Views: 1741(3 votes) - How Divorce Affects Your Children - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Shelley StileRecently I spoke with a woman whose coaching practice revolves around the issue of children and divorce. She had many useful strategies for dealing with this challenge but what it all seemed to come down to is this: if you love your children more than you might hate, resent or simply dislike ...
Views: 1739(1 vote) - My Wife Is Bored With Me: What To Do When Your Marriage Is Boring - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Is Bored With Me: What To Do When Your Marriage Is Boring Every woman has some complaint about her marriage. It's virtually impossible to find a wife who will tell you that everything her husband does for her or each thing he says makes her happy. Marriage is certainly all about ...
Views: 1737 - ABC's Of Overcoming Fear Associated With Abuse - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2011 from Laura Bonetzky-JosephA - Acknowledge the abuse - past, present and future B- Break the Silence C- Confront your fears & Call for help - There is nothing to be ashamed of D - Don't Blame Yourself - Deliberately set intentions towards empowerment E - Everyone Can Heal F- Fear is worse than the abuse ...
Views: 1736(4 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: My daughter told me that she can't take it anymore and wanted to kill herself - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a divorced father of 3. I am remarried. My 11 year old daughter is very upset about her mother's new boyfriend that is also still married. He was first introduced as a friend but she doesn't understand why he is always at the house and stays till late at night. My ...
Views: 1736 - My Wife Is Always Angry and Now She Wants A Divorce: My Wife Gets Angry Over Little Things - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMost husbands tell me that they can't seem to win with their wives. The old saying "Damned if I do, damned if I don't" gets said a lot! But it goes deeper than that if your wife is always angry and now she wants a divorce. You can freak out if you like, but that's not going to help your ...
Views: 1736 - Don't Make The Same Mistake Twice! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2013 from Tina TessinaDating Again? Use These Five Tips On Every Date! You’re fresh out of a disaster, and you are terrified of the thought of dating again, but you’re going to try anyway. Good for you! Here are some guidelines to help you avoid repeating old mistakes: 1. Pay Attention! You Have Things to ...
Views: 1734(1 vote) - Three Tips for Keeping your Sanity & Poise when interacting with your Ex during the Most Wonderful Time of the Year - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2008 from Debra Brown GordyThree Tips for Keeping your Sanity & Poise when interacting with your Ex during the Most Wonderful Time of the Year I remember it well – my first Christmas after my divorce from my children’s dad. I dreaded it coming. Not only were my two young daughters going to be with their ...
Views: 1734 - 3 Tips Single Parents Need To Know - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaHow To Be a Happier -- and More Successful -- Single Parent Are you a single parent struggling with how to make it all work? Dr. Romance offers three tips to happier single parenting. 1. Be a Grownup. I know you’ve probably had a tough time, but you’re a parent, and your child’s ...
Views: 1733(1 vote) - Break Up Killer - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2012 from Cameron A Bailey SrBreakup killer will be each time a husband or wife will be negative mouthed facing their particular youngsters. In addition, it can happen if the some other father or mother will be shortage. I could also bear in mind that taking place because the little one reminds an individual with the some ...
Views: 1732 - Get over an ex by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomGet over an ex by Rosemary Price psychic. Your ex has decided to finish your relationship. How to get over an ex?! While things were going well you were happy or at least content and you probably had no idea that things would turn out so badly. Either your partner changed and there was no way ...
Views: 1732(5 votes) - Three Ways to Let Go of Self-Sabotaging Stories - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2014 from Debra PayneStories can create your reality. Which reality will you choose? What kinds of stories do you tell yourself? Here are a few common examples of stories: • I can’t lose weight! • I’ll never find love! • I’m too old, fat, thin, stupid, short, tall, etcetera! Stories are the collection ...
Views: 1730 - How to Save Your Marriage When One Wants Out: When One Spouse Wants a Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow to Save Your Marriage When One Wants Out: When One Spouse Wants a Divorce Hearing your spouse telling you that they want a divorce can be devastating. This is particularly true if you are still feeling committed to the relationship. When one spouse wants a divorce and the other doesn't, ...
Views: 1729 - Dear Dr. Romance: I just want my husband and best friend back - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband and I married more than five years ago, in our early 30s. We had a good marriage. We agreed that if we would sit down and talk things out should we have issues. We always held true to that until his mom died several months ago. He was very close to ...
Views: 1727 - 6 Best Tips for a Great Valentine's Day - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2016 from Darlene LancerValentine’s Day creates a lot of expectations that are often unrealized. It's fraught with landmines, whether you’re in or out of a relationship, the grass isn’t always greener. Is your situation described here? Read six tips to having a great holiday. You’re Alone I can recall Valentine’s ...
Views: 1724(3 votes) - My Wife Hates Me and Wants a Divorce: My Wife Says She Hates Me All the Time - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Wife Hates Me and Wants a Divorce: My Wife Says She Hates Me All the Time In a society that we live in now, marriage is not the top priority for most people. They are comfortable with divorce and seek it easily if they are not satisfied in a marriage. There are very few people who still ...
Views: 1724 - 3 Smart Moves for Women who are Separating - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Nancy KayIf you are considering separating from your husband, you are probably overwhelmed with the emotional swings of wondering what will happen next. You may not even want a divorce and are trying hard to reconcile. During a time like this, you may not realize just how critical it is to take ...
Views: 1723(1 vote) - Talking To Children About Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2007 from Thalia FerencThe Elephant in the Living Room is a concept drawn from alcoholic family system treatment that sometimes applies in divorcing families as well. The idea is that everyone in the family sees the elephant that has come to live in the home but no one talks about it. They just walk around it, ...
Views: 1723 - Divorce: Stop Hoarding the Hurt! - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2011 from Antonia RagozzinoIt's Time For Spring Cleaning! Divorce can cause a large amount of physical and mental hurt. No matter how long it has been since your divorce, do not be victims of hoarding the hurt. Sure, hoarding your hurt is easy. You have ached for so long, it is all you know. In the beginning, we ...
Views: 1721 - Help! My Spouse is Driving Me Mad – 6 Steps to Deal with Annoying Habits - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2015 from Nicola BeerWhat’s are your spouse’s most annoying habits? Is it the way they talk, eat, sit, clean up? Do they perhaps hum an annoying tune or crack their knuckles? When was the last time they did something that irritated you? Last week? Yesterday? An hour ago? One of the most annoying things about ...
Views: 1721 - I Suspect My Wife Is Cheating but I Have No Proof: How to Ask Your Partner If They Are Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Suspect My Wife Is Cheating but I Have No Proof: How to Ask Your Partner If They Are Cheating Are you convinced that your spouse has been cheating on you? Does your problem now pertain to finding the right strategy on how to confront a cheating spouse? I must say that not rushing with ...
Views: 1721 - The ultimate divorce parenting calendar - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Jainarain (Jai) KissoonWith kids, after divorce or separation, setting up a color-coded calendar can make sharing custody a lot easier. It can become easy to make mistakes if you don’t have a master calendar. It may seem simple to calculate in your head or by simply hand counting the weeks, however; the simple ...
Views: 1721(1 vote) - Parent/Child Communication – even more vital Post-Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Rosalind SedaccaIt’s no secret that one of the biggest challenges a parent faces after divorce is staying in good communication with your children. Obviously all parents struggle with communication issues as their children grow, but children who have had their lives dramatically altered by separation or divorce ...
Views: 1720(2 votes) - Spousal Emotional Abuse During Divorce--What You Can Do - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Ed ShermanIs your spouse violent, abusive, harassing? In cases of harassment or violence there are legal remedies and there are practical things you can and must do for yourself. This is not about reaching agreement--these are strategies for self-defense. Mental and physical abuse must never be tolerated. ...
Views: 1720 - Women Money & Divorce: 5 Tips to Come Out on Top - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Patti FaganA woman in her mid-fifties came in to see me about retirement planning. She had been divorced for five years and all she had left to her name was $200,000 sitting in cash. Like most women, during the divorce settlement negotiations, she let emotions rule and turned down the retirement ...
Views: 1719 - 6 Steps To Get Over An Ex - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2012 from Kara OhA women wrote to me today asking for some guidance. She said she was having difficulty moving on after breaking up with her boyfriend, even though the relationship wasn’t working. One thing I know about moving on is that you can’t remove something without putting something else in it’s place. ...
Views: 1718 - Long Distance Marriage Falling Apart: How To Make Long-Distance Marriage Work - Long Distance Marriage Problems - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenLong Distance Marriage Falling Apart: How To Make Long-Distance Marriage Work - Long Distance Marriage Problems All you need is love. That is what the films and songs say, but what happens when your love or whole family is living hundreds, or even thousands of miles away in another ...
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