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- How to Survive Dating Men - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the most common questions asked by women is ‘What do Men Want.’ The most painful question is ‘Why?’ These two questions put together cause heartache and distrust in millions of women. It is easy to start seeing every man as a commitment-phobe, or someone with attachment issues, but this ...
Views: 3381(4 votes) - Problem Page - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomIt has become "normal" and not just accepted but expected that people turn to a problem page when they are in need of advice, support, sympathy, understanding, care, a listening ear, a sounding board and advice. For this reason there are now various websites offering their advice columns, ...
Views: 967(4 votes) - Rebound Relationships: When to Get Back in the Game? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Michele OMaraWhen a relationship ends, one of two things is typically happening. One, you are being spared something (such as a life with someone who is not well-suited to be your partner); or you are being prepared for something new (learning lessons that will prove invaluable to you in your next ...
Views: 2978(8 votes) - Best Friends and Lovers - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Lilly WhiteFirst meeting should be about building a friendship before initiating sex. The friendship will be the foundation to keep the relationship cemented in place. When working on a friendship there is no fear of being your self. Trust is built first out of friendship and grows more with every ...
Views: 2389(11 votes) - ***How to Make Every Date Great - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThe first ten minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is ever going to happen, and let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste." Date waste is when a date is a drag but has little to do ...
Views: 1556(14 votes) - ***A Guide to Finding If Mr. Right is Right for Me - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2011 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. How will I know when I find Mr. Right? What if I am making a big mistake? Is he really the ONE, or should I walk away? These are critical questions women must ask themselves when they try to decide whether to move on with a serious relationship ...
Views: 4043(50 votes) - ***"What Looking for Love and Birthing a Baby Have in Common" - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerThere are so many women I care deeply about —both friends and clients — who are holding themselves back from bringing love into their lives. Are you one of them? Are you saying "I want a fabulous man in my life" and "I know I'm a catch," yet not doing much to actually reach your self-described ...
Views: 1351(9 votes) - ***He's Probably Not Emotionally Unavailable After All: Beware Of Mislabeling - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangFreedom, separation, aggression, conquest, goal seeking and sex are the basic nature of testosterone. You’ve seen how many wars and conquests have been waged by men since the beginning of time. That’s the side effect of testosterone. It has also contributed to so much magnificence in the ...
Views: 18727(3 votes) - ***Is Your Prince Charming The Right Guy to Marry? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2013 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. We all know the Cinderella Story. For sure, it is a wonderful story worth telling and re-telling. The story does indeed warm the heart, lift the spirit, and it gives all young women the hope that they will find true love for a lifetime. The ...
Views: 1731(9 votes) - ***Let's Agree to Face Our Fear - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and keep you safe and snug-as-a-bug-in-a-rug without the worry of that pesky intimacy thing. "There ...
Views: 1606(6 votes) - ***Managing Expectations Goes A Long Way In Keeping Your Man Attracted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen have a love-hate relationship with their mothers. They love their moms to death, yet they loath the feeling of being mothered (i.e. being told what to do/not to do). Now they are adults and live on their own, they don't need another woman -and much younger at that- replacing their mother's ...
Views: 12396(3 votes) - ***Want to Sound As Good As You Look? - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2011 from Nancy DanielsWhen it comes to image, everyone is concerned about how they look, how they project themselves, what they say and what they wear. Yet few are aware that the sound of their speaking voice accounts for a large part of that image. So, my question to you is, do you like hearing your voice on your ...
Views: 3202(3 votes) - ***Why Less Is More In Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe key of dating an emotionally unavailable man who wants to take things slow is to let him set the pace. Expect that he will go hot and cold. Mirror him in everything he does. When he's hot, reciprocate that, this is your time to establish bonding. When he's cold, also keep a distance. ...
Views: 32662(3 votes) - 3 Easy Ways To Having A Meaningful Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2011 from Lisa PhillipsDo you want to know how to take charge and stay in a loving relationship? In today’s world everything is so fast paced that we tend to have short and shallow relationships with others. It can be very difficult to stay in a dedicated relationship when most people have such short attention spans. ...
Views: 1682(3 votes) - 4 Signs of Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2012 from Marni BattistaAre you frustrated by your "broken picker?" Learn how to navigate the tricky space between picky and selective using these four tips! If you are sick of attracting men who are emotionally unavailable, it's not because you have a "broken picker!" More likely, you are not listening to what he ...
Views: 4064(3 votes) - 5 Personality Types of Women and How To Attract Them - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2016 from Chris ChandraIf you don’t have much experience in the dating field you might make the mistake of believing all women have the same personality types and treat them the same way. Or You might already know that you have to treat different personality types with a unique approach but not know what those ...
Views: 7999(3 votes) - 5 Tips For Meeting Women That Every Man Ought To Know - by Submitted on May 15, 2008 from Dan And JenniferFinally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question... (And you have to be honest with me here!) Is meeting women hard for you to do? Do you feel afraid when it comes to meeting women? And is that fear keeping you from ...
Views: 13378(3 votes) - 6 Best Tips for a Great Valentine's Day - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2016 from Darlene LancerValentine’s Day creates a lot of expectations that are often unrealized. It's fraught with landmines, whether you’re in or out of a relationship, the grass isn’t always greener. Is your situation described here? Read six tips to having a great holiday. You’re Alone I can recall Valentine’s ...
Views: 1596(3 votes) - Breaking-Up: Should You Leave Or Can you get the Change You Want? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Darlene LancerIs your relationship or marriage just, well, so-so? Maybe you’re not sure if you still love or ever loved your partner? Maybe he or she has many good traits – is kind, or generous, funny, or the sex is great. She’s gorgeous, or he showers you with kindness – but something is missing. Maybe your ...
Views: 1222(3 votes) - COUPLES COUNSELING - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Darlene LancerIt's very important that couples seek therapy early on, while there is still good will between them. Like with any wound, the longer it festers, the more difficult is the healing process. When couples enter therapy to "save" their marriage from divorce, often one spouse has already left ...
Views: 1559(3 votes) - Courtship Vs Dating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Terri SmithThere is a distinct difference between courtship and dating, though many people are not quite aware of it. In fact, many people are not even aware that a courtship even exists. Why should they? Our society has fallen into a habit of dating, then suddenly marrying. Divorce runs rampant, and many ...
Views: 5054(3 votes) - Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2020 from Randi FredricksMost of us found dating difficult prior to getting married, and it isn’t generally any simpler after divorce. Everybody has baggage, but divorced people frequently have a tendency to carry much more of it, particularly when they’re just coming back towards the dating scene. This is one of the ...
Views: 1470(3 votes) - Dr. Romance: Why am I assumed to be a cougar good for only one thing? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a single woman in my late 40's. I've had several serious relationships, but unfortunately, although I lived with a couple of them, I've never been married. I have a minor physical disability, a stomach condition, but I am attractive, I look younger than I am, I'm well ...
Views: 2312(6 votes) - ecospiritdating - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2011 from kelly kingToday sees the launch of a new site for people interested in all things Green and/or spiritual who are seeking dates, friends or community connections. Ecospiritdating.com aims to build a bridge between two often like-minded communities: the spiritual and the eco/Green. They are not mutually ...
Views: 1167(3 votes) - Escorts London services Provided by Many Reputed Escort Agencies - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Krenik DorrIn time of visiting London, you need to have a good companion cum guide, who will make you sure of the place and will discuss of the place nicely. Escorts London is always available to all of you. If you want to get a joyous journey, you may take boys or girls as the guide and company. This ...
Views: 2776(3 votes) - How to Be Noticed and Get More Respect – The Art of Sensuous Seduction - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Allura JoyIf you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he ...
Views: 3187(6 votes) - How to Date a Nice Guy - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI constantly work with women who are tired of cycling through ‘bad boys’ or dysfunctional relationships. They want to find someone worth spending the rest of their lives with. The problem is that they may not be able to identify the ‘nice guys.’ Even if they can, there is baggage they cannot ...
Views: 10847(3 votes) - I'd Rather Stay Single than be A Home Wrecker - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Grace AbonilloBeing a single mother, most of us happen to have a hard time getting into a serious relationship. Almost all the time it always ends up to a short lived love affair. There are some men who thought that when you are a single mother, you are that desperate to have a relationship and most likely ...
Views: 2553(3 votes) - Mental Scan of Potentiality - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineDating is an opportunity to Get out and socialize. Have an open mind! Stop screening everyone as a potential and likely candidate for the perfect mate and start enjoying people and experiences for the pleasure of them. Start living and being present with the people whom you meet rather than ...
Views: 736(3 votes) - Millennials and Intimacy: What’s not adding up? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2015 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverFor the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic ...
Views: 2740(3 votes) - Optimal Thinking - by Have any of these thoughts ever crossed your mind?
I deserve the best in life. How can I make the most of this situation? What¡¯s the best solution? I¡¯m taking the smartest actions toward my most important goal. I¡¯m doing my best. I¡¯m maximizing my options. What¡¯s the most constructive use ...
Views: 884(3 votes) - Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ...
Views: 5406(3 votes) - Relationship Advice - Handling Things and Getting By - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Sarah Anand AnmaThe longer I love, the more I see how universally beneficial it is to give someone the dignity of their own experience. I have so many examples where, when I allowed someone to do what they needed to do-no matter how much I thought I knew the solution to their problem - they always seemed to ...
Views: 1593(3 votes) - Relationships: What Does A Relationship Mean To You? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThere is no doubting the importance that relationships have in life. They have the power to create incredible happiness, meaning and fulfilment. And they also have the power to create extreme unhappiness, pain and emptiness. For some people, the good that a relationship brings, outweighs the ...
Views: 1765(3 votes) - Talk to a woman - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from R. Paul ElliottTo talk to a woman seems to be one of the most written about subjects in the world. Also other parallel subjects such as, how to meet women, how to talk to girls, countless articles about strategies and plans for getting dates, seduction tips and it seems the list goes on forever. Shades of ...
Views: 1079(3 votes) - What's love got to do with it? part3: "We must grow." - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Eric LittleHey! I know it's a truly a stretch to establish real conversation beyond the superficial as it relates to love and relationships. I will passionately press this topic as far as I must to offer a helpful contribution to the conversation. To those that may be following this conversation I thank ...
Views: 1300(3 votes) - When Looks, Charm, & Confidence Simply Aren't Enough: Why Bad Breath Could Be The Secret Hidden Cause of Virtually All Your Past Dating Failures! - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Tomas O CaomhanachImagine this: You're a handsome, charming guy. And you're in a bar, chatting up a beautiful girl. To the casual observer, you seem to have it all: great looks, great hair, great body, and great personality; you seem confident and sure of yourself, saying and doing all the right things. It ...
Views: 808(3 votes) - When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature ...
Views: 5238(3 votes) - When Should You Discuss the "R" Word--Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2010 from Marni BattistaFor many men (and women) it seems the word, relationship has become a “bad” word. Remember when you were in grade school, worried about getting caught using one of George Carlin’s “7 Words You Can Never Say on Television?” These words were loaded. You discussed them with your friends. You ...
Views: 3015(9 votes) - Who Are You Allergic To? - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Tanisha HallIf you’ve ever dealt with allergies, you know how brutal they can be. An allergy, or intolerance, is defined as: hypersensitivity reaction to a particular allergen; symptoms can vary greatly in intensity. I swear, that perfectly describes my last relationship!!! So then I started thinking. ...
Views: 1156(3 votes) - ***Key #3 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Shed Your Stuff - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThis is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. I know you are a fabulous, smart, ...
Views: 1751(17 votes) - ***The Risks of On-Line Dating - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. The on-line scams are numerous and recurring. Most of them cost you money. And worse! Just today, someone co-opted a friend of ours by using a fake email address similar to his and sending it to a zillion people asking them to wire him money. ...
Views: 3375(44 votes) - Introduction to "Conscious Dating" - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from Nicole BaikieI know you must be wondering what on earth do I mean by "Conscious Dater" you are thinking yes I have had some lousy dates but I honestly can't remember falling asleep on any of them! With the understanding of how stress impacts our overall health and well being, it would only be wise to ...
Views: 2057(11 votes) - 3 Blaring Signs Your Ex Wants You Back - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterBreaking up is not something I wish upon anyone, even my worst nemesis. It can cause you to have all sorts of emotions. It happens a lot to people, wanting to know if your ex wants you back or having second thoughts about you. Especially if you there weren't any signs of a breakup. These clues ...
Views: 7779(8 votes) - Moving from an Online Acquaintance to a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2013 from Noreen RuthMeeting people online can be exciting, scary and even thrilling, especially when a virtual stranger is attracted to you and sends a personal email. Ongoing email exchanges and online chats may help bring you closer to each other but are far from the reality of what it takes to establish a ...
Views: 4994(8 votes) - Natural Relationships - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Radomir SamardzicIn the last few years since I’ve been selling The Relationship Saver and coaching people in their relationships, I have come to see an interesting trend in age-old beliefs and behaviors taken for granted, never questioning whether they work or if there is a better way to do things. Namely, there ...
Views: 1839(8 votes) - She Will Fall in Love With You - But You Have to Know How to Make Her Feel That Way - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling ...
Views: 1306(8 votes) - Should Women Approach Men? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I have conflicting thoughts about whether or not it is okay for a female to initiate the conversation with the male. Many people that I know and even those on this board swear by the fact that it is the wrong thing to do. They say it will scare the man off or make him less ...
Views: 4239(8 votes) - The Secret to Love that Lasts - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2010 from Katherine ShinaultRelationships I can talk about relationships all day and they don’t have to be romantic; all relationships in our lives are important and worth evaluating to make them better. With this thought in the back of my mind, I recently read a blogpost, “The Key to Lasting Love May Surprise You,” ...
Views: 1255(8 votes) - Why Every Married Couple Ought To Date - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Greg BakerFor some reason, many couples find that much of the intrigue and interest in their relationship dwindled after marriage. One reason may be that the effort of pursuit and being pursued as evidenced by dating is no longer a part of the couples’ lives. Dating, at least once a week, will renew the ...
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