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- Why I Always Loved Dating Women with Children - by Submitted on May 20, 2012 from Jonathon AslayAs a Dating and Relationship Coach I'd heard single moms bemoan the idea that men do not want to date women with children but let me share why I always loved dating women with children. As a 40-year-old man having just gone through a divorce, I found myself thrust back into the dating scene. ...
Views: 2505 - Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if ...
Views: 2852(2 votes) - Three Keys to Busting Out of Bewilderment with Your Beau - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but ...
Views: 2022(2 votes) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Jonathon AslayDating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man. As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must ...
Views: 2119(2 votes) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIf you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ...
Views: 3558(2 votes) - How Our Past Affects Our Relationships Today - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThere are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and ...
Views: 2072(2 votes) - Are You Rushing the Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHave you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies ...
Views: 5059(2 votes) - Relationships and Conflict of Expectations - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHas your girl friend ever said this: “What does it take to get him to change” ? Or have you received advice from a friend saying: “You just need to train him how you want him to be”? As a Relationship Coach and the Heart Protector of Women I want to tackle the topic of trying to change ...
Views: 2371(1 vote) - Three Keys to Reboot the Romance in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from Jonathon AslayWomen have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will ...
Views: 3416(2 votes) - When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature ...
Views: 5168(3 votes) - Five Keys to Avoid Desperate Dating - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIn my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with ...
Views: 3187(4 votes) - The Love Language of a Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of concern for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he ...
Views: 7353(5 votes) - DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU? - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2011 from Jonathon AslayYou remember the scene, yellow daisy in hand, the girl is picking petals off one at a time reciting “He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me...” and hoping for the luck of the draw. Relationships can feel like this wondering if he really does love you at all. How will you know for sure? As ...
Views: 2134(2 votes) - Warning Signs when Dating Divorced Men - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Jonathon AslayOftentimes when a woman has come out of a failed marriage her vision is not as clear as it needs to be regarding dating. Re-entering the social arena can be a bit daunting especially when her prospects will most likely be divorced men. There are several danger zones one must recognize in ...
Views: 4754(2 votes) - Seduction: From the Avenue to the Altar - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHas seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his ...
Views: 2116(1 vote) - How to Catch a Man and Keep Him Happy - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIt doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that men are attracted to gorgeous women, but it does get complicated for women to understand what keeps men interested. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind women are always asking me what men are looking for in a woman. They want to know what he needs ...
Views: 2609(3 votes) - Finding Mr. Good Guy - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Jonathon AslayFrequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with ...
Views: 1877(2 votes) - He’s Distancing Himself! – What Does it all Mean? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational ...
Views: 21381(5 votes) - Attraction Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the attraction anxiety many of you encounter. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical appearance that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to ...
Views: 4237(2 votes) - Dating men of 40: Time, Attention and Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Coach to Women over forty, I have the opportunity to give a listening ear to many who have either been dating for a while or are just getting back into the dating adventure. A lot of the women I hear from are frustrated because they feel the man in their life does not give ...
Views: 2189(2 votes) - Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When ...
Views: 2697(4 votes) - Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ...
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