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- You Can Impress a Girl Without Gifts: Here's How - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2009 from Carey BainRespecting the well known fact that girls are emotional and easily fall for things that touch their hearts, it's not difficult to impress a girl without gifts. So, if you are on a tight budget or not willing to loosen your pocket for her, you still stand a chance to become her darling. Guys ...
Views: 7434(10 votes) - Finding the Love You Want: The Cure for Being Single When Nothing Else Has Worked - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Stefan GonickFinding the Love You Want by Healing the Inner Child with EFT Many people find themselves in an endless and frustrating search for love. They either have an very hard time finding a partner or end up having a series of unhappy and unsuccessful relationships. Why is finding love so hard ...
Views: 4395(17 votes) - ***The Top 10 Things to do on a GREEN DATE - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2009 from Jill CrosbyHaving a green lifestyle in general is very important to most of us, so why not take it a step further and make sure that your dating lifestyle is also green. Here are 10 great, green dating ideas: • Green Volunteerism! Spend time learning and talking about causes or issues that are most ...
Views: 2513(7 votes) - 5 Reliable Signs Your Crush is Attracted to You - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Michael LeeYou can never be too old or too young to have a crush on someone. I still remember my first crush back in grade school. Her name was Julie - pretty eyes and long, black hair. Back then, I sort of had an idea of how she felt about me as well. Thankfully, the signs your crush likes you haven’t ...
Views: 14880(7 votes) - Rejection is a Gift! - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2009 from Patricia OmoquiDid I get your attention? You might be sitting there thinking, “Patricia, you are really pushing it! You are just plain crazy with your positivity by calling rejection a gift. Rejection hurts too much to be good for me in any way.” I can relate to your viewpoint because I used to feel that ...
Views: 4489(26 votes) - ***He Says He's Not Ready For A Relationship, Should I Agree To "Friends With Benefits" Instead? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangA fan wrote me a heartfelt email: Hi Katarina, me and my bf of almost 2 years broke up about 3 and a half months ago. It was not a bad break up, but he felt like he could not handle the pressure of a full-blown relationship. In the time that we have been apart I have learned a lot and recently ...
Views: 20113(8 votes) - ***If You Are Suffering from Vocal Abuse, Voice Training Is the Only Answer - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2012 from Nancy DanielsI hear it on a daily basis. People complaining to me that they are constantly hoarse, have a persistent sore throat, or lose their voice by the end of the day. The one I just read about is a young man who wants to speak louder in the clubs without hurting his throat. Unfortunately, vocal ...
Views: 2266(4 votes) - ***The 6 Keys To Spiritual Dating - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Jill Crosby“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no “rules” or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ...
Views: 2170(4 votes) - Am I Attractive Enough? - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2008 from Radomir SamardzicHow many times a day do we wonder: am i attractive enough? The answer is not simple, yet it is. You are and you are not. It depends on to whom you are talking and what you mean by attractive. Why do we play this “attractive” game when we don’t know what we want to achieve by trying so hard to be ...
Views: 11645(8 votes) - Can we be friends? The ABCs of Ex Etiquette - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanCan we be friends? After a breakup, this simple question can weigh heavy on your mind. As a heartbreak reinvention coach, I often hear this question from clients. And my answer is always the same — no. Why? Because as hard as it may be to accept, your relationship is over. This person is ...
Views: 2694(4 votes) - Could This Be Why You’re Single? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2011 from Kara OhI was talking to a 37 year old man today – I’ll call him Jake – about his recent experiences with women. He related a conversation he had on the phone with a woman he hadn’t even met yet. She told him she had 63 things on her list that she was looking for in a man. She’d recently met one who ...
Views: 1618(4 votes) - How to Escape the Friend Zone - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuIf you’re a guy and you’ve been hanging around a girl you like quite a lot, but nothing sexual happened between you, chances are you’re in the friend zone. Here’s how to escape it. The friend zone is an emerging concept in to world of dating and male-female encounters. This term is used to ...
Views: 3243(4 votes) - How To Make Him Emotionally Attached To You So He Can't Let You Go - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangHow many of you are confronted with a situation that the guy you are dating and attracted to is not really ready to move your relationship to the next level? Or that he hasn't taken down his profile from the dating site yet after a few months seeing each other? It feels scary for you now that ...
Views: 46483(4 votes) - I Just Got Dumped - Now What? - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from John MooreIn this article, John D. Moore from http://www.mychicagotherapist.com write about getting dumped in a relationship. In this article: • Explore getting dumped • Assess the normal feelings associated with a breakup • Review five survival tips for the “Big D”. Here are four words that ...
Views: 4656(4 votes) - The Best Way to Kiss Women - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2007 from Ali BinazirToday I'm going to talk about one of our favorite topics of all time—Kissing Girls. The way I think about it, there are certain milestones in a relationship. You can pretty much divide a relationship with a woman into two distinct periods: the Era Before the First Kiss, and the Era After the ...
Views: 8129(4 votes) - The Seven Stages of a Romantic Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2010 from Michelle CastoThere are seven stages in a romantic relationship: avoidance, meeting, dating, breaking up, establishing exclusivity, commitment, and keeping the love you find. Each of these stages vary in length and intensity. At each stage, there are thoughts and feelings telling you what to do and when to do ...
Views: 9475(4 votes) - Why Believing All the Good Men are Taken is Keeping You Single - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Shay Banks“I’m so fat,” my friend exclaimed. She’s a whole size 8, which is celebrity speak, that makes her about the size of Beyonce. In her defense, she is shorter and is packing more in her bum than Beyonce, but, she’s still thin nonetheless. I didn’t comment after she said this because I know all too ...
Views: 3293(16 votes) - Dating Online or Meeting In Person - Which is Best For You? - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2009 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneAre you meeting people the old fashioned way - through personal introduction, at a party or bar, or by chance meeting? Or, are you finding the internet essential for maintaining your social life? Which way of meeting and getting to know a potential partner is best for you? In August 2003, 5 ...
Views: 1963(5 votes) - Dating Over 50: 5 Tips for Finding Love - by Re-entering the dating scene at the age of 50 or older can be downright intimidating. But when you approach it with the right mindset, it can also be an exhilarating and exciting experience. It all depends on your attitude.
Look at this time in your life as a new opportunity for change and ...
Views: 1296(5 votes) - Five Very Important Questions to Ask Yourself After a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaEvery breakup comes along with its own different set of mental ordeal. What precisely brought about the separation involving Andrew and Linda would likely have basic resemblance with what caused the breakup involving Julia and Frank, however, each has a number of unique attributes which needs to ...
Views: 3632(5 votes) - He’s Distancing Himself! – What Does it all Mean? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational ...
Views: 21458(5 votes) - How To Become A Goddess That Men Adore By Not Pining For Any Man - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangSome women get really hurt from just a few month fling? Why? Because they invest too much, too soon in the relationship and have soaring expectations of it. They buy into the fairy tale they concoct themselves that this is it: he's the One and they're "in love" not realizing that the dizzying ...
Views: 18369(5 votes) - How to Get (the Right) Man to Like You - by Submitted on May 30, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerI'm sure you know that in order to attract the right man you need to feel great about yourself. That's why Step One of my 6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him System is Who Am I: Falling in Love With Myself. You have to know why you rock and truly believe that you'll make some lucky man a superb ...
Views: 1647(5 votes) - The Three Most Important (yet overlooked!) Qualities in a Life Partner - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2011 from Roy Biancalana.If the three qualities I am going to describe in this article are not true in your life and in the life of the person you want to be with, your love life is doomed. I guarantee it. Am I exaggerating just to get your attention? No, I most definitely am not. If you are still looking for “The ...
Views: 3335(5 votes) - How to Spot a Decent Man - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Mandy Kloppers1. Is he reliable? Does he call when he says he will? Do his actions match his words? Remember that “talk is cheap” and that actions speak louder than words. A decent, reliable man will show congruence between what he says and what he does. If you are important he will want to make a good ...
Views: 1677(11 votes) - ***Be a Woman Who Knows That She is Enough - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerYour fear of being rejected because you are imperfect is exactly what is getting you rejected. Yah…I know I’ve written about this a million times, but two recent experiences reminded me of how major this is. So here I am reminding you in case you still don’t get it. Me…Popular? My Junior ...
Views: 1489(6 votes) - Checklist of 15 Questions to Answer YES to for a Healthy and Fulfilling Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Donna ThomasYou may have read books like the "The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success" by Deepak Chopra, or "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey, or "The 10 Keys to Personal Power" by Brian Tracy. Included here is The Checklist of 15 Questions To Answer YES to for Cultivating a Healthy ...
Views: 1180(6 votes) - Some Of The Signs Of Male Attraction - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo how could you really say or determine if a man is already attracted to you? Knowing the answers can tell if you find true love in your life. Well, what I am going to share with you are just some of the signs of male attraction. And some of these signs of male attraction are: 1. If a man ...
Views: 2026(5 votes) - How To Approach A Woman And Get Her Phone Number - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from dhale mercadoLet me share with you some tips on how to approach women and get phone numbers fast -- mainly how to get a girls phone number during the day time. These are essential techniques to learn, because I'm sure you are seeing gorgeous single women on a daily basis and not taking advantage of these ...
Views: 877(1 vote) - Online Dating Advice For The Boomer Woman - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe available Boomer Woman, is quite shy to advertise herself personally that she would like to meet men. Imagine her telling someone she meets that she would like to date and if that somebody knows someone who would be interested. Society might laugh at her that in her advanced age – 50 and ...
Views: 1376(1 vote) - The "Cold Read" Tactic For Flirting With Girls - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2010 from Dean CortezMy name is Dean Cortez and in “Mack Tactics,” my well-liked dating strategy manual for men, I stress that being original is the single most essential quality that you can convey to a female -- from the way you dress, to the way in which you approach the girls start conversations with them. ...
Views: 4325(1 vote) - The Attractions of Dating - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2012 from julia jameDating is an important social activity that all humans should participate in at one point or other of their lives. Some individuals may have more dating opportunities than others. This may be stemmed from the different factors that impact the individuals. Physical appearance Some ...
Views: 589(2 votes) - Why Not Average Joe: Exploring Melana's Choice - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2003 from Antoinette (Toni) ColemanAdmit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out loud as the group of "Average Joes" filed out of their bus to meet Melana that first night. You probably thought "no way" as you settled in for a soap about a beautiful girl's rejection of the geeks. Indeed, Melana herself stated, ...
Views: 2125(1 vote) - ***5 Must-Know Tips for Boomer Women Dating Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. My clients, women ranging from 35 – 65, are having great success with it. Face it: online dating is the new hot spot for people who wouldn’t dream of meeting someone in a bar. You know I’m a huge proponent of online ...
Views: 1420(1 vote) - ***Do You Actually Know When You're Being Rejected? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a favor. I think they know – consciously or not – that they won’t be able to give you what you need; and they know it before ...
Views: 2319(1 vote) - ***From Casual To Committed: Secret Of Capturing His Heart through Personal Transformation - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangA lot has changed since the publication of my book. I shared my personal story dealing with an emotionally unavailable man (EUM) I was seeing at the time. The friendship was great -we couldn't have bonded any tighter- but true to my own integrity as an author and coach (as per my own advice ...
Views: 15612(2 votes) - ***How to Decide When to Have Sex - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThe ladies in my Master the Mystery of Meeting Men telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. When is it okay to have it? How do you decide? This is such an important conversation! You may think "I'm not even dating yet...who cares!" But the decision may be closer than you think, and I want you ...
Views: 1448(8 votes) - ***How To Get A Man To Pursue You And Make Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2017 from Katarina PhangIt is in our nature as a woman to want to feel cherished by the man we love. We want to be wooed and pursued, to be made to feel special, adored and to be treated like a princess. The question is how far would a man be inspired to satisfy our primal needs as a woman? He's Really That Into ...
Views: 25820(2 votes) - ***How to Talk to Men (in a Way That They Like!) - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerNot only is it okay to talk about yourself to men, but it is 100% essential to getting first dates and future dates. When I tell women that it’s GOOD to talk about themselves, it’s generally met with complete shock. But don’t guys love it when we let them do all the talking? Well, yes. Who ...
Views: 1537(2 votes) - ***If You Want A Deeper Speaking Voice, Do Not Do This! - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Nancy DanielsRecently I have been reading some questionable articles about the various ways in which you can gain a deeper voice and I am appalled at the number of people who are giving advice. People who have no understanding of or training in the speaking voice. In addition, their tips and tricks are ...
Views: 4012(3 votes) - ***Imperfection Does Not Equal Rejection - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAre you perfect? Do you know anyone who is? Look at the people you know, especially those in midlife or older. Do you know anyone who hasn't had some rough times behind them or who are not currently facing life challenges? It’s doubtful, because this is real life; not the movies. Those of us ...
Views: 1647(2 votes) - ***Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerI learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside. Did you know that? I’m 52 years old, and for my entire life I’ve been doing it wrong. No wonder it was always a struggle! I was never able to ...
Views: 2472(4 votes) - ***Ladies, Plagued With a Voice That Is Irritating? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Nancy DanielsWomen often wonder why men don’t listen. There are a number of possibilities, one of which could be that your voice is irritating. If you have a whiny, high-pitched, nasal sound that is reminiscent of a poorly-tuned violin, then the image you are projecting is definitely not one of warmth, ...
Views: 3423(3 votes) - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2182(10 votes) - ***The Secret To Lasting Love and Commitment From The Man You Love - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ...
Views: 10429(2 votes) - ***Why We Are Attracted to a Deep Voice - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Nancy DanielsWhen it comes to the speaking voice, those which are most appealing to your ear, tend to be deep in pitch. Think of James Earl Jones, Felicia Rashad, Diane Sawyer and Sean Connery. All of these voices have a depth and breadth that you do not hear with the likes of Fran Drescher or Don Johnson. ...
Views: 4098(3 votes) - ***Why You're Still Single - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerOne of my clients recently said, “I don’t think there’s something wrong with me; I just think I’m doing something wrong.” Bingo. The majority of women who come to me for help with dating and relationships lack confidence. Most are sure something is wrong with them. What else would explain ...
Views: 1659(2 votes) - 10 Romantic Tips and Ideas for a wonderful and memorable weekend - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Guy RussellSometimes we all need to get away from the everyday routine. The tips and ideas we are mentioning are designed for a quick and easy weekend retreat for the two of you that will be remembered for years to come. 1. Don’t let your partner know the details of the getaway; instead pack their bags ...
Views: 2251(2 votes) - 10 Things A Woman Does Not Want To Hear On A First Date - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ed WalkerThe world of dating can be a challenging one, with first impressions being a make or break factor in the success of the entire evening. What to wear; where to meet; how many condoms to stuff into your wallet; there are so many decisions to make. But here at The Tooth, our resident lady has put ...
Views: 1340(1 vote) - 10 Tips for Healing Your Heartache - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2015 from A. WomanMy life changed completely in my thirties. I suddenly found myself divorced, and on my own. It was a pretty dark time in my life. When you are in the middle of it all, it’s easy to think that the dark times are never going to end. But now I know that it was just a short detour on the road to ...
Views: 901(2 votes) - 10 Tips for Healing Your Heartache - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2015 from A. WomanMy life changed completely in my thirties. I suddenly found myself divorced, and on my own. It was a pretty dark time in my life. When you are in the middle of it all, it’s easy to think that the dark times are never going to end. But now I know that it was just a short detour on the road to ...
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