2 Ways of Re-Attracting Your Ex-Girlfriend

There are a few ways of re-attracting an ex-girlfriend back into your life. I have found out what works and what doesn't work from my years of dating experience and this is why today I can show you this article which hopefully will help you to move forwards with your attempt to reignite your relationship with your ex.

1. Stop contacting her

A very funny thing happens when you decide not to contact your ex anymore. They wonder where on earth you went, and this curiosity usually leads to a suspicion that you have found someone else to be your partner.

Many men think that if their ex girlfriend believes they have a new girl, it will turn her off and make her want him even less. But actually this is not the case whatsoever. Women find themselves involuntarily attracted to men who they believe other women desire. So actually this could work to your advantage!

Point is: stop contacting her. It might just help you!

2. Ignore her messages

Eventually if you do the first thing above properly, over a few days her suspicion will get so strong that she will want to speak to you and find out what you have been up to. This is your chance to either kill her curiosity and ensure that she loses all interest in you, OR amplify her curiosity and ensure that she gets even interested.

Obviously you want the latter, so you need to ignore her first few messages or calls. Then eventually after a few days pick the phone up but don't seem relieved to hear from her. You should sound totally not bothered by her calling - as if it's just another boring call from your mother. And you should be brief with your words - don't speak more than her. Aim to speak less. Because the more you let her make all the effort, the more it will let this idea build in her mind that she is chasing after you. Women are highly attracted to men who refuse to chase them and instead play the roll of the chased!

Conclusive words

So those are my 2 early doors techniques for re-attracting an ex-girlfriend. Obviously there are more steps that you will have to be taking, but they are a little bit beyond the scope of this article. You can see the next steps to take at http://getherbackguide.com which is where I teach men how to get back their exes. But definitely for now, just take it nice and slow with the 2 steps above and you will find in time that your exes interest in you returns. Good luck!