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- Ask Lisa Daily: She Wont’t Stop Calling My Boyfriend! - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years. I moved back with my parents temporarily because we were fighting a lot. While I was home, he was seeing this girl he works with. I was really upset about everything even though she said she never slept with him. She assured me that she ...
Views: 4658(6 votes) - Ask The Asia Dating Coach - Andrew Chow - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Andrew ChowSTUDIES have shown that late marriage is a becoming common phenomenon in modern, developed countries. Singapore, Korea, Japan are three of the worst hit countries in Asia, and Malaysia is fast becoming the infamous 4th. The more developed a country, the higher the mean age for marriage. So ...
Views: 2439(2 votes) - Attraction Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the attraction anxiety many of you encounter. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical appearance that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to ...
Views: 4293(2 votes) - Before Meeting Your Soulmate Ask Yourself These 5 Questions - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2010 from Shoshana JacksonBefore you ask “Where do I find my Soulmate?”, you need to ask if your ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate be drawn to? Are you still carrying all the A lot emotional baggage from past relationships? You have to be open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that ...
Views: 1716(4 votes) - Better Your Relationship by Avoiding Assumptions - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2011 from Ashley ArnChances are good that you've wanted, at some point in time, to better your relationship. You might have struggled, however, with a good way to go about it. If your relationship is free of the obvious, major pitfalls, then what can you do to make improvements? The answer is so simple, it might ...
Views: 2392(2 votes) - Birth Control – A Not-So-Fun Fundamental of Physical Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Allura JoyIt starts with her alluring and curious glance at him. Her expression is full of desire with a soft inviting smile. He feels a rush of impassioned energy throughout his body as he approaches her. She has his full attention as he fervently extends his arms toward her. They warmly embrace, as ...
Views: 1945(2 votes) - Confidence in love: How to find true and lasting love ~ part 1 - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anna AparicioWith January behind us and Valentine’s day fast approaching, a lot of people are starting to feel the sometimes inescapable pressure that comes with being single at this time of the year. And whilst many singletons take it in their stride, professing to be single by choice and celebrating ...
Views: 1979(2 votes) - Confidence in love: How to find true and lasting love ~ part 2 - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anna Aparicio7 billion of us on Earth, and yet so many people feel so alone. With more avenues than ever to connect with each other, quicker than ever before, many people find it harder than ever. We can Skype, twit and poke people on the other side of the globe. So far, yet so close. So close, yet so far. ...
Views: 2087(2 votes) - Coping with a Break-Up and Rejection - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2013 from Darlene LancerRejection and break-ups are especially hard for codependents. They can trigger hidden grief and cause irrational guilt, anger, shame, and fear. Working through the following issues can help you let go and move on. Codependents often blame themselves or their partner. They have low ...
Views: 1896(2 votes) - Dating Advice for Christians: Online Dating Tips - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeMany Christians are starting to visit online dating sites like RealChristianSingles.com and ChristianCafe.com. The controversy over whether Christians should date is a hotly debated one, and often leaves Christian singles frustrated and confused. I’ve spent a year on an online dating site ...
Views: 2822(2 votes) - Dating Advice: Be A Match For What You Want - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Susie and Otto Collins“There are no good men left in the world!” At least this is how it feels to Liz. She has met and dated many men, but none of them are what she's looking for. Liz has had horrible experiences with men. She's dated guys who were disrespectful, guys who took her for granted and guys who lied ...
Views: 1527(2 votes) - Dating After Divorce… - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2012 from Adele TheronI’m often asked: ‘When is a good time to start dating?’ One of the difficulties women face when they’re ready to start dating is where and how to start. Starting too soon or for the wrong reasons is not going to help re-build your self-confidence or help you become open to new intimate ...
Views: 1364(2 votes) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIf you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ...
Views: 3617(2 votes) - Dating Games Men Play - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeThis article is inspired by a dating forum where a lengthy conversation caught my attention. It amazed me how many people fear doing the wrong thing. The same questions continually pop up in the forums, and in coaching sessions. Can a woman ask a man out? What is the proper etiquette when ...
Views: 9914(2 votes) - Dating Help: Is He Married? - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the most devastating betrayals for a woman is to find out that the man she is dating is a married man. The betrayal goes deeper than a break up. There is rarely, if ever, a chance to confront the man. The relationship will break up just as it is ready to move to the next step. In fact, ...
Views: 1607(2 votes) - Dating Online And Learning To Play Safely - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2012 from Kevin SparksDecades ago people would meet in crowded bars and try to start conversations with complete strangers in the hope of quickly creating a relationship that would last a lifetime. As you can imagine, that didn't have a high rate of success. Then the internet evolved and people progressed from simple ...
Views: 2415(2 votes) - Dating With Kids: 12 Tips for Single Moms - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2008 from Linda ReingDating with Kids: 12 Tips for Single Moms Dating with kids can be challenging – whether you’re recently divorced or you’ve endured two years’ worth of Starbucks dates -- and whether your kids are two or twenty-two. But your children can be helpful as well, especially if ...
Views: 658(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I caught him at the movies with her - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been married for 15 years. At the present time we are seeing a Marriage counselor for our really rocky marriage. I know its going to take some time. We are working on trust, understanding, caring, appreciation, and a few others, all the essentials of a marriage. But a ...
Views: 1468(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm sick of waiting and feeling I'm not good enough - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I am a young adult male who has always had some sort of complication in relationships. I need help on deciding what I should do from the point at where I'm at now. The situation is that I have been talking to this girl. She first started talking to me but I didn't really ...
Views: 2360(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is it appropriate for him to still have her in his life? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older ...
Views: 1292(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I Date My Girlfriend's Best Friend? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need relationship advice!!!? I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and her best friend who's a girl is also my best friend and I'm very close with the best friend. Me and my girlfriend do fight a lot but there are times where I'm in love with her. And me and the ...
Views: 4758(2 votes) - Decision Making - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2016 from Lior KDecision Definition Decision can be defined as the selection of the most preferred and suitable outcome for the situation. According to Harald Ofstad, when a person makes a decision it means that he may have a positive behavior for something, or that he may have made up his mind for a certain ...
Views: 1363(2 votes) - Disadvantages of Online Dating - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeDating online has many problems not faced when dating from your church or denomination. The most common is distance. I’ve heard many horror stories in the last year. One woman reported that she dated someone over the phone for a year. Then, when it was time to meet he disappeared and she never ...
Views: 13273(2 votes) - Do shy guys meet women? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Christina GarabedianDear Tina, I’m a shy guy and don’t know what to say when I meet a woman. I’m afraid I’ll never get another date. What am I going to do? ShyGuy Dear ShyGuy, First, let me tell you that you are definitely not the only guy that feels this way. Not everybody has to have a very ...
Views: 1255(2 votes) - Do Women Have An Agenda? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Radomir SamardzicOh, yes they do! Now, let’s see how this works. I understand that it is a generalization, but we are generally either men or women, so this would apply to all of us to a larger or smaller degree whether we are aware of it or not. Everyone knows what a man’s agenda is, at least at the ...
Views: 4982(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on 10 signs a guy is cheating on you - by Submitted on May 25, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: Telling a guy you won't stand for cheating is a waste of time. Instead, be open and accepting, and encourage him to talk about his sexual exploits. If he's cheated before, he probably will cheat again. The best protection against cheating is to have open and frank ...
Views: 1593(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on Friends With Benefits - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. *If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the ...
Views: 1297(4 votes) - Dr. Romance's Guidelines for Not Fighting - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2014 from Tina TessinaFighting a lot? Dr. Romance recommends: No matter what you’re fighting about: money, sex, kids or something else, the fighting is an indication that your communication isn’t working. If this happens only occasionally, such as when one or both of you are tired or stressed; it’s not too big ...
Views: 1267(2 votes) - Dr. Romance's Happiness Tip: Alone on Valentine's Day? - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Tina TessinaValentine's Day gets a lot of media attention, and it can be hard to avoid. When you don't have a special someone to spend it with, or worse yet, you've just lost a relationship, it can be brutal. If you're alone, it's important to take good care of yourself. Gather your best friends around you ...
Views: 1938(2 votes) - Experiencing Intimacy: Overcoming The Aloneness In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2012 from Cynthia BelmerOur intimate relationship with our significant other is a mirror of how we feel about ourselves and in life in general. Many of us face challenges opening up to our partners and talking about things that scare us the most in the relationship. When we are in this situation, a feeling of ...
Views: 1836(4 votes) - Fear of Commitment - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Karen KleinwortAre You Commitment-Phobic? Many people don’t experience committed, steady relationships, and they often assert this is so not because they are afraid of commitment but rather because they enjoy their freedom and flirtatious nature. And while this may be true for some who embrace their “forever ...
Views: 1977(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Good Guy - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Jonathon AslayFrequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with ...
Views: 1944(2 votes) - Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When ...
Views: 2752(4 votes) - Four mistakes guys make with women - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Alam NoahDating can be exciting and refreshing for most men. It can add to your life a lot and even let you find the one woman to share your life with. But there are many mistakes guys make with women you should be aware of and avoid like the plague when dating, in this article; you are going to know ...
Views: 879(6 votes) - Free Tips To Attract Women - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ben WebbFree Tips To Attract Women In this free tips to attract women article you will learn how to prepare yourself so you are able to confidently approach women when you want to during the day or when out meeting women in the night time In bars and clubs. The most important thing you need to ...
Views: 1007(2 votes) - Get a date online by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomGet a date online by Rosemary Price psychic. Years ago people found their partners and dates by meeting friends of friends, friends of family, people at work and those living locally that they bumped into when they went shopping, to clubs or to enjoy their hobbies. It worked in it's fashion and ...
Views: 1207(2 votes) - Having a Discreet Dating Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2011 from Deepak DablaDating has become too obvious these days. It doesn’t matter if you are married or not, dating is always a part of your life. People log in to different websites and search for dating partners. If married, then this is known as discreet dating. In a discreet dating service, people do not share ...
Views: 10786(2 votes) - He’s Wonderful… But - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Kara OhI often get requests for advice from women who tell me how wonderful their man is. Then they go into all the things that make them unhappy. If this sounds like you, I would invited you to do an exercise that can be very revealing. On a piece of paper draw a line down the middle from top to ...
Views: 1450(2 votes) - How to Communicate with a Man - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeEvery woman has been in a situation where her man became moody, withdrawn, and won’t tell you what is wrong. He completely closes down or goes into the ‘cave.’ How you respond to this can make the difference between whether he falls deeper in love with you or walks away without any explanation ...
Views: 11275(2 votes) - How to Get Him to Propose - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2012 from Marni BattistaAre you in a long-term relationship with someone and want to know how you could get him to propose marriage? If you’ve already read Does He Want to Marry Me? The Dating with Dignity Guide to Getting Engaged and are wondering if there are any steps you can take to get him to go to the next step, ...
Views: 2402(2 votes) - How to get rid of an unwanted admirer by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhile we all feel the need to be loved and enjoy good company and relationships there comes a time when we are getting attention from someone or have been seeing someone that we are not really interested in. Either we were never interested in them in the first place or we have had a relationship ...
Views: 6507(2 votes) - How To Inspire Him To Commit Without Having The Talk - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ...
Views: 17332(4 votes) - How To Make A Man Fall In Love - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Robbie LeeIs it feasible for a woman to make a guy fall for her? Or are there things that you can do to be more loving to a man that will in turn cause him to love and treasure you more? The latter is probably the case . Whether you're new to the game of love or a veteran player with a good man at home, ...
Views: 1952(4 votes) - How To Start A Conversation With A Guy: 3 Simple Tips To Follow - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Michael LeeDo you want to know how to start a conversation with a guy? Well, have you ever started one? Whether you've tried but it didn't work out well, or you've never tried at all, then this article is for you. Talking to men is actually very easy, as they're usually less guarded than women. Why ...
Views: 2145(2 votes) - How To Stop Thinking About Him or Her - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2010 from Roseanna LeatonDreams can be extremely enlightening, so long as you attend to the emotional messages which they convey. A friend was recounting a dream the other day which told a familiar tale; she dreamed that she had bumped into her boyfriend who she had recently split up from, and he looked like a tanned ...
Views: 5826(6 votes) - I Want to Know How to Get My Boyfriend Back After Cheating on Him - Expert Advise! - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles Uadiale"I want to know how to get my boyfriend back after cheating on him." Saying this signifies you’re in terrific emotional torture and possible experiencing a lot of guilt too. At present, dating a new guy may appear and feel like the appropriate thing to do. Maybe you believe that your boyfriend ...
Views: 1501(2 votes) - If You Want to Meet Your Soul-Mate, Meet Yourself First - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Doron GilIf you haven’t been successful in cultivating an intimate relationship in spite of your continuing attempts, and are tired of disappointments, failed relationships, unfulfilled promises and/or partners who mislead you, you may resort to believing that you haven’t met your soul-mate yet. He/she ...
Views: 2353(2 votes) - Internet dating: How to make yourself stand out with online dating services? - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Eileen ParksIn the year of 2011, online dating has been even more popular than ever. More than 80% singles worldwide have joined all kinds of online dating services, niche dating sites for the purpose of locating the right people for romance, dating, relationships as well as marriage. Message says, just in ...
Views: 3065(2 votes) - Intimacy: What Does Intimacy Mean To You? - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there can be general meanings to words, there can also be personal meanings to words and intimacy is no different in this respect. Intimacy is generally described as what occurs when one person is close to another. And although one can be close to friend's, family or colleagues for ...
Views: 2308(2 votes) - Kim Kardashian's Divorce: a Reminder about Relationship Mistakes to Avoid - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Rosalind SedaccaSadly, celebrity divorces make all the headlines for all the wrong reasons. They showcase the most unconscious behavior, especially when it comes to relationships. Kim Kardashian’s marriage gone off tracks after such a short time is just one more example. It appears Kim spent more time ...
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