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When it comes to air travel and clothing, we are all different. There are some travelers whotravel attire is a business suit - perhaps out of necessity, or because of the implied credibility a business suit can bring to the wearer. Others in traditional jeans - either because they classify jeans ... Views: 3372
As a business owner you know that branding is important. Branding encompasses not only your logo, marketing message, your personal appearance but your store front or home office. When was the last time you looked at your business from the eyes of the customer? My five tips for branding your ... Views: 1151
I have recently started working with a program to help people achieve results that they have believed to be beyond their reach. This program leverages the power of believing and imaging to propel people to the heights of their dreams, and to success that only a few people ever achieve. ... Views: 827
Sales People fall into 3 categories.
Can't afford to lose them
Can't afford to pay them
Can't afford to leave
Can't Afford to Lose Them
There are certain individuals who deliver so much value, that it usually takes half their working life for the pay structure to catch up with ... Views: 1075
Being 25 years old and not having a clear focus in life is a serious problem. But having led a focus-free life until now, I can vouch for the fact that not having plans is a bliss.
One of the toughest decisions that any person in his mid-20s faces is that of financial stability. It is ... Views: 622
Alternative Reality: True, False or Somewhere in Between?
Alternative reality is an opinion that may or may not be supported by facts.
A new phrase, alternative reality, entered the language with the Trump administration. It is used to describe statements often issued by the president that ... Views: 897
The 2nd Step in Applying Law of Attraction.
It would be nice and easy if applying Law of Attraction was only a process of identifying what you desire. All of us would have everything, just from building a list.
Well, deliberate attraction (applying Law of Attraction deliberately) requires ... Views: 1395
Many of us suffer from low self-esteem. We may perform well in our work, have good relationships, and on the whole, have a pretty great life. But still, there is this niggling feeling inside us that comes up every now and then, and it tells us, "I'm not good enough".
It may not make any ... Views: 1316
As a writer of two books in the self-improvement genre, I’ve heard numerous questions from my audiences about how one can improve themselves. But no one had ever asked something so peculiar. I’ll transcribe the submitted question verbatim.
“There is so much talk about motivation everywhere. ... Views: 921
Jocko Willink
His achievements are quite enormous, having been awarded the NEC 52266 combat swimmer award while in the US navy. When he later retired from the army, together with Babin, they formed a leadership consultancy firm tailored to meet individual as well as organizational ... Views: 660
Sure enough, education is extremely important for the modern society. After all, one way or the other, proper education does open up plenty of different doors in life and you will, therefore, be able to gain access to a much more impressive career ladder as well as greater salaries in addition ... Views: 1023
One of the best teachers I've learned from, Joshua Rosenthal of the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, once said that you can make more progress when you aim for the middle ground with your actions and words.
He was referring to the die-hard, my-way-or-the-highway, food police type ... Views: 681
Attitude. We see it in our body language, hear it in our tone of voice and feel it in our bodies. Our attitude can attract or repel others and sets the quality of our thoughts, our relationships and our lives.
It stands to reason then, that consciously adopting an empowering attitude would ... Views: 929
AN ATTITUDE FOR ALL SEASONS
by
Bill Cottringer
“The amount of success you have or don’t have, is more related to how you define success, than all you talents, efforts, motivation, timing and luck combined together.”~ The Author.
I have been an avid student of human behavior and ... Views: 1366
As most men who have a fear of women know, the reason for their inadequacy is almost always intrinsically related to a lack of confidence in some form. A few men either a) don't know this or b) are unwilling to admit it, but the majority of men out there know that a lack of confidence is a ... Views: 1235
In May 2008, I went on a vacation to Thailand with my dear friend. We traveled there without a plan, a hotel room, or any converted dollars to baht. Just a commitment to have an incredible time, and return home with as many unique experiences as possible. By the end of our visit, we ... Views: 2215
Be Blessed oh beautiful mother,
Let your heart be filled with Joy,
Let the love be ever flowing,
Let your voice be filled with song,
Let your smile be ever loving
As protected with angels be
Smiling, smiling ever loving
Gods light to the world.
For all to wonder
For all to cherish
For ... Views: 1279
"Genius is perseverance in disguise" ~ Mike Newlin
A lot of people talk about the attitude of seeing a glass half full vs. half empty. Which do you most generally see? I'm sure you already know that you can change your attitude. If you generally see it half empty, you can change it to half ... Views: 1293
Every year, when the Jewish holiday of Passover rolls around, I think about the places in my life where I feel stuck. I consider how to move through these places to freedom. This year is no different.
What is different, though, is the number of people who feel unable to move forward due to ... Views: 875
Have you heard people say, "He became an overnight success?"
Really? Overnight? I doubt it.
Behind every great thing that ever happens, there are usually countless years of very hard work; decades of blood, sweat, and tears. Ask any writer, any performer, any artist. They've worked their ... Views: 1233
Once I was walking outside on a beautiful sunny day, I had stopped to chat with my horses and was walking towards the open field, when my dog came charging joyfully. It felt precisely like a locomotive ramming into my legs at full speed, sending me flying up in the air.
Landing on my back, ... Views: 1225
Wise Counsel Interview Transcript: Steven Shaps, MA on Anger Management
David Van Nuys, Ph.D.
Dr. David Van Nuys: Welcome to Wise Counsel, a podcast interview series sponsored by MentalHelp.net, covering topics in mental health, wellness and psychotherapy. My name is Dr. David Van Nuys. I'm a ... Views: 902
I like eagles. They face storms with courage and boldness. When a storm is coming every other bird runs away from the storm. The eagle flies into the storm. We, like birds, can run way, be paralyzed when we think that our circumstances are more than we can handle or succeed and grow tremendously ... Views: 685
Anticipating and Avoiding Getting Fired
By
Bill Cottringer
“If you intend to go to work there is no better place than right where you are; if you do not intend to go to work you cannot get along anywhere. Squirming and crawling about from place to place can do no good.” ~Abraham ... Views: 2118
I’m a licensed therapist, and I have a problem with the way our society treats teenagers.
I’ve worked with teenagers who can juggle more in 24 hours than functioning adults can juggle in 24 days. We’re talking rigorous advanced placement course loads, varsity sports, community service, music ... Views: 1613
Cloud computing brings your business to your doorstep. You and your team can work remotely. Your business data is accessible to you from anywhere and at anytime. Letting you to take crucial decision based on real time data inputs. Be the master of you business. Understand your business and take ... Views: 447
A fundamental corner stone to forgiveness is an apology. No matter what the situation is that you find yourself immersed in, when there is a hurt involved of any degree a simple “I apologize” is an excellent starting point. A true apology cannot undo the harm that has been done but it can ... Views: 2080
Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory consists of five interdependent levels that one strives to meet in a life cycle. Some cultures may place more or less emphasis on the importance of each level, but each has great applicability to achieving a meaningful life for all people. The hierarchy is ... Views: 1504
Appreciating What You Have In Your Life
by Kimberley Cohen
Sometimes it’s difficult to appreciate what you have in your life because you might be looking at and longing for what you don’t have.
When you can be grateful for the love and abundance in your life right now, you are less ... Views: 15782
During one of her shows a few years back, Oprah Winfrey made a profound and beautiful statement that I appreciated very much. She said, "We do shows about lots of 'stuff' and my 'favorite things,' but what people want more than anything else is to know that they're appreciated...that's the best ... Views: 1437
Fish also drive away misfortune, as it is one of the good signs on the Buddha footprint. The image of a pair of fish is often embroidered on curtains, cushions, bedding and clothing. This amulet has a strong protective energy. In Thailand, children often wear these talismans around their necks ... Views: 110
“Water is life’s mater and matrix, mother and medium. There is no life without water.” Albert Szent-Gyorgyi
It has long been said that water is the basis of all life. Your muscles are 75% water; your blood is 82% water; your lungs 90% water; your brain is 76% water; your bones are 25% water. ... Views: 1193
With all the uproar about how the world is changing to conform with the demands of immigrant Muslim demands, I felt it was the right time to make a statement. Feel free to distribute this article as you wish.
There are many examples such as creating special time slots for swimming pools and ... Views: 2745
Do you catch yourself in patterns of self-sabotage? Maybe you set yourself a goal and then find yourself doing everything except what you need to do to achieve that goal. Maybe you actually do things that will make it even harder to achieve your goals in the future. If you do, you aren’t alone. ... Views: 889
Have you ever wondered how people stay so positive when they are met with adversity?
Maybe they have some special power, or were born that way, or their brains work differently, or they aren't really as optimistic as they may seem.
What I have come to realize over the years, and something ... Views: 1325
The dictionary defines "independent" as:
• not influenced or controlled by others in matters of opinion, conduct, etc.; thinking or acting for oneself: an independent thinker.
• not subject to another's authority or jurisdiction; autonomous; free: an independent businessman.
• not ... Views: 2072
Scientific studies have been conducted on what happens to a fish when it is out of water for too long. Typically the gills slowly dry up and the fish dies of suffocation. We have all felt like that at in our lives. After moving to a southern state, I have felt like a fish out of water. This is ... Views: 635
Oops, there is goes. Did you see it? Did you feel it? Another minute went by. You will never get the minute back. What did you spend that minute doing? Worrying, fretting, stressing? How sad and what a waste.
We waste away our lives minute by minute by worrying about our future or judging ... Views: 1159
It’s best to be a Peacemaker
The bible says blessed be the peacemakers which is so true. Now the peacemaker may be blessed because he or she attempts to smooth over things which are not right but I believe that they are blessed because of their state of mind. The peacemaker has to be an ... Views: 1591
No one, regardless of class, profession, or location, can say that the current financial crisis is not having an impact on them. Yet, when I say to people that we need to repair our relationships with money first, they just look a bit uncomfortable and shrug their shoulders.
A while back, an ... Views: 1118
I'm here to ask you a really good question, are you a sports fan or a sports fan? I looked up both definitions and the dictionary says that for a fan the meaning is "an enthusiastic devotee or follower of a sport or sports team" the meaning of a fan is "a person with extreme enthusiasm or zeal ... Views: 78
In a previous article I explored the myth that all you need to succeed is the strategy and know how. The myth I’m exploring today is that of the Lone Ranger woman in business – thinking you should be able to do everything yourself; that the way to succeed is to rely on no-one but ... Views: 1175
During a session I was having with my new coach last week it became clear to me that I’ve been addicted to struggle for much of my life. While I wasn’t super excited to admit this, it has actually been quite liberating to address my struggle addiction directly and to see how it impacts just ... Views: 1580
Many years ago, I participated in an exercise at a workshop to show us how at ease we were with allowing good into our lives. As I imagined a little extra good flowing in, I was fine. But when I visualized a lot more good, I started to get anxious, even scared.
The exercise continued, ... Views: 803
There are so many ways to create a successful business, sometimes it can be confusing. Everyone seems to be an expert, selling the best way to get there, the easiest route, the fastest path. But all of these methods and strategies are often missing the most important key to your success.
They ... Views: 1107
Would you go to an auto mechanic to ask for advice about the frequent chest pains you've been experiencing?
How about seeking out your favorite hair stylist to have her help you determine why your fuel tank is leaking?
If you're looking to get a large return on a real estate investment deal ... Views: 931
Let me take you on a quick virtual trip to Paris. You will travel alongside the 20-year-old me. This experience will not only heighten your awareness around the assumptions you are holding. I will also provide you with practical tips on how to move beyond them.
I went to Paris as a nanny in ... Views: 1230
Have you ever felt like you’re walking around with a knife in your back?
Have you seen it happen to others?
Was the pain so intense that you were paralyzed or disarmed to do anything about it, and therefore, you didn’t?
Or did Anger get the best of you?
This is a ... Views: 738
Do you feel as though you are maximising your full potential? Or is there something holding you back, but you just can’t put your finger on it? If yes
Then you may well have developed a limiting belief in your life or more realistically several!
So what is a limiting belief? A limiting ... Views: 796
Recently, my assistant, Naomi, shared a TED lecture with me. The speaker told an incredible story of a childhood riddled with extreme poverty, homelessness that was saved by love and encouragement. He spoke of taking bold moves to create an adult life of true abundance, contribution, and ... Views: 1578