Seduction: From the Avenue to the Altar

Has seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his appetite to crave your company and captivate his heart.

A man doesn't fall in love with a woman based on looks but he is intrigued by the woman who makes him feel strong, sexy and desirable. If a woman will use her resources to make a man feel like a man she will secure his attention. Women that throw themselves at a guy are waving the “I am Desperate” flag. He may partake but he won't commit to a relationship.

If you want a man who will take you from the avenue to the altar,here are four points to consider:

1 Seduction is an art form. It takes time to develop and it can't be rushed. To engage the male mind is to use imagery that entices his desires. This is a natural way for a man to think, so if you give him words that engage his emotions and make him feel good about himself he will revisit that file you've stored in his brain and keep bringing it up to look at, feel it again and want more. Thus you awaken his appetite for you!

2 Know what he likes about himself and be aware of his areas of insecurity. If he fancy’s himself the protective strong manly type then give him recognition in those areas! Let him know how safe you feel in his arms and how it makes you feel to be surrounded by his strength. If he is trying his hand at a new career and is not steady on his feet yet, be his cheerleader! Empower him with encouragement.

3 Relish in your femininity. Being feminine does not imply weakness it simply means enjoy being a woman! Let him be the man he was designed to be. Allow him the joy of the chase! Don't be so quick to pour out your most intimate feelings without making him earn the opportunity to hear them. Men like to work for what they perceive as valuable. If you hand over your body and emotions easily then you lose value in his eyes.

4 Be Appreciative! When he has done something you like make sure you tell him. If he's not rewarded with praise for the good moves he makes, he probably will not repeat them since he had no clue from you that he did good. Let him know you are happy when he calls. Thank him for suggesting dinner at that new restaurant or for the day he planned for the two of you. When a man feels appreciated he always wants to do better at pleasing you again. It makes him feel important. It makes him feel like a man.