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Especially in today's troublesome economy, with the high prices of digital cameras, rechargeable batteries, tripods, filters, and other accessories, you might be tempted to save some money by purchasing cheaper, generic digital camera media. And why not? Photos taken with cheaper media should ... Views: 878
It’s highly important that you choose the best words for thank you notes. After all, you want to let people know how much you appreciate what they have done or given you. A simple thank you isn’t going to cut it anymore.
Choosing words for thank you notes isn’t that hard. You ... Views: 3200
Almost everything we do in life is a choice. To get out of bed in the morning is a choice. To go to work and do your job and pay your rent and take chances and risks, are all choices. To eat unhealthy foods knowing you will gain weight and increase fat and cholesterol and your risk for heart ... Views: 2488
Is your home being invaded by ugly, annoying bugs? Are you tired of encountering houseflies and fruit flies that have the nerve to buzz in your ears, fly in your face and land on your food in your own dwelling? Would it make you happy if you could kill them and keep them out of your home? You ... Views: 1264
There is more to business than business
As many of us go about setting up our businesses, we’re extremely conscientious to make sure we have all of our “ducks in row”, so to speak. We write a Business Plan, the Financial Plan. We put Disaster Recovery and Marketing very near ... Views: 1124
Buying a new home is a major decision. Choosing a good home builder is also very important. You will want someone who is established and can be trusted, someone has the knowledge and skills in constructing a new home, someone who can manage team of craftsmen skilled at building a quality house. ... Views: 1016
If you or someone you love is facing disability and cannot work, it is time to start thinking about Social Security disability benefits and the long process ahead. To receive disability benefits you will need to fill out many forms, schedule and complete an interview, and follow through on the ... Views: 1234
Do you know that many millionaires were made during the time of the depression?
In the moment where many saw doom some saw opportunities.
Your thinking
Who do you follow to contribute to your thinking of success, the media, radio and newspaper?
Are you looking on the outside to enhance your ... Views: 634
Here is a list generating system that will help you focus on what you care about most and make you feel like an eagle soaring rather than a caged bird banging your tiny head against the bars.
If you are dealing with the loss of a loved one, grief, anger, unhappiness, stress, my corporate job, ... Views: 2128
Many of us think we have conquered procrastination and have become efficient workers. This may be true for some of us, but when it comes to procrastination we may have just become a little more creative. You may just be a V.I.P. – Very Inventive Procrastinator. Read the statements below to see ... Views: 904
In our society everybody is frustrated now and then. More than 50 %of all frustrations start on the work floor. But people also get frustrated in relationships and in educating children. Sometimes expressing your frustration is a good thing to do. Sometimes expressing your frustration gives a ... Views: 4620
For many years the psychology and mind power field assumed it was impossible for a person to drop voluntarily down to alpha and retain conscious thinking control.
Alpha is the state where your brain rhythm tends to centre around 10 cycles per second (cps).
It was always assumed that once a ... Views: 2112
In order to really secure a happiness that will last beyond the immediate “rush” of whatever is making you smile at the moment, you must find a balance between all of the major areas in your life. These are easily identified by most people, but we tend to forget how important each ... Views: 1197
"Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes." ~Carl Jung~
In order to get beyond fear-based living and manifest your true desires, it's essential to know the difference between fear-based need and true desire. Fear-based need feels anxious, competitive, desperate, or insatiable. You ... Views: 634
No matter how big our dreams, our time and resources are limited. Moving forward effectively is key. Once you've committed to accomplishing something and putting in the effort, you'll want to get the biggest return on your investment that you can, in the most efficient way. Here are ten of my ... Views: 1290
Does your life have heart?
Does your life have soul?
“Heart and soul I fell in love with you!” as the old song
goes.
Your Heroic Journey is something you can fall in love with!
If you want to truly have a good time this round on earth,
then discover the Epic Journey you are ... Views: 1068
Hello again,
What does it take to keep you going in the direction of your dreams? If you have a truly powerful desire to become a new person, or to accomplish something really great in your life, is that enough to get you there? Let me put it another way. We all have things in life we want, ... Views: 1027
Do you believe you can have anything you desire? Some people do, and they seem to have a knack for going after what they want and getting it. They appear to have some secret that whatever they touch turns to gold. While others struggle with achieving their desires and seem to meet with ... Views: 941
Many of us spend a lot of time being concerned about every aspect of our lives and often miss out on the sweet feeling of contentment. Concern causes stress, anxiety, and upset, while contentment elicits feelings of peace, confidence, acceptance, and fulfillment. That sounds like a great place ... Views: 809
Have you ever noticed that the hardest part of getting things done is starting them in the first place?
It’s true. We’ve all felt the dread of that looming project, where, say, you’ve got to kick things off with a phone call but you just can’t get to dialing. Or how about when the house is a ... Views: 1004
Remember when you were a kid, and your mom and dad read you that story about Chicken Little?
Chicken Little feels an acorn drop on her head and assumes the sky is falling. She goes on to spread such misinformation to her animal friends. The chaos that ensues enables “Foxy Loxy” to come along and ... Views: 942
Have you ever felt out of touch with your own emotions? Do you wish you could emphathize more with the way others feel? Try these six exercises to improve your emotional intelligence and become an emotional Einstein!
Take an Emotional Inventory
During a typical day, you probably feel dozens of ... Views: 10297
I was out with friends for dinner and when we decided it was too early to call it quits, we went to a dance club adjacent to the restaurant for a drink. While we walked over, we laughed as we recalled our previous experiences in clubs. When walked in, we were stunned to find that we felt ... Views: 1134
As I watch the U.S. presidential campaigns — complete with polls, interviews, focus groups, and pundits — it occurs to me that each candidate’s basic message has been lost.
When you’re starting out in business, or in sales, you’re taught to focus on one solid message, and to share this message ... Views: 798
Our nation is going through some troubling economic times right now… but you do not need to follow suit. The economy today is a horror story of financial bailouts and golden parachutes. Is the government going to bail you out if you make some not so good decisions? This is why you need to ... Views: 882
I know it sounds cliche… but the power of positive thinking really does bring an avalanche of wonderful things pouring into your life.
From your job to your marriage to your social life to your personal interests…it pays to start listening to what your Inner Opportunist has to say.
Think for a ... Views: 977
Maybe it’s a famous wedding planner, talk show host, or a local business man or woman. Whoever it is you admire, and want to be like, has qualities that you want to possess. You may already have these qualities but just haven’t freed them from within yourself yet. Selecting someone who you look ... Views: 1140
All of the major changes in life and society, like the Civil Rights Movement, the call to save the environment, and even women obtaining the right to vote, did not just happen on their own.
People didn’t just sit back and say, “Man, that isn’t how it should be. I’m just going to stand back and ... Views: 1328
Whether economic times are abundant or tight, it's always an advantage to be a savvy consumer. And whether or not your budget is abundant or tight, it's always beneficial to know how to shop effectively.
I remember reading The Millionaire Next Door and was surprised to find that a common trait ... Views: 949
Your marriage is on the rocks. You lost your job. Your best friend isn't talking to you.
You hurt your back. You are one month away from foreclosure on your home. Your child is sick. Your father died.
Any one of these experiences is traumatic. More than one occurring at the same time could put ... Views: 1052
Intentions differ from desires, and consciously focusing on your intentions can go a long ways toward achieving success. Simply put, intentions are goals. Another way to look at intentions is as thoughts that help us fill a need. The need can be such things as money, property, love, or ... Views: 1045
When it comes to adding things to the To Do list think in terms of describing your goal as a time or a task. Remember we can’t do a project. We have to break it down in to smaller manageable pieces.
Time is when you designate an amount of time in hours or minutes and you simply stop when you ... Views: 858
We sure have a love affair with adhesive notes. Expanding from the original yellow square note pad, they now come in many colors, sizes, shapes, and specialty varieties (super sticky, page tags, divider tags.) Sticky notes can be a great tool to trigger your brain or to keep frequently used ... Views: 1116
Finding
One
Center
Until
Success
I just created this acronym to give a visual of what focus means. How often do you find yourself multi-tasking, doing several things at once only to find nothing gets completed? How many times have you set a bunch of goals, planned some action steps, only to get ... Views: 890
If you thought exercise was merely a necessary evil to keep your body slim and healthy, you’re missing some essential elements of what exercise is about. If you thought exercise was something you had to squeeze in between the demands of life and work because it’s supposed to be “good for you,” ... Views: 7880
There are moments in our lives when we’ve all asked it of ourselves, why does this keep happening to me? I know I’ve had my fair share of breaking point moments. And it took a good while, along with a string of difficult and painful experiences, for me to realize that a better ... Views: 1044
Have you been putting everyone else’s needs first? Does your schedule fill up fast with appointments to meet everyone’s needs except yours? Is that a warning signal I hear in the background? “Danger, Danger” If you are not on your own radar screen to energize and prop yourself up, you are on the ... Views: 2255
It has happened to the best of us. You’re lying in bed staring at the ceiling. You have to be up in six hours, but you just can’t seem to fall asleep. Here are a few tips that can help.
Take a hot bath before going to bed
What better way to relax your body than a nice hot bath. Once the kids ... Views: 423
Earlier this month, more than 350 LEAN thinkers from 21 countries attended the second annual Lean Transformation Summit in Orlando.
This year’s theme was “Applying Lean Thinking Across the Enterprise.”
The Lean Enterprise Institute (LEI) again was the summit’s sole ... Views: 816
"Make a life list"
If you knew with complete certainty that you were going to take your last breath tomorrow, what would you do? Would you call all of your loved ones? Would you travel the globe? Would you spend some time thinking about everything you wish you had done in your life? We all ... Views: 1304
With the holidays fast approaching, are you curious as to how not to get drawn into the stressful, expen$ive daze of the season?
Ignore the hype and simplify with three steps:
1. Assess what is important to you and your loved ones. Start with a meeting and include those close to you with ... Views: 3234
We're approaching a season of giving--an appropriate time of year to examine how well you allow yourself to be given to. Yes, receiving--the ability to fully accept gifts and enjoy and appreciate being given to--is an essential part of the human relationship equation. It is the complement of ... Views: 3041
Good Decision-Making
One of the most important skills in life and work to perfect is decision-making. Successful outcomes are always based on good decision-making but good decision-making is not a skill you can learn overnight or learn from a book. It takes great thought, patience and ... Views: 974
October 11, 2008
The World Isn’t Kind Just Because You Are!
by Alberta Parish
From the time we’re little girls, we’re taught and even brainwashed to always be polite. We must always be on our best behavior, and put forth our best face. No matter how someone treats you, ... Views: 674
Do you just use the Internet to shop, do research or play games? Are you looking for a job while occasionally seeing employment ads that want you to E-mail your resume? Would you like to communicate with others electronically while helping the environment and saving money on postage costs? Has ... Views: 904
"How many of us go through our days parched and empty, thirsting after happiness, when we're really standing knee-deep in the river of abundance?" - Sarah Ban Breathnach
At a recent retreat I attended, I had one of my famous ‘Wake up, Alice’ moments from David Neagle. He was speaking about ... Views: 796
Many gals have a shoe thing. A shoe thing is more than just having a reasonable amount of shoes to wear, it’s about collecting them and not letting any of them go. It’s hard to let go of items that have memories attached, cost a lot of money or were a gift from a loved one. Most people, ... Views: 903
Your senior years should focus on carefree living. For many older adults this means downsizing to an apartment or assisted living accommodations. A larger home may no longer suit your needs; requiring more maintenance and house cleaning than a smaller home. Staying in your current home may ... Views: 921
Organizing clutter in our homes is important as it creates space and gives us peace and happiness. It can also help to prevent fires. As we go about organizing clutter from room to room I suggest we also take a look at what we can do to keep our homes free from fires. October 5-11 is Fire ... Views: 1187
Seven areas of waste. Seven deadly sins. They collided for me this week in a dramatic, disturbing and disruptive way.
Every time I paused to consider what task to do next, I got distracted by the Eliot Spitzer sex scandal. And even when I was working, including talking to a client on the ... Views: 590