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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Why being a better Girlfriend helps your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2018 from Mary JamesIntroduction So you love your boyfriend and you really want to make the relationship work? Sometimes you need a little bit more than “just” love to make things work, especially with American singles. It increases Chances of maintaining Your Relationship A good girlfriend wants to ...
Views: 1102 - Financial Or Emotional Crisis? Get Security Today! - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Emma ViglucciMoney. Money is a hot topic in many relationships as there are intense emotions attached to money as well as a range of meaning around it. Partners have different ideas about the importance of money, what it means to them, its purpose, its role, how to manage it, and even how to earn it! Couples ...
Views: 937 - Adore your Precious Feminine and Masculine Nature/Attributes - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2018 from Medea Bavarella ChechikDear Women, Dear Men, My Prayer Today: Adore your Precious Feminine and Masculine Nature/Attributes… Feminine ~ Masculine are NOT in competition with each other! Having navigated an ancient tension in the connection between Masculine energy and Feminine energy, both within and without, we ...
Views: 1035 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm sick of waiting and feeling I'm not good enough - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I am a young adult male who has always had some sort of complication in relationships. I need help on deciding what I should do from the point at where I’m at now. The situation is that I have been talking to this girl. She first started talking to me but I didn't really ...
Views: 921(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Incomparable? - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Incomparable? I was in a beautiful meaningful relationship that led to a too brief but wonderful marriage until tragedy struck and my husband died two years ago. I rejoined the dating world nine months agoand am having a difficult time finding someone who can measure up to my ...
Views: 955(1 vote) - The #1 Tool to Radically Shift Your Relationship! - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2018 from Kelley Kosow“He/she never listens to me.” “No matter what I do, it’s never good enough!” “I can’t trust him/her to follow through.” “What about my needs?” On a daily basis, I hear stories from people about their relationships. They are somewhere on the scale of feeling frustrated - fed-up - frozen ...
Views: 984 - Five reasons your online relationship is a bad idea - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2018 from Sophia Moore1. The biggest danger of on-line relationships is that you’ll become a simulacrum or a one-dimensional media appropriate version of yourself. Rather than living an authentic life, your every move becomes curated for public consumption through social media. But life can’t be summed up in emojis ...
Views: 1524 - Dr. Romance’s guide to dating safely: - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2018 from Tina TessinaI have encountered so many people who have been disappointed, ripped off or worse when dating online, that I drew up some guidelines for keeping yourself safe. Dr. Romance’s guide to dating safely: Be skeptical, not gullible. When you're meeting dates online (it is not dating until it's ...
Views: 1188(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: What was all this for? - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: It's funny that many times I talk to my girlfriends about dating and usually get the sister talk that really does not result in much clarity. It's more like we talk to each other to have an opinion. That's not to say none of my girls make much since, it's just ...
Views: 1035(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am not needy but I am very picky - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have met a new guy and I am very interested. He's a veterinarian. I first talked to him on the phone about my ailing horse. The attraction was there even before I met him. When he came to check on my horse the spark was there and it seemed that it was the same on his ...
Views: 1045(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I say yes to him? - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My boyfriend of a month and a week was planing a surprise for my birthday (he was trying to keep it a secret.) well we got in to a fight 3 days ago and last night I took him back. He was talking to my bff on im and he told her I took him back and told her he ...
Views: 1028(1 vote) - Dr. Romance's Guidelines for A Great First Date - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2018 from Tina TessinaGoing on the first few dates with a new person can be nerve-wracking. These Dr. Romance guidelines can help you be safe, find out the important things you need to know, and have fun. *Safety First – Before you go on this date, make sure you have thought about who will be in ...
Views: 1001(1 vote) - 6 Steps to Clear Old Love Karma - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2018 from Carmen HarraIf you feel stuck in your love life, unresolved karma may be to blame. Old karma is particularly effective at blocking relationships from progressing. Many people misconceive their karma for “what goes around comes around,” but this is such a narrow explanation of an elaborate, eternal ...
Views: 1113 - Can The Feeling Of Guilt Destroy Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2018 from Kalyna KapurWhen the mind allows guilt to take over, it will tear down relationships, especially if the partner fails to come to terms and agreement with self. To determine if your mind is full of guilt you must ask yourself questions. What did you do so wrong that would offend your partner that cannot be ...
Views: 579(1 vote) - Meet your sleeping needs with a good mattress. - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2018 from muller lukacsOne of the cool things that people realize is that they spend at least one-third of their life sleeping. Yes, you spend at least eight hours on a daily basis sleeping, and that number increases and decreases according to every individual. However, on an overwhelming every statistic, most of the ...
Views: 758 - Counseling Help to Put Your Complex Modern Relationship Back On Track - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2018 from Jaclyn TengAccording to a recent relationship survey, the dating rules and habits have changed vastly with the digitalization and modernization. The dating behaviors drastically differ between the ages and therefore, modern day relationship is hard and can get pretty complicated with so many unspoken ...
Views: 657(1 vote) - A Major Cause of Emotional Suffering - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2018 from Margaret PaulIs there one thing that is the primary cause of emotional suffering? Yes! Discover the one choice that underlies your emotional suffering. Is it possible that there is one major cause of emotional pain and suffering? Yes! The major cause of suffering is UNKINDNESS - to yourself and to ...
Views: 1375 - Relationships: How Can A Woman Tell If A Man Is Unavailable? - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a woman may find that it is relatively easy for her to attract a man, what she may also find is that she is unable to find a man who actually wants a relationship. This may mean that she has been with a number of men who were emotionally unavailable. Even so, this doesn’t mean that ...
Views: 922 - Dear Dr. Romance: How realistic is it for a woman over 40 to expect a date to lead to marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: How realistic is it for a woman over 40 to expect a date from an online dating site to lead to marriage? Dear Reader: It's not realistic for anyone to expect one date to lead to marriage, but if you know what you're doing, it is possible to find a spouse via dating ...
Views: 981(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Why doesn't he want me? - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a housewife in my mid-thirties, married for 7 years, In our marital life I have never been satisfied, because our sexual interaction never lasts more than 15 min. It makes me unhappy. I have spoken to him regarding this matter but he didn't take it seriously. I feel ...
Views: 978(1 vote) - The One Essential Question that Lives Inside Relationship Anxiety - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2018 from Sheryl PaulOne of the most challenging elements of relationship anxiety to understand is that, if you’re in a healthy, loving relationship with no red flags, the anxiety is projection. This means that the parade of intrusive thoughts that tortures the anxious mind and sensitive soul are actually pointing ...
Views: 1123 - Gap-Closing - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2018 from William CottringerGAP-CLOSING By Bill Cottringer The most serious problem we have today is the growing divide/gap between this and that group of people and the ineffective gap-closing activities we waste valuable time engaging in. The gaps and divide just keeps getting wider and wider, creating more ...
Views: 1287 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Take Other People's Pain Away? - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperPain is something that everyone on the planet experiences and, therefore, it is one of the things that connect human beings. However, although pain is something that can’t be avoided, it doesn’t mean that everyone is willing to accept this. When someone is not willing to accept that this is ...
Views: 942 - Using A Love Spell to Get Back Together After a Break Up - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2018 from Mark JohnWith all the relationship help articles, advice blogs and websites dedicated to helping individuals return lost lovers, numerous individuals are utilizing something dynamic and new. LOVE SPELL ATTRACTION ENERGIES. These attraction energies are named "Love Spells" are only that, energies that ...
Views: 655 - Relationships: Can The Fear Of Being Seen Cause Someone To Attract People Who Are Unavailable? - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that can stop one from being able to have a fulfilling relationship, and ending up with someone who is unavailable will be one of the things that will stop them from being able to fulfil this need. When this takes place, they can find it hard to understand how this ...
Views: 876 - Love Yourself to Weight Loss - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2018 from Margaret PaulEven if you lose weight, do you keep it off? Discover the underlying cause of the cycle of losing and gaining, and what you can do to permanently lose weight. If you ask almost any overweight person, "Do you really want to lose weight?" the answer is likely, "Yes, I would love to lose ...
Views: 1012 - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Always Attract Men Who Are Aloof? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a woman has the tendency to end up with men who are unavailable, it is naturally going to have a negative effect on her wellbeing. Her desire to be with a man who is available is not going to be met, so it is to be expected that this won’t be something that she can simply overlook. If ...
Views: 931 - Dear Dr. Romance: I really wish I could go back in time and fix this. - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I have read some of your articles and am very impressed. I am about to write about something that will probably be one of the most bizarre cases you have ever heard. About 12 years ago, I felt a strong attraction towards a girl who was in my high school. We ...
Views: 928(1 vote) - Relationships: Do Some People Need To Experience A Few Bad Relationships Before They Can Appreciate A Good One? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some people who will feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who is not abusive, while there will be others who won’t. Therefore, if someone who can relate to the former was to end up with someone who is abusive, they would probably soon walk away. And, if someone ...
Views: 971 - Finding a unicorn woman for couples on the Internet - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2018 from Koki DarcyUnicorn is the polyamorous or bisexual woman who is especially willing to be a romantic or sexually involved equally with the couple. This unicorn woman is not allowing with any other partners. In addition, it acts as a couple of curious open relationships with like local unicorns woman for ...
Views: 2335(1 vote) - Relationships: Who Do Some People Focus On Other People’s Problems? - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperEven though one will have their own life to lead while they are on this planet, it doesn’t mean that they will actually have their own life. Instead, they could end up spending most of their tine focusing on other people’s problems. When this takes place, they could end up being seen as ...
Views: 747 - How to Manage Relationships When You Are Over 60 - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2018 from Tori UtleyCan older adults find love? Everyone needs a companion and a friend regardless of age. Some older adults find this friendship in their children and family, but others need more, a relationship. There may, however, be some challenges. Dating among older adults is possible, but the people have ...
Views: 590 - Am I Only With My Partner Because He Makes Me Feel Safe? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Sheryl PaulThere are so many ways the ego tries to dismantle real love, and it’s favorite is to perseverate on a single question until it tires itself out, then jump to the next story. I’ve dissected many of these questions on this blog and in my courses, approaching each in the same way: name it as an ...
Views: 996 - When Love Makes You Flinch - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Sheryl PaulOne of the common fear-lines that arises when the ego is trying to deconstruct the idea of relationship anxiety and convince you that your truth is that you’re just with the wrong person is: “If what Sheryl says is true, why don’t more people talk about it?” It’s an understandable question, ...
Views: 992 - If I'm Calm Now Is It Still Relationship Anxiety? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Sheryl PaulThere is often a predictable arc to relationship anxiety that includes three stages.* The first stage is characterized by typical symptoms of anxiety and panic: Can’t sleep Can’t eat Tearful Depressed Bolting awake in the middle of the night Difficulty functioning at work Fluttering ...
Views: 813 - Forgiving Infidelity – The Aftermath of an extramarital Affair - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Kalyna KapurEvery relationship has its fair share of ups and downs. But coming across your partner’s cheating is categorically one of the most trying experiences. Infidelity happens to have a domino effect that impacts everyone in the couple’s lives. If the couple is married, the damage extends to family, ...
Views: 981(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Have The Need To Be Needed'? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are people who are not interested in trying to rescue or save other people, there are others who are. As a result of this, some people will be repelled by these kinds of people and some will be drawn to them like bees to a honey pot. And no matter what kind of people someone is ...
Views: 1117 - Gift Ideas For Any Type Of Mother - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Furqan ArshadGifts are the expression of admiration, love and gratitude. Mothers are the ones who have taught us all the things . They really deserve the best of the gifts to show our deep love and regard for their efforts they have done to make us what we are now. The gift doesn't have to be very ...
Views: 1272 - New Book: Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2018 from Tina TessinaAnnouncing: Dr. RomanceTM’s Guide to Finding Love Today Please order and review on Amazon.com "I learned so many skills from reading this Guide. When I went out this weekend I was SO aware of going out to have a good time instead of going out in hopes of ‘meeting someone.’ Hung out with ...
Views: 1334(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: He's simply taking advantage of my affections for him - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I don't want to be here anymore. Be here on this earth that is, be here in this ole' body of mine. Perhaps you can help. I think I'm simply looking for some inspiration. Also, when I think about no longer being "alive"... I am comforted. This feeling of calm comes over ...
Views: 1099(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I actually forwarded him the conversation by accident - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I actually forwarded him the conversation by accident Dear Dr. Romance: I am a woman in my thirties. It's been over a month since I last spoke with my ex-boyfriend of one year. He gave me the silent treatment because I hurt him. Or it might be his ...
Views: 1205(1 vote) - Principles for Perfecting Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2018 from Guy FinleyHave you ever been so upset, so disturbed by someone, that if you didn’t lash out at them, you were sure the whole world would come crashing down on you? When you and I get upset with someone, our attention is instantly glued onto the source of our irritation. All we do is think about the ...
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