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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- "To Really Choose a Man" - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2018 from Barry and Joyce Vissell(An excerpt from the Vissell’s new book, To Really Love a Man) TO REALLY LOVE A MAN IS TO CHOOSE HIM OVER AND OVER AGAIN. It’s not enough to say marriage vows one time, though that is certainly important. The relationship is deepened if you let him know often that you would choose him all ...
Views: 2160 - How Can They Live With Themselves? - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2018 from Margaret PaulI am outraged. It’s now well known that big pharma pays off doctors regarding the safety of drugs, including opioids, which is causing the high death toll from these drugs. It’s not as well known that the SSRI antidepressant drugs are also partly responsible for the mass shootings. Every ...
Views: 1138 - Do's and Don'ts in Confronting Abuse | What Is Codependency? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2018 from Darlene LancerAbuse is about having power over someone. Abusers typically want to feel superior and to control and dominate. To them, communication is not about understanding. It’s a win-lose game. They use verbal abuse and/or violence to accomplish this. They’re frequently self-centered, impatient, ...
Views: 1376(3 votes) - Why Some People Share Too Much Sad Images on Social Media? - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2018 from Alvina JenniferEvery social media users know people who share too much about their lives on their wall. Social media has provided all of us a platform to share our views, express our feelings and talk about social issues collectively or individually. Everyone is utilizing this space for their own interests. ...
Views: 1211 - Dear Dr. Romance: the truth made me feel worse. - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I dated a woman for about a year who was divorced with a small child. For most of our time together, I believed that I had found the best person ever. She was very honest, open minded, considerate, respectful, loving, and kind. Our relationship was excellent. ...
Views: 1124(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I grew up with a mother who said hateful things - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I really need your help. Could you please recommend one of your books for myself. I grew up in a home with a mother who was famous for saying hateful things that she didn't mean when she was mad. Lately I am doing the very same thing. I am newly married and I love my ...
Views: 1317(1 vote) - Jealous? Heres Why. - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2018 from Margaret PaulIn her phone session with me, Katy was completely perplexed about her jealousy. "As you know, I broke up with my boyfriend, Jared, 6 months ago. By the time I broke up with him, I was really done with the relationship, and I have no desire to be with him. But last week I found out that he has ...
Views: 1174 - The Healing Power Of Nature! - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperA few weeks ago, I was having a conversation with a friend of mine called Wain, and this was a deep conversation. However, this was a conversation that was far deeper than usual and I ended up thinking about what we spoke about. I won’t go too far into what we spoke about as I sure that he ...
Views: 1128 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Trapped Around Others? - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile reaching out to others and experiencing intimacy is normal for some people, there are others who experience life in a very different way. When someone can reach out to others and experience intimacy, they could be in a fulfilling relationship. However, even if they are not with someone ...
Views: 1289 - Dr Romance’s 3 tips to know it's time to let go of your relationship - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2018 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: As a counselor, I’ve helped lots of couples solve difficult relationship problems, but it isn’t always possible. If your relationship feels detrimental to your mental, emotional or physical well-being, it's time for a change. If your lover has or develops severe problems ...
Views: 1346(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Women Who Need To Be Saved? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to find out that a woman is unable to handle life and needs other people to prop her up, he could soon come to the conclusion that it would be better for him to move on. It will be only too clear that being with a woman like this is going to be more trouble than it’s worth. Two ...
Views: 2258 - There Is A Reason Why We Look To One Person To Meet All Of Our Needs! - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperA little while ago, I wrote about when my father worked with a healer called, Errol Campbell, and after I wrote this article, I ended up sharing it with him. Yet, before I wrote this article, I wasn’t sure if I would have enough content within me to write an article about this moment. Just Do ...
Views: 1203 - ---Loving Yourself by Getting Organized - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2018 from Margaret Paul"Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone." - Pablo Picasso Do you struggle with: -Procrastination -Clutter -Overwhelm -Disorganization -Being late -Guilt over not getting things done or not following through with commitments -Anxiety over things ...
Views: 1087 - Are We Ready for Marriage? We Can Do It with New Light on the Wedding Parables! - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2018 from Richard RuhlingOne of 10 ways to get rich is to marry the wealth. The Bible teaches that we can become the bride of Christ if we understand the the wedding parables. Understand means to stand under and support—do what those parables teach. 1. Each wedding parable shows we don’t understand them. The ...
Views: 1095 - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Lose Respect When A Man Expresses His Emotions? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn recent years, a lot has been said about how important it is for men to open up about how they feel and to embrace their inherent vulnerability. It could be said that it is a good thing that this has been taking place. However, although a lot of men have been exposed to this message, it ...
Views: 1710 - Relationships: Is Someone Out Of Balance If They Rescue Others? - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people take the time to be there for themselves and to be there for others, there are others who don’t. If someone can relate to the former, they are not going to have the tendency to neglect themselves; whereas if they can relate to the latter, this will be the norm. Two ...
Views: 989 - Relationships: Do Some Women's Childhoods Set Them Up To Be Dependent On Men? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a woman is an individual, she will be able to pay attention to her own needs and feelings. Not only this, she will have good boundaries, meaning that she will generally have a strong sense of herself. What this will do is allow her to live a life that is in alignment with who she is, as ...
Views: 1338 - Dear Dr. Romance: the thought of seeing him have sex with other women bothers me a lot - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a bipolar woman with emotional problems. These problems seem to manifest most lately with my boyfriend whom I tend to blame for everything. I feel super insecure when we are out and he notices other women. He taught me a lot about sexuality and commented ...
Views: 1532(1 vote) - --- Love Yourself: 30-Day Inner Bonding Experience - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2018 from Margaret PaulThe next 'Love Yourself' Course starts February 21, 2018. Are you ready to learn how to love yourself? Love Yourself: A 30-Day Home-Study Inner Bonding Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul, to self-heal anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, addictions and relationships. "I feel like I have ...
Views: 1145 - --- Love Yourself: 30-Day Inner Bonding Experience - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2018 from Margaret PaulThe next 'Love Yourself' Course starts February 21, 2018. Are you ready to learn how to love yourself? Love Yourself: A 30-Day Home-Study Inner Bonding Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul, to self-heal anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, addictions and relationships. "I feel like I have ...
Views: 1078 - *** How To Let Go of Anger Like a Woke Monk - An Anger Management Expert’s Top 5 Tools to Manage Anger *** - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Dr. John SchinnererWhile the short-term problems created by anger are bad enough, consider some of the long-term effects… Negative Effects of Anger The negative effects of chronic anger are far-reaching. People who lack the ability to manage their anger have a higher chance of the following… Low ...
Views: 7636(2 votes) - Why Do Women Fake Orgasms? How to Spot a Fake Orgasm - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonDifferent women have different reasons but it's a very well known fact that a lot of women out there have a tendency to fake their orgasms on a regular basis. If a girl is faking orgasms around you then it's more than obvious that she is not getting what she expects from you and she is not able ...
Views: 1835 - How To Finger A Woman Until She Orgasms: How To Finger A Girl - Best Way To Finger A Girl - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Finger A Woman Until She Orgasms: How To Finger A Girl - Best Way To Finger A Girl Yesterday I went around and asked 10 guys if they were interested to know how to finger a woman until she climaxes. And guess what - nine out of the ten guys guys said that they would absolutely love to ...
Views: 1599 - Dating: Does It Matter What Someone's Political Views Are? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, someone can have the need to find out about what another person’s political views are before they are willing to take things further. Whether they are left leaning or right leaning will make a big difference. However, if someone is using an online dating app, they might not ...
Views: 1436 - WHY ROMANCE TURNS TOXIC - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Darlene LancerMost everyone wants to fall in love, especially codependents. To us, love is perhaps the highest ideal, and relationships give our lives meaning and purpose. They enliven and motivate us. A partner provides a companion when we have difficulty initiating action on our own. Being loved also ...
Views: 2034(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: my wife has control and anger problems - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I saw your responses from divorce 360 web site and was really impressed with your thoughts on relationships! I've been married for 18 years with 3 children. I am a very active Dad (Basketball/baseball coach for all of them) but my marriage has been very unhealthy for most of ...
Views: 1122 - Dear Dr. Romance: he is even a few years younger than my daughter - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance:I am going crazy. I am attracted to a young man who is young enough to be my son, he is even a few years younger than my daughter. He has shown interest in me as well and I think this is absurd and yet I can't help the way I feel. He talks to me and shows an interest when I ...
Views: 1312(1 vote) - Dating: Is It A Good Sign If Someone Is 'Spiritual'? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one has the desire to meet someone who is spiritual, it could show that they are also spiritual. At the same time, it could be said that regardless of whether one sees themselves as spiritual or not, it doesn’t change the fact that they are spiritual. It is then not that some people are ...
Views: 1314 - Dear Dr. Romance: I want to break-up with him, but I don't know how - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years, I care for him deeply. However, I am not happy. I want to break-up with him, but I don't know the best way to do it and not hurt him. I would still like to remain friends with him, or is this just wishful thinking? Dear ...
Views: 1255(1 vote) - Relationships: Do Some Women's Childhood's Set Them Up To Attract Submissive Men? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some women who attract men who are in touch with their masculine strength, while there are others who don’t. As a result of this, their experiences with the opposite sex are going to be very different. One Experience If a woman is used to being with men who are in touch with ...
Views: 1696 - Controlling Behaviour: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Be Controlling? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, it is a case of either controlling others or being controlled; there is no middle ground. Even so, this doesn’t mean that this is something that goes through their mind. Completely Unaware Instead, one can feel compelled to do whatever they can to control other people. As ...
Views: 1107 - Dear Dr. Romance: Why this compulsion to cheat? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm looking at myself and asking the question, "Why this compulsion to cheat?" What will it take to keep my eye from wandering around? I'm divorced, technically, but trying to make amends with the ex. I love my kids, and an absentee father just doesn't fit my ...
Views: 1615(1 vote) - Dating: Should Someone Message Another Person If They Go Silent? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, there are so many ways for people to find someone to be with, which is a far cry from how it used to be. In the past, one would have had to physically meet another person in order to be able to take the next step, but this is not longer necessary. Another Option Now, one can ...
Views: 1384 - Relationships: Should Someone To Ask Themselves Why They Want To Get Back With Their Ex? - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one’s relationship has just come to an end, they could feel relieved and happy that they can now move on with their life. Maybe, this was a relationship that was no longer working, meaning that it had run its course. Disconnected For a number of weeks, they might have thought about ...
Views: 1008 - Moment By Moment - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2018 from Sheryl PaulLife is a series of micro-moments. Most of the time, we’re floating along in the fast-paced current without self-reflection. But inevitably, at some point, we will get snagged on a branch of anxiety or intrusive thoughts, an uncomfortable feeling, an illness, an argument with a loved one, or a ...
Views: 1038 - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Alternate Between ‘Bad Boys’ And ‘Nice Guys’? - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are plenty of women who are only drawn to men who are kind and respectful, for instance, there are also plenty of women who aren’t. As a result of this, their relationships with men are going to be radically different. The Norm Still, when it comes to what a woman’s ...
Views: 1081(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Stay In Touch With Their Ex? - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one’s relationship has just come to an end, they could decide to cut their ties and to move on with their life. As a result of this, they are not going to want to stay in touch with their ex. One Step Back Doing so could be seen as something that will stop them from being able to put ...
Views: 1132 - Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Too Much From Others? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperBefore one gets into a relationship, they can have a rough idea about the kind of person who they want to be with. Along with this, there can be what they expect to receive when they are with them. If this is the case, there can be what they would like someone to look like and there can be ...
Views: 1021 - Dear Dr. Romance: let the small things go and don't pick each other apart - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr Romance: I just wanted to say thank you for the article you wrote "Relationships 101: Do Opposites Attract?" I just read it today and you have really made my day. I'm currently in an interracial relationship with a wonderful man from Africa. Not only are we from ...
Views: 1030(1 vote) - Critical Thinking: Does A Woman Need To Seek Professional Help If She Believes That All Men Are Bad? - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, it appears to be perfectly acceptable for a woman in the public eye to bash men. She can say all kinds of things that will basically amount to men being less-than human and worthless, and absolutely nothing will be done. Now, that’s not to say that both men and women won’t ...
Views: 1084 - Is your anger keep you stuck? Here's what to know. - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltAs you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes us way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something ...
Views: 1632 - How to Enjoy a Long-Distance Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2018 from Jane HurstLong-distance relationships are not easy, but this doesn’t mean that they are not worthwhile. In fact, if you are considering not getting into a long-distance relationship because you think it will be too difficult, don’t say “no” without giving it a lot of consideration. ...
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