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Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 7 of this seven-part series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the sixth principle of influence – ... Views: 2453
Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 6 of this seven-part series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the fifth principle of influence – ... Views: 2563
Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 5 of this seven-part series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the fourth principle of influence – ... Views: 2434
Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 4 of this seven-part series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the third principle of influence – Social ... Views: 2482
Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 3 of this series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the second principle of influence – ... Views: 3034
Learn the six universal principles of influence and how to use them to improve your marketing efforts.
Part 2 of this series of articles, which are based on Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion," explains the first principle of influence – ... Views: 2952
Have you ever read a book that really made you think about things in a totally different way? I just finished reading such a book and decided to digest its contents in a series of seven articles.
I am not the only one who gives high marks to Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert ... Views: 2218
One summer while I was on vacation from college I became a tin man: selling aluminum siding and roofing door to door in the Boston area. The business has a bad reputation but our siding and our roofs were the finest available. Our prices were high but fair. In spite of what consumers always want ... Views: 1507
Covert persuasion techniques are one of the most powerful sales and motivation methods you can learn. By using them, you're able to place an idea inside the mind of a person - such as the desire to buy your product or sign up with your MLM business - while convincing them that it was their idea ... Views: 3288
There are numerous ways on how to be more persuasive. Some of them require nothing more than a change in demeanor, while others require you to change your entire approach. Some of these persuasion techniques you might already know, while others might be untested waters for you.
If you want ... Views: 2015
The first time a person looks at you and even talks to you he or she forms an impression of who you are and what you are about. You are the one who gives credibility to what that person thinks and contrary to popular belief it is difficult to change. The first impression is a lasting impression ... Views: 1815
You can be a Superstar at Public Speaking
Business Speakers
To create real sustainable and meaningful success, you need to enhance your ability to sell your ideas. Expand your sphere of influence and connect with people that can make a difference in your life. To become great in all of ... Views: 1578
The most dependable internet marketing strategy you can use online is actually building relationships with others. With constant changes being made online concerning search engine algorithms or content submissions the need to maintain a 'grass roots' approach to generating internet traffic is ... Views: 1086
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person for years and after running my own ... Views: 1270
A group of anthropologists at Cambridge were conducting research on the concepts of pessimism and optimism. Their subjects were two young boys: one a pessimist and the other an optimist. The pessimistic boy was put in a room full of wonderful toys. The optimistic boy was put in a room with ... Views: 3039
Your audience wants you to succeed. They want you to do well so that they can be entertained, informed and inspired. Your self-confidence grows. As you become more confident, you build credibility.
Then you are introduced to three groups. You believe they will bring your speeches to a ... Views: 1883
Whenever you are in a leadership position always have a crystal clear picture about, what your vision and purpose as a leader is. As this allows you to have a track to run on, gives you a set of criterion against which you can measure every decision you make and allows you to keep moving toward ... Views: 1896
Many people, especially in the academic world, look at the world in a very rational way. They view everything related to energies and spirituality with skepticism, a rational skepticism.
People involved in groups often seek approval and recognition. For example, Wikipedia wants to be ... Views: 1784
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person for years and after running my own ... Views: 1535
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
When you want to achieve something, you often have to go through many challenges. Part of these challenges are the people you will encounter along the way. Even if circumstances work to your favor, if a person gets in your way and refuses to ... Views: 2314
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
Subliminal programming have always held a certain mysterious image. Although it is becoming more widespread lately, a lot of people still hold it at an arm’s length. It’s either they’re not fully willing to believe in its effects, or they’re a ... Views: 1457
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
Are you familiar with the concept of subliminal persuasion? By definition, it is a process wherein people are influenced or persuaded to think or act a certain way just by using carefully constructed words or messages. These words contain ... Views: 1660
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
A lot of people think that they have complete control over their perception of reality. They think that they are aware of everything that they see and perceive. They think that they only perceive what they choose to. In reality, however, people ... Views: 840
Learning to be Persuasive
I remember an experience that I had while I was in the military. We were in the desert and looking for a certain location. I was an Artillery Forward Observer and we were en route to a command meeting. We had a grid location but we had to find it. While I debated ... Views: 1284
I often coach clients on creating compelling networking introductions. Frequently the debate is, "Which is better: focusing on the pain or loss (as one of my clients phrased it "backing up the hearse") or should you focus on the prospect's aspirations or gains instead? "Which works ... Views: 797
One of the biggest obstacles any business encounters when trying to increase sales is overcoming the fears of potential customers. On the internet this is particularly challenging since marketing efforts are pretty much limited to the written word. The success and/or failure of many online ... Views: 947
Looking at the mentality of the human mind, there is something that you need to know when you are on the prowl, looking for some ways to instantly persuade them, and this is a process that people in marketing go through all the time. They tailor their pitch, and the pitch is something that is ... Views: 869
What this means is that you need to set things up in such a way that people believe that you are the be all and end all of anything that you are talking about and this is really dependent on what you are trying to persuade them in. There are several steps to take to get into this form of ... Views: 797
This perhaps is one of the more important aspects of making people believe you and bonding emotionally with that person is a great way for you to build trust. Now this is an art, and some might say it is a con job, because what you are doing most of the time, is that you are going to be ... Views: 772
The power of the reward is transient and is omni present even if there is no actual reward in the first place. You see, you need to understand the potential matrix of the human mind and how it really works in this day and age. It is actually tuned to respond to a certain mix of ingredients and ... Views: 777
This involves persuading someone to perform an activity in a subtle manner. This technique utilizes the laws of attraction to work, it is very important to understand that mind tricks work to affect certain disciplines in our lives. Mind tricks can be considered as the best way to make someone ... Views: 2881
One thing that you might want to know about the art of persuasion is the truth that you are trying to sell. Whether or not there is a product attached to it, there are certain principles that you might want to look at before you actually can call something sellable. Now, this is a really ... Views: 735
This is called the mental art of funnelling and you might have heard of this before. In fact, this is one of the more advanced and powerful formulas that you should be using for yourself when it comes to your own options as a persuasion artiste. You need to be able to close down all roads and ... Views: 818
Earlier on we were talking a little on the power of the reward and how this can really be the main way that you can try and persuade people to believe in you. In fact, the power of the reward is something that is being used all over the world and you might want to focus your overall strategy on ... Views: 801
Learn the Power of Eye Contact
What is eye contact?
Several popular definitions are:
1. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal channels you have for communicating and connecting with others.
2. Defined as a meeting of the eyes between two people expresses meaningful nonverbal ... Views: 1822
How do you answer that question? If your customers don’t need you, you’re not relevant. No need means no customers. No customers mean no sales. No sales means no business. It’s as simple as that!
How do you make yourself indispensable to your clients? You work at it. You focus ... Views: 1237
From Dale Carnegie to Robert Cialdini and Kevin Hogan, much information written on influence emerges from men. Even though the ideas and opinions they offer are valuable, women are yearning to know what influence tactics, negotiations, and language resonate for them.
We are thirsty to ... Views: 1296
What business do negative people have in your life? Why are they there in the first place? Because you let them hang around. Could it be you hang around them?
What happens when you are surrounded by even just one negative Nellie? Your whole day, attitude, perspective, and direction ... Views: 1605
When I work with women on how to influence their future I start with this exercise. Make a list of 3 things in your past that are causing an “I deserve more” barrier for you. These are the messages of that voice in your head saying, “You can’t do this. Or have this. Or be this.” Let your ... Views: 1003
My last post commended Peter Block for his firm stand about the need for the feminine in the workplace. The world is expanding its view on women; how we think, how we work, who we are, and the great value we contribute to this earth.
However, there are still so many of us that aren’t clear ... Views: 1180
There are 6 myths that I will bust (no pun intended!) about women and influence. And here they are:
1. The White Knight Myth. This is the idea that women are only influential because of their husband, family, or others outside of themselves. Men and some women believe that this is the ... Views: 1350
Is your wardrobe is holding you back? Have you taken the time to develop a personal style – one that reflects you?
Keller’s Rules to Dress By:
1. Express your individuality. Remember, you are your brand. By being true to yourself you will be authentic. If you are warm, open, ... Views: 2608
What does it mean for a woman to find her voice? Voice is not only speaking. It’s listening, responding, and being heard. It is purpose, identity, imagination, and beauty.
Your voice was created the moment you were conceived. Sometimes it has been shut down – flattened. Nurture it. ... Views: 1099
What do Steve Jobs, Angelina Jolie, Bill Gates, Tom Cruise and Kate Gosselin have in common? They are famous control freaks!
Let me introduce her not-so-long-distant cousin of the female manipulator, the control freak.
How are the control freak and the manipulator related? The control ... Views: 2220
Coco Chanel not only created the fashionable and immortal suit and “little black dress” but she made women believe that they can live their own lives, they can be independent and wear clothes according to their own preferences. So powerful was Coco Chanel’s influence that today, a bottle of ... Views: 1986
To truly influence and maximize the power within your grasp, you need to become "one with it." Huh? Let me tell you a story.
A few years ago, I took an off ramp, circling around to a huge overpass when I hit black ice. Now, most of you reading who live where there's snow understand what ... Views: 1063
Subliminal persuasion is the technique of acquiring another person to acknowledge you without the need of outwardly suggesting and without having the other person realizing that you simply were attempting to influence the person in question. It is a kind of persuasion in which, words with some ... Views: 9246
Part 3 of 3 part series: Living Creative Results
Part 1 of this series helped get you started – discovering that you do have a creative side and how to access it. Part 2 focused on dealing with the gremlins. You know - the self-limiting beliefs that invade your mind.
Now, it’s time to ... Views: 1074
Part 1 of a 3 part series: Finding Your Creativity
Spring is here. It’s time to clean out the cobwebs in your brain. Open your mind to all ideas you ignore, argue with or push to the backburner for later. Well, later is here.
Women have the capacity to take the unknown and give it a ... Views: 1083
Part 2 of a 3 part series: Conquering Creativity Challenges
In my last article I revealed the 4 secrets to finding your creativity – the first stage of three in actualizing your creative process. Creative thought is the essence of every woman.
Every woman has the capacity or dare I say ... Views: 1002