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Between 20% and 30% of men believe they suffer from early ejaculation. However early ejaculation is when you finish in the first 2 minutes of sexual activity. It is considered that it normally takes a man between 5 and 10 minutes to have an ejaculation. If you suffer from early ejaculation, we ... Views: 839
Your marriage has been through a lot. The passion and the deep connection you used to have are gone, and your husband has turned from your best friend to your enemy. Do you really want to know how to love your husband? This is the #1 secret to restoring the love to your marriage – today.
You ... Views: 2823
Do you nourish the women in your life? Do you want to be more nourishing and learn how you can teach others to be so as well?
First, let us start by identifying what nourishment is. According to the Macmillan dictionary, "nourishment" means "food or the substances in food that are necessary ... Views: 2075
"For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow".
- Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Being happy is a state of mind and a choice we need to make for ourselves. After 30 ... Views: 1674
Marriage as we all know is a legally recognized relationship that is established by a civil or religious ceremony, between two people who intend to live together as sexual and domestic partners. Before accepting the responsibility of being married they are number of things you need to put into ... Views: 1110
Narcissists can be beguiling and charismatic. In fact, one study showed that their likable veneer was only penetrable after seven meetings. But you don't want to fall in love with one. Over time you can end up feeling ignored, uncared for, and unimportant. Typically, a narcissist’s criticism, ... Views: 1376
There is a saying, look to yourself for the cause and solution to all your problems. This is a very interesting saying because it has many meanings.
The first is the obvious, to see what you have done wrong to cause the problem. This is easy to apply, see what you did and accept ... Views: 6391
We are so happy when we fall in love and cannot understand why our world comes to a standstill when the love of our life decides to walk out on us.
Something in us refuses to accept the fact that our relationship has come to an end. We start working ourselves up in a frenzy, cry, plead, ... Views: 1546
Having a broken heart is something that people don’t want to go through, but when it happens you have to know how to survive a broken heart. Life has to go on and for this reason you have to learn how to overcome your broken heart.
You will go through different stages in your break up and ... Views: 1739
I’ve heard & read various people say that learning how to write a kissing scene in a romance novel can be a real test and prove to be a challenge. I beg to differ from those authors; writing a kissing scene can be the easiest things to do if you have the ability to visualize and imagine & blend ... Views: 2053
With the 4th of July just around the corner, I usually like to write about Freedom around this time. I was inspired to write more about feelings, emotions and their relationship to Freedom…
It is an obvious fact that some people are very emotional and others barely even notice how they feel… ... Views: 727
Real Happiness comes from "feeling" our feelings. Quite literally.
If you can track your feelings they will reveal the lies and expectations that shackle us to our unhappiness. So they are a gift. The greatest learning and light comes in those moments of shear consciousness of "what our ... Views: 1609
Jingles bells add music to ear and people cannot resist their excitement during the Christmas festivals as it is a time of holidays and fun. It is a festival of love and passion, when people give gifts to their loved ones to show their care and love. Christmas celebration starts from the month ... Views: 3214
How often do you find yourself in an intense argument over a disagreement? Too often, relationships tear apart due to disagreements. Why do we feel the NEED to be right? If someone does not agree with you why give them the cold shoulder? Is it really worth it? Does it make you feel good? ... Views: 2889
All intimate relationships are supported by two pillars: Intimacy andSafety.
Intimacy implies both closeness and communication (Holmes, J.Attachment, Intimacy, Autonomy, J. Aronson, 1996.) The more we communicate with one another, the closer we get. The closer we get, the easier and deeper our ... Views: 1783
How do I know if I am acting codependent or loving? This is an excellent question and often confusing for many for different reasons. Let’s look at the definitions of codependent and loving and see what we find.
Love: An intense feeling of deep affection. For the purpose of this article, we ... Views: 1869
Just picture this for a second, what if it was impossible to Love one person without loving all people.
I invite you to know in your mind now that we all are one in God.
And as you do so, begin to become aware of the fact that every time one heart is lifted, all hearts are lifted. Each ... Views: 1161
Are you trying to figure out if your ex girlfriend is still in love with you? It's not too hard to decipher her actions and interpret how she feels about you. You can easily tell if she is over you. Her talks with you would lack substance, that is if she ever talks to you at all. She'll also be ... Views: 4596
None of us are immune to rejection.
It doesn’t matter where you are in life, and whether it’s ending a marriage or breaking up with a partner. Even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about and spent our lives with as a ... Views: 1604
It’s not easy to move on from a painful breakup… especially if your ex-girlfriend is dating again. Even if you have already accepted the breakup, it can be devastating to find out that your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else. If you want to get her back, make sure you apply these things down ... Views: 7009
Women, in particular, are looking for commitment. Hollywood, the media, and dating websites all focus on getting a marriage proposal. The art of seduction pre-dates expert Cleopatra. Dozens of books have been written about getting an unavailable man to say, “I do.” For six years, Carrie Bradshaw ... Views: 1680
The only time I believe in giving up on a marriage is when one of them dies, or if after their divorce one of them marries someone else, or if one of them continues involvement in an activity that makes the marriage impossible. Otherwise, I believe there is a chance to reconcile.
The first ... Views: 3347
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New parents often find themselves struggling to keep the romance alive with a baby on board. Time never seems to be enough for you to spend some alone time once the baby is born. The chores start snowballing, the literature about how to be a good parent has to be read, the cares for your little ... Views: 1019
There are many advantages inherent in taking digital photos rather than using more traditional means, but one of the downsides can be the sheer volume of material produced. The question you’re left with is how best to store your favourite photos so that they are safe, easily accessible and can ... Views: 974
There is little doubt that I have a flair for unique names. My name, Saintmoses, is suggestive to that fact. While I was growing up I met a pretty lady who told me that her name was Kentra. I wasn’t as mesmerized by her beauty and coy essence as by her name. Even though Kentra’s face is lost ... Views: 2230
Love plays an essential role in our lives. Conscious communication in romantic partnerships plays an important role, mainly if two individuals want to commit to each other on a certain level. A crucial part of conscious communicating successfully with a lover is establishing good conversation ... Views: 1293
Empty Nesters
Dear Dr. Diana
My husband doesn’t understand my feelings at all. I’m beginning to wonder if he ever did. Our youngest son just graduated from high school and leaves for college in a couple of months. With the kids gone, I don’t know if we have anything in common anymore. ... Views: 1627
My husband Tom and I have been getting high on some really potent stuff and I want to share some with you. The great thing about it is it's free, readily available and has no bad side effects. What is this great stuff? It's laughter. We laugh on purpose like crazy and before we know it we're ... Views: 1231
My husband Tom and I have been getting high on some really potent stuff and I want to share some with you. The great thing about it is it's free, readily available and has no bad side effects. What is this great stuff? It's laughter. We laugh on purpose like crazy and before we know it we're ... Views: 1186
As the fun loving Lucille Ball once said, “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” The first key to living a fulfilled life is learning to love yourself. This is the foundation for any other cherished ... Views: 1178
This morning I woke up very early and couldn’t sleep anymore, so I decided to just lie in my bed and meditate a bit. I had gone through a very difficult break up in the last year, and even though it’s almost a year ago I still haven’t been able to let go of my fears of a new relationship or the ... Views: 1579
I was sitting down thinking about my love life and all of my past relationships wondering to myself, where did I go wrong? You meet a guy and everything is sweet, good conversation, and then you realize it’s not going anywhere. Now, we’ve heard the stories about meeting our soul mate and having ... Views: 679
From the time I was 14-years-old, I had an interest in psychology. My mother was an aetheist and psychology seemed to be her religion, so I embraced it as mine as well. After many years of therapy, having tried several different psychotherapists and their modalities, and benefitting from them ... Views: 2419
I was sitting next to my wonderful husband in the car thinking that in a few weeks I would have been celebrating forty years of marriage if I had still been with my first husband. Am I sad? No, not at all. I have been married to my prince for the past twenty-one years.
Everything we ... Views: 1550
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel.
For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' ... Views: 778
India is a Democratic country, every person has a right to vote for their favorite leader. Ever person above 18 years has this right to vote, given by the Article 326 in our Constitution. The country’s policy of the government is of the people, by the people, and for the people. The Lok Sabha ... Views: 1548
The inappropriate expression of anger is very prevalent in our world today, therefore I thought I would attempt to address it on the individual level. Let's explore how mindfulness can help with angry responses.
We experience anger most often when we feel threatened in some way, it can be ... Views: 1237
This is something that can affect someone in many ways and as a result of many things. Some losses can simply be ignored and forgotten about and then there are others can are harder to forget.
One can also lose something and never forget the loss; regardless of how much times goes by or what ... Views: 2180
In the 'Love Addict in Love Addiction' I write a lot about the five core symptoms which fuel the undue pain and dysfunction in addictive relationships.
One important core symptom deserving attention is love addicts Impaired Boundaries in relationships. Too often, boundaries are invisible and ... Views: 2612
1.Don't make other peoples thoughts, feelings, or actions about YOU. In other words, with healthy emotional boundaries, don't take responsibility (or blame yourself) for what another person may do, say or think? You are not responsible (i.e., your partner or ex partner). As an adult, you are ... Views: 2000
What we do each moment has a powerful impact on life. Each choice we make, and each we ignore, adds to the collective experience. Where we place our attention and what we contemplate becomes our reality. The power of our mind is amazing, yet nothing compares to what we can do when we come ... Views: 1551
It hurts so bad. It can make you physically ill. It feels like it’ll never get better.
Trust me. It does. It gets better.
In fact, this edition of The Love Post is here to remind you that heartache is actually a demonstration of the strength and power of Love.
If you didn’t Love, your ... Views: 649
Love Addicts create unhealthy and painful attachments to romance, people, sex, and the euphoria of love relationships. Love Addicts commonly search outside of themselves to feel alive and fill their unmet emotional needs. Love Addicts unconsciously look for others to “fix”-“rescue” them from the ... Views: 5317
Go to the grocery check out. What do you see?
Sex is all over the covers of the magazines. It seems we’ve gotten pretty comfortable talking openly about it in our society.
Obviously, it’s a common need and desire for people to experience this physical activity. In fact, on Maslow’s ... Views: 741
Love and You: The Top Ten Tips for Loving Relationships
Lynda Klau, Ph.D.
How many of us have learned how to build loving relationships? Where did we learn? At home? At school?
There is an art and science to building strong relationships.
These indispensable tips were written ... Views: 2418
Suppose you had to explain what love is - as opposed to friendship,
sexuality, loyalty, romance, etc. Like most people, you would
probably be hard put to produce a satisfying characterization of love.
If you make a list of all the words you associate with love, - and, if
furthermore, you ... Views: 1313
Getting hit by a love bomb feels glorious! The lavish attention and affection seems to answer our prayers. We’ve found Mr. or Ms. Right―our soul mate; unsuspecting that we’ve been targeted by a narcissist. The bomber abruptly changes colors and loses interest, and our dream comes crashing down. ... Views: 1274
Often it is the kiss of death.
One says to the other, “I love you, but I’m no longer in love with you.” The person speaking either wishes for a relationship with someone new or already has it. The “I love you” phrase often means, “I’m not really that angry at you; you’ve got some good ... Views: 4837
Love Finds The Way
Love is the greatest equalizer that we all come to know. It does not care who you are, what you do, where you live, or what you think. It takes you where you need to be and shows you what you need to do. It is exacting and timely. It is ethereal and practical. It is ... Views: 1228