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After age 25-30, depending on marital status and other things, it becomes more and more helpful to have and to know certain things. Some are practical and some make sense from a life planning standpoint. The following are suggested for anyone over age 30, single or married, male or female, ... Views: 2388
What makes for a good life? Based on personal experience, and also on what I see from other people, a good life has its root in the choice of living a meaningful life. Here, I summarize an approach to what I have been writing on the blog http://www.amareway.org/
I had a sudden shift in ... Views: 1147
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Running to Choice - by Sherry Shoemaker, CPCC, ACC, Voice of Assurance LIfe Coaching
Having experienced an earthquake, a hurricane, and a murderer on the loose in our area all in one week, the concept of choice has been prevalent in my mind. The matter of choice becomes abundantly pronounced when approaching times of disaster. During these crises, I watched the news, which ... Views: 874
Something that seems to be rather frequent in the news at present is the elderly. They seem to get a hammering in the news and by others. I’m not going to lie I have been known to curse them for going to collect their pensions during the lunch hour... something I’m still sure they do on purpose. ... Views: 961
This past year I had a lot of time to think and reflect back while i was on med leave for my shoulder and i decided to make good use of the time! Reflecting back i started to write affirmations, some poetry, then recently get serious about starting a blog and opening up about my past! I had a ... Views: 1119
Don’t hunt me down and shoot me, but I see 9/11 as a blessing in disguise. It helped us to remember our capacity for great things as humans. The loss, fear and anger we felt that day gave rise to something greater – compassion and community.
I lived in Manhattan at the time and was asleep when ... Views: 2585
A Woman’s Intuition
That little voice inside your head that gives you warnings about people and situations, is it real? Should I have listened to my friends all those years ago that told me the guy I was about to marry was bad news, after my money, arrogant, not good enough for me…..? ... Views: 4268
So, who is “G?” And, what is the importance for remembering him?
“G” is my father. To his family he is “Bill,” and to his grandchildren he is “G.”
Rather suddenly, “G” passed away at the ripe old age of 90, in April of 2011. Needless to say, for the last couple of years, my life has ... Views: 1378
The other day, I started to write a letter to myself to read when I reach the age of 90.
Let me explain a little about writing a letter to myself….
My parents are both ninety years old.
I have been observing them for quite awhile.
I have also observed other older people including my ... Views: 1512
In the previous blog I mentioned that the first step to happiness involves becoming free of your ‘tribe’ – whether that tribe is your family culture or society at large. By free I mean the ability to have your own freedom of thought and values within your tribe. Now some tribes are progressive ... Views: 1044
Six months ago my best friend Emily broke off with her beau Timothy, who happens to be my husband’s Harry best friend. Theirs was a sweetest love story. They met during our wedding two years when they served as our maid of honor and best man respectively. Of course, it was our intention to get ... Views: 683
There are many of us out there who have felt as though we have had to wear a mask. To hide the self that we truly are. We may have even felt that in order to fit in, to be loved, and accepted, we have had to disguise ourselves. Be who others told us that we were, or how we felt it was ... Views: 947
Important seed to water
If you went to the store to buy seeds for an apple tree, when you get home you pick the place where you want the plant to grow. You then plant the seeds and water them, and after that day you completely forget that you ever planted that seed. After the first or second ... Views: 649
The Tribute in Light
I join with you in honoring the
lives that were taken, the ones that were given in service, and the ones that life breathed the breathe of promise & hope into.
Good Morning
I stand in awe this morning as I reflect on the 10th Anniversary of a ... Views: 1387
In the world today, we encounter a lot of negativity, pain, stress and natural disasters. Many days, we wake up with far too much to do, far too much to think about, far too many concerns, and far too many problems.
In Virginia where I live, in the span of less than one week, we experienced ... Views: 1537
When I was serving four churches in and around Great Bend, Kansas, I frequently saw a car with a vanity license tag that read “Yahweh”. While I never met the owner of the car, I often wondered if it was intended as a touching tribute – along the lines of “God is my co-pilot” - or if it was ... Views: 1372
“Hey,” my friend wrote, “did you know you can add key words on amazon.com so your book can be easily found?”
Imagine that! I had no clue. I went right to the task. Actually, I went right to hubby. And I sweetly asked him to add, “inspiration, encouragement, conquers, triumph, etc.”
So I’m ... Views: 1298
Rendezvous with Resiliency –
The Chill factor amidst fire all around
Madan Mohan Tripathy
My Sunday morning brightened up by a SMS from my friend Narayanan, a legal luminary heading the legal department in an organization of repute, which reads -
“A business man lost everything in ... Views: 1689
Remember you closest friends in high school? The people that you were closest to and knew that you always would be? How many of them are still in your life on a regular basis? Do you ever wonder how it is possible to go from being so close to no friendship at all?
We can go through any stage of ... Views: 1393
Electrical engineering is an important and popular branch of engineering studies. It is associated with the study and application of electricity and electronics. With the industrial revolution and commercialization in the 19thcentury, electrical engineering evolved as a popular and useful branch ... Views: 824
Fengshui has become popular worldwide now. It is all about attracting positive energy towards your home and creating a positive aura. It speaks about the direction of the room arrangements in the house, use of color, use of lights and putting different symbolic items at particular direction in ... Views: 789
Are you hurting from a break up?
Did everyone you talk to tell you that it’s over, to let it go and move on?
But what if it didn’t have to be over?
What if you want to fight for this relationship and win your ex back?
In your fight to get your ex back, you need to make sure you use ... Views: 877
Words we use to sabotage ourselves
How we use certain words in our daily vocabulary or in effect the order in which we use these words harm and hinder us in the ability to attain our goals and create a positive loving and happy life. Words that we use can sabotage everything we work ... Views: 2203
Born 1959 Chateauroux, France - Andrew Lakey is a painter, focusing on original works which includes Angels, Portraits, Hearts, Butterflies, Language, and flora and fauna color studies titled "Brilliant Nature" or, as this cycle is collectively called, "Unencountered."
Over two decades, he ... Views: 2274
It is not something new in movies especially for someone in a very fashionable home, surrounding all the luxury things, to place a cigarette around between his fingers and puff away, mainly when he/she is under stress or simply to show off. This happens so many times that subconsciously, ... Views: 1398
Cancer Management at Vedanta Ayurveda
Integral care of cancer is possible thru Ayurveda that target the disease process & improve the available natural healing power of the person
The incidences of various types of cancers are increasing so much that The Cancer war was declared in 1971 by ... Views: 1388
I have always been passionate about what I do, and that’s why I do it. Even from the beginning of my career I made a pact with myself, that the day that I don’t enjoy what I do, is the day I’ll do something else.
My philosophy is and has always been, do what you’re passionate about, what you ... Views: 1502
Following on from Bob Proctor of the Secret commenting on my blog ‘FOCUS’
It made me realise how well the Law of Attraction works
In its simplest form what does it say ?
What we give out is what we get back
And it’s so true
How many times have you moaned about ‘your lot’ and what ... Views: 1285
Many times we tend to focus on the differences between us—and that causes all sorts of problems. If we focused on how much we have in common, it would be easier to understand each other and have compassion.
The Dalai Lama said it so well when he stated we are humans sharing an experience on ... Views: 1372
It is so easy to judge another person. We are conditioned to compare ourselves to others and therefore judge: are we better than them or are they better than us? What I discovered meeting hundreds of people is that we ALL have our difficult times.
Sometimes I had prejudged someone while I was ... Views: 1322
Last weekend I was at a conference venue just two streets away from my very first student share house!
Wow, did that bring up some... "interesting" memories of my student days! Here's the story:
My friend Jo was moving to the big city for University. She found this student house (managed ... Views: 1046
The best learned lessons come not from your success, but from your failures. Actually, the biggest failure is not learning from your mistakes.
Mistakes come and go. But certain mistakes remain constant simply because you are circulating the same habits that perpetuate the same mistakes. Then ... Views: 1030
F O C U S
I had to share this with you
I had a meeting this morning with a guy who was very passionate about what he does;
He told me all he wants is to help people – move from where they are to where they want to be .
As you can imagine we were totally in sync!
He’s very into NLP – ... Views: 1199
"One fact of nature is that people have a 'negativity bias': we react to the bad more strongly and persistently than to the comparable good ... One consequence of the negativity bias is that when people's minds are unoccupied, they tend to drift to anxious or angry thoughts. And rumination - ... Views: 1121
Does money elude you? Does it slip through your fingers like fine sand? Do you visualise yourself being rich and successful and the universe is not providing quickly enough (or at all)?
The way we handle money and abundance can show up in almost every part of our life.
Let me tell you a ... Views: 1112
Here are just four of the many Law of Attraction techniques I used to win the Ultimate Job competition. They are really easy and practical things that you can do for your own audacious goal.
Build your network before you need them
I'm an excellent networker, so I already had a good sized ... Views: 1314
It was time to get serious about my goals. Two months before I even found out about the competition, I found myself increasingly frustrated with my life and desperate for change.
I was itching to go travelling and was dreaming constantly about taking off to explore the world like many of our ... Views: 1287
It was advertised as the Ultimate Job in the World. Six months travelling the globe testing out the most romantic and luxurious honeymoon destinations.
Irish travel company Runaway Bride and Groom knew it was an amazing competition but they were unprepared for the interest it would attract ... Views: 1326
Body brushing is one of the simplest and most under-rated beauty routines. It's one of those really obvious beauty tips that you probably already know about - but how often do you actually do it?
I recently did a 7 day experiment body brushing every morning and my skin has never felt softer. ... Views: 1062
Not many people know this about me, but I completely failed my first undergraduate degree. I didn't just fail one class or one semester. I didn't even just fail one year of university. I spent four years failing my three year degree, racked up student debts of $20,000 and left without any kind ... Views: 1060
After a devastating four years of failing almost every subject at university, there are four important lessons I've learnt from the experience.
Experiencing your own "failure"? Here's my advice:
1. When you're in deep trouble, stop digging
After my first disastrous year, I should ... Views: 1012
I love watching the Academy Awards. Even though I'm usually in the wrong timezone, I always stay up to marvel at the beautiful dresses and the tanned gorgeous bodies of the celebrities. I know a lot of work goes into the big day for them, and probably thousands of dollars too. It would be like ... Views: 1214
We've all been there - you think you're doing well on your new healthy eating plan and then BAM - you find yourself eating something that leaves you feeling guilty, frustrated and despondent.
What happened?
You've been hit by the evil cravings monster.
Why else would you eat something ... Views: 1088
Have you never blown a chance to impress someone? Are you willing to hear harsh feedback? Sometimes the mistakes we make can spur us on to bigger and better things.
My embarrassing mistake happened in one of the craziest cities in the world, where dreams are made and broken - Las Vegas!
I ... Views: 1120
Dream boards are one of the most powerful and fun success tools you'll ever find. I can't recommend them highly enough to put you in the right frame of mind, to inspire and motivate you to achieve your goals and to activate the Law of Attraction to draw your desires into your life.
I use them ... Views: 1389
While the title may have you thinking of a Madonna song, it seems like a material world is where many of us are living, now more than ever! It would appear we live our lives simply for the accumulation of “stuff”. We want bigger homes, nicer cars and the “right” brands of clothes. What I find ... Views: 1594
What are regrets exactly? I think I’ve come to a place in life where I don’t believe in them….don’t buy into or sign up for them. After all, I love my life today. And the road I’ve traveled to get here has made me who I am. So yes, mistakes have been aplenty but each one has gotten me here, to ... Views: 1418
Every year, we work very hard in December and January to establish our goals for the year. Many times, we hire consultants to help us create elaborate plans to make the family members and our managers say “Yes, we love it.” Then struggles begin and the day to day part of life or work takes over ... Views: 1215
I don't think I need to explain, but internet dating is one of the most popular ways to find love. Unless you've got access to an old-fashioned matchmaker, logging on and being matched to other singles is virtually the only sensible option!
Why is a life coach writing about internet dating? ... Views: 3391
It's said that people are more afraid of public speaking than of dying, but there's a more destructive and crippling fear - the fear of being criticised.
This fear keeps you hostage and makes you give up your dreams. It keeps you awake at night with your stomach churning and causes you to ... Views: 1259