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- I Humiliated Myself in Front of My Ex Boyfriend! Steps to Take Now to Remedy This - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2016 from Michael UadialeIs there anything more mortifying than making a fool of yourself in front of the ex boyfriend you still love? If you've done it, you're likely going to say it's the worst thing that can possibly happen to a woman. It's not, not in the big picture of life, but it is awful in the moment and in the ...
Views: 5140 - "21 Things I Appreciate About You" - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Lex SisneyA close friend told me a wonderful story yesterday. I want to share it with you so you can make someone you love feel really, really good too. A husband and wife recently celebrated twenty-one years of marriage. Still deeply in love, the wife has been battling episodes of depression and it ...
Views: 5135(8 votes) - A Better Way to Say "I Miss You" - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2012 from Amy TorresThere was a time in my life when I was separated from someone I loved because he had to do military duty in Iraq. We were able to text and send letters and occasionally we even spoke on the phone. Inevitably we said, "I miss you." I began to notice that "I miss you" left me feeling lonely and ...
Views: 5128(1 vote) - Ancient Sex vs. Modern Day Sex - Has Anything Changed? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from leonard rosmarinI learned about the destruction of Pompeii back in Grade 10 in 1954 when I was translating the ancient Latin text by the writer, Pliny, about the eruption of the volcanic mountain, Vesuvius, and the subsequent burial of the town. The devastation unleashed was the equivalent of a nuclear ...
Views: 5096(5 votes) - Feng Shui Art for the Bedroom - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2012 from Judith RyanWithout even realizing it, you may be guilty of sabotaging your own dreams and aspirations! This can all be due to not following the unique set of laws in feng shui on the type of art in the bedroom. There are many layers to why bedroom art is treated differently than art in other rooms in ...
Views: 5078 - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You and Wants You Back Even After A Painful Breakup! - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2011 from Michael UadialeYour ex-boyfriend was so angry with you when you broke up that you are certain that you will certainly not see your ex-boyfriend again. However, love someone have for you can not just vanish into tin air, its not something that comes on and off at once, thus if your ex-boy-friend still love you, ...
Views: 5077 - ***Tantra for Singles - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2012 from Corynna ClarkeTantra for Singles by Lara StewartL http://blog.planetlovematch.com/post/Tantra-for-Singles.aspx Many people, if they’ve heard of Tantra at all, think that it is something for couples to do to enhance their sex lives. While that is something that tantric practices can do, that is just one ...
Views: 5067 - Courtship Vs Dating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Terri SmithThere is a distinct difference between courtship and dating, though many people are not quite aware of it. In fact, many people are not even aware that a courtship even exists. Why should they? Our society has fallen into a habit of dating, then suddenly marrying. Divorce runs rampant, and many ...
Views: 5054(3 votes) - Intention vs. Impact in a Loving Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2012 from Lewis DenbaumIn a loving relationship, sometimes your words do not have the impact that you intend. When there is a disconnect between what you intend to communicate and the impact of your words, you are not communicating clearly, and this leads to problems in a relationship. In good communication, the ...
Views: 5019 - Don’t Try to Change Your Partner. Change YOURSELF Instead! This Can Help Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2013 from Doron GilMen and women alike often try to change their partners. They believe that “only when” their partners will think, feel, react and behave the way they themselves do – the relationship will be satisfying. But how often does it happen that just because they try to change their partners their ...
Views: 5001(1 vote) - Couple Communication: Back to Basics To Improve Your Relationship and Restore Happiness - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2009 from Peggy FergusonOne of the most important tools to develop or restore communication skills is the use of “I” messages. "I" messages are not as likely to elicit defensiveness. They actually increase the probability that your message(s) will be heard. With this simple change in how you communicate with your ...
Views: 4984(2 votes) - Meeting The True Friend - by Submitted on May 28, 2019 from Brenda ShoshannaSummer arrives, a time for travel, enjoyment, being with friends and family. A time for romance and love. Of course we all want friends, companions, company, love. We need to feel close and connected. We can enjoy a friendship for many years, but then often, we drift apart or the friendship ...
Views: 4950(1 vote) - Disadvantages of Debating and How To Avoid It For Better Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2010 from J. AcobArguments - what's it good for? Debates are rarely "won." When you think you won an argumentation, what did you gain? The "loser" at least learned something, right? But what did you get? arguing practice, ego satisfaction, and diminished Brain power. Argument Decreases Brain Power? At ...
Views: 4945(1 vote) - Appetite with Class aka How to Be a REALLY Nice Bitch! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Susan SheppardHow to be a really nice bitch! I guess I haven’t really explained how you get to be a really nice Bitch. So here it is. Women are called bitch when they demand and when they get angry. The secret to being a really nice bitch is to know what you want and ask for it very nicely while ...
Views: 4942 - Intimacy and the Male Ego - What may Be Causing Your Man's Insecurities - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2011 from Sarah MichaelsIt’s not often that I get a question on male insecurity, but I received an excellent question from a reader who was brave enough to pose the thought – are MEN at times insecure as well as women? As we all know, Rori Raye talks often and at length about female insecurity, and how that insecurity ...
Views: 4942 - Relationships with Emotional Involvement and the Non-Emotional Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from David GharatRelationships between the sexes can often be filled with mixed messages and general confusion as to the status of the affair. Add to this the differences between relationships with and without an aspect of emotional involvement, and there is no surprise that so many individuals end up feeling as ...
Views: 4926 - ***Intimacy is Scary – Are YOU Ready? - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2018 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneMost of us believe that we want to have a loving and intimate relationship with a significant other. But we may not realize what that actually means. We may not be ready to deal with and reveal our own inner demons, those parts of our self that cause us to feel hurt, insecure, ashamed and ...
Views: 4916(5 votes) - Staying Juicy! Maintaining a Youthful Yoni - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Allura JoyWomen tend to spend a lot of time and money on skincare. We want our skin to look youthful, supple and smooth. The key to younger healthy looking skin is sufficient moisture. In humid tropical climates, our skin naturally looks and feels healthier, and the women of the tropics generally look ...
Views: 4868(3 votes) - Are Your Expectations Too High for Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Guy RussellWe are all human beings, and as such have strengths and weaknesses. One of the benefits of being human is the ability to work on our own weaknesses and improving our own lives and others around us. There are numerous “self help gurus” whose basic principle is improving how you view yourself to ...
Views: 4865 - The Right Way to Deal with Chronic Shyness - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuShyness as a psychological condition is bad enough, but chronic shyness is even worse. In order to deal with it effectively, you’ll need to explore a whole new territory. If you are chronically shy, then you’re past the phase of feeling somewhat uneasy when you’re talking with new people. ...
Views: 4828 - How to Make a Girl Wet in Seconds: How to Arouse a Woman the Right Way - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow to Make a Girl Wet in Seconds: How to Arouse a Woman the Right Way For some men, they just stumble and fumble in the bedroom when it comes to getting a woman aroused. A lot of women are very sensitive in the bedroom and even the slightest mistake can turn them off. If you are too serious ...
Views: 4822 - The Magic Spark of Attraction and How Couples Come To Be - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Allura JoyThe question “How did you meet your life-partner?” is one I love to ask couples – especially if they’ve been together for a long while. Most often they light up when recounting their nostalgic reminiscence of how their companionship came to be. It is interesting to listen to various personal ...
Views: 4820(1 vote) - A Couples’ Symbiotic Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2012 from Sarah RuizI recently read a powerful book that had a tremendous impact on the way I view how couples relate to each other. “The Five Love Languages”, by Dr. Gary Chapman, carefully illustrates how we express and receive love based on how we ourselves process it. There are five clear languages that ...
Views: 4808 - Time to Get Pregnant With Twins by Changing Your Diet - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2011 from Olivia HelmOne daughter is so much fun... God blessed us with an extra one! So you want to have a multiple pregnancy? We are hoping for the same – due to the fact that we may only get one shot at it as our health is a determining factor. (I hope that this decision for you is due to the same reason) The ...
Views: 4786 - 3 Ways to Be More Exciting to Your Boyfriend - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Jack HutsonThere is always a way you can be more exciting to your boyfriend. Even if you have been together for a long time, there is no reason he shouldn't still be attracted to you - even more than he was the first day you met. Usually, people lose interest in each other after some time, since they ...
Views: 4783 - How to Give Her a Vaginal Orgasm: The Easiest Way to Give a Woman a Vaginal Orgasm - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2018 from Melvin SheltonIn this article I'm going to share the facts with you about VAGINAL ORGASMS and the truth is that if you are the kind of guy who wants to give his woman INCREDIBLE SEXUAL PLEASURE (the kind that'll make her addicted to you in bed), this could be the most important article you'll ever ...
Views: 4779 - I Can't Satisfy My Wife Sexually: I Can't Satisfy My Wife in Bed - How to Give A Gushing Orgasm - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2018 from Melvin SheltonI Can't Satisfy My Wife Sexually: I Can't Satisfy My Wife in Bed - How to Give A Gushing Orgasm In this article you are going to discover the truth about a particular area of female sexuality. The specific thing we are going to talk about is what women think when their men fail to sexually ...
Views: 4761 - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I Date My Girlfriend's Best Friend? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need relationship advice!!!? I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and her best friend who's a girl is also my best friend and I'm very close with the best friend. Me and my girlfriend do fight a lot but there are times where I'm in love with her. And me and the ...
Views: 4758(2 votes) - Cold Empathy and Warm Empathy - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Sam VakninEmpathy is comprised of two components: I. Cold Empathy: an intersubjective agreement as to the mental content (especially emotions) of two or more human subjects; II. Warm Empathy: the emotional response to Cold Empathy. Cold Empathy is an act of taxonomy and an attempt to overcome the ...
Views: 4721(1 vote) - How Phone Sex Makes You a Better Lover - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Madeline FosterAre You Ready To Learn How To Use Phone Sex The Right Way? Phone sex is an art form that everyone should include in their amorous repertoire. It will help to keep things interesting in or outside the bedroom with your partner. It teaches you to express yourself more freely and open as a ...
Views: 4721 - 698 How To Get Him Back After An Argument - How To Get Your Boyfriend Back After A Fight - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2016 from Michael UadialeThe two of you have had a massive fight. You're worried because it's been several days since it happened and you have yet to hear from him. Being a woman in this position is never easy. You replay the conflict back over in your mind and you wish with everything that you could find a way to ...
Views: 4683 - Is She A Virgin? How To Know If A Girl Is Virgin - How To Identify Virgin And Non-Virgin - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2018 from Melvin SheltonIs She A Virgin? How To Know If A Girl Is Virgin - How To Identify Virgin And Non-Virgin You see a beautiful girl and you may ask how can you tell if she's a virgin. The truth is, there is no way to tell if she is a virgin. However, over the years, there have been many misconceptions and ...
Views: 4679 - The Playful Erotic: Dusting Off the Adult Imagination - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Shahrazad @ the INNER FIRE TEMPLEShe chased you to the back of the playground and told you she'd share her new crayons with you if you showed her what you had "down there". You tried kissing her with bubble gum in your mouth to see if you could share a "bubble". He often played "doctor" with his next-door-neighbour, always ...
Views: 4667(1 vote) - 3 Surefire Ways to Keep a Guy Satisfied in Bed - Have Better Sex - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Jack HutsonHello Ladies, Some of you believe to have figured men out, while others are clueless when it comes to understanding men. Even though most men are different, they have similarities at the same time. Every good woman should know how to satisfy and keep her man happy in bed. Believe it or not: ...
Views: 4659(1 vote) - I Just Got Dumped - Now What? - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from John MooreIn this article, John D. Moore from http://www.mychicagotherapist.com write about getting dumped in a relationship. In this article: • Explore getting dumped • Assess the normal feelings associated with a breakup • Review five survival tips for the “Big D”. Here are four words that ...
Views: 4656(4 votes) - The Many Parts Of Love - Part One - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Daniela RoherAffective relationships give us a sense of purpose and provide added meanings to our lives, actions, and choices, as they create powerful motivations to set and pursue goals which aim is that of maintaining them. They affect us deeply, offering us opportunities to feel and express emotions that ...
Views: 4630(1 vote) - Improve Your Sex Life With These 39 Magic Affirmations - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2016 from Scott & Stephen PetulloHave you ever utilized the power of positive affirmations? Some say you can reach any goal, including improving your sex life, with positive thinking. Though we believe some things are out of reach no matter what you do, positive affirmations can help you with what is within reach. ...
Views: 4626 - ***TRANSPARENCY IN MARRIAGE - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Bisi AdewaleOne thing that is lacking in many marriages that makes it difficult for many is transparency. Many people in marriage are simply not open to each other, this gives to lots of crisis and conflict in the family, if your home must be joyful, peaceful and blissful you and your partner must be ...
Views: 4586 - Aromas for Lovers and Love Making - The Six Most Powerful Attraction Oils in Aromatherapy - by Submitted on May 09, 2014 from KG Stiles“Lovers don’t just finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -Rumi In this article you’ll find out how the power of scent can help: Attract your soulmate/life partner Strengthen your love connection Enhance your love making experience Get unstuck from creating the same ...
Views: 4571 - Marriage & Intimacy: Discover Erotic Massage and the Amazing Benefits to Long Term Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2009 from Maya SilvermanPeople who have been married for many years often find their sexual lives becoming stale and predictable. The business of life, children and careers can interfere with maintaining a close bond and the deep understanding and intimacy we all long to share with another person can slip through our ...
Views: 4535(1 vote) - Living With Loneliness - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Karen RowinskyLoneliness is feeling empty inside. It is a feeling of separateness and isolation. It is a feeling of being out of touch with other human beings. People experience loneliness when they do not have someone to depend on, a close family, a group of friends, or relationships with people at work or ...
Views: 4534 - What To Say To A Woman After Sex: How To Compliment A Girl After Making Love - Sweet Words After Making Love - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2018 from Sylvester DanialWhat To Say To A Woman After Sex: How To Compliment A Girl After Making Love - Sweet Words After Making Love After having sex with a woman, there are always times afterwards where basking in one another's affections occurs after the deed. When this happens, women expect men to whisper sweet ...
Views: 4497 - Do Men Like Fat Women? The Truth of What Men Think About Body Size - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2017 from Banks RobertDo men like fat women, or do they find larger women to be repulsive? Could those few extra pounds you are carrying around really be all that bad? Is it true that some men even prefer larger women over smaller females? The truth is, there is someone out there for everyone. If you look at history ...
Views: 4480 - The Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Partner (According to Fear) - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2011 from Sheryl PaulFear’s entire mission in life is to keep you safe from the risk of loving. It sees love as a dangerous cesspool where the invisible sea creatures lurk beneath the dark surface, waiting to snatch you into their murky waters. Fear believes that if you risk your heart through committed loving you ...
Views: 4445 - What Does it Mean When a Guy Says He Wants to Take a Break? Do This Now to Keep Him! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeWhat does it mean when a guy says he wants to take a break? By far, this is the one question that women most often ask me about their boyfriends. It’s one of those very obscure things that men say that we can’t quite understand. We want to believe it means one thing. That’s because all of our ...
Views: 4444 - Lying Vs Telling The Truth In Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2015 from Brian KrallNow I know what your probably thinking…what an obvious answer to this question it is that “Honesty is the best policy”…Right? But if the answer was that obvious why would I write a whole blog on it? Obviously this is still a necessary topic, as so many people in relationships still lie to ...
Views: 4442(1 vote) - I Told My Ex I Miss Him And He Ignored Me - How to Make Him Notice You Again - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2016 from Michael UadialeAre you worried that your ex will never come back to you and you will never be able to get him back? Do you miss him and wish that you knew what to do to get him to change his mind? Do you dream of being held by him again and wish that this whole nightmare was over with and that he would just ...
Views: 4417 - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Feel Powerless With Women? - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperIt is a human need to feel a sense of power; with the most important power of all said to be based around having a sense of personal power. This is more of an inner power, where one is generally in control of themselves, as opposed to being in control of others. And when it comes to the area ...
Views: 4396 - ***Will Sex Save Your Marriage? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. We thought we had heard everything until this! We heard recently that the Reverend Ed Young of the Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas told his congregation during a Sunday worship service that he wanted married couples in his congregation to ...
Views: 4387(34 votes) - How to Stop Premature Ejaculating - Easiest Ways Revealed! - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2012 from Wisey LimIf you do not know how to stop premature ejaculating, sex can be a nightmare and the most embarrassing experience in your life. To stop the nightmare, you must learn how to stop premature ejaculating and say no to any more nightmares. These are some of the easiest ways on how to stop ...
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