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- My Girlfriend Dumped Me - Learn From My Mistakes - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Andrew HunterThe first thought that I thought of as my girlfriend dumped me was to speak to her trying to get her to give me a second chance. Things will be better this time. I've improved.. I'd come to my senses and recognized I needed to start treating her better. It is fine for your ex to have fun with ...
Views: 6629(3 votes) - Forgive - But Don't Forget - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2008 from Eileen BennettHolding a grudge - hanging onto past hurt with the intention of, some day, some how, inflicting pain on the person who hurt you, by way of retribution - does most damage to the person holding it! When you hold a grudge, anger, bitterness and resentment eat away at your soul, while the person ...
Views: 6622 - The Harsh Effects Of Separation and Divorce On Men - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Larry MiltonThe effects of divorce on men have been skillfully documented, but unusually not advertised quite as prevelentlyas the consequences on females. Females of course struggle and go through many of the same problems men go through and many special troubles as well, but the damage done to the mental ...
Views: 6619 - Why some people never recover from breakups - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiA research was carried out on the level of breakups around the world after which it was proven that more than 65% of relationships end in breakups. If you decided to carry out another research, you will discover that the majority of these people who broke up was not because they did not love ...
Views: 6616(2 votes) - How Long Should I Wait When I'm Using The No Contact Rule? - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe question that appears to always crop up when you're talking about getting your ex back and the no contact rule--how long should you wait? If you are using the no contact rule, you deserve some congratulations in the first place. Very few people have the courage or discipline to really ...
Views: 6541 - Positive Signs Your Ex Wants You Back - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2009 from Sean CauzeeIf you have recently broken up with your ex, then you may have noticed some positive signs your ex wants you back. Relationships do end sometimes for reasons that may be wrong. Sometimes they end for childish reasons such as arguments that one may say and did not mean, Or taking the relationship ...
Views: 6512 - Confession Of Cheating - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Tamika LanelleConfession is good for the soul. It lifts that weight off your shoulders and gives you a sense of relief. So while you feel great about getting that secret off your chest; you’ve hurt someone else in the process. Usher laid all his cards out on the table in an entire album and made millions of ...
Views: 6336(5 votes) - Don't Let the Past Define You. Learn to let Go. - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2015 from W.T. & Pamela HamiltonI recently helped an old friend that was stuck in the past. They didn't know how to move forward. Once I realized this I sent them this letter. They told me it really helped them and that they read it all the time. The past can haunt you if you let it. I am sharing this now and I hope it will ...
Views: 6280 - The 5 Top Reasons to Never Forgive and Why You Must - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Brenda AdelmanI have been performing my one-woman play, My Brooklyn Hamlet, on and off since 2000. It is based on my journey from deep despair and darkness to acceptance and peace after my father (whom I adored) shot and killed my mother (my best friend) and subsequently married my mother’s sister. After ...
Views: 6260 - How To Stop Being Hurt By Other People - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from David SamuelThere is a saying, look to yourself for the cause and solution to all your problems. This is a very interesting saying because it has many meanings. The first is the obvious, to see what you have done wrong to cause the problem. This is easy to apply, see what you did and accept ...
Views: 6248(1 vote) - Suggested Laws Of Life That Can Serve As Law Of Life Essay Titles - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Diana NunezOur life revolves around some laws of life r simply, the wise sayings which leaves a deep impact on our hearts. Famous laws of life like; Honesty is the best policy and you are as good as your words are some of the deep routed values in our lives. Many of us have a habit of collecting different ...
Views: 6127 - Stop Fighting With Your Girlfriend - These Steps Show The Way! - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2010 from Andrew HunterFighting isn't necessarily a bad thing in a relationship, but if most of your time together is spent fighting, you've got a problem that the two of you have to deal with. Together. You each have your own ideas and opinions. If fights develop every time the two of you disagree on something, ...
Views: 6084 - How To Make An Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Desire And Fall In Love With You – Tips To Get Me My Ex Back - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldAnyone can get his or her ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back into their life again. What matters is your willingness to make the best out your relationship if given a second chance. Yes you surely can get reconciled to your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend that you love no-matter the condition that ...
Views: 6030 - How to Confess an Affair without Losing Your Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamLive long enough and you learn this lesson: Anyone might do anything in certain circumstances. Just as bad people do bad things, sometimes good people do bad things; not just “minor” things, such as the proverbial white lie, but major things. Including adultery. Presidents, governors, ...
Views: 5954(2 votes) - I Miss My Ex Girlfriend So Much - Should I Tell My Ex Girlfriend I Miss Her - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldI miss my ex girlfriend so much; Getting your ex girlfriend back after a break up could be your top main concern right now. The question is have you previously been trying to get her back or are you just thinking about it now and you're not sure what to do? You might be going in a multitude of ...
Views: 5945 - Put The Petty Bickering Behind You And Be Happy With Your Girlfriend! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt almost seems as if there's a stage of petty bickering and arguing that all relationships must go through. You'll find yourself having disagreements, sometimes over pointless or stupid things, even when the relationship seems to be going great! You'll find that sometimes tempers flare for no ...
Views: 5882(4 votes) - How To Write Informative Essay In Just Seven Steps - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2010 from Diana NunezAre you going to write informative essay today then do you have the required information for informative essay writing ? We are asking you this because informative essay demands more amounts of information than any other type of essay and this is why it is considered to be more difficult. So, in ...
Views: 5788(1 vote) - Coping With Divorce for Men – 3 Rules for Happiness After Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Kyle MorrisonCoping with divorce for men can be confusing and frustrating. The reason is simple – support and help isn’t easy to find when it comes to men dealing with divorce. Living in the aftermath of divorce will feel like being in a slippery slope where no matter how hard you try to claw and struggle; ...
Views: 5661(1 vote) - Remove Anger and Resentment from Your Life with the Squash and Release Technique - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2010 from Cassandra LeeLet me just say this, I am a woman that can hold onto resentment! When I feel I have been wronged, I will form a “frosty” attitude that not even a polar bear could stand it! In recent times, however, first-hand experience has taught me that holding onto anger or wrapping myself in a ...
Views: 5553(7 votes) - Reflections on Forgiveness - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Joan Breiner, M.Ed. and Susyn Reeve, M.Ed.I’ve been reflecting on the ways my experience of forgiveness has deepened and expanded since Sheri Rosenthal and I launched WITH Forgiveness on September 11, 2006. Here are my reflections: What are you for giving? I recently noticed, when I was asked about forgiveness, that my thoughts ...
Views: 5529 - How to Remind Him of Your Anniversary? - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2012 from Ashish KumarIf you are saddled with a husband who is perpetually forgetting about the anniversary date, it is time to take the matters into your own hands. After all if you do not take on the responsibility of reminding him, who will? While many a times women think a world about the marriage date, for men ...
Views: 5479 - What To Do When People Push Your Buttons - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2011 from Kimberley CohenAt one time or another we have all experienced someone who seems to know exactly what to do or say that turns our calm demeanor into a raging lunatic on the inside, and sometimes even on the outside. You find yourself saying and doing things you didn’t really want to, or wanted to and then ...
Views: 5360 - A Different Approach to the Chakras, chakras, meridians, auric fields. - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Angela Burr-MadsenWe all express the 28 primary frequencies of energy, which dictate the human experience. These 28 cardinal frequencies include, 7 primary chakras, 7 Yin and 7 yang meridians, and 7 auric fields. They are present even though we do not see nor understand them. At their origin these frequencies ...
Views: 5280(2 votes) - Life-Saving Journal Writing: Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2013 from Mari L. McCarthyForgiveness. How much does that word take up space in your life? Have you ever found it difficult to forgive someone? Are there things or people you feel like you will never forgive? Or, on the other side, are you sometimes worried that other people will never forgive you? An ...
Views: 5280 - Apologizing to Your Girlfriend Isn't Easy - Here Are 5 Ways That Work - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterFew things in a relationship are as difficult as apologizing to your girlfriend. Have you grown tired of the bickering and shouting, the arguing, punctuated by long periods of the silent treatment? What happened? If you'd like to get your relationship back on an even keel, you're going to have ...
Views: 5211(5 votes) - Dealing With Heartbreak - Some Time-tested Methods - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Andrew HunterYou can't believe she dumped you - and took with her your reason for living. Unhappy and disillusioned, you can't seem to find anything to focus on, to give yourself direction. You likely can't think of any feeling worse than what you're going through now, but as time goes by, that feeling will ...
Views: 5210(3 votes) - The Best Way To Get Back In Touch With Your Ex Girlfriend After A Breakup - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Frank RobinsYour girlfriend broke up with you and now she's no longer in your life. Yet, you want a second chance with her. You're willing to make changes to get her back into your life. You want to give the relationship another try. You've tried contact her but she just won't listen or give you the time ...
Views: 5149 - How to Get Back Your Boyfriend After He Dumped You - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Andrew HunterSo something happened and you find your relationship is suddenly in turmoil. I can't say exactly how you got here, but I'm will to bet that you want to reconcile with your boyfriend. Maybe you made some sort of mistake. Maybe he is at fault. Or maybe you two made a mutual agreement. All those ...
Views: 5062(1 vote) - How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Reconciled To You With Poems - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2015 from Vanessa MoorePsychological Help, Tips and Advice, learn how to get your Ex Boyfriend, Girlfriend, husband, wife or spouse back. How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Reconciled To You; Steps that you can follow to have more success in your relationship to get reconciled with an ex, Making a successful and promising ...
Views: 4945 - With Relationships Come a Few Responsibilities - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Kimberly MitchellWhen you get involved in any kind of a relationship, that connection comes with a few responsibilities. In fact, in many connections there are loads of responsibilities. Trouble presents itself when someone engages with another person with the intention that the interaction is all about ...
Views: 4938(1 vote) - True Forgiveness is Recognizing there is nothing to Forgive. - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlMany of you have recognized that your experiences of Life are created by your beliefs and stories. Sometimes we get so involved in our stories, that we think they are true. While we are under the power of these stories we become insane; Doing things that no rational person would ever do, ...
Views: 4889(3 votes) - Help Me Understand Why My Wife Cheated - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannYou know that your wife cheated. You're wife's infidelity has left you shocked. Affairs are confusing. They don't make sense. You're probably asking yourself... "Why did my wife cheat on me?" "What could I have done to stop her from having an affair?" "Is it my fault that my ...
Views: 4732 - 5 Proven Steps To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you're attempting to find the fastest way to get your ex-girlfriend back, then you definitely believe there's still hope. Giving up could be the easy way out though not always the best path. If you are still in love and accept that you continue to have a chance, then I recommend you follow ...
Views: 4722 - Take Responsibility in Your Love Relationship or Marriage... What Will and Won't Help You Move Closer Together Again - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Susie and Otto CollinsEllen feels sick to her stomach. She and her husband, Jim, had a really difficult weekend. Out of town guests were staying with them and, on top of this, it came to light that Ellen has been lying to Jim about how precarious her job. She is still not sure exactly why she lied, but she has ...
Views: 4720 - What To Say To Tell My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend You Still Love Him Or Her To Forgive Me And Reconcile After Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreGetting to contact an ex lover after a breakup or separation requires more than just a willing heart. You don’t just want to contact your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. What you want is to reconcile with them and get back into a relationship with him or her. Your success in getting back together ...
Views: 4719 - Steps To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Secret Ways - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoShowing kindness is love in action. What that basically means is regardless of how hard the circumstance may seem, always show kindness. You win more with showing kindness then replying with anger. It allows your ex to see that you're trying to be good to them. The first secret to getting ...
Views: 4659 - Forgive Others! It Is The "Name Of The Game!" - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2010 from Father TimeForgiving other people is one of the most important things in this life! When we get angry at someone or have ill feelings towards them, for whatever the reason, the only one that this hurts is us! Sometimes a friend, family member, or co-worker might make a joke, and it comes out wrong, and ...
Views: 4600(9 votes) - The 3 Steps To Having The Power of Completion - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dwayne KlassenWhat is incomplete in your life? What part of YOU are you ignoring? Do you strive on getting your goals listed and work hard to achieve them? This is both admirable and encouraged behaviour to help move you forward. We all know the power of setting and achieving goals. However, something ...
Views: 4581(4 votes) - Letting Go of Resentment May Not Be Easy, But it is Simple - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill GibsonDo you treat your friends with love and respect, but when it's their turn, they let you down? Do you end up feeling resentful when your friends just don't give into the friendship as much as you do? Knowing how to deal with this resentment in a positive way--or even better, avoiding it ...
Views: 4559(4 votes) - Loving the Un-loved Is Not Only Moral, But Self Rewarding - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Rich MiltonThe most difficult thing to do in life is to love a person you dislike and hate. But some great advices from the bible will help you make a difference for this kind of person. ‘Love your enemy as you love yourself’. How do you love a person you hated the most? It would be a lot easier to ...
Views: 4553 - Self Forgiveness - The Key To Healing - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2008 from Tracey BurchardWe’ve been taught from a young age to forgive others. But no one ever guides us through the wisdom and healing that self forgiveness can bring. This article stresses the importance of self forgiveness for health, success and spiritual growth. “Tell your sister you forgive her, go ...
Views: 4517 - Acceptance: A Spiritual Experience - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2013 from Michael HoareSpiritual acceptance comes about in as many different forms as there are people who experience it. There is no one way that it comes about. But, generally, the experience is sudden or gradual. First, let’s clarify the difference between acceptance and spiritual acceptance. Sportscaster ...
Views: 4507 - The Path of Forgiveness: Sympathy, Empathy & Generosity - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2009 from Ana HolubOn our forgiveness path, we examine many aspects of our emotional life. For instance, what is the difference between sympathy and empathy, and how do they fit into a life dedicated to generosity and healing? We are often taught that sympathy is the same thing as love. "Oh, you poor thing!" ...
Views: 4467(3 votes) - Strategy on What You Can Do to Get an Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Back – I Need My Ex Love - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreIt doesn't matter how you feel, the gap between you and your ex is getting bigger and bigger if you do nothing about it. Especially, when you feel there is nothing you can do. Are you worried and tell yourself all the time "I need help in getting my ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back" A ...
Views: 4450 - My Boyfriend is Not Loyal to Me – Six Means to Take Out Infidelity Issue - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2011 from Simone Brown"My lover is unfaithful to Me ", she believed. Before you give the break up idea and shatter her feelings even more, attempt to recommend these six steps to salvage the affiliation. Your closest colleague who’s sitting right in front of you, broke the news of unexpected betrayal. You could ...
Views: 4446 - Simple Proven Steps To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you are really considering trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, then you still have hope. I have put together 5 straightforward steps to be successful. Breaking up might be harrowing but don't stay stuck in this moment. There's a great lesson to be had no matter whose mess up it was. Every ...
Views: 4365 - Living in the Shadow of the Past and the Power of Forgiveness - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Jane AbramowitzLiving in the Shadow of the Past and the Power of Forgiveness Like your shadow on the sidewalk when the sun shines behind you,holding onto painful past memories darkens each forward step which could instead be filled with light. The above statement may seem obvious, and simple, but it is ...
Views: 4343 - I Cheated On My Ex Boyfriend - Will He Take Me Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversI Cheated On My Ex Boyfriend - Will He Take Me Back; Incidents of unfaithfulness are easily one of the top causes for breakups, and it's not hard to see why. It's extraordinary difficult to recover when you cheated on him - but not an impossible task. If you realize your error in judgment a ...
Views: 4274 - Dealing With Affairs in the Christian Community - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI have been in the Christian community all of my life, but I cannot remember one time ever hearing someone teach on affairs in the church. I remember hearing about preachers cheating, the deacon cheating and the church secretaries cheating but never hearing or seeing this issue being dealt with ...
Views: 4253(3 votes) - How To Forgive Yourself And Others For Past Mistakes - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Jennie Reve-AlmodovarForgiving yourself and/or others for past mistakes is a hard thing to do for many out there in the world, but it is the only way you can really set yourself free of the negative energy that harbors inside you when you are feeling pain, anger, resentment, judgement, disappointment, guilt, etc. ...
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