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- How to Date Your Ex Boyfriend? How to Reignite His Interest - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2016 from Michael UadialeHarboring ill feelings on being dumped will affect your present and your future. No matter what the reason for the breakup if you forgive and forget you earn the respect of your ex and also earn an opportunity of being lovers once again. If you too want to date your ex boyfriend then read ...
Views: 2152 - Husband Works Late Every Night: Husband Always Working Late - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHusband Works Late Every Night: Husband Always Working Late Workaholic husbands often find to their dismay that they end up without a family. Almost 50% of divorces are initiated by women whose husbands are too busy at work and find no time for wife and children. Wives are becoming more ...
Views: 2150 - Surviving The Loss Of A Child - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Ivette AttaudEverything happened so fast. That morning I was strangled to near unconsciousness by my abusive husband because I wouldn’t get an abortion, and that night I’m in the emergency room at Fort Bragg being admitted in pre-term labor. The doctors tried to stop the labor, but it was all in vain – the ...
Views: 2146(1 vote) - Empowering Choices - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from G LThe choices we make creates experiences for us and others. The way we perceive ourselves is a choice. Do you see yourself as beautiful, ugly, smart, stupid, outgoing, open, closed emotional or unfeeling? If one chooses to see their self as incompetent for example, they will create experiences of ...
Views: 2143(1 vote) - I Am Addicted To My Ex: Am I Still In Love with My Ex or Just Lonely - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2017 from Michael BradI Am Addicted To My Ex: Am I Still In Love with My Ex or Just Lonely If you are finding yourself saying "I still love my ex with all my heart!", then you have to stop and think about what you want to have happen next. After all, it is only natural that there is some residual love left over. ...
Views: 2143 - Abused Children: Why Do They Have Boundary Problems? - by Submitted on May 13, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThis article has the description abused children and therefore gives the impression that it is going to be all about children. However, this will be about adults who were abused as children and as a result of this now have a real challenge with boundaries. When it comes to child abuse, there ...
Views: 2141 - Husband Upset About My Past: My Husband Left Me Because Of My Past - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Upset About My Past: My Husband Left Me Because Of My Past No greater emotional pain can be inflicted than the words from your husband, I Want A Divorce! Even when you both realize that it has been coming for some time, the actual facing it is still very painful. No matter who made ...
Views: 2141 - How To Make A Relationship Work - Tips To Have A Blissful Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Charles ScholarIf everybody already knew how to make a relationship work we would all still be with the first man or woman we fell in love with, but that is not the case. It takes some people years of anguish and heartache to learn how to make a relationship work. Even then your relationship is unlikely to ...
Views: 2140 - Signs Your Ex Misses You: How To Know If Your Ex Misses You - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2017 from Michael BradJust because you have not spoken does not mean your ex doesn't care. They may have entered a highly indecisive time, or perhaps they feel that though they love you things simply won't work out. You may still be able to repair your relationship! Look for these signs your ex misses you before you ...
Views: 2140 - Child Abuse: Is Anger An Important Part Of Healing From Child Abuse? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some emotions that are seen as ‘bad’ or ‘negative’ and while this might be the case if they are shown in certain situations, this is not going to apply in others. Every emotion has purpose and a reason for appearing; this not to say that one should act upon every emotion that arises ...
Views: 2138 - My Ex Talks To Me Then Ignores Me: Ex Reaches Out Then Ignores Me - by Submitted on May 23, 2019 from Amora StevieMy Ex Talks To Me Then Ignores Me: Ex Reaches Out Then Ignores Me Why is your ex sending you mixed signals after a breakup? Are you utterly confused because you just can't figure out what your ex wants? One minute they act like they miss you and want you back. The next minute they completely ...
Views: 2134 - Should I Completely Cut Off Contact With My Ex? Cut Off Communication after Breakup - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2017 from Michael BradShould I Completely Cut Off Contact With My Ex? Cut Off Communication after Breakup Breakups are not fun and they are truly difficult to deal with. Some people take them hard while others just brush it off their shoulders. But it's said that if you disappear after a breakup, your ex may begin ...
Views: 2133 - When What You Give is Squandered: Re-thinking identity as a giver when giving too much can hurt - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2010 from Fannie LeFloreIf you’ve been victimized often, chances are the positive qualities you possess were viewed as an opportunity to take advantage of you – often by someone who lacks caring and concern, consciousness or character, usually in combination. Being un-thoughtful and even callous in our stressed, ...
Views: 2131(1 vote) - My Husband Choked Me For The First Time: My Husband Choked Me Once During A Fight - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Choked Me For The First Time: My Husband Choked Me Once During A Fight This seems counter-intuitive, but a happily married couple will often tell you: "Always finish an argument before going to bed." How does that make sense? I wanted to ask, "This works?" and I am thinking, "How ...
Views: 2129 - How To Change Myself To Save My Marriage: How To Change Yourself For Your Husband - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Change Myself To Save My Marriage: How To Change Yourself For Your Husband Do I have your attention? Are you thinking I am blaming you for your marriage? That is not my intention. The reality is, though, that you are searching for help with your marriage. So, there is nothing I can ...
Views: 2127 - How To Treat A Cheating Husband: How To Make A Cheating Husband Feel Guilty - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Treat A Cheating Husband: How To Make A Cheating Husband Feel Guilty The prevalent hedonistic culture in the world today, convinces people that the pursuit of personal pleasure outstrips all other considerations. Fidelity in marriage has become a casualty. Marriage which was considered ...
Views: 2127 - My Ex Boyfriend Calls Me Beautiful: Ex Boyfriend Compliments You - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Amora StevieMy Ex Boyfriend Calls Me Beautiful: Ex Boyfriend Compliments You Despite the break up, it is very possible that your ex boyfriend still loves you. Unless something completely and absolutely horrible happened in the relationship that may cause your ex boyfriend to despise you, he very much can ...
Views: 2124 - What Makes (Mike) Rice Boil? A Look at Aggressive Behavior - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2013 from Janet PfeifferAggressive behavior - many believe it is a sign of power, self-confidence, and courage. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Last week the country witnessed the termination of Rutgers University head basketball coach, Mike Rice. Video surfaced of his mean-spirited treatment of his players ...
Views: 2123 - Christians and Boundaries: How To Teach Your Daughter Not to Tolerate Abuse - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2012 from Karla DowningAre you a Christian struggling with boundaries? If so, you may be concerned about what you are modeling to your daughter. As a parent of a daughter, you want her to be treated well by the men she will date and the man she will marry. This article will show you how to teach your daughter not to ...
Views: 2120 - Innocent Bystanders Who Aid and Abet Parental Alienation Syndrome - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Les LinetIn Parental Alienation Syndrome, courts, attorneys, police, social workers, therapists, and friends often assume that what the presumably frightened alienating parent is saying is true. People may believe fabrications by the alienator because the kinds of abuse the alienator claims DO and are ...
Views: 2117(6 votes) - My Wife Is Leaving Me: My Wife Wants To Leave Me Should I Let Her Go - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Wife Is Leaving Me: My Wife Wants To Leave Me Should I Let Her Go If you are asking me "my wife is leaving me, what can I do?", then I may tell you that you are in the right place. Actually, there are things that you can do to save your marriage. Now, I'm not going to waste your time. ...
Views: 2115 - Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - Find Out If You Still Have a Chance to Win Him Back! - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2015 from James Uadiale“Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?” This is common question asked by women who have been dumped by someone they love. You never believed the relationship would come to an end too soon. You wonder if he could breakup with you after all the happy moments you both shared. Once you accept that it’s ...
Views: 2102 - Husband Leaves House When Angry: Husband Leaves During Argument - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Leaves House When Angry: Husband Leaves During Argument Marriage can be an incredible battle zone, with insults and hurtful comments flying like warheads to harm combatants, where the fallout is what's left of the relationship in the aftermath. Or, in rare or uncommon instances, ...
Views: 2101 - My Ex Won't Take Me Back: Why Won't My Ex Give Me Closure - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Michael BradMy Ex Won't Take Me Back: Why Won't My Ex Give Me Closure You tell your ex that you have changed, and they just laugh. You say you are sorry, and they say they don't believe you. You try everything under the sun to win your ex back, but no matter what you do, nothing works! But that's ...
Views: 2100 - Husband Spends Money Without Telling Me: What To Do When Your Husband Hides Money From You - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenHusband Spends Money Without Telling Me: What To Do When Your Husband Hides Money From You Dealing with financial problems in marriage can cause serious marriage troubles. The emotional pain, stress, and marital discord can even produce marriage breakups if not handled properly. How couples ...
Views: 2099 - Does No Contact Work When He Has A New Girlfriend: Ex Has A New Girlfriend How To Deal - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenDoes No Contact Work When He Has A New Girlfriend: Ex Has A New Girlfriend How To Deal Being in love with your ex boyfriend is its own unique kind of emotional torture. If he already has a new girlfriend it's even more challenging. It's difficult knowing the man you adore is becoming closer ...
Views: 2097 - Abusive Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Create A Tolerance For Abuse? - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone experiences some kind of abuse in their adult relationships, there is often the chance that they will identify with one of two outlooks. They can either see that this abuse is a reflection of what took place during their childhood or they can come to the conclusion that their ...
Views: 2091 - Are you in a Toxic Relationship? Should you Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAre you in a TOXIC Relationship? Are you questioning if you should stay or go? Empowerment Coaching can help. Breaking away from a toxic relationship is very difficult. You may be suffering from emotional abuse, or you may be addicted to an unhealthy love relationship ...
Views: 2090(1 vote) - Child Abuse: Can Trapped Emotions Stop Someone From Healing From Child Abuse? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one can have grown into an adult and therefore left their childhood behind them, it doesn’t mean that they have completely moved on from those early years. Ones childhood influences them in ways that are obvious and in ways that are more or less oblivious. It is a time that plays a ...
Views: 2090(1 vote) - My Husband Feels Neglected: Wife Neglecting Husbands Needs - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Feels Neglected: Wife Neglecting Husbands Needs Many married couples particularly those who both work are successful in their respective professions. But it does not necessarily follow that they're successful as well in their personal relationship. So what are they to do ...
Views: 2090 - Dating My Husband While Separated: Should I Date My Husband While We Are Separated - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaDating My Husband While Separated: Should I Date My Husband While We Are Separated Ideally, marriage is a lifetime commitment but we all know that only few marriages managed to endure the test of time. Although two individuals are united as one in a marriage, the reality of marriage life is ...
Views: 2084 - Ex Says I Just Want You To Be Happy: When Your Ex Says I Just Want You To Be Happy - by Submitted on May 23, 2019 from Amora StevieEx Says I Just Want You To Be Happy: When Your Ex Says I Just Want You To Be Happy It can be what you have hoped for all along. But it can be difficult to read the signs your ex wants you back. Here are some sure ways to tell if your ex is reconsidering the decision to end your relationship. ...
Views: 2083 - My Ex Says He Misses Me but Doesn't Contact Me: Ex Says He Misses Me but Makes No Effort - by Submitted on May 23, 2019 from Amora StevieMy Ex Says He Misses Me but Doesn't Contact Me: Ex Says He Misses Me but Makes No Effort "My ex says he misses me and wants me to give him another chance." Why is it that as soon as you start to regain confidence, start to think about yourself and move on he has to come back begging. He knows ...
Views: 2083 - Dear Dr. Romance: I Love Him to Death But Can't Find a Solution - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, My name is Michelle i am 18 years old.. I was reading an article that you posted up about fighting; and everything that you talked about not doing during a fight I tend to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we tend to fight a lot about the smallest things ...
Views: 2080 - Domestic Abuse 101 - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Anna MossDespite a 30-year inquiry into the subject, many people remain uninformed about the true nature of one of the biggest social issues facing America today. A witness offers a quick look that reveals some implications and solutions for all of us. If a jet liner with 300 passengers went down ...
Views: 2077 - Emotional Neglect: From One Generation To Another - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to what one generation passes onto the next, genetics are at the forefront. Some experts say that whatever one generation has, the next are certain to have the same. However, others, through their understanding of epigenetics, have said that their needs to be a trigger in order for ...
Views: 2077 - My Ex Stares At Me but Ignores Me: My Ex Avoids Me but Stares at Me - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Amora StevieMy Ex Stares At Me but Ignores Me: My Ex Avoids Me but Stares at Me "My ex is ignoring me, so how can I possible get back together with them?" People across the world are asking themselves that question, but it is great that people realize they want to get back together with someone they ...
Views: 2077 - Signs Your Ex Is Still In Love With You - Know If They Still Have Feeling For You? - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from John OnyekaRegardless of how desperate you are to get your ex boyfriend back, you must know that it is going to be a total waste of time to attempt to do this at the moment. There are signs if your ex boyfriend is still in love with you, however you are excessively emotional at present to observe them, ...
Views: 2069 - Keeping Hope During Separation: How Do You Know When Things Are Improving During A Trial Separation - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesKeeping Hope During Separation: How Do You Know When Things Are Improving During A Trial Separation Some of the mistakes in life can lead to matrimonial discord but there are some absolute methods that can save a marriage after separation. Generally, the decisions that create imbalance in ...
Views: 2065 - I Can't Stop Crying About My Divorce: Grieving The End Of The Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenI Can't Stop Crying About My Divorce: Grieving The End Of The Marriage Divorce is a word that we see and hear everywhere. In our daily lives divorce attorneys solicit their services in commercials, billboards, print media and flyers. Television shows and films trivialize divorce as it's ...
Views: 2061 - TIPS: How to Cope with Financial Abuse - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2013 from Sam VakninQ. Would narcissists often try to restrict their partner's independence by reducing their access to shared family finances? Why? A. Narcissists are control freaks, paranoid, jealous, possessive, and envious. They are the sad products of early childhood abandonment by parents, caregivers, role ...
Views: 2059(1 vote) - Child Abuse: Can Validation Allow Someone To Heal From Child Abuse? - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperJust because someone has experienced some kind of abuse or has had to endure some other kind of pain, it doesn’t mean that they have been able to move on from it. Because although one could be innocent and have nothing to do with what happened, as in the case of child abuse, it doesn’t mean that ...
Views: 2052 - How do Stinginess, Jealousy & Unfaithfulness & the Need for Control Harm Your Relationships? - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2012 from Doron GilDenying traits, emotions and behaviors and projecting them onto your partner sabotages your relationships. As long as you are not aware of this being the case you will continue harm your relationships time and again. Becoming aware is therefore the key to change. Here are three examples of ...
Views: 2047 - How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back? How to Recapture His Attention - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeHow can I get my ex boyfriend back? That is one question a lot of women are asking every now and then. A relationship is a very complicated issue to deal with. Just when you feel that you have found your happily-ever-after partner, disagreement comes in and before you can even think clearly the ...
Views: 2046 - Abuse: Can Trapped Emotions Cause Abusive Behaviour? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperNo matter what area of life one looks at, there will be examples of abuse. And this can be abuse that is easy to spot and abuse that is more subtle in nature. There are some things that stand out more than others, but this doesn’t mean that what is not seen or recognised as abuse is any less ...
Views: 2045(2 votes) - How To Get Her Back After Cheating: How To Say Sorry For Cheating On Your Girlfriend - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2017 from Michael BradIf in case you have made the dreadful slip-up of being untrue to your girlfriend and he or she has ended the connection, you have to now be desperately questioning, how to get my girlfriend back after cheating on her. Dishonest in your girlfriend is without doubt one of the worst issues you can ...
Views: 2043 - He’s Not All Bad and Other Dangerous Fallacies - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2015 from Kim SaeedIt’s hard to admit, but… You’ve been lying to yourself about your partner. There’s an ever-widening gap between the person you want him to be and the person he really is. You have an idea of what constitutes a healthy relationship, yet you forgive your partner when he commits serious ...
Views: 2039 - How To Mend A Broken Relationship With Your Boyfriend: How To Fix A Relationship In Trouble - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2017 from Michael BradHow To Mend A Broken Relationship With Your Boyfriend: How To Fix A Relationship In Trouble Many couples often break up as result issues such as; infidelity, incompatibility, nagging, financial issues, physical or mental abuse, sex, disrespect etc. if you've broken up with your lover because ...
Views: 2037 - Ex Has New Girlfriend After A Month: My Ex Moved On Immediately - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenEx Has New Girlfriend After A Month: My Ex Moved On Immediately Did you just find out that your ex boyfriend is dating again? Are you having trouble dealing with this bit of information? If your ex is currently on the rebound after your recent breakup, then your instincts are probably telling ...
Views: 2033 - My Husband Says He Is Not In Love Anymore Because He Is Not Attracted To Me : He Said He's Not Attracted To Me - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Says He Is Not In Love Anymore Because He Is Not Attracted To Me : He Said He's Not Attracted To Me So, what do you do when your husband no longer loves you? It happens so often in marriages. One side just... falls out of love, and the other side is quick to realize this, ...
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