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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- I Want to Get My Relationship Back! Stunning Ways to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from Charles Uadiale"I want to get my relationship back," is a phrase said by a lot of people from time to time. When you break up with your boyfriend you will be left frustrated. Either relief is going to wash over you for the reason that you are going to feel free of the anxiety and conflict that saturated the ...
Views: 2880(1 vote) - I Want to Sext with my Ex. - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2016 from Madeline FosterA divorce, separation or formal break up is a tough situation that people find themselves in everyday. There are always hard feelings between the parties involved and anger or hurt feelings can sometimes take over common sense. With mobile phones and SMS text messaging things can turn ugly ...
Views: 2441(2 votes) - Is it possible to stop hating your ex so you can co-parent in peace? YES! - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Rene Ashton1. Do you want to change? You need to answer this honestly. Do you want to change? If you’re thinking, “Of course I want him/her to change!” That is not what I asked. You cannot change your ex. Try as you may. Manipulate as you may. Punish, kick, scream, whatever your tactic, it ...
Views: 5774(1 vote) - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 1978(3 votes) - Kathy's Story - by Submitted on May 31, 2011 from Wendy MacKayKathy was a happy-go-lucky child. Despite the constant moves from house to house, city to city every year or so she never had any problems making new friends and fitting into groups. She was out-going and enjoyed all sports activities never excelling in any one specific niche, but willing to ...
Views: 1077(2 votes) - Learn 2 Ways You Can Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIf you're married, you've at least come across a point in your life where your relationship was rock or unstable. The stress from external experiences kept you and your spouse from living a harmonious and peaceful life. This is a common occurrence when it comes to many long term relationships. ...
Views: 677(1 vote) - Learn How a Trial Separation Can Make or Break Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThere are many people out there that believes that once your marriage is headed in the direction of a trial marriage separation, your marriage will inevitably end in divorce. Contrary to many popular beliefs that is not true. If you want to know if your marriage stands a chance in a trial ...
Views: 6128(1 vote) - Life after Divorce: Will I Ever Love Again? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2009 from Annie O'NeillThe short answer to this question is probably yes. However you have to adjust to your situation and work your way through the emotions of splitting up before you will be able to move on. The end of a relationship is always tough whether or not it was your decision to end it. You may need ...
Views: 2443(2 votes) - Making Co- Parenting In Divorce Work - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAfter taking care of the all the divorce matters, the party involved usually ends up very exhausted and tired. They generally forgot the issue that matters most is parenting. Being a parent is hard enough and much harder now that you are both divorced. This is the moment when you set aside your ...
Views: 993(1 vote) - Making Room - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Meghan GehanYou have to be willing to let go of the life you’ve planned in order to have the life you were meant to have. ~ Joseph Campbell This week, while my boys are with their dad on a fancy Caribbean cruise, I will be home, cleaning my house from top to bottom, inside and out, in that yearly ...
Views: 1337(2 votes) - Marriage a la Tom Cruise? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2012 from Daniela RoherToday in the paper there was an article about Tom Cruise and Kate Holmes getting divorced. This news, in and by itself, wouldn't have been very surprising, given the high rate of divorce in Hollywood. What was unusual about it, however, were its circumstances. The reporter speculated that the ...
Views: 1567(1 vote) - MARRIAGE: This is amazing... did you know this?! - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Holly BoydI'm sure most of us are aware that the stats for marriages ending in divorce are at least one out of two in America! These stats are the same whether you go to church or not! What? How can the divorce rate be the same for Christians?! Then... I heard Dr. Phil confirm what I used to wonder ...
Views: 2724(2 votes) - Married But In Love With Someone Else - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamYou probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. However, once you fell in love with another person than your spouse, things got rather intense. You’re already in what some refer to as an emotional affair. Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship ...
Views: 16943(2 votes) - Moving Beyond Mind Games - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: I am single, and ever since college I have been in love with a girl whom I have tried to be with through the four years since graduating. Even though she married someone else, she would say she still wants to be with me and be intimate with me. I believe her, but have thought ...
Views: 902(1 vote) - Newly Divorced and Surviving the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2009 from Shelley StileThe Holidays are upon us once again and for many of you, this might be the first time around as a new unit, I.E. without your ex. It’s a difficult time, no doubt about it, and just another step in the transition into a new life after divorce. If you plan for this season you can make it easier ...
Views: 1267(1 vote) - One Moment At A Time - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Sheryl PaulOne of the slogans in the 12-step programs is One Day At A Time. In the life of someone enduring a transition - whether in the midst of a break up, becoming a mother, trying to conceive, or retiring - a more appropriate and helpful phrase is One Moment At A Time. This topic recently emerged ...
Views: 1810(2 votes) - One Way Love: Is it Time to Move On? - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Cupid's ArrowWe have all been there. A relationship in which one person is head over heels, but the other is not. How do you cope when you are the person that is not in love? And how do you determine when it is time to move on? Determine the Reason You Aren't in Love One of the biggest ways to ...
Views: 1273(2 votes) - Pregnancy, Childbirth & Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Michael PaulYou've just given birth to the most precious gift imaginable. This gift will portend the future of the world. Certainly you hope this precious gift child will have a life filled with excitement, wonder, and happiness. But what if the excitement and wonder bring this child a world of ...
Views: 934(3 votes) - Preparing For Child Custody Battles - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2005 from Tracy AchenUnfortunately, child custody battles are often part of bitter divorces. If you and your spouse can't reach an agreement about custody, you need to prepare yourself in the event that your custody case goes to trial. Today, it can no longer be assumed that the mother will get custody of the ...
Views: 6732(1 vote) - Reasons You Aren't Starting the Decision Making Process About Whether To Get a Divorce Or Stay Married - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2004 from Karl AugustineAlong with any tough decision comes reluctance, especially when that decision involves an actual process and might potentially involve emotional pain or anguish. Deciding whether or not to get a divorce or stay married can be a frightening time for most people, even if they know deep inside ...
Views: 2058(1 vote) - Recipe for Healing a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2009 from Katy AllgeyerYou’ve heard the expression “love sickness”? The term goes back a long way and many greater writers than I (Shakespeare's Sonnet 147 comes to mind) have covered the symptoms brilliantly. It hits most of us at some stage of life--we think we're in love and we've found "the one", the relationship ...
Views: 4052(3 votes) - Reconnect with the Ex? What You Need to Know Before You Give it Another Go - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanAfter a relationship ends, it's all too easy to second-guess the decision to split up. And while reconsidering doesn't necessarily mean you should reunite, what happens if you and your ex DO decide you'd like to give the relationship another go? Maybe the time away from one another has shown you ...
Views: 9658(3 votes) - Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangRelationship breakups don't always mean that the person you're breaking up with needs to be cut completely out of your life. Many people continue to have warm and satisfying friendships with their exes by making sure that their relationship breakups are done without hurting anyone more than ...
Views: 8204(4 votes) - RELATIONSHIP CHECK UP - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Sadie SheafeThere are very few guarantees in life but one is certain, everything changes: day changes to night, morning to evening and summer to fall. People of course are no exception; we physically change from young to old. There are times we change for the better and at times the changes are ...
Views: 1575(3 votes) - Relationships After Divorce: When Is Too Soon to Date After a Divorce? - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Alyssa JohnsonMaking the choice to begin dating after divorce may cause lots of emotions for you. The thought can be exciting, scary, happy or even sad. But what about the feelings your kids may be having about it? One of the most important aspects to keep in mind when considering your children's reactions ...
Views: 2781(1 vote) - Relationships and Your Love Life--3 Dreadful, yet Very Common Reasons for Staying Together - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloAlmost everyone hopes and strives for a long-term relationship, but few are ever able to find and cement a mutually satisfying, compatible bond that lasts the rest of their lives. Those who place great importance on the fantasy of permanent, romantic bliss may see this as a tragedy, but we ...
Views: 1261(2 votes) - Rise of the DIY divorce… - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2012 from Adele TheronCouples who are somewhat impoverished are causing court chaos by representing themselves in the midst of cutbacks. According to the Daily mail; the recession and upcoming cuts to legal aid are putting immense pressure on family courts as these couples increasingly represent themselves. I will ...
Views: 1744(1 vote) - Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Lee Baucom“So, how DO you save your marriage?” asked the frustrated voice on the other end of the call. “Eric” had been working to save his marriage for some time. And it seemed that no matter where he looked, all he saw was conflicting advice: “fix your communication,” “make her jealous,” “use ...
Views: 2436(1 vote) - Sexless Marriage : Does Your Sexless Marriage Have You Thinking About Divorce? - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2004 from Karl AugustineIf you are in a sexless marriage and are unhappy because of it, don't worry, it isn't unrecoverable but it is serious cause for concern. You may even be thinking that you need a divorce because of your sexless marriage, that's only natural. But, in order to really decide what to do, some ...
Views: 6331(2 votes) - Should We Get Divorced? (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN CS) - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownHonor your children by fighting for your marriage and if you decide to divorce, do it with dignity! If you are at the point of asking this question, you have some distinctions to consider. Never threaten your partner with divorce to get his/her attention. Never make the divorce decision ...
Views: 1171(2 votes) - So, You’re Thinking about Leaving - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2010 from Womens Recreation, Inc.We all have come across that time in our life when the grass looks greener on the other side. Well, this is to help you decipher exactly what it is that you are missing in your life. You first have to think; has there been anything major that’s happened in your life that has upset you? This ...
Views: 1324(2 votes) - Stop! The Don't Do Dating List - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2013 from Tina TessinaDating Again? Five Things You Must Not Do Dating someone new is not easy for anyone. Expectations can be high, and it’s very easy to make a wrong move. Knowing what not to do on your earliest dates can help you to avoid future problems. Here are Dr. Romance’s reminders of what not to do on a ...
Views: 1604(2 votes) - Stress and Conflict - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from David SamuelStress and Conflict Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. No machine exists that is a singularly whole unit, all machines are merely a sum of parts. And so we can more accurately say that the machine ...
Views: 1514(2 votes) - Surviving the Break up of a Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2009 from Ryan D'eathSo you’ve been dumped, most of us have been there, so you’re not alone. This is the first article, of several, that will provide the most effective methods of surviving a break up, and help you either get on with your life, or eventually get your ex back. - For starters, and I know most break ...
Views: 956(4 votes) - Ten Things to Do in February If You're Single - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Meghan GehanValentine’s Day. Here it comes again. Last year we ran a list of things you can do if you’re single in February, and got a great response. So this year, we’re updating the list with some new ideas for how to spend this highly commercialized ‘holiday’. Because even though you may not want to ...
Views: 2115(4 votes) - The 3P's of Dating after Divorce with children - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Sarah RuizThe 3 P’s of Dating After Divorce, With Children Before I share some very important advice, I feel I must give you a bit of background on how and why this advice served me well. This article is designed to give a basic guideline on some of the most important attributes in looking for a ...
Views: 1794(2 votes) - The Do's and Don't's of Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2004 from Maury BeaulierDON'T lie to your children with stories like "Dad is visiting relatives". Children know if you are trying to hide something, even if the purpose is honorable. DO talk to your children. Give them simple and straight-forward answers without vilifying or blaming the other parent. DON'T put your ...
Views: 1320(1 vote) - The Do's and Don'ts of Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2011 from Darlene LancerMany divorces go along smoothly, but when problems occur, they usually reflect the dynamics that didn’t work in the marriage – only made worse, because divorce is one of the biggest crises you may go through. Emotions, especially fear and anger, are at their peak.There are definite pitfalls to ...
Views: 1516(3 votes) - There Goes Happily Ever After - 5 Reasons Why Couples Get Divorced - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThere may be a difference of opinion on the exact number but there is no doubt that the divorce rate in this country is outrageously high. It's so out of control that one person in California is gathering signatures in an effort to have a referendum on banning divorce. Will it work? Not ...
Views: 835(1 vote) - Tips for Getting Your Ex Back After a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Andrew HunterTrust me, I know how bad it feels to be dumped. It feels like you are getting hit by a bucket of cold water. You suddenly find yourself lost and uncertain about everything--especially if the two of you where together for a while. It can feel like you've lost all your will to live. This is why I ...
Views: 1449(1 vote) - To All of the Fathers of the World Who Left, and To all the Children Who’ve Never Met Them - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2011 from Womens Recreation, Inc.While reading this, please bear in mind that it is not just father's who leave. There are also mothers who chose to leave. Whatever their reasons are; try your best to put yourself in their shoes. This is a tool for those whom might need it. I love my father, I just don't know him. I never ...
Views: 1766(1 vote) - Using Jealousy To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2012 from Ricky BoothAs ‘sleazy’ as it may sound, jealousy is one of the fastest and most effective ways to influence how your ex girlfriend is feeling after breaking up. When you make your ex jealous, you skip straight past her rational thought processes and into her deeper emotions. In some cases, making her ...
Views: 11477(2 votes) - Waking Up By Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockWe know when it's not working; it's like a slap in the face. We thought that it was working but then something happens to remind us that nothing has fundamentally changed at all, and we find ourselves back at square one after all these years. We were smug for awhile, even bragging to friends ...
Views: 1456(1 vote) - What's The Purpose? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2009 from Mike PrudhumeWhat's The Purpose? Maybe you ask yourself this! At least I did, until I was sitting there wondering, can there be anything I can do to change the way my relationship is going? I am going to share a little about my own current situation and what I am doing to make my relationship work. Maybe ...
Views: 1078(3 votes) - When Your Man Dumped You, This Is What You Have To Do - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2017 from Katarina PhangAre you a dumped girlfriend? What does it take to move on after a guy has broken up with you? Do you want to move on, but are paralyzed by sadness? Here is a dumped girlfriend guide to moving on. While Still Mourning, Do Realize That You Can Still Seduce Your Ex Back. Here's How: The ...
Views: 27751(2 votes) - Who Started It Doesn’t Necessarily Matter! - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldWho Started It Doesn’t Necessarily Matter! Remember in the Wizard of Oz, when Dorothy began her stroll down the Yellow Brick Road? Eventually she came upon a fork in the road. There she stood, unable to determine which way to go until the voice of the Scarecrow came from behind. With arms ...
Views: 1069(1 vote) - Why Couples Fall Out Of Love - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMany marriages nowadays have ended in separation or divorce. Yet when they were married, they had the most meaningful ceremony, they had a festive reception and they went on the sweetest and longest of honeymoons. Then after a few years, something happened- before they can’t get enough of each ...
Views: 2481(1 vote) - Why Fathers Matter to Their Kids - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2009 from Judy WrightThe family is the foundation of life. It is the basic organization and where family members learn what is expected of them in life and their part in the scheme of things. It is in the family setting that children understand their external environment. Young children and teenagers figure out ...
Views: 1597(3 votes) - Why Letting a Man Go May Be the Key to Getting Him Back - Expert Advice! - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeOnce the man you are in love with approaches you and lets you know that he is not pleased and wants to end the relationship, you may have the tendency to keep hold of him and refuse to let him slip away. That is only your normal nature to guard the things you love kicking in. If you yielded to ...
Views: 9415(2 votes) - Why Many Marriages Fail - Expecting Too Much and Not Trying Hard Enough - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from leonard rosmarinIt is not necessary to be a keen observer of the social scene to realize that the marital relationship as we know it is floundering and, in many cases, sinking. The divorce rate is astronomical and shows no sign of slowing down. Intelligent and experienced people rush into matrimony with the ...
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