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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Introducing New Partner Too Fast, Too Soon - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2009 from Gary DirenfeldEven though a spouse may have contemplated separation for years prior to informing their partner, to the partner, the news comes as a shock, even in view of a tumultuous relationship. For the children, the shock is often even greater. To intensify matters befalling the children, the spouse who ...
Views: 1406 - Is a Divorce Lawyer Really Necessary? - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile most people consider a divorce lawyer as a necessity when a divorce is imminent, there are some people who look at it as an unnecessary expense. After all, the courthouse has do-it-yourself divorce kits that a petitioner can purchase that are substantially less expensive than the cost of a ...
Views: 445 - Is a Quick Divorce the Best Solution - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Alfred lebeauSadly, when couples reach a point where they can no longer communicate with one another and all roads to reconciliation are closed, they tend to believe it is the end, when in fact, in most cases it is very likely a grounds for a breakthrough, and not only save their marriage, but grow together, ...
Views: 648 - Is a Rebound Relationship Always a Bad Idea? - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsRebound relationships: We've all seen them and many of us have had them. These are relationships that are entered into a short period of time after one (or both) person has been through a breakup, separation or divorce. A rebound relationship can look like any other love relationship. ...
Views: 5817 - Is an uncontested divorce right for you? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2012 from Danielle PaigeWorking with a divorce lawyer in Atlanta is often a good idea for couples who are considering a break-up. Times have changed over the last few decades, and people have changed right along with them. Today, many couples are opting for an uncontested divorce when certain conditions can be met. ...
Views: 545 - Is Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2020 from Amanda NicoleYears ago, I wrote an article on divorce and the stigma it has in the church. I shared that when I was first contemplating divorce and I went to my church for counseling, the advice that I was given was to have more sex. As if a wife who is ready to pursue divorce could have her heart healed ...
Views: 2536 - Is Divorce the Only Option? by Rosemary Price - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomIs divorce the only option? By clairvoyant, tarot reader Rosemary Price leading psychic. Many of us will look at the marriage of a family member or friend where they are struggling with enormous problems such as violence, gambling, drinking, cheating and abuse and assume that the only way ...
Views: 920 - Is Emotional Pain or Physical Pain More Painful? - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonRecent research carried out by the Universities of Michigan and Columbia has discovered that the areas of the brain that respond to physical pain actually overlap with those responding to relationship break-ups. Thus this type of emotional pain would appear to trigger a similar form of pain ...
Views: 942 - Is hiring a private detective a safe thing to do? - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2017 from Laura LyonsThere is a chance that many of you have thought in the past about using a private detective to get rid of the possible suspicions you may encounter each and every day. At the same time, people are wondering if hiring a private detective is a moral, safe thing to do. The answer might shock you: ...
Views: 887 - Is It Achievable to Be Friends Following a Breakup? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Michael LoisIf the breakup was carried out by mutual agreement, it is entirely feasible for you and your ex to be buddies soon after breakup. In some circumstances, persons recognize that they do much better as friends rather than as couples. This can be generally the case for those that are pals initial ...
Views: 647 - Is it Live or is it Memorex? - by Submitted on May 12, 2014 from Anthony DiazI was reminded by a commercial many years ago (which will of course date me from the 60's LOL!). There was singer Ella Fitzgerald with a high pitch voice near a wine glass. The commercial showed the glass shattering. Next was a view of a cassette tape player (hopefully I am not the only one ...
Views: 2679 - Is It Okay To Keep Secrets From Your Spouse: Keeping Secrets From Your Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesIs It Okay To Keep Secrets From Your Spouse: Keeping Secrets From Your Spouse After the story broke that New York governor Eliot Spitzer was having sex with prostitutes, relationship experts popped up on every news channel, dispensing theories about Mr. Spitzer's behavior. Opinions about why ...
Views: 788 - Is It Possible To Endure A Break Up And Be Content Once Again? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Lamar HargrowSo what does someone do after getting their heart broken in a breakup? Life doesn't cease to exist after a bad break up. Your initial knee jerk reaction will be to avoid your friends and sulk, do you know why that's a bad idea? Because the fastest way to put this all behind you is to process ...
Views: 863 - Is it Time to Get a Divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMaking a decision whether to get a divorce or not is an awfully difficult choice that a person must make in his/her lifetime. One has to think about a lot of important factors, like children, the number of years you’ve been together, the major differences, and the possible effects of divorce on ...
Views: 1850 - Is love possible on Facebook? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieWAYS TO CONNECT Facebook is a place to connect but is it a place for love? Facebook can certainly be a starting point; obviously it can’t be the ending point for love such as marital love. Also is it true or real love – is it sustainable and lasting love? Could Facebook be a good starting ...
Views: 2823 - IS MARRIAGE A NATURAL STATE? - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieWHAT DO DIVORCE RATES SAY ABOUT MARRIAGE? We have all heard about the high rates of divorce in the West and we have also heard about how people are increasingly shunning marriage in the UK and US, opting instead for living together or singledom. Are soaring divorce rates indicative of an ...
Views: 5546 - Is My Husband / Wife Depressed: How To Know If Your Spouse Is Depressed - by Submitted on May 29, 2018 from John BraxtonIs My Husband / Wife Depressed: How To Know If Your Spouse Is Depressed Have you ever wondered how to know if your spouse is depressed? Exactly why this is relevant is because if this is not dealt with, it can cause severe problems in even the best of marriages. Therefore it is important ...
Views: 704 - Is My Marriage In Trouble: Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble What To Do About It - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyIs My Marriage In Trouble: Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble What To Do About It A marriage is something that is meant to last a lifetime. At least, that is the ideal. And, many couples do make it through their lives while staying married together until truly death does them part. Still, ...
Views: 802 - Is Name Calling Verbal Abuse? - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2013 from Rabbi Shlomo SlatkinVerbal abuse often starts out subtle. A put-down here or there or a minor insult may be the first signs of verbal abuse. Over time, it can turn into name calling and threats of physical harm. This post will tell you more about the cycle of verbal abuse, the results of verbal abuse, how to stop ...
Views: 1145 - Is the Cost of a Divorce Lawyer a Justifiable Expense? - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith the current cost of hiring a divorce lawyer, many couples are looking toward the do-it-yourself divorce. The key issue is whether this method is actually in the best interests of the divorcing parties. While saving money is certainly a key factor in a divorce, there are many advantages to ...
Views: 561 - Is There Life After Divorce? - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2008 from Elizabeth SavinoWhen one door closes another one opens; But we often look so long and regretfully Upon the closed door, That we do not see the ones which are open. -Alexander Graham Bell When I ask women who are going through a divorce, “What do you think you can gain from this?”, I’m usually met with blank ...
Views: 1043 - Is There Such Thing As A "Good" Divorce? - by Submitted on May 24, 2007 from Belinda Rachman, Esq.If you are like half of married people, you are going to divorce. It is a sad but true fact of life. If a marriage has to end, at least end it with as much dignity as possible. A public court brawl is not nice to watch and even worse to live through. If you have children together or have amassed ...
Views: 3270 - Is your anger keep you stuck? Here's what to know. - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltAs you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes us way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something ...
Views: 1476 - Is Your Bad Attitude Killing Your Marriage: Change Your Attitude... Transform Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2018 from Sylvester DanialIs Your Bad Attitude Killing Your Marriage: Change Your Attitude... Transform Your Marriage Is your marriage glass half full or half empty? Is it party sunny or partly cloudy in your marriage? Is your marriage not that bad or not that good? Is your attitude killing your marriage or is your ...
Views: 649 - Is your divorce actually a blessing in disguise? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltDivorce is tough, especially when you’re a mom. You already have a million things to worry about—taking care of the kids, professional obligations, making sure the house doesn’t look like a nuclear fall-out, worrying about college tuition, retirement, aging parents—the list goes on. So, when ...
Views: 1080 - Is Your Ex in Arrears? Contact A Child Support Attorney Today! - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2013 from George PatelThere are over two million weddings each year in America. Nearly half of them end in divorce, making dissolution of marriage cases quite common in family courts. Though each is different and unique, cases that involve children are more complicated, since one parent typically files for custody. ...
Views: 678 - Is your partner cheating? A private investigator might help you clarify this - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2017 from Laura LyonsWhen people suspect that their partner is cheating, chances are, they truly are cheating. Women especially can sense changes in their partners’ behaviour. Regardless, certainty is always better and this is why many choose to hire the services of a professional, a private investigator, namely. ...
Views: 975 - Is Your Spouse Hiding Assets? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Edward Amaral, Jr., Esq.The division of assets and liabilities can be one of the most difficult tasks in a divorce today. Many people commit to marriage without a Pre-Nuptial Agreement or without substantial knowledge of their fiancé’s financial standing. Then when the couple find themselves in a divorce down the ...
Views: 1668 - Is Your Wife Falling Out of Love With You? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2017 from Randy SkiltonIt's a tough place to be. When love and a deep connection are not shared, the feelings of emptiness, anger and frustration take over and your ability to function in other roles suffer. ⦁ Why did she fall out of love? ⦁ Who changed? You or her? ⦁ Was there a specific event that brought ...
Views: 3870 - Issues that Need Your Attention During the Divorce Process - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2020 from John BrownAll of the things that you have to take care of before the divorce. So, you have come to a point in your marriage where you think a divorce is needed. It is up to you to decide if that is the best idea or not. However, there are some things that you will want to take care of still. Those are ...
Views: 712 - It's Not Divorce That Screws Up Your Kids. But Are You? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2018 from Dominique NicoleAs a divorce coach, product of divorce , two-time divorce survivor… and living in a very blended family, I’m very familiar with the effect “mud-slinging” of the ex has on children. I’d like to start out by saying that children of divorce, have it much harder than the adults involved. They are ...
Views: 1819 - It's time to Adapt Your Adaptations - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2012 from Karen FinnAs human beings we have a remarkable capacity to adapt to our environment. Usually, we make adaptations because they help us feel better in some way. I like to think of the natural personalities we're born with as being like an amoeba - not well defined, kinda free-form and readily changeable to ...
Views: 1331 - Jade that starts out as an amulet - by Jade was famous for her spirituality. In China it was treated as an amulet to ward off evil or bad luck, and it was given a different magical power than in ancient times. The Chinese also loved it for its natural color and difficult process. In ancient times, normally, jade was the treasure of ...
Views: 145 - Japan Travel Destination - Kamakura - by Located southeast of Tokyo, Kamakura is on almost every tourist's itinerary. Once upon a time there was the political capital of the country. Later, its glory as a capital was lost in another city, but it is still a favorite tourist destination.
Kamakura has numerous attractions that attract ...
Views: 180 - Japan Travel: 3 Fun Things to Do Anywhere in Japan - by If you are planning a trip to Japan, I am sure most of you will probably visit a famous temple, visit an ancient castle, and maybe a famous museum or two. However, visiting these places alone will not give you a complete overview of Japan and its culture. After visiting Japan every year for the ...
Views: 156 - JBL 001: What To Say To Your Ex After No Contact - How To Contact A Past Lover - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2016 from Michael UadialeI feel that this will be one of the most important posts that I will create about how you can get your ex girlfriend back. It is vital that you actually completed the 30 day no contact phase otherwise this information is meaningless. Knowing exactly what to say or more importantly how to say it ...
Views: 1246 - Jealous after Divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltYou know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce. When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house. Or when you hear about the trip your ex is taking to Europe ...
Views: 1044 - Jealous Of My Husband's Past Relationships: How To Get Over Husband's Past Relationships - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2018 from Jennifer SageJealous Of My Husband's Past Relationships: How To Get Over Husband's Past Relationships Jealousy has often been called the "green-eyed monster," and with good reason. The "monster" is fueled by envy and can over time devour the trust and harmony in a relationship. Jealousy has been a ...
Views: 802 - Jealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyJealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners Is jealousy a problem in your relationship? Does it keep you awake at nights? Are you experiencing feelings of insecurity and even low self esteem because you feel so jealous over your partner? Then here is the only choice you have if ...
Views: 2966 - Jealousy - a past life regression case study - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2011 from Orly AravaMrs. Morgan is a pretty woman. 45 years of age, wavy hair and warm wise eyes. She has a 19 years old son from her previous marriage and she has been married for 16 years now and has 2 more daughters. Her husband loves her dearly and so does she. So where is the problem? She is very ...
Views: 3938 - Joint Custody: Making it Work - by Submitted on May 26, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraParents who want to make joint custody work must do everything they can to put the best interests of the children first. Any divorced couple can attest that co-parenting after a divorce is hard—it requires a great deal of commitment and effort from both parents. While the real desire of a ...
Views: 1018 - July is National Child-Centered Divorce Month - recognizing children's emotional needs when parents divorce or separate - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2008 from Rosalind SedaccaThe second annual recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month will take place throughout July across the United States. Professionals who deal with divorce issues -- therapists, attorneys, mediators, coaches, educators, clergy and others – will be joining forces to share valuable ...
Views: 1436 - Just Married But Afterwards Divorced - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheLife will always be life and as such we do experience happy moments and unhappy moments. Have you ever read an article somewhere about the shortest marriages? If you haven't then you'll be surprised to learn some of the marriages that lasted for only 24 hours, nine days and less than six ...
Views: 912 - Karma, Fate, Destiny, Spirituality & Relationships - Stay Married or Divorce? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloWhether to stay or leave an unhappy relationship can be a very difficult decision, especially when children and other factors are involved. Will you create negative karma if you leave your marriage? Some may say that you have an obligation to stay married for your children. We disagree ...
Views: 4481 - Karma: The Pros and Cons of Cheating in a Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloThe statistics of recurring studies around the world show that cheating in relationships is far more common than everyday appearances let on; an average of 45% of respondents claim to have cheated in a relationship, and that doesn't include those who haven't admitted to an affair or ...
Views: 5391 - Keeping A Child Away From The Other Parent Can Backfire - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldKeeping A Child Away From The Other Parent Can Backfire Marriages can fail for many reasons. When they do, people can be seen on a spectrum from minimal conflict to high conflict as they sort out the task of untangling their lives to resume independent living. Where children are involved, ...
Views: 2162 - Key advices of an attorney in a sinking marriage - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2013 from Roger WilliamsFuture is not like a calendar where the joyous days are marked and the normal days are not. What does your future hold cannot even be prognosticated by any futurist properly. They might give you vague ideas and fill you with illusions. What if an unanticipated divorce land on your doorstep and ...
Views: 663 - Key Issues of Importance in an Uncontested Divorce to the Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorChoosing a divorce lawyer is never an easy or inexpensive task, but you can reduce the fees and aggravation if you and your spouse can agree to an uncontested divorce. That doesn't mean you have to agree to everything in advance although that would certainly reduce the costs even more, but if ...
Views: 560 - Kids + Divorce + Blended Families = Anger - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2014 from Janet PfeifferDivorce - it's a word that makes me cringe every time I hear it. Mine was thirty-two years ago (not of my choosing) and was one of the most painful periods of my life. Two people brought together in love take a sacred vow to love, honor, and cherish one another for eternity. No one ever says, ...
Views: 2760 - Kids of Separated Parents: The Annual Holiday Access Dispute - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldKids of Separated Parents: The Annual Holiday Access Dispute Forget about the last minute gift shopping. The real issue for separated parents this season is who gets what time with the kids. With divorce seemingly as popular as marriage, more and more kids will be subject to the annual access ...
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