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- Soulmate or Big Mistake? - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2009 from Daeryl HolzerExcerpt from Opening A Window To The Soul: A Guide to Living Beyond the Human Drama, a compilation of Spirit guided responses to commonly asked questions. Why do we fall in love? Through the bonds of romantic love and sexuality, you peel away the illusion that you are a solitary soul and ...
Views: 1992(1 vote) - Speaking an Emotional Language - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Allan HardmanA new client called to tell me that she and her husband had a big fight because he wouldn’t listen to her share her feelings. He said he was tired of being made wrong; and all she wanted to do was tell him how she felt. She asked me, in a very discouraged tone; “How can I get him to just listen ...
Views: 1551(4 votes) - Stages of a relationship and marriage - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2010 from Dia ThabetStages of a relationship and marriage What are the stages that couples go through in their marriage and relationship? How can you deal with the arguments that occur in a marriage and a relationship? In every relationship and every marriage, couples go through stages of a relationship and ...
Views: 1386(4 votes) - Starting a Great Conversation: Your New Best Friend or Lover Could Be One Question Away - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Tracey BennettThink about the people you see all the time. How well do you know them? You could be missing out on great conversation or making a good friend. Use great conversation questions to get people to tell you their stories. People will tell you amazing stories when you care enough to ask. Your new ...
Views: 3882(8 votes) - Staying in an Unsatisfying Relationship Rather than Leaving: The Reasons & the Options - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you feel stuck in an unsatisfying relationship but do not dare to leave, “excusing” your stay with various justifications and rationalizations, try to understand what stands in your way from making a change in your situation. You will then be able to make a clear decision ...
Views: 4059(1 vote) - Stop Giving Away Your Power In Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2013 from Virginia ClarkOne reason your relationships tend to fail is that you start out well enough, but then slowly, without realizing it, you start to give away your power. This process is insidious and before you know it, instead of having a healthy give and take, the relationship has lost its balance. When you ...
Views: 4234(1 vote) - Success in online dating, just be smart! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Eileen ParksHave you ever tried online dating? Have you got a success story in online dating? Have you ever thought of why it's so hard to find someone or get a success story in online dating? From a recent survey made by MillionaireCupid.com(online dating network for millionaires and wealthy men), more ...
Views: 1027(1 vote) - Successful online dating tips - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from gerald chan wei minWind the clock back two decades ago. You can imagine ever looking for a date, a special partner or even colleagues via electronic media? There is always a small minority of people who are too shy or lack confidence to approach someone directly to provoke conversation. Fortunately, times have ...
Views: 968(1 vote) - Suffering Through A Breakup/Divorce? Tips On How To Heal - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Rachel MohebanThe lyrics as sung by Frank Sinatra: “Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again..” offer a positive way of getting through life’s challenges. Sometimes, however, it takes a lot more healing and work to get through tough times. It is said that 3 of the most difficult ...
Views: 1976(6 votes) - Sweetest Things to Say to a Girl - Lines That Will Surely Make Her Fall For You - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2009 from Mark TaylorGirls are one of the best things about being a guy and we always look forward to the day when we finally settle with one and live happily ever after (of course we don't really live happily ever after, like literally, but that's a topic for another time). Girls are always cute, cuddly, lovable ...
Views: 6692(1 vote) - Take Charge of Your Love Life - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2009 from Tracey RobinsonIf we were to follow the lead of Beyonce, all of us would be wearing the ring. But life isn’t as uncomplicated as pop songs, is it? Dating is difficult enough as it is, imagine having a man who will easily—and quickly—“put a ring on it.” But what most single women don’t understand is that ...
Views: 578(2 votes) - Taking A Break From Relationships - Is It A Good Idea? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaTaking a break from relationships is a good move for people who usually go from one relationship straight to another. If you have problems with your partner in every relationship you're in, then please keep on reading. If you don't give yourself some time alone, there's a chance that you ...
Views: 2007(1 vote) - Taking A Break In A Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you struggling to find out if taking a break in a relationship will destroy your relationships or help make it better? Several people think that taking a break in a relationship will kill a relationship but that's where they're wrong. If you want to know more about what you can do to help ...
Views: 1280(1 vote) - Taking Off Your Masks is a Prerequisite to Succeed in an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Masks you wear might have a heavy toll on your relationships. You are not “who you really are”. You can’t develop a truly intimate bond. Acknowledging the masks and removing them is a prerequisite for a successful intimate relationship. DO YOU PRESENT TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS ...
Views: 2681(1 vote) - Taming the Butterflies! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Azzrian VisionsOh that new feeling ... the tummy flutters, the palms are sweaty, heart races, constantly checking email. Its the tale tale signs of a new relationship! But how do we keep our wits about us and know for sure that its really a love connection and not just the excitement of the possibility of ...
Views: 2179(6 votes) - Thanksgiving: Learn How to Develop a Successful Relationship and Thank Yourself for Doing So! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Thanksgiving is a perfect holiday to begin your process of Self-Awareness, learn how to succeed with relationships, and thank yourself for having the courage to doing so. You can attain self-growth each time you go on a date or start a relationship. It is a matter of willing ...
Views: 1124(1 vote) - The 3 Revealing Signs Your Ex Is Over You - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you resemble a train wreck now after your ex broke up with you? Along with the emotional roller coaster ride your mind experience, it also takes major toll on your body. While you've done everything you can to get your ex back, you have no clue whether or not they're over you. There are a ...
Views: 2679(1 vote) - The 5 Questions to Ask When You're Meeting Your Girlfriend's New Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Katie KrienitzThe 5 Questions to Ask when You’re Meeting Your Girlfriend’s New Man I pulled up to the restaurant and sat in my car for a moment. I couldn’t believe that I was actually nervous! One of my best girlfriends, Angelina, had been talking about Charlie for a few weeks now. They had shared ...
Views: 2168(1 vote) - The A-Z Guide For Successful Singles – F is for Feelings - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2009 from Susanne JorgensenHow do you feel about being single? How do you feel about your life? How do you feel about your future? How do you feel about allowing someone into your life and heart again? As you read through those questions – what feelings came up? Were they positive or were they negative feelings? Is ...
Views: 1171(2 votes) - The A-Z Guide For Successful Singles – G is for GROW - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2009 from Susanne JorgensenHave you ever just had an exchange with someone and found yourself saying in exasperation – “Would you just grow up!” Do you know people who seem to predominantly react in ‘defence’ mode? Do you know people who just can’t see anyone else’s perspective but their own? Do you know people who ...
Views: 1206(2 votes) - The A-Z Guide For Successful Singles: D is for Dating – 3 Essential Rules - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Susanne JorgensenWhen we talk about dating, we take for granted that we are talking about the same thing, but are we? Is dating “playing the field” and going out with lots of different people with the aim of finding out your potential partner? Or does dating mean, you have chosen one person that you are going ...
Views: 1216(3 votes) - The best places to go for a date - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2011 from Trevor JohnsonYour suggested venue should, of course, be tailored to your partner (well, both of you, ideally, as you’re hopefully a similar type of person). A nice bar’s a good opening gambit but if the other person’s made it clear they’re a real ale fanatic who spends most of their week nights in a mosh ...
Views: 600(1 vote) - The Concept of Finding a Life Partner With the Help of the Internet Is a Fairly Recent Concept. - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Derrick ThomasMany people wish that we could go back to the times before internet dating was available. The concept of finding a life partner with the help of the Internet is a fairly recent concept. A common question among friends these days is whether or not singles should try to meet their ideal partner ...
Views: 868(1 vote) - The Fine Art of "Squirrel Hunting" - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: The most frequent problem I hear from single clients is that of how and where to search for a partner. Other clients are searching for friends. Many of them have been searching for a long time, without success; others have been afraid to go out and search at all. Most of ...
Views: 1226(1 vote) - The Harsh Reality - She's a Prostitute! - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2005 from Dr. Dennis NederDr Neder, I read on a website that you try to answer your email and I'm begging for some of your expert advice please. I am in serous need of some help because a girl I had really strong feelings for and with whom I've had a very close relationship and I have just had a crisis. About 1 1/2 ...
Views: 1614(1 vote) - The Magic of Reassurance - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2013 from Tina TessinaThere are a few simple communication techniques that work like magic in relationships, whether with committed partners, friends, co-workers or relatives. One of the most effective is reassurance, which is simple to do, and calms both of you down, which allows your discussion move on without ...
Views: 1795(1 vote) - The One Who Got Away - by Submitted on May 04, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. She was what ...
Views: 1578(1 vote) - The Real Reason Why Men Won't Commit - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe reason why men won't commit actually stems from biological reasons rather than those social reasons so popular today. It basically stems from human sexuality and how it functions. Simply put, the male has the ability to produce multiple children with different women. The younger the guy ...
Views: 2186(1 vote) - The Tao of Instant Liberation (in Dating and Beyond) - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis article is about how your perpetual happiness is pretty much in your hands right now. And I will state without proof that being a healthy, happy, optimistic person makes you more fun to be around. And that people who are fun to be around are just going to be more successful in the dating ...
Views: 872(2 votes) - The Three Myths of Flirting - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Meghan GehanANYONE can be successful at flirting and dating, however there are certain misconceptions that you must overcome in order to flirt effectively and naturally. After all, isn’t the goal of flirting to improve not only the number of dates you have ahead of you…but also the quality, strength and ...
Views: 2164(1 vote) - The Top 3 Reasons Why Women Dump Men - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIs it the women who constantly break up with you? Trying to read a woman's mind is usually difficult as they are shrouded with mystery. However, if you're wondering why women dump men, here are some things that might be able to help you. Why Women Dump Men - You're Ignoring Her Have you ...
Views: 1336(1 vote) - The Ultimate Ex Back Formula For Reconciliation - Ways to Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from John OnyekaWhat is the best technique to get your ex back? A proven ex back formula can definitely boost your opportunities. Here is a blueprint to win back the one you love. To express it in mathematical terms: (S+W)T=Love The initial part of the formula is S + W. S equals separation. Breaking up with ...
Views: 2624(1 vote) - The Wedding Photographers Guide to having the Perfect Wedding Day - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2014 from Mark VillarosaIs your special day just around the corner? If so, stress levels are probably high and you are feeling anxious about it. Though the perfect wedding requires a lot of preparation, you should learn how to relax and have a good time. Try the following checklist to get organised during your special ...
Views: 1500(1 vote) - The “don’ts” In Senior Dating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAs if dating is not hard when you were younger, it gets tougher now you’re a senior. You think, how can you come through in senior dating. Should you follow the trends and go for online dating? It’s much convenient and you don’t have to go through the anxiousness of approaching and waiting to be ...
Views: 741(1 vote) - Throwing Aside Your Needs for Successful Dating - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Allan TanFor some people, the worst part about successful dating is putting another person first. Being selfish feels good. We all want what we want when we want it. However, selfishness can be seriously detrimental to relationships. The truth is, that when it comes to successful dating, you sometimes ...
Views: 602(2 votes) - Tips For Men On How To Get Back With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Kevin A. HedstromAt the moment typical guys are trying to devise a method to get their ex wife or girlfriend back in their life, they realize that they are presented with only a handful of obvious options. They contemplate what might have worked before in earlier times and what they assume will work. It’s this ...
Views: 1074(6 votes) - Tips for Talking to Teens About Dating Violence - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Amy JohnsonAs part of your “back to school” preparations, have you talked with your teen or young adult about dating safety? Ideally, the topic has been discussed prior to your child dating. The important thing is to have conversations about this topic with your child, even if he or she is already dating, ...
Views: 1095(1 vote) - Tips on How to Ascertain if Your Ex Still Wants You Back - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaWhen couples breakup after being in a loving union for a long time, they find it very difficult to overcome the break-up. The time soon after the break-up is one that generally gets really demoralizing. However, as time goes by, there is usually the thought of wishing to reconcile with your ex ...
Views: 3065(1 vote) - Top 12 Annoying Things Women Do In Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyAny relationship can benefit from some help day to day. To help your love develop for each other, it's best to know and comprehend the little problems that each person in the relationship is put through. Here are some innocent things women do that annoy the men they're with. Seeing your ...
Views: 2454(1 vote) - Top 5 Signs Your Relationship Is in Trouble - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaMost of the time, you can tell when your relationship has taken a turn for the worse. But sometimes we are caught completely off guard or we don't allow ourselves to see the signs that are right in front of us. If you're having doubts or worries about your relationship, look for these five ...
Views: 3614(1 vote) - Top 5 Ways to Keep the Spark in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaUnfortunately there comes a time in every relationship where the rose-colored glasses come off, and the honeymoon phase ends. Little things that may have been considered quirky characteristics may now quickly get on your nerves. When reality begins to set in, and you begin to see your partner ...
Views: 2130(1 vote) - Top Ten Dating Turn Offs That Can Have Your Date Running In The Other Direction. - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2011 from Kye ReeceAlright so none of us said dating is simple although there are still unsaid protocols that everybody ought to know and then try to adopt if they are expecting a 2nd date. Here is an important set of distinct no no’s when taking a girl or guy out on a first date. All these suggestions apply to ...
Views: 562(1 vote) - Top Ten Reasons To Try Online Dating - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Daryl CampbellThere was a time when even mentioning the words internet dating would have gotten you mocked out of whichever room you were in. Not only was it generally viewed as some thing entirely outside the mainstream but also no one thought you could have any success even trying it out. Possibly a small ...
Views: 977(1 vote) - Turn the Tables On Your Ex and Use 3 “Under The Radar” Tactics That Will Get Them To Ask YOU To Get Back Together With Them! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasSo you've broken up with your ex. Now what? You have a couple of choices and decisions to make. You can either wallow in self pity and feel sorry for yourself or you can pull yourself together, regroup and decide to do whatever it takes to get back together with your ex. Rather than relying on ...
Views: 794(4 votes) - Turning an Interest in BDSM Into Something More Active - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2011 from Susan MSensuality, control, respect, devotion, adoration and above all consensuality. These are all key aspects of the BDSM lifestyle. Whether it is an intergral part of your life, day in and day out, or something to be experienced merely behind closed doors in chains and leather there is something ...
Views: 2059(1 vote) - Two Magic Words for Avoiding Becoming a Desperate Housewife (or Desperate Husband.) - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2013 from Yvonne and George LevyFrom the fictional ones at Wisteria Lane to the “real ones” in Atlanta, we’ve all seen or at least heard of them. Desperate housewives, they’re everywhere and deeply ingrained in modern culture. Not exactly something to look forward to if you are on your way to being, or already are, ...
Views: 1824(1 vote) - Use These Three Killer Online Dating Tips to Maximize Your Success - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Daryl CampbellHow far has online dating come? Just ask the people at Netrimony. Started in 1996 they are now the largest online matchmaking company not just in India but the world. They boast a membership of twenty five million and have successfully matched over one million people. While their ...
Views: 1175(4 votes) - USING THE LAW OF PULL TO MAKE YOUR EX WANT YOU BACK - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2015 from Ayiba TiemoIn other to get your ex boyfriend back use the law of pull it is the simplest natural method to apply in wining your ex. I am going to introduce you to the law of attraction combined with another method, which will make your ex boyfriend crawl on his kneels begging to come back to ...
Views: 1327(1 vote) - Valentine’s Day celebrate Love this Day is Only with your Love - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from rammanohar prasadEvery year February 14, is celebrated as Valentine’s Day all over the world. The day also celebrated on the remembrance of Saint Valentine who suffered as Valentine’s Day is the most expected day of the year for all youngsters. There is a celebration on this day so that all lovers can take ...
Views: 621(1 vote) - Virtual Dating a Safe Way to Romance - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2011 from Marie ZaraOne of the safest ways to start a fling and play against rules is through virtual dating. You date virtually and you get a chance to camouflage yourself. Yeah, that is Correct! Not that you date with ulterior motives, just that you get that coveted license to play the game your way. You set the ...
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