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Decisions, decisions, decisions…. Some of us are clear-cut, confident deciders while others hem and haw and find it tough to commit.
Not deciding is deciding, yet many think that if they can be nice and vague, then they can’t be wrong. They can wiggle out and casually say, “Oh, no I didn’t ... Views: 1265
Helen from Ohio asked me about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could move on with her life. She really wants to attract a soul mate that will not only last forever, but one that will also become more intimate with time. Many people can relate to that question. They can understand the pain ... Views: 1263
People speculate a lot with the word trust and they do it on purpose. I would like to make a few clarifications about it...
Many times trust is mixed with faith. But to have faith is one thing and to trust someone is something completely different. Faith is pointing outwards, it is created ... Views: 1259
Spirit speaks through your “Heart” – the highest, deepest part of your Heart where Soul connects – and you will find that your heart has a lot to say. No matter how many times you may have overridden it, ignored it or denied it, it will continue to speak in the same soft, loving, gentle voice it ... Views: 1257
Emotional Infidelity is a term that is becoming increasingly common, because of the increasing instances of it. What is emotional infidelity? In short, it's a form of infidelity that excludes sexual relations. It's important that this term is clarified, because many people feel that if they ... Views: 1256
People tend to think that the development of the site does not require much skill, and is the easiest job, but the development of the site is an art and requires a lot of experience and quality of the information, passions, duration, through a professional website designer and web developers, ... Views: 1252
People are people all over the world. Success is overrated in most instances after all, what standards do we use fro measurement of success yours, mine' or countless other philosophies? Who's right, who's wrong or could it be that it takes a combination of all of the above to create global and ... Views: 1252
Have you ever postponed some thing you really wanted or needed to do until you had a long Wanna-Do List later that never got fulfilled?
Have you ever wished for extra time to sleep a bit more, read longer, or do something different?
After you’ve finally found the time, have you found ... Views: 1251
Is each individual on Earth responsible for their own life experience? Or are other people to blame when they are angry, tired, tedious, envious, rude, selfish and just down right mean? How do you make space for other people's roll through the rollercoaster ride of life when it bumps right up ... Views: 1228
The word “vulnerable” is often used synonymously with “weakness.” This definition might be right for engineering, but it’s not accurate when it comes to emotional vulnerability. A much better synonym for “vulnerability” is “courage.”
Emotional vulnerability can be defined as having the ... Views: 1223
LOVER WITH NO NAME: A PERFECT RENDEVOUS
I have a lover who resides within me
and I have just met her,
though she never introduced herself.
I then asked of what was her name?
She said, “She could be whoever I wanted or choose her to be,
then she added, “what are in names anyway, but ... Views: 1222
Special moments are timeless and all of you will love to capture them into immortal frames. There are different incidents in your lives. Life is a long story and so there are many chapters in it. Some of the chapters are so dear to you that you love to remember them forever. These are the ... Views: 1222
In all applications of the fascination with people, you are encouraged to remember that your first goal, always and reliability, is a feeling of happiness in their minds. You do not have to try to encourage people to behave in a manner which you have created your own feel good about themselves. ... Views: 1220
Zzzzziiiiiip...CRASH!...and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al's Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window…followed by a shrill and sobbing "GET OUT!...GET OUT!...GET OooooUT!"
See, IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart…he had ... Views: 1219
There are plenty of things about us that we do not understand; things that we do not notice or see even when they are available right in front of us. Sometimes those things are abilities that we have long forgotten about and sometimes they are skills that we have earned through time. We might ... Views: 1218
I find my expectations around the taste and quality of wine vary depending on my surroundings or the location. Location can mean any number of places: countries, regions, large or small wineries, family-owned wineries, in a restaurant or at home.
Some of my favorite and most memorable ... Views: 1218
Don’t you just love optimism? It’s the feeling that rejuvenates you after first feeling stuck in life.
We are naturally designed to be optimistic. However, being around pessimistic people can cause you to unlearn your natural desire to be optimistic.
When you choose to be optimistic ... Views: 1217
Alcohol abuse and alcoholism are so pervasive that about a third of Americans have someone close to them who has the problem. This means legions of people have relationships that are stressful at best, and damaging at worst. If your spouse is an alcoholic then alcoholism is bound to affect you ... Views: 1216
Here’s a wonderful poem on friendship I came across, written by David Leonhardt.
Choose friends wisely, the portrait they paint
Is who you are and who you ain't.
Friendship is life's great support
When friends are of the right sort.
For all your dreams do they make room,
Or bring you ... Views: 1214
Trust: The # 1 Issue In Living, Relating, Working & Even Sleeping.
By
Bill Cottringer
“Trust is the secular version of religious faith and faith is the growing belief and comfort in the truth and certainty of something you can’t see or otherwise prove.” ~The author.
Why is trust such an ... Views: 1207
Dr. Romance says: I can’t escape it, it’s in the news every day, and it fills my counseling office. Recently, the news told of a four-year-old who was shot to death by his own father, because the father was jealous of his divorced wife’s new relationship. "O, beware... of jealousy; ... Views: 1200
Not being authentic is a big problem in dating if you’re attempting to be someone you’re not when looking for the love of your life. Many women are taught in childhood to be pleasers and to cater to their man’s wishes, and often that means we act as the person we think our man would want to be ... Views: 1193
The road of recovery is not the same as the path of despair. Many, perhaps most people fear allowing themselves to feel their darker feelings because they remember times of being overwhelmed or crushed by them. Consequently most of us find creative, elaborate, or self-destructive ways to ... Views: 1191
FINDING YOUR VOICE – FINDING YOUR SELF
A Beginning Journey of Overcoming The Darkness of Shame.
These first few paragraphs are share with you some points of view of the psychological aspects of shame and then share with you how shame influences your daily life. This is the first article in ... Views: 1190
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have a friend who's asking for an advice and accidentally, I saw in the internet your advice to some heart problems. So I told myself to try ask help from you also. This lady friend of mine is well, kind of in love with a man who's also in love with her. However, a ... Views: 1189
INTRODUCTION
Your partners might often see in you characteristics and traits you don’t acknowledge and accept in yourself. The reason being – you reject and depress these in you if you feel they don’t correlate with the person that you want to believe you are. Listening to what your partners ... Views: 1188
“A failure to confront is a failure to love.” Scott Peck
No one likes to be confronted, even in a nice way, for failing to keep an agreement. And many of us have come up with some very effective ways to discourage others from giving us feedback that we’d rather not hear. The problem with ... Views: 1178
Historically, roses are very old and have a long colorful history. As per fossil evidences, the roses are 35 million years old. Around 30,000 varieties of roses are present today and a Rose has the most complicated biological structure of any other known flower species.
It is found that Roses ... Views: 1178
Most of us enjoy being with others rather than being alone, as being with someone we like is an enjoyable experience. We like to share our reactions to situations and events that amaze us, like going to the Grand Canyon, for instance. As we stare and are awestruck by its beauty and majesty, we ... Views: 1177
Article Title: A Book "Review: The 'New Middle East' by Shimon Peres (Part One)
Submitted by: Craig Lock
Key Words: Shimon Peres, Middle East, Israel, books, politics, world, peace, possibilities for peace
Other Articles are available at: http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/user/15565 and ... Views: 1176
Some people will probably laugh about it while some may head off to the other extreme, yet astrological compatibility really is a subject most have found even though most may be loath to disclose this.
Many like reading their own daily horoscope but when it comes to rather more serious ... Views: 1169
Husbands who cheat by Beth Shepherd psychic. If only I had a dollar for each time a married man told me it was not his fault that he ended up cheating and went on to explain to me it was because he had got married when he was young and married a woman that he neither enjoyed spending time with ... Views: 1168
Knowing what you want is only part of the process in living the life that you dream of. The transformation really begins when you can start to translate what you want into radical honesty in each moment - honesty with yourself and with everyone in your life.
Once we have connected to our ... Views: 1161
My colleague, Natalie, recently shared another story with me. It is a classic tale of love found, lost and reclaimed, right before her very eyes.
A member of her family, a Golden Lab whose name now escapes me, was well known for his affectionate ways and a deep love of cats. On visiting ... Views: 1160
I believe we are in the beginning of a massive change on our planet. Many of us are starting to awaken. We are shifting from an old paradigm… away from fear, setting down the belief that we live in a scary world. We are beginning to expand our awareness from our physical bodies and our ego ... Views: 1158
I attended a lecture tonight on “TRUST”.
It involved a great deal of audience participation. Many people felt that those who didn’t trust others, did not trust themselves. Some were scarred by relationships where infidelity was involved.
I believe trust is the essential ingredient in ... Views: 1145
In existential terms, for us to transcend dysfunction, we must accept the anxiety generated by the awareness of the nature of existence as inherent to our lives and learn to live with it as authentically as possible. The authentic self, which is both grounded in and aware of its transient ... Views: 1136
Relationships are everything...simply because they are all that exist. Nothing has meaning until you decide how it relates to you or how you relate to it. It is the process of making these associations that will determine the outcome of our experiences in life.
We are creatures of love that ... Views: 1130
So, your girlfriend cheated on you? I’m truly sorry to here that. It’s a real challenge to have to deal with something like that. Sure you could dump her, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but this could also be an opportunity to try to deepen your love and learn to forgive and accept ... Views: 1128
How to Keep a Man Happy In a Relationship
The question of how to keep him in love with you is one that many women have wondered about in relation to their boyfriend. Unfortunately men aren't always as emotionally invested in the relationship as we are. You may find that you are often silently ... Views: 1127
I first went to see Dr. P because I had a pain in my leg, now I go to him because he helps me pay attention to what my body says and needs. Let me explain.
My initial chiropractic evaluation was a bit unsettling with all that cracking, especially around the neck. For some people, the neck ... Views: 1127
I always felt that using sincerity to buy love isn’t sincerity. I came across incidents where people demanded, saying, I have done this and that for you, yet you have the cheek to treat me otherwise!
They use what they have given freely out of love to demand similar treatments of love. Many ... Views: 1124
Even healthy couples can certainly make some of the most common marital mistakes. However, the good news is, they are avoidable. Also, for couples who have already fallen prey to some of these most common mistakes, they can certainly take action to remedy them.
Disregarding Your Spouse’s ... Views: 1123
Dear Dr. Romance: I actually forwarded him the conversation by accident
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a woman in my thirties. It's been over a month since I last spoke with my ex-boyfriend of one year. He gave me the silent treatment because I hurt him. Or it might be his ... Views: 1119
Numerous individuals generally blend dealing with a bankroll with setting a spending plan- - and furthermore while both relate they aren't precisely the same point. In actuality building up a spending plan is just a single piece of dealing with a bankroll for web based wagering, but a urgent ... Views: 1108
3 questions to get clear on who you really want to call ‘friend’
If you were asked, “What’s the biggest challenge you face to create the friendships you really want,” what would you say?
I’m going to let you in on a secret, your biggest challenge is not time or the inability to meet new ... Views: 1095
One of the most daunting tasks in being a healthcare provider is charting. With the sheer volume of patients one has to treat in a year, it's easy to lose track of data. This is why it is so important for any healthcare provider to have a standardized and easy-to-use system of data collection. ... Views: 1094
Have you ever said something, done something and/or acted in a way that perplexed you? You know you wanted something but then acted in a way that went contrary to what you desired?
For example: You were excited about a new relationship opportunity, but found yourself becoming increasingly ... Views: 1093
Dear Dr Romance:
I hope you will be able to provide me with an insight. I was in a relationship with a man I genuinely loved and wanted future with. Our relationship was lovely to start with but after a few months problems started to emerge: another woman told me he was in a ... Views: 1086
It can be tough to question whether or not your husband is cheating on you. Your mind is racing, looking over his behaviors and actions trying to evaluate if it all adds up or if there is anything that seems out of place.
Sometimes it can feel like putting a jigsaw puzzle together in the ... Views: 1083