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Where are all the good men?! I asked myself this question over and over again when I was dating and trying desperately to find a man to marry. For years I was a magnet for men who weren’t good for me, men who were not the marrying kind.
I couldn’t stop myself from dating them and getting ... Views: 1233
You might be failing in your relationships for a variety of reasons. But as long as you are not aware of what the true reason is, you will not know what you need to change. Consequently you will keep failing in your relationships. Becoming aware of what stands in your way is therefore vital to ... Views: 1231
Introduction
The “choices” you make when choosing a partner as well as when reacting and behaving in a relationship are often unconscious and affected by many factors from the past which control you, and are liable to harm your relationships. Self-awareness enables you to understand which ... Views: 1229
To some ladies, a rich man or wealthy guy is the final aim they are seeking of, and they've spent lots of energy and efforts in searching a successful upscale guy around the world. What do you think of the result? Yes, most of them failed, and the reason can not be more simple: there are so many ... Views: 1226
Here’s a simple and a quick way to build attraction with a woman or a girl, yet many guys overlook this when they are looking to get the woman or girl they like attracted to them.
This simple but often overlooked tip is none other than mini-dating.
Yes, while you can talk to a girl to ... Views: 1222
I see you walking toward me. Is it you? I can't really tell. It somewhat looks like it could be. How could it be? I never saw you come in. Well, yeah, it could be you. We pass at a distance, while I try to be nonchalant about it.
Then I see you again. I want to make sure it's you. I'm still ... Views: 1219
If you are presently on “the dating scene” wishing wholeheartedly to find a partner with whom to develop a serious relationship, don’t date those who are basically UNAVAILABLE. No matter what they promise you, and regardless of how much you think “this is the right person for me”, dating them is ... Views: 1218
While reaching out to others and experiencing intimacy is normal for some people, there are others who experience life in a very different way. When someone can reach out to others and experience intimacy, they could be in a fulfilling relationship.
However, even if they are not with someone ... Views: 1218
When someone is in relationship, they will have the opportunity to grow and to heal any wounds that they may have. This can mean that there will be moments that are deeply fulfilling and moments that are extremely painful pain.
What will play a big part here is how much pain one is carrying. ... Views: 1215
Halloween adds excitement to young and old. And the occasion demands style, trends, exclusive treats and more.
Halloween styles, treats, decorations and more are the focus of magazines and websites bringing to a peak festival excitement.
To make Halloween exclusive we bring you some expert ... Views: 1212
If one was to find out that someone isn’t in a relationship, it might not surprise them, and this could come down to the fact that they are not physically attractive. On the other hand, if they were attractive, it might be hard for them to understand why this is the case.
One Outlook
It ... Views: 1208
Fellas, knowing how to make a woman fall for you is about the most valuable skill that you can have. Yet, the sad fact is that most guys have no real clues as to how to make a woman fall in love. Even most of the so called expert advice that you see does not produce results in the real ... Views: 1207
CHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO GIVE AND RECEIVE PRESENTS
As Christmas approaches you probably wonder what presents to give. If you have a partner you want to show how much you love him/her. You are also curious what gift they’ll give you. But if you don’t have a partner, here’s an idea for a great ... Views: 1207
“I want you just the way you are.”
Do you want to be married to Mr. Right? Are you looking for the woman of your
dreams? Are you desperately trying to change yourself to attract “The One?”
Have you invested hundreds of dollars in a personal trainer in hopes of making yourself
marketable ... Views: 1206
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am in an unusual situation. I was speaking to a random person on Facebook one time. We became Facebook “friends”, and we kept chatting back and forth on e-mail. This girl was already dating someone (not very happy though), but I guess she kind of ... Views: 1205
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am in an unusual situation. I was speaking to a random person on Facebook one time. We became Facebook “friends”, and we kept chatting back and forth on e-mail. This girl was already dating someone (not very happy though), but I guess she kind of ... Views: 1205
Do you know that there is something that you are doing (without even being aware) and it’s the reason you haven’t attracted Mr. Right yet? Don’t feel bad. I was doing the same thing until I realized it was hindering me from attracting Mr. Right.
On my journey to attracting Mr. Right, I would ... Views: 1205
It is very likely that you have a friend who always “falls” for the wrong guy. Everybody sees it, except her. You feel sorry for her; you wish you can help her. You even try to show her the “facts”, explain to her how she hurts herself; “predict” the miserable future she’ll have. After all, she ... Views: 1203
Dear Dr Romance : I just read about you and some articles you wrote about Age Differences in Relationships and really enjoyed what you had to say and how you said it. I now have a question: I am 49 years old and very attractive. I look ... Views: 1203
Although it might NOT be apparent, there is a big difference whether you go out with someone YOU have decided to go out with or with someone who has chosen you. The first usually happens when you are empowered to be yourself and feel safe with being alone. The second often occurs when you have a ... Views: 1202
Why Are You Still Single Jo"?
I can still remember cringing at being asked that question by well meaning friends and family members and my response really depended on my hormones and how I felt about being single at the time.
For the most part, those that know and love us, ask from good ... Views: 1199
First dates always bring up a host of questions. What type of food does your date like, what kind of music, go casual or a little more dressed up… the list goes on and on. Today we look at five dates that put all questions to rest and simply go for the “Wow” factor.
Date # 1: Georgia ... Views: 1198
Being successful in life often means putting into practice habits that will make you successful. Similarly, in your love life there are things you can develop that will help you be successful. Here are 9 personality traits that you can improve that will help you find love.
Healing
When it ... Views: 1198
In relationships, a single person is one who is not married, or, more broadly, who is not in an exclusive romantic relationship.
Single people may engage in dating to find a partner or spouse. Not all single people actively seek out a relationship, however, as some are content to wait for the ... Views: 1198
Countless individuals have experienced the three stages of seeking true love.
First, the person seeking true love looks for it everywhere, as if it will magically appear and elevate him to a blissful state of being, and sometimes projects what they want onto people who are not compatible. ... Views: 1198
People are always curious about SEX, aren’t they?
But any given individual will always bring a
different viewpoint to the subject.
Some take it aesthetically,
some practice it purely for pleasure and fun,
while others are really very serious about sex.
Differences in attitude do ... Views: 1197
For those that wish to fasten a broken relationship there is excellent and terrible news. Best relationship break up advice; No matter how bad your relationship is it can be repaired, that's the good news. The bad news is you cannot do it alone. Both parties have to be dedicated and working ... Views: 1196
Dr. Romance writes:
I’ve been dealing with a lot of unwanted changes, and it’s not easy. Losses, disappointments, changes – we all struggle when life doesn’t go our way. Why is it so hard to handle change? Then there are the changes we want to make, fight hard to make – losing weight, ... Views: 1191
It could be said that thanks to social media, how someone looks is even more important than ever before. The average person can feel the need to look their best regardless of if they are in the real world or online.
Fortunately, it can be relatively easy for someone to look their best ... Views: 1191
4 Steps to Loving a Man
Were you taught how to love a man or did you just figure it out on your own? If you’re anything like me, you weren’t officially told how to love a man. You either modeled what you saw your mother do or you mimicked what you say on TV.
The key to having a successful ... Views: 1190
Do you remember Craigslist personals? Are you looking for a viable Craigslist replacement due to the developments that occurred over the past few years? Here are five viable suggestions for you.
Why Were Craigslist Personals Removed?
Craigslist personals dominated the casual sex and ... Views: 1190
If you’re a single woman looking to find that special man in your life, you may want to consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying to find the right balance of ... Views: 1188
You're sitting there numb. You're probably still reeling from the experience. The only thought going through your mind is this: we broke up; where do I go from here?
Breakups are never fun. Even in mutual situations where the relationship has just fizzled on all sides breakups are ... Views: 1187
He didn’t call or sent you an sms after the date and you take it personally. You think it’s because of you; that he didn’t like you; that he was not attracted to you; that he didn’t enjoy your company, that he might have detected your insecurity and shied away from it; that he might have noticed ... Views: 1187
With the divorce rate at over 50 percent in the United States for first time marriages, it is hardly unusual anymore to find yourself among one of the millions of single parents. For some newly single parents they can’t wait to get back out into the dating scene while others tread very ... Views: 1187
You can only place the blame for your failed or lack of relationships on other people for so long. There comes a point and time when you need to look in the mirror and figure out what it is about you that is contributing to the demise of your relationships. We love to point the finger and say ... Views: 1186
There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop with different partners have nonetheless failed time and again. Yet, they keep trying, hoping that “next time things will be different”. As much as hope is a motivating force to keep trying, there isn’t ... Views: 1186
Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday.
But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet.
Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats.
For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and ... Views: 1185
While I was out the other day I saw a woman who was wearing a fair amount of makeup, and seeing this woman had quite a big effect on me. But, even though part of me was responding to what I had seen, another part of me thought about how strange this all was.
For one thing, I didn’t know ... Views: 1185
Looking for love in all the wrong places? (try Facebook or an online dating site)
Okay, first, I’m assuming that you are single. If you are not, if you are married, engaged, or in what your partner assumes is a committed relationship STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER!
Shame on you! The only way to ... Views: 1185
"Every woman is a science," said John Donne. And if we take the time to carefully study their needs, we'll discover some fairly universal principles about the differences between men and women. There are always exceptions to the rule, but here are some fundamental things that men should know ... Views: 1184
Some women have this "thing" that attracts all the men in a 20-square foot vicinity. Most women can't identify what that is, but most men will be able to identify it and will hone in like bees to a hive. Women might think she's beautiful, has a great body, dresses well or knows how to flirt. But ... Views: 1183
Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday.
But we’re not through the holiday abyss yet.
Which means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness and visions of perfection shoved down our throats.
For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and ... Views: 1182
It is not uncommon to look around and find strong, independent women who have chosen to stay single. However, there are many beautiful and successful women who stay single not by their own choice, but because of the behaviors they display that drive good men away. There are many factors that ... Views: 1182
February 14th is known as the day to celebrate love. Countless couples exchange gifts such as flowers, cards, candy, jewelry and dinners with feelings of affection and love for each other. For many singles; however, being alone on Valentine’s Day can evoke feelings of loneliness, self-doubt, ... Views: 1181
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been reading your article "The Fine Art of Squirrel Hunting". I certainly will appreciate any wisdom or guidance that you can share. I'm a minister who ministers to congregations, and I was widowed several years ago.
1. I've pretty much ... Views: 1180
There are many small things that go into making a great date. Only a few big errors in judgment can make it a horrible experience for both you and your date. Here are five frequent faux pas that men commonly make on first dates and how to avoid them.
Taking About the Ex
This is one of the ... Views: 1180
According to the latest statistics from the American Psychological Association, as many as 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Unfortunately, that percentage is even higher among those who have been married before, and even more alarmingly, the number of breakups occurring between unmarried ... Views: 1178
Here you will find Smart First Date Tips to make the first encounter go as smooth as possible and make it fun not awkward for the both of you.
These First Date Tips are not intended to be used all inclusively but used as a spring board for ideas to keep in mind when it comes to your ... Views: 1178
Introduction
If you find yourself time and again with a partner who seems to “run away from you”, but nonetheless you hang-on to this “partner”, albeit the pain it causes you, you are not alone. Many behave similarly. Still, it is YOUR life. Therefore, when you get up the courage to ... Views: 1177
Perhaps asking if you are ready to recover from divorce is a rhetorical question but so often what we say isn't really what we are feeling. We think we want to heal after divorce from the heart ache and yet the anger feels as though it's serving a purpose. In fact, anger does serve a purpose ... Views: 1177