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Are you in a long-term relationship with someone and want to know how you could get him to propose marriage? If you’ve already read Does He Want to Marry Me? The Dating with Dignity Guide to Getting Engaged and are wondering if there are any steps you can take to get him to go to the next step, ... Views: 2398
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
According to the available research evidence, there are several periods in a marriage that seem, on average, to be particularly troublesome – the first year, the seventh year, the fifteenth year, and the 30th year. Marriages that survive and thrive ... Views: 5255
However it happened, you find yourself in the middle of a marriage crisis. You may not have even seen it coming. Maybe you did, but you were pretending not to notice. Or maybe you saw it coming, but couldn't do anything about it.
Your first reaction is likely shock. You feel that ... Views: 2336
When children come, make sure your husband’s wife doesn’t leave. Don’t ever let your love for your child overshadow your love for your husband. Make sure that, once you become a mother, you don’t forget you were a wife first and still are. Be his warm and always-willing woman. He should never ... Views: 1212
In most relationships, an ongoing fight simmers just below the surface. Sometimes the conflict appears subtle but at other times it is outright war. People have grown up in a sea of discord and have been socialized to expect it and accept it. In other words, fighting is "normal." ... Views: 3219
In some marriages, a dark cloud hangs over the home, going by many different names: bills unpaid, appointments missed, chores ignored or unfinished, kids not picked up, calls not made—maybe poor job performance to boot.
Many of these things happen as a normal occurrence from time to time, and ... Views: 1688
The state of our lives and our relationships are the result of our seemingly small everyday choices. If for some reason we are unhappy with our relationship or our life, the best place to begin is to consider the choices that we have been making. William James said, “Human beings, by changing ... Views: 2025
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
The “heart of the matter” is this – successfully married couples report a high level of satisfaction with the way they communicate. They talk about everything and anything with each other—there are “No Sacred Cows.” Great couples attribute their ... Views: 3767
Have you read or heard about Fifty Shades of Grey? If not, you likely will in the near future. It is prime vacation time in the USA and right now there are likely thousands of women, and maybe a few men, sitting on a beach reading this novel. I heard that sales have reached something like 50 ... Views: 1444
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a ... Views: 2863
When I was getting married, I was inundated with tons of advice about having a long and happy marriage. At the time I thought it friendly, but useless counsel. As I approach my twentieth anniversary, I recognize the wisdom of this guidance and realize that it can be beneficial for couples at all ... Views: 856
WAYS TO CONNECT
Facebook is a place to connect but is it a place for love?
Facebook can certainly be a starting point; obviously it can’t be the ending point for love such as marital love. Also is it true or real love – is it sustainable and lasting love?
Could Facebook be a good starting ... Views: 2823
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Starting over is really difficult when it comes to love and marriage. Getting a divorce, breaking up, or losing the one you love due to their death can be overwhelmingly painful.
The simple truth is this – you entered into your loving ... Views: 5225
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been together with my wife for about 3 years now. We have worked on many issues in our marriage and resolved most of them; however, there is still one issue that has not been resolved.
It seems that little mistakes I make, such as not taking out the trash when it ... Views: 2136
The biggest gift you have for your husband is yourself.
Let’s look at what Solomon’s love said about him along this line in Song of Songs 7:10,
“I belong to my lover, and his desire is for me.”
Did you notice the confidence and pride with which she says this? She happily proclaims that ... Views: 1107
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
WENN News reported that Madonna gave one piece of advice to the couple who got engaged during her recent Amsterdam concert. Madonna’s advice was, “ Never go to bed angry.” She just gave the couple the best advice possible. This is the same advice ... Views: 3051
Marriage holds two people together not only emotionally but also physically. These are the two important pillars of a happy married life.
With the passage of time when a couple is blessed with a child or children priorities get reorganized, sometimes unawaringly. In the process physical ... Views: 1512
Why do quite a few adult males keep puting on the brakes with regards to marriage? Are all men in fact fearful of getting married?
One thing that never ceases to astonish a gal is when the guy she's been going steady with for a long time, still isn't wanting to get married. A good number of ... Views: 1442
Many people don’t realize that they’re feeling emotionally abandoned or that they did as a child. They may be unhappy, but can’t put their finger on what it is. People tend to think of abandonment as something physical, like neglect. They also may not realize that loss of physical closeness due ... Views: 7467
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Every once in awhile you meet extraordinary people! We had that great pleasure recently in Long Beach, California. Our lives will never be the same! We looked in the faces of love and saw an extraordinary marriage! We have seen this look before, ... Views: 3010
I was recently discussing a so-called “relationship problem” with a young lady.
She is 35 years old and though she says that she desperately wanted to be married with children by now, it hasn’t happened.
This relationship goal of hers has been her target for a dozen years, and each year ... Views: 1315
One of my best male friends was looking for me on IM feeling totally desperate because his wife was seriously talking about divorce now. They have been on that route before but this time she was totally serious. They have been having a rocky marriage as long as I can remember.
So I went ... Views: 13011
Hours spent on wedding plans: Hundreds
Dollars spent on wedding vendors: Thousands
Time spent on Marriage Preparation: Priceless
The average couple will spend hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars preparing for their wedding day. I get it. It’s an important lovely day. It’s a party ... Views: 1406
Many couples in today's world choose to have marriage counseling. This is very popular with both, couples who have been married a long time, and newlyweds as well. Not everybody realizes that they have to work at their relationship to make it work and struggle with certain aspects. This is why ... Views: 1340
Thirty years of marriage counseling and twenty-five years of a second marriage have convinced me that fights are not necessary in a marriage. Married couples need to have discussions, they need to solve problems, and sometimes they need to disagree, but they don’t need to squabble, argue, ... Views: 1751
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
In our thousands of interviews around the world over the past three decades, we have discovered many truths. Among these are the warning signs of a failing marriage and relationship.
The telltale signs of a relationship going down the tubes are ... Views: 3101
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been married for 17 years and thought we had a great marriage. 10 years ago I got hurt and have had 6 back surgeries. At one point I would double up on meds and drink to ignore life. During this time my husband was an angel; until he discovered I was ... Views: 2385
Too many couples quickly forget or never internalize the concept of for better, for worse. When their relationship becomes difficult, as all relationships do, they start to question whether it is working for them. Their lack of enjoyment in the relationship leads them to wonder if there might be ... Views: 1447
What is the key factor in maintaining a healthy work/life balance? If you are a business women and you are married the answer is very likely the quality of your marriage. I conducted a recent survey of business professionals and 7 out of 10 women indicated that work/life balance is often a big ... Views: 1013
They say that the first year of marriage is one of the most difficult phases in your marriage life, for this is the time that both couples would start to realize the reality of being married. Newlywed couples will then be confronted with their differences, and sometimes, it would be difficult ... Views: 1196
Many folks in fact look for relationship advice associated with one thing - ways to put romance back into their union. It does take place. It doesn’t matter if you are currently married or in a serious relationship, romance can fizzle out if you don’t do anything about it. This appears more ... Views: 919
Many people find themselves fighting with their partners night after night. They almost wish they could run away and just find a better life somewhere else. The more they fight the more they struggle to find positive feelings about one another. Often, one partner becomes discouraged and ... Views: 1828
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
There is an old saying among those who specialize in statistical data, and it goes like this – “Statistics are for liars and damn liars.” The famous Missourian, Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens) said it even better when he opined “It ain’t what you don’t ... Views: 3683
What is respect in a marriage?
In Proverbs 14:1 the Bible describes two kinds of women:
“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” (NIV)
There are some things that a woman does that build the people she cares about, and there are others ... Views: 937
Are you taking your marriage for granted? It is very easy to do with the hectic pace of modern life and the demands of our various businesses. But neglecting your marriage is as dangerous as neglecting the health of your heart. If your heart stops beating and pumping blood they way it is ... Views: 1064
Traditions and beliefs hold a strong and consistent place in the culture of India. However diverse their cultures are, the beliefs surround almost the same dimensions of culture in different ways. Since centuries put together, younger women are married to older men. Sometimes, the age gap is ... Views: 1946
Make marriage a paradise – here’s how.
MARITAL UNIVERSE
When you marry you get more than a spouse – you actually get a whole world.
THE BLESSINGS OF MARRIAGE
Partner, companion and best friend are the three top blessings you get when you marry.
SHARING YOUR LIFE
Joys and sorrows, ... Views: 1930
Have you ever wondered why some men are not eager to get married? Have you ever come across someone who has all what it takes, but not willing to settle down with a partner? Have you ever wondered why some men decide to be running after many girls at once?
Whenever you come across someone ... Views: 3070
When it comes to marriage today, the question many people ask is whether the institution works. This is because of the many separation cases and divorce cases that the society faces on a daily basis in that most people have lost all hope of the unions to work. Most people today would rather have ... Views: 795
When it comes on how to choose the right person to spend the rest of your life with, the only one who can be sure if you are choosing well is you. We all come with the idea of the right man and how we want our lives to be in the future, so here are some tips to ensure that you are following your ... Views: 1822
A marriage affair breaks the commitment made by both partners. There is nothing heartbreaking than finding out that the one you love is actually having extra pleasure outside your union. Extramarital issues include those activities like extramarital sex, infidelity and adultery.
Adultery ... Views: 1200
Oh yeah, we’ve all been there…
The moment something goes wrong in our lives and we hear someone recite the famous quote by Dale Carnegie: “If life hands you lemons, make lemonade.”
Well, yes, it is true that we can all be happier if we see the positive side of every situation, no matter ... Views: 1474
Once you have taken your vows, don't do anything to break that trust. You have both taken vows to be faithful in every way to one another. Now it's time to believe in one another and trust your partner.
You have taken the plunge and made the biggest commitment of your life. But statistics ... Views: 1848
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OK, guys, you're (gulp) ready to pop the big question. But you've seen those videos of lavish proposals that went wrong. How do you ask her in a way that's got an excellent chance of getting a happy ... Views: 1798
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We are delighted this week to be in the romantic capitol of the world—Paris, France! We are here on another leg of our endless search for great marriages around the world.
First, a few facts about love and marriage in France that you might want ... Views: 3308
Miley Cyrus is only 19, and she's just gotten engaged to Liam Hemsworth. Will it last? Well, the fact that it's a celebrity match is not in its favor -- celebrity couples don't have a great track record. As a little pre-wedding gift, here's what Miley and Liam can do to make sure they're ready ... Views: 1938
Why is Marriage Education necessary and valuable?
By Yehuda Ayalon
A loving marriage relationship is probably the most important source of happiness and success. Investing time, money and effort to make your marriage happy is one of your best investments in your life.
Young couples ... Views: 1731
We hear a lot about ensuring that all sorts of things are sustainable. It's a real buzzword these days. You hear the terms sustainable energy, sustainable business practices, sustainable everything. In the business arena sustainability is a key concern. But you do not tend to hear very much ... Views: 1378
By the time I turned 40 and was single - dating seemed like speaking a foreign language. Add to this confusion, divorce and children; it felt like dating had taken a turn for the worse.
I'd been set up by an old flame - he was willing to pass on his second hand goods. Apparently I came with ... Views: 1698
Alright, so you’re saying my wife fell out of love with me, and you’re hurting.
It does hurt, I know that.
You’re feeling like your world is falling apart. You’re wondering how you’re ever going to be able to live without her again. You’re even wondering what you could have, or should ... Views: 9560