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Nothing happens by accident - I really don’t believe in coincidences - I believe that things are meant to be - or at least I thought I did - but I really didn’t ‘get-it’ until I read the poem ‘LETTING GO TAKES LOVE’.
I guess it was just meant to be - my Divine needing me to ‘get-it’. I love ... Views: 17934
There was a woman that I thoroughly loved; no one could’ve convinced me that I was not going to marry this woman. When I gazed upon her she would always inquire, “What are you staring at?” When God created her, He was having the time of His life; she was His meticulous commitment to ... Views: 9884
What is Love?
by
William Cottringer, Ph.D.
I have studied the "love phenomenon" personally and professionally for over 40 years now and would like to share a few things I have discovered in my studies. First, it may be that we are being artificial and limiting in trying to describe and ... Views: 960
What happens when people feel their own mortality? In Dr. Raymond Moody’s book, Life After Death, people described their experience of temporarily dying and then being brought back to life. Almost everyone who had a near death experience reported being asked two questions during the time of ... Views: 814
The very word Love often is associated with much solecism. It is misunderstood. It is misjudged. Along with other ‘misses’ it is misrepresented, mishandled, misinformed and misinterpreted. So, what is this ‘Love’ that makes the world go round, as they say. Is it merely an ordinary vacuous ... Views: 2085
Love and Marriage in Canada
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
We fell in love in Canada today. You can, of course, read that ... Views: 2927
The Purpose of Marriage - Is It To Have Children?
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
In the last several months a great deal has ... Views: 3938
Love, Marriage, and Prenuptial Agreements
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
We believe that Prenuptial Agreements are a bad ... Views: 5201
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! There are usually two kinds of music at receptions; the mood music is played during the meal, & the energetic music that keeps your guests dancing the night away. There are a variety of entertainment solutions including many live bands in Michigan & DJs ... Views: 1078
If you are in the throes of a break up you did not initiate or want, I have found a few tips you may find helpful in order to transition as smoothly as possible:
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Cut off all unnecessary communication: don't talk to your ex unless it is absolutely necessary (such as you have children ... Views: 6126
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Older adults between the ages of 57 and 85 make sex an important part of their lives! That’s the results of the first comprehensive national survey of the sexual attitudes and behaviors of older adults as reported in the New England Journal of ... Views: 2412
A good relationship bond is either there or it isn’t and much of
that is based on your past life karma with each other, level of
self-awareness, personal timing, and degree of challenging or
rewarding individual love karma.
By degree of love karma, we’re referring to the type of ... Views: 888
Although you can’t cheat fate, affirmations are
helpful in dealing with life’s challenges.
Single and hating it? Say the following until you
feel and mean it, and then say it some more: “I’m
single for a reason, so I’ll accept and be grateful
for things as they are and make the most of ... Views: 1226
What Makes Love and Relationships Last?
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
We have been saying for years and our 25 years of ... Views: 3521
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, AUGUST 31, 2007
The Love Of My Life
(SET ITAL) This week's column is written by a special guest, my husband Horace Osborne Ferguson, III, DVM. If you're a regular reader, you know him as Sam. (END ITAL)
Wow, did I ever hit the ... Views: 1110
The only truly fulfilling and perfect love is self-love.
Many of us want to find our “soul mate,” a term often used
to imply that there is one perfect partner for each individual.
Metaphysically defined, a soul mate is simply someone you
have known in a prior existence. Each person may ... Views: 6014
Women's silk underwear is something every woman deserves to have in her wardrobe. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of soft and sheer women's silk underwear against the skin. Unfortunately, many women deny themselves the pleasure of women's silk underwear because they believe silk is ... Views: 6083
The camisole has been around for centuries. Originally, a camisole was worn to keep sweat away from clothing, and it was worn to add a clothing layer for warmth. It was generally made of muslin. Today, the camisole still serves those two purposes - but functional has turned into oh-so-much ... Views: 1020
It's difficult for many of us to see how responsible
non-monogamy can save a relationship; fears and
misconceptions about this emotionally touchy subject
can interfere with understanding how it can be beneficial.
Although non-monogamy is not for everyone and is not
always appropriate, below ... Views: 2414
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***iPod Love - by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, the Official Guides To Love
iPod Love
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
When the iPod came on the market several years ago, we were one of the first “kids” ... Views: 2355
Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy’s personal secretary tells her memories of the first time she saw Jacqueline Bouvier walking into Senator John F. Kennedy’s office. First impression was of a very young woman, with dark, tousled hair, poised and friendly as she walked past the girls in the Senator’s ... Views: 3271
Reflections on Love and Marriage
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
This coming Monday, we will celebrate our 41st Wedding ... Views: 5186
Giving attention is a very basic form of love, which is obvious everywhere, and a way that love can be expressed very simply in the world. What you give your attention to is what you love. If you are giving your attention to the egoic mind, then you are loving that and joining with that. If you ... Views: 1145
How will I know I am in Love?
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
In our many interviews with people “in love” we ask them, perhaps, the most revealing question of the interview – “How will I know I am in love?” We have heard very consistent answers. And conversely, many people ... Views: 10478
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***Physical Love - by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, the Official Guides To Love
Physical Love
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz
"the marriage doctors" and Authors of the Book
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
(Available at Amazon.com) .
Now that we have your attention . . .
We completed our annual physical ... Views: 5087
There's a lot more to the magic of love than we could ever cover in one short article, but here's a good place to start.
See, we're so used to hoarding our love - locking it up; hiding it; keeping it safe - that we often end up hiding it even from ourselves. So often, we don't allow ourselves ... Views: 1337
Too often we feel alone. But there is always someone ready to take our
hand. There is a beautiful story of an overworked nurse who escorted a
tired, young man to her patient's bedside. Leaning over and speaking
loudly to the elderly patient, she said, "Your son is here."
With great effort, his ... Views: 952
My life is a divine testimony of a mother's love for her child. Dexter my son faced death. Again and again my love would defeat any negative outcome.Victory in adversity gives salient reasons for overcoming obstacles and impossibilities. Such is the case that is esteemed from a loving ... Views: 2437
Today I want to share with you letters I read in Essence magazine – written to and from Iyanla Vanzant -
DEAR IYANLA,
At 46 I've got three kids and four grandchildren. I also have three ex-husbands. Looking back, I realize I wasn't in love with any of these men. After my third divorce, ... Views: 2073
You are you most valuable asset and you deserve all the care, love and attention you can give. Realise that you are special. There never has been nor will there ever be another like you. You are a collectors item and should be cherished.
So often we put ourselves in 2nd place having been ... Views: 1540
All of us at one time or another, perhaps even right now have experienced the pains of losing someone. This someone could be a parent, a sibling, a child, a spouse, a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Each of us has felt the pain. Some of us feel it in our solar plexus and lose our appetite. Some of us ... Views: 2036
What is real love?
Real love is an energy that supports us in feeling good. When we feel genuine self-love and self-worth we experience ourselves as good enough and capable. There is a reverence and humility that accompanies this deep knowing that we are valuable just for being our unique ... Views: 4910
She loved it when he used to send her flowers and take her out dancing. Their dates made her feel special. Somehow though, their dates gradually changed from a night out with dinner and dancing to staying home with take-out food and movie rentals. Soon, they did not even go out for the videos, ... Views: 2241
During my second year of college I was scouting around for a place to
live, as my roommates had dropped out of school. One Sunday after
church the pastor put his arm around me and said, "I understand you
need a room. Our daughter is in New Zealand this year as a foreign
exchange student. If ... Views: 944
When we carve out a niche in our busy lives to do the sorts of things that feed our soul, we are affirming our self worth, acknowledging that we crave and deserve our own undivided attention.
When we claim the psychic space and set aside the personal time to pursue the knowledge and mastery of ... Views: 1582
It is natural for everyone to want to find a special someone to share their life with. Everybody dreams of one day meeting their real soulmate – someone who shares their dreams and ideas and someone they feel totally happy and comfortable with. For ...Using the Law of Attraction to find True ... Views: 8722
Everything Reminds Me of Him
I can never forget about him. No one was as cheerful or as understanding as he was. The places that I go to, the songs that I listen to, and even when I look at my face in the mirror, I remember him… I guess it’s my destiny to live in such pain; I don't ... Views: 4699
Is there anyone who really loves ME?
Yes! There is Someone who created you and who loves you intensely!
The chances are good that, like most people’s, your ideas about God are off the wall. A lot of people think He is a heartless bogeyman, ready to punish us for every little thing we do ... Views: 3607
At the age of twenty I wrote my first love letter. It was the most intense hour of my life. Nothing else existed when I wrote it. My sister said that ‘they’ said the best letters are the ones in which you start writing, write, stop writing and you can’t remember a single word you wrote.
That’s ... Views: 1114
Long before we get to the table laden with turkey, cranberry sauce and over-sweet yams, we are face-to-face with the challenge of gratitude all month long. For most of the year we can duck and dodge the pressures of thankfulness, and most people do -- openly admitting to having a terrible time ... Views: 1076
Can love succeed based on the differences between two people instead of just what they have in common? Definitely yes. In fact, the only way we can truly feel loved is through attention and celebration for the ways we are distinctly different from our spouse or partner.
No matter how much two ... Views: 924
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THE MASKS WE WEAR - by Judith Sherven, Ph,.D. & James Sniechowski, Ph.D.
Submitted on Jul 20, 2007 from
Have you ever put on an act? You know, trying to appear a particular way, hoping people will believe something about you, something that isn't real but you want it to be. Or perhaps there's something about you you're not comfortable with and rather than be exposed you cover it over by putting on ... Views: 5237
When you choose your partner and commence a full-time relationship, you look forward to a future of love, support, encouragement, communication and intimacy. Right? After all, you are in love and you're both on your best behavior--so how could there be any problems?
Learning how to establish ... Views: 815
What is love? A ticklish sensation around the heart that can't be scratched? Something I earn when I do things right? Something I give to get something back? My definition is that love is a willingness to choose to see and respond to the best in another person, even when they are not ... Views: 802
THE FOOTHILLS FOCUS August 20, 2003
Parable: Putting Your House in Order
DR. BESS S. PERMUT
Focus Columnist
Once there lived a pontiff who was rich in land and wisdom. He had two beautiful daughters who were rich in nothing but these world goods. Now it came to pass that although ... Views: 1352
What images and notions come up for you when think about love? Warm and fuzzy feelings, babies cooing, romance, heartache, loyalty and devotion are some associations to the word. Do you have any rules and expectations around love such as how people should treat their loved ones, or who you can ... Views: 993
If you were to ask someone if they wanted more love in their life, it is very unlikely that they would say they wouldn’t and that they don’t need any more. That would be like saying you don’t need to ever eat again because you are full. Even if our lives were full of love we would still want ... Views: 1205
Intimate relationships are our universities of the heart. In them we will find challenges and blessings, ecstasy and sorrows, and come to realise that our lovers are our mirrors and we are reflected in their eyes. If there is conflict in our relationships it is because we ourselves are in ... Views: 964
Love is the order of the universe and we are its atoms.
It is the ocean and we are its drops…
Through love the heavens are brilliant;
Without love even suns and moons are eclipsed
Wherever and whenever people meet, it is never long before love and relationships – their problems and confusions, ... Views: 940
INVITATION STATIONERY
Part One
SAVE THE DATE CARDS
A ‘Save the Date’ card is usually posted to guests some 12 months before your wedding date. Is this a necessity or a waste of money? My answer is that it depends. If you are having a summer wedding then they can be extremely useful to your ... Views: 691