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- Ask Lisa Daily: How Can I Stop Freaking Out? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyLisa, I believe that a large part of my problem is that I am what you referred to as a “nightmare girl.” I don’t know how to be one of those “dream girls.” I can hold it together for anywhere from a few days to a few months, but I get sooooo incredibly insecure that I end up losing it. I ...
Views: 2779(5 votes) - Common Problems with Online Dating - by Submitted on May 16, 2010 from Terri SmithFinding that special someone is something that most people dream about. Unfortunately doing that is not as easy as it sounds. Everyone has advice for you as to how you should go about finding that potential soul mate. However, no method is fool proof. In fact, due to dating desperation many ...
Views: 13025(5 votes) - Dating and Courtship Difference - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Clifford MacHanterIn this present era of new generation young and mature individuals are already engage in what we call relationship. But before we go in to its deeper meaning let us consider some important ideas on how to define dating from courtship. There is a difference between dating and courtship, although ...
Views: 1631(5 votes) - Humility - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Radomir SamardzicThis is what the dictionary says about what we mean by Humility: humility |(h)yo??milit?| noun a modest or low view of one's own importance; humbleness. But is this really enough to grasp the whole importance humility plays, or does NOT play in our lives? Is being humble a positive or ...
Views: 4119(5 votes) - Use Feng Shui to Enhance Relationships or Find Your Partner - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Beata KulitskayaI’m no philosopher but I am a good observer. And in my 15-years as a Feng Shui consultant, I have met many people anxious to find a loving partner and many more who are looking for ways to spice up their marriage. I remind my clients that love isn’t just a “feeling,” it’s an action. And Feng ...
Views: 1790(5 votes) - Can Your Friends or Lovers Trust You? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2009 from Royane RealOne of the most common reasons that friendships and romantic relationships break up is because one of the people involved in the relationship or friendship decides he or she really cannot trust the other person. It may be that the other person has let them down too many times, or has been ...
Views: 1885(8 votes) - How to Write the First Message to Her - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterAmong the list of hippest things at the moment is internet dating. You are able to find women online with just a couple of clicks. There once was a stigma round online dating, but seriously a man would have to be brainless not to try it out. Consider This. Certainly you'll find lots of ...
Views: 2806(8 votes) - Is My Boyfriend Into Me? Signs That You Really Have Found Prince Charming - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2010 from Sarah NicholsHow often have you asked yourself this question? And how can you really be sure that the guy you have been dating steady for almost a year now is really into you? Well, here are some tips and advice on how you can tell if you really have found Prince Charming: • He cares about you. Genuinely ...
Views: 3403(8 votes) - Singles: Tips for Finding Mr. or Ms. Right - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2009 from Krystal KuehnOne of the most important decisions you will ever make is the decision of who you will spend the rest of your life with. Why is this so important? It is important because the direction of your life will be greatly influenced by that very choice. With time couples become alike in many ways. ...
Views: 3283(8 votes) - The BEST Online Dating Photos - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Christophe YoungSo, what are the BEST photos to use in your Internet Dating Profile? Well, first lets talk about the importance of having good photos and why it’s important. Imagine that there is a very attractive, but lonely woman sitting at her computer and she goes online to search for ...
Views: 5136(8 votes) - Why is He Ignoring Me? 3 Effective Tips to Understand - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2010 from Sarah NicholsThere are times when you are dating one guy, and suddenly he just ignores you as if you do not or never exist. Surely, you would be prompted to blurt out the question "why is he ignoring me?" Then you call him and ask why he is giving you the cold shoulder and he does not say anything and just ...
Views: 7780(8 votes) - Creating Emotionally Safe Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2010 from Michael Fehlauer1. Safe relationships involve suspending judgment – I can’t begin to recount the times I’ve jumped to conclusions regarding my judgment of someone’s motives. Even though “what” someone has done is clear, “why” they did it is rarely as obvious. It takes time and patience to discover what is in ...
Views: 2577(11 votes) - ***How to Write a Killer Email and Get Dates Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWant to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. When I was online, I remember how it felt. I’d send an endless number of emails that seemed to go into the pit of Internet rejection hell. The truth is, there is a lot of ...
Views: 2371(3 votes) - ***Is He Really Not That Into You Or Are Your Expectations Too Skewed? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMy editor Brenda who helped me edit my book out of her gratitude for the advice I have given him in the past dealing with her own emotionally unavailable man, told everyone how profoundly transformational my book is. She thinks this book is an excellent rebuttal that every woman should read to ...
Views: 12134(3 votes) - ***The 3 Things You Must Do to Increase Your Volume Without Shouting - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2012 from Nancy DanielsRecently, I worked with an NFL player in voice and presentation skills. During his 3rd session, he discovered the techniques for increasing his volume without shouting which I refer to as projection. He was stunned. It did not hurt his throat; it sounded better; and, his voice carried with ...
Views: 3011(3 votes) - ***Want to Heard in the Club Scene? - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Nancy DanielsYes, your lack of volume is the issue. I can’t tell you how many people get in touch with me because of this problem. And, it doesn’t just affect those who are soft-spoken. The amount of volume needed in a loud bar or club (or even a wedding) is at least 50% more that what I refer to as ...
Views: 2305(3 votes) - 5 Best Relationship Break-Up Advice You Should Know - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2011 from Jenna JamesStill can’t push the stop button from the music player that tunes your favourite break up song? It might sound odd, but making your life more miserable won’t bring back that someone that you used to have. Stop asking yourself if it is really over because you know well it is. Breaking up with ...
Views: 822(3 votes) - 5 Ways to Ruin an Interview or End a Date - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Adam YoungThe interview is over, and you wait patiently to hear back from the hiring manager. You were prepared, you have an impressive resume, and you answered all the questions with confidence. A week later you call back, and they have given the job to another candidate. You are having drinks, ...
Views: 2958(6 votes) - 8 Great Questions to Ask on a First Date - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Melody GlatzSo, you're about to go on a First Date? With more Americans utilizing the internet to meet their match, what do you talk about on a first date? Haven't you already asked and answered all the questions on your profile and/or in email exchanges, chat sessions, texting, phone calls? Not even ...
Views: 6108(6 votes) - Abandonment: Why Do Some People Fear Abandonment? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe fear of abandonment can affect someone's life in many different ways. There is the internal experience and the external experience. And this doesn't mean that abandonment actually has to occur, in order for one to feel abandoned. As a result of the power and the imagination that the mind ...
Views: 2587(3 votes) - Accessing the Love Connection - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from Charity LimulaDating can be a very interesting or frustrating time in one's life. When we are in a relationship, we always wonder where this relationship will lead to. Everyone wants some kind of commitment from the other person and we all do things to make sure that we are not wasting our time with a ...
Views: 1243(6 votes) - Advantages of Online Dating - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeThe online community does offer some advantages. The most valuable lets people chat and get to know each other before meeting. This lets people ask some serious questions before any emotions or attraction sets in and clouds your judgement. It also lets you ‘block’ those people who are pursuing ...
Views: 9010(3 votes) - Alpha male or bully? - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2010 from M.K. Joneshttp://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-10130-Cincinnati-Communication-Skills-Examiner~y2009m10d30-Alpha-male-or-bully
Views: 1431(6 votes) - Avoid Dangerous Dating Personalities - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeWhen coaching post divorce, one of the first things I do is introduce clients to the different types of people they will run into. It is vital to understand that some people have baggage. Also, some personality types just do not mesh. In the past people dated from work or social settings. There ...
Views: 2800(3 votes) - Break Ups: How to Move on and Grow from Past Relationships - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2012 from Marni BattistaHere at Dating with Dignity we get this question all the time: how can I move on and grow from my past relationship? Since break up advice is some of the most sought-after information for Dignity Daters, we put it right here for you. Getting over an ex is going to turn you into the new ...
Views: 1789(3 votes) - Dating Advice: Why Won't He Make the First Move? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2007 from Terry Hernon MacDonladCategory: Relationships :: Sexuality Word Count: 526 Dating Advice: When a Guy Won't Make the First Move By Terry Hernon MacDonald What does it mean when the man you're dating won't make the first move? The easy answer: He's just interested in being a friend. But the easy answer doesn't ...
Views: 16692(6 votes) - Five Good Rules for The First Post Divorce Date - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Suzanne WiebePreparing for the first date, post divorce, can be traumatic, unfortunately it doesn’t get any better after time. Even the most mature, well balanced people get their share of jitters at the thought of a first date. The key is to be prepared, to know the rules, and to prepare for a fun time. ...
Views: 2571(3 votes) - Fixing The Break-Up With Girlfriend or Boyfriend Without Arguments - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaThe pain of any breakup is quite complex for most couples to pass through. Eventually, many couples begin yearning for their partners and often start entertaining the desire of fixing the break-up with their ex boyfriend or girlfriend. Nevertheless, if your initiatives at fixing the split up ...
Views: 2925(3 votes) - How To Cultivate Emotional Attraction So You Can Keep The Man You Adore - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen are visual creatures, while looks will get you in the door, in the long run it is emotional attraction that will keep him glued to you. What is emotional attraction to a man? It is everything in a woman that makes him feel supported, accepted and respected because all of that is the ...
Views: 20149(3 votes) - How To Get Your Partner To Open Up - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Laurel FaySometimes it seems as if communicating effectively with one’s partner is an impossible task – overshadowed only by their ability (or lack thereof) to communicate with us. What gets in the way? Why is it so hard to talk to the one you love and be really, deeply understood? That’s what we all ...
Views: 1305(3 votes) - How to Ruin a Love Relationship with Modern Technology - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2010 from Cherokee BillieAs a psychic advisor the majority of my calls are from people with problems in their love life. What I have observed that is ruining relationships is modern technology. Nowadays people use Text Messaging, Facebook, Myspace, and E-Mail as ways of communicating with someone that they are in a ...
Views: 4814(6 votes) - List Of Signs He Is Flirting: How To Know If A Guy Is Flirting With You - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2009 from Michael LeeIf you’re a woman, trying to decipher a man’s signals can get very confusing sometimes. Don’t you just wish there was a general way to know the list of signs he is flirting? I have this male friend who’s been acting stranger than usual lately. It’s almost like he’s morphing into one of those ...
Views: 6317(9 votes) - Positively Reuniting With Your Ex Girlfriend or Boyfriend - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaBreaking apart with a person you have really been fond of is in no way a pleasing experience. Making things even worse will be the often determination of fixing the break-up with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend because you are not certain concerning the kind of reaction from your ex boyfriend or ...
Views: 6726(3 votes) - Post Divorce Dating - for Beginners - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeIt is very difficult making the transition from married to single. Post Divorce trauma can take years to overcome without the help of a coach or counsellor. Many people handle the emotions and rejection by withdrawing. Others step out into dating, often for the wrong reason. They are trying to ...
Views: 1740(3 votes) - Prepare for a wise spouse choice - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2011 from Paula WhiddenAre you single and struggling? Are you challenged by the emotions you feel and the wisdom you hope you have? Are you fed up with failing to see partner flaws only to find yourself flailing about like a fish who dreams of being tossed back into the water? In my daily blog read, I adore the ...
Views: 619(3 votes) - Relationship Red Flags: 5 Tips for Identifying Your Negotiables and Non-Negotiables - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Sharon RivkinYou’re in a new relationship, and you’re starting to see some red flags, warning you that the relationship may not be a good bet, but does that mean you should leave? How many red flags does it take to make that decision? How do you know if the red flags mean future disaster, or are just a ...
Views: 3234(3 votes) - Rules of online dating Service - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2011 from Probir DasWith the advent of internet nowadays, the life of most people has become quite easy and smooth. In fact the function of Internet too is no longer limited to a few areas; rather it is becoming more and more multi-faceted today. The internet is no longer used for the purpose of researching, it is ...
Views: 720(3 votes) - Some Common Characteristics of Low Self Esteem - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2011 from guy brugadaIf you think about it, you'll find that low self esteem is like a mental jail, a set of rules, opinions and values, imposed by our own mind, which limit our abilities, our way of thinking and our life. Do you like what you see in that mirror? Do you feel pride, compassion and respect about ...
Views: 3950(3 votes) - Speed Dating - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from carole railtonSpeed Dating by Carole Railton All I really want is a tall handsome man who is well paid or retired and living well, easy going and of course, emotionally intelligent, on top of his game, own house, hair, teeth, fit, agile, good at all things. A great sense of humour. Also, he needs to be ...
Views: 1696(9 votes) - Suddenly Single: How to Reinvent Yourself After Heartbreak - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanWhether you just got out of a relationship, or have been struggling to heal your broken heart for some time now, figuring out how to move on can be confusing, fear-inducing, and downright uncomfortable. Not only do you have to let go of your past, but you’ve got to be willing to embrace the ...
Views: 9596(6 votes) - The Most Basic Reasons Why Women Leave Men - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Mika MaddelaYou're one of the good guys, aren't you? So why did she decide to leave you? Maybe you thought you've been doing good so far or at least believed that the relationship is still going strong despite the faults. Here I'll tell you the shocking secret of why women leave men. 1 - You're ...
Views: 1553(3 votes) - The Real Reasons Why Men Cheat - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2013 from Marni BattistaMen cheat. Women cheat. People cheat. It’s true. The question many of us have at Dating with Dignity is, why? We’ve compiled a list of the REAL reasons why men cheat. So what is the MAIN reason men cheat? The answer may surprise you. Most women assume men cheat because of sexual ...
Views: 1485(3 votes) - The Two Driving Forces That Determine How Successful We Are When We Want To Approach A Woman - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2007 from Jesse AllenApproaching a woman, like every decision we choose to make in our life, depends on two things: Avoiding pain and attaining pleasure. There's your answer to what drives us. Easy eh? These two concepts are the ONLY two driving forces that determine what we choose to follow through with. ...
Views: 2529(6 votes) - The Way to Get Her Back Forever - Effective Methods to Get Your Girl Back - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Simone BrownDid you just get a bad breakup with your woman and are thinking of having her back? If you believe you still love your ex-girlfriend, then it’s time to find out how to get her back for good. So you’ve met the perfect girl and you decided to court her, until you became a couple… when all of a ...
Views: 1660(3 votes) - The “Un-Ex” - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederI was in a long distance relationship over the internet and it ended 5 weeks ago. Basically I screwed up in silly ways and hurt her. I quit for a day, but came back and after staying away for another day she added me again during that first week (she said she'll always love me.) Over the next ...
Views: 1364(6 votes) - Three Reasons to Send Your Love a Sweet Text Message - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Ron VannHow to show your boyfriend that you care about him? How to make your girlfriend feel loved? Try sending your loved one a short love message or love poem telling him or her ‘I love you’. It’s personal and immediate, whether via SMS or via more recent messaging services like Whatsapp. There are at ...
Views: 2105(3 votes) - Time is the Essence of Love - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2012 from Lisa OliverWhen we are in love, time seems to fly by as our world is governed by the next meeting, the next contact, the next kiss. The minutes take hours to pass when we are waiting to meet our loved ones after work; but pass by so quickly as we indulge in hour-long phone calls. Time has another ...
Views: 4062(3 votes) - Tired of Being Single - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder: I am a 36 year old woman who has been single for 3 years and I'm tired of it. I feel I'm of average attractiveness, I have a good job as an accountant, I run (marathons even!), hike, travel, have lots of friends, etc. I often hear advice from my attached friends, but the advice is ...
Views: 6583(3 votes) - Dating and Numerology, Numbers 1-9 Personified--How Each Behaves Romantically - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloThe root numbers 1-9 each symbolize unique qualities and are expressed in various forms, including balanced, over-balanced, and under-balanced energy. The specific form of the number expressed depends on the symbolic support or mitigation of the other hundreds of considerations in the ...
Views: 5958(16 votes) - 5 Ways to Avoid Awkward Moments When Meeting Someone New - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Adam YoungMeeting someone for the first time can be very unnerving, whether it is a business client, a date, or someone who approaches you in at a social function. Trying to maintain an interesting conversation, remaining composed, and finding common interests can be extremely difficult, and even those ...
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