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Although a woman can want to experience a relationship with a man that is healthy and functional, there are numerous things that can get in the way if this actually taking place. And one of these things is when a man is controlling.
To a one degree or another, both men and women are ... Views: 5065
Parent-Teacher Conferences, A Time to Celebrate Strengths
It is parent-teacher conference time and you arranged your schedule three months in advance to attend. If you are like most parents, you feel a certain amount of anxiety around this event. You attend hoping there won't be any surprises ... Views: 5047
Here's a question to ask yourself: Are parents who take their children to many after-school classes better parents than those who don't? Thought provoking, isn't it?
With the amount of choices that exist today, parents feel pressured to send their children to music class, dance class, ... Views: 4981
Here’s a tasty recipe that is easy to make and is simply delicious! It contains none of the foods that irritate a newborn’s digestive system, so as a breastfeeding mom, you can enjoy the food now and have a calm, happy baby afterwards.
Throughout time, many breastfeeding mothers have noticed ... Views: 4892
Research has shown that a young baby can start to distinguish between night and day from as young as two weeks with a little gentle guidance. Here are six simple strategies that work.
1 – In the day, keep the house light and bright. Take your baby out for walks in the fresh air. Even if he’s ... Views: 4892
It is important to transfer your values to your children. They won't pick up on them unless taught. But for some reason we fear to do so or we don't know how. Read on to discover how you can transfer those good values to your children.
“Praise the Lord! I Found One!”
These are the words ... Views: 4887
It could be said that to some degree all mothers are controlling and that they have to be. From the very beginning a child has to have the right discipline and guidance to develop.
However, what happens when this control is taken to the extreme and the child is taken advantage of?
A ... Views: 4772
Does the homework battle so typical with your hyperactive or A.D.D. child have you at the end of your rope? Relax. We have some tried-and-try ADHD information that should get your A.D.D. child on the right homework path.
The hyperactive or A.D.D. child especially needs consistency, a work ... Views: 4757
For many years, men have been seen as being one way and women as being another way. And part of this related to men being the ones who were independent and the women as being dependent. So a man would be an example of the masculine on the outside and on the inside and a women’s outer femininity ... Views: 4641
By all reports, adults are becoming ruder, and children aren't learning manners either. 82% of Americans polled think children's manners are worse today than when they were children, and they're concerned.
In order to respect himself or herself, a child needs to learn to respect their parents ... Views: 4599
You are searching for things to say to get your ex boyfriend back. It is totally clear because you have been at a loss for words from the time when the relationship ended. You are confuse on the thing you could probably utter that would bring your ex boyfriend back. Maybe you have attempted ... Views: 4582
I have asked countless number of children “Is getting mad bad?” Very close to 100% answered yes. This has made me very curious as to the message we are presenting to children about anger. It has made me wonder how we adults express our anger and how that affects our children’s perspective ... Views: 4554
Wheelchair dancing or adaptive dancing as it is also called is growing rapidly in popularity and has been in existence for more than twenty years. There are many different forms. Sometimes it's a matter of two people doing their own spontaneous "thing". If the man is a wheelchair user his ... Views: 4542
News of an impending war, terrorism alerts, and the economy has created an enormous amount of stress for many adults and this stress greatly affects our children. When we are fearful, are children are fearful. When we are stressed, our children are stressed. So what steps can we take to help ... Views: 4542
Kids' coloring pages printed from net have become an alternative to coloring books purchased in the store.
Parents have a excellent resource in the internet for free printables and coloring pages for their kids. Coloring pages and activity sheets of all types are free of cost for anyone with a ... Views: 4539
Early waking for a little one under the age of two is common and parents find it the most difficult sleep issue to resolve.
Here are six suggestions to improve things quickly.
1 - Decide on the time you’re happy to get up and start the day as a family. 6am isn’t much fun but that is a ... Views: 4525
I know that as parents we’ve all wondered, “Why the heck is she behaving this way?” Or “Why on earth can’t he just behave?”
I’d like to offer you some ideas today about common causes of a child’s misbehavior. I’ll also offer some pointers on how to address the misbehavior if you get a gut ... Views: 4479
When it comes to dynamics in relationships that cause problems and a fair amount of frustration, there are two common patterns of behaviour. One of those is when one is attracted to people who are unavailable. So they desire to be another person and yet continually end up being attracted to ... Views: 4446
Not every part of a human being develops at the same rate, and this is to be expected. If one was to look at nature and see how a tree grows, they will soon see that the branches are not all the same length. Some are longer than others and at the same time, it hasn’t affected the tree. It is ... Views: 4398
It is a human need to feel a sense of power; with the most important power of all said to be based around having a sense of personal power. This is more of an inner power, where one is generally in control of themselves, as opposed to being in control of others.
And when it comes to the area ... Views: 4396
When you’re standing in your kitchen, and you’re fighting back tears and rage as your son is calling you “b---h,” you don’t have time to do much of anything but react. But when he’s stormed out the door or up to his room, the question arises in your mind yet again: “Why is he like this? Why does ... Views: 4320
For hundreds, if not thousands of years, parents have known that reading bedtime stories can help kids relax and fall asleep more easily. They also help develop reading skills and in emotional child development, but you may not be aware that they also act as a form of hypnosis. In which case ... Views: 4319
Failure To Thrive is a delay in normal increases in height and weight that might lead to delays in the developmental process and maturation.
Failure To Thrive is a diagnosis given to babies who are consistently less than the normal weight for their age or who do not gain weight for unclear ... Views: 4311
This is something that can come under many names, from self esteem, to self worth, self belief and confidence. And no matter what words are used, what it ultimately comes down to is the feeling or sense of being enough.
Here one feels that who they are is enough, and this relates to who they ... Views: 4309
It isn’t unusual to overhear conversations like this. One lady told another that she should NOT stay in her marriage for the sake of her children. She offered the usual: make yourself happy; why should you be punished to stay with that guy just because he fathered your children; over time the ... Views: 4305
This week, I received a couple of questions about toddlers who hit and bite from parents wondering how to teach their youngsters about emotional intelligence. I also received similar questions about teens which I will cover in next week’s blog.
I was drawn to the toddler questions when my ... Views: 4301
• To produce a SMART baby, the first and most important factor is for mother and child to be healthy and happy. After baby is born, nurturing becomes significant. Your baby needs a happy and contented family to provide an environment that is conducive for his development. Music, educational ... Views: 4281
Once there was a boy Dhriti in a town who loved winning more than anything. The boy used to win almost every game that he played. His peers and people who know him considered himself to be a champion. But in reality, the boy was a cheater. He knew all the tricks of the trade. No one could defeat ... Views: 4256
There is said to be two types of shame. One is described as normal and healthy and the other is said to be abnormal and dysfunctional.
Healthy Shame
This shame is part of having a healthy conscience; with certain behaviours and actions being kept in check by this feeling. And when ones ... Views: 4227
Backpacks are extremely helpful when it comes to transferring schoolbooks, supplies and lunches from home to school and back again. However, the type and size of your child’s backpack could cause your child to experience headaches or back pain. Scientific research has shown that more than 50% ... Views: 4198
In today’s technical world of computers and virtual reality where our children are socially interacting with video games, myspace, facebook and twitter real action takes a back seat to virtual action.
If you are a parent it is important to create and enforce consequences that are real action ... Views: 4186
Do you believe in reincarnation? Past lives? A regular, hard-working, church-going couple, Andrea and Bruce Leininger were faced with these very questions when their two-year-old son, James, began have unremitting nightmares and shouting the words, “Plane on fire! Little man can’t get ... Views: 4181
The other day I was reflecting on life’s journey. In my youth I had looked at life as a straight path. My goal was always clear in my mind as to my spiritual direction. Then, as the saying goes, “life happened? Now, in my forties, I sense that life is more like a maze than a straight path. ... Views: 4181
My favorite radio stations are playing carols, greeting cards are arriving in my mailbox and more and more houses are twinkling as I drive home at night. It’s official – the holidays are here.
I’ve been thinking about the holidays and how to write a blog about best tips to survive and enjoy ... Views: 4180
Selecting the best school for your child with ADHD
There are numerous articles offering advice on public school accommodations for students with ADHD. This article focuses on finding the best specialized private school or home school option for your child and making that option as affordable ... Views: 4152
Ex-Etiquette where there are no children involved
Divorce without children
If your divorce does not involve children from the marriage or the relationship, there is technically no reason to maintain contact with your ex. That’s the good and the bad news. The good news is that you won’t ... Views: 4143
We all cherish and want our children to be well mannered. Good Manners is a particular trait that travels with us throughout our lives. Whenever we come across a well mannered kid, we appreciate the kid’s parents for inculcating such manners in the kid. It is that particular learning where the ... Views: 4137
Nancy came to work the other day in a pretty good mood. It ended when her boss suddenly threw a fit over a simple typo in the first draft of a letter that he had dictated.
Red-faced and irate, her boss flung the letter on her desk and said; “What kind of stupidity is this, Nancy? Do you have any ... Views: 4098
Traits of a Good Father
The wisest man to have ever lived once said that the glory of sons is their fathers. We all have memories of our fathers from our childhood. Some of us have pleasant memories while others have painful memories that create a wound in a child’s heart, whether ... Views: 4084
Parenting isn't about having all the answers. It's about helping children learn to think for themselves and rediscovering yourself and the world through the eyes of your child. Socratic Parenting focuses on knowing yourself, knowing your child, and becoming the change you wish to see in your ... Views: 4081
It is ironic that unlike college students, school children do not develop fear of essay writing. Often, they got enthusiastic over activities like this. Since this stage provides children with interest to explore everything, parents must learn to teach essay writing to their children in the most ... Views: 4070
To be seen and recognised is something that most human beings want to experience. And while this is part of being human and nothing to feel ashamed of, these needs are going to vary from person to person.
For some people, receiving a moderate amount of attention will be enough to enhance ... Views: 4055
To breastfeed or not ought to be a well-considered personal choice for every mother. But fear for poor sleep should never be a reason not to breastfeed. The positive effect of breastfeeding on baby’s sleep is easily illustrated by looking at a few common myths and misconceptions.
Breast is ... Views: 4039
Have you ever heard of "conduct disorder"? Well, in case you haven't, you might like to know that it's one of more than 120 disorders listed at depression-guide.com.
If you are anxious, shy, or not focused, these are also disorders. Just about every emotion is today considered by the ... Views: 4004
Beautiful Blessing
As a parent, you are in the greatest position to bestow blessings upon your child. Many will just wish for a healthy baby while some are more ambitious: the child must get to a good university and make millions.
Your Wish
Whatever your wish for your child and there ... Views: 4002
Are you tired of disrespectful talk from your kids? Do your children respond with eye-rolling and sarcasm to everything you say? Most—if not all—kids go through phases when they are sassy, mouthy, or disrespectful. As a parent, it’s hard to know when to let it slide—and when to address the ... Views: 3983
To walk all over a carpet or some kind of tiled floor would be normal. This is because the floor has no feelings and very few wants and needs for example. If the floor was used too much it may wear out; so it will need to be cleaned at certain times and it might even need to be replaced after a ... Views: 3978
These days, anger management is a hot topic among educators. More and more, we see angry students committing acts of violence against classmates. Educating the public on the topic of anger management is the best way to help children manage their anger in an appropriate way.
What is anger?
Angry ... Views: 3973
While a woman can say to herself and others that she wants to be in a relationship with a man who is healthy and functional, it doesn’t mean that she will be attracted to a man who is like this. This can relate to woman who can’t seem to attract a guy that is healthy and for women who do attract ... Views: 3971
It is often said that human beings are either independent or dependent and while it can look this way, ultimately we are all interdependent. No one is their own island and each one of us is reliant on others in some way.
This is not to say that everyone has this outlook: Some people can ... Views: 3970