Did you know that the second greatest social fear people have is the fear of starting and carrying on a conversation with someone they don't know. The greatest social fear is speaking in public. Why are we afraid to speak with people we don't know? Perhaps it stems from being told as children ... Views: 597
I am drawn to people with pizzazz, that spark of enthusiasm and excitement about life that makes being in their presence a joy. They smile easily and often and laugh with great energy and pleasure. It feels good to be alive and in their company.
People with pizzazz don't have to be loud and ... Views: 630
Every month I receive numerous emails from people all over North America asking how I got into the speaking business and how they can too. To respond to these many inquiries I wrote Public Speaking for Profit and Pleasure. Here are ten timely tips, from my manual, to get you started on the path ... Views: 1207
In my travels across North America speaking on motivation and human potential I hear the same question asked repeatedly, " How can I become more assertive?" There is no doubt about it, there are people in our lives who are harmful to our health and we don't like it one bit.
I read recently ... Views: 11053
The Motivating Power of Appreciation and Praise by Mike Moore ( How to get the best from the people you work with) http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?praise
While doing some research for a seminar on maximizing human potential I came upon this interesting piece of information. ... Views: 572
We are taught from a early age what is good and what is bad. We define ourselves on on actions good and bad. People tend to focus on the bad and that is how they feel This leaves us twisted. We must define for ourself what is good and bad no one has the right to judge oneself, yet they do and we ... Views: 438
There is power in a smile. The simple act of moving the corners of the mouth upward has the ability to touch the hard hearted and lighten heavy burdens.
Smiling is both evocative and affirming. A smile evokes a response from the one smiled at and affirms their place in the universe. A smile ... Views: 607
LIVE WELL, LAUGH MORE.
THE VALUE OF HUMOUR IN OUR LIVES ............. by Mike Moore Http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?humour
It is impossible to worry while you're laughing.
Humour cuts stress levels in half.
Humour helps us cope, conquer, and carry on.
Train yourself to look for ... Views: 10548
George Bernard Shaw once said that if you find something funny search it for hidden truth. Here are few pearls of wisdom packaged in humour. Enjoy.
1. You wouldn't worry what people thought about you if you only knew how seldom they did.
2. To expect life to treat you fairly because you're a ... Views: 8058
If the '20's were known as "Roaring," the '60's were about "Flower Power," and the '80's were the "Me Generation," then the 2000's will go down as the "Age of Anxiety." Even the June 10, 2002 cover of TIME Magazine is entitled: "Understanding Anxiety: Now more than ever, we are worrying ... Views: 1654
People involved in interpersonal conflict in both business and industry are often too close to the problems to be of any great help in solving them. They feel insecure, uncomfortable and threatened when it comes to expressing their feelings and offering possible solutions. “What will the boss ... Views: 3110
In 1995 I experienced what I suppose is the darkest hour any of can face which is total loss of the will to live and certain death following a long, drawn-out illness. I'd had enough of the stuggle which appeared to be endless either direction I looked. Having studied and practiced meditation ... Views: 658
I believe that public speaking can be rewarding in many ways. First of all it can provide you with an opportunity to earn a fantastic full time or part time income working from home. Groups, organizations and businesses are always looking for informative, entertaining speakers to address their ... Views: 679
I love the night sky. There is something comforting, mysterious and hopeful about standing under a canopy of swirling stars. Each summer I go camping alone in Canada’s beautiful northland to satisfy a hunger for solitude, wilderness and the night sky. Away from city lights there is nothing more ... Views: 770
The vast majority of the workshops I am asked to conduct throughout Canada and the U.S.A.have to do with humor and wellness. It is quite obvious to me that a huge number of people in business, the professions and in private life are unwell.and want to do something to improve the situation. ... Views: 649
About fifteen years ago I had the pleasure of teaching a young woman who was one of the most gifted high school seniors I have ever met. Not only was she brilliant in Math and Science, but she was also extremely talented in the visual arts. She could draw and paint beautifully. When Audrey ... Views: 660
It is quite evident that we are living in one terribly noisy world and it seems to be getting worse every day. Everywhere we go we are accosted by loud, unwanted sound. When we enter elevators, malls and restaurants we are engulfed by musak. I recently had lunch at a popular restaurant and found ... Views: 1441
Twenty four hours a day minus the eight hours we sleep leaves us with 16 productive hours to accomplish things that need to be done at home and at work. Of these 16 hours, a lot of time is wasted due to distractions, interruptions and disorganization. We just don't manage our time well.
THE ... Views: 676
Our culture seems to have elevated the quest for perfection to the status of virtue. When someone is described as a perfectionist they are frequently admired and envied. A perfectionist, in my opinion is someone living in a constant state of dissatisfaction and that isn't healthy. To ... Views: 1791
There are literally millions of words written and spoken each week on enlightened leadership yet the fact remains that low morale, high stress and job dissatisfaction continue to be three of the most serious problems facing the workplace. We seem to be so effectively socialized into top down ... Views: 780
I believe that the ability to stand up and speak in public can literally change your life. Why do I believe this? Because it has changed mine. Here is what public speaking can do for you personally and professionally.
1. It builds confidence. When you experience the thrill of holding an ... Views: 803
Today, more than ever, we need to learn how to handle fear. We are definitely a frightened people and our fear seems to be increasing every day. If we don't learn how to confront and control fear, we risk losing our emotional and physical health and ultimately the joy of living.
A life of fear ... Views: 675
Why do we have such a strong urge to be in the company of others? Even the most reclusive among us can only tolerate solitude for so long. I think part of the answer is found in the fact that we love to have fun, and having fun usually involves people. Laughter is a huge part of social ... Views: 840
It's an all too-familiar picture: a group of middle-aged people huddled in a restaurant struggling to read the menu. Some feeling their arms are too short; others squinting, moving their arms in and out in what's been coined the "trombone syndrome." Still others, rifling through purses or ... Views: 9170
If the eyes are the windows to the soul, then why do so many people need to wear glasses and contacts?
More than half the people in the U.S. need glasses or contacts to see clearly. And the other half thinks it's perfectly normal. Poor vision is the largest epidemic affecting Americans today: ... Views: 4948
After a talk I gave in Niagara Falls recently a woman approached me and shared her father's secret to happiness. She said, " My Father believed that there were four requirements to happiness.
TO BE HAPPY ... 1. You must have someone to love.
2. You must have something meaningful to do.
3. ... Views: 672
There is no doubt about it, parenting teenagers is frustrating and stressful at its worst. At its best it is fun, exciting and fulfilling. The problem is that frustration and stress seems to predominate for such a long time. So how do we cope with the years of turmoil between 12 and 20 so that ... Views: 1267
I am a big believer in living in the moment. I am not big on focusing on what could have been or should have been. I believe it is important for each of us to bless the events of our recent past - not forget them - and look up and out toward what now calls us forth. However, given the magnitude ... Views: 700
I wrote in my book " Embracing the Mystery " that there was nothing as flattering or as rare as the undivided attention of another. The fact is that people just don't listen well. I think it was Mark Twain who wrote that a bore is someone who wants to talk about himself when I want to talk about ... Views: 4312
I spend a great deal of time speaking and writing about the value of a positive attitude. Here is a story about a very old man, his positive attitude and a doctor who should have kept quiet.
Frank, a 90 year old, was being examined by his doctor. When the physical was over they had a little ... Views: 913
1. Take three deep breaths slowly. It really works to relax the body and mind.
2. Relax the tongue. Usually the tongue is held tightly against the teeth. Free it up in the mouth so it can just rest there without tension.
3. Take one minute vacations. In your mind visit places where you find ... Views: 3129
Have you ever found yourself rushing to get somewhere when you have all the time in the world to get there? It's almost as if we have been programmed to move quickly under any and all circumstances.
When your body and mind are in passing gear constantly, it isn't healthy. Your blood pressure ... Views: 675
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Laughter isn't just fun and enjoyable, it's good for our health. Each month modern medicine is
discovering more about the therapeutic dimension of humour and laughter and is encouraging us
to add them to our wellness program.
The Health Benefits of ... Views: 515
If we are the products of our attitudes then it is important for us to examine our attitudes, both positive and negative, to discover the impact they are having on our lives. This is even more important if we are determined to maximize the potential that is ours, a potential which, in the vast ... Views: 536
I remember asking my Dad, when I was 16, how I could become charming. I must admit that my motives were hormonally inspired at the time, but what he said to me has effected my life and relationships ever since. He looked at me and said, " Son, you become charming by making another person feel ... Views: 1675
Young children and teenagers need tools; to cope with situations
that they find themselves in, with their emotions, to learn how to interact, and to grow spiritually and emotionally. Here
is my formula for coping skills for children and teens.
Honesty: As much as possible try to speak ... Views: 995
One evening at a church I was attending the pastor had us all get involved in some congregational participation. We were asked to share verses that showed the blessings of obedience. Had I not known anyone there it would have been a fine sampling of the vastness of blessings that the Scriptures ... Views: 841
Have you put God in a box? You would probably be surprised to know that many people, quite unknowing, do. The results not only affect the individual's walk with God but can have a devastating affect on how they relate with other believers as well. My husband and I worked at a Christian Bookstore ... Views: 766
One of the major TV networks recently did a special report on TV evangelists featuring two well known ministries. I watched in fascination and in horror as actual footage and quotes from their programs revealed numerous accounts of deceit and fraud. The first evangelist, a "faith healer" ... Views: 907
I disagree with the old saying, "You only get one chance to make a great first impression." You've probably heard that first impressions are critical in your business and personal relationships. They say that people hold on to their first impressions of you, and that they can't be changed. ... Views: 615
In many success books I have read and wealth building seminars I have attended, the Gurus have always highlighted one key success statement.
This key success statement is "successful people take 100% responsibility in their life". Have you ever wondered how you are supposed to take 100% ... Views: 665
Network marketing lead generation; it's the life blood of any MLM business and without leads, you're sunk.
I have to be honest with you, I am not a fan of purchasing network marketing leads at any price; never have been and never will be. Why? Because I am not in control.
So what do I mean by ... Views: 820
Good friend and business partner PH asked these questions:
"How do you get out of a rut? Regain passion for your work? Get yourself up for each day? Have you thought about this? It happens to me often. I find it makes me miserable. I feel guilty and useless, because I tend to piss away the day. ... Views: 773
Have you ever done a search on the Internet, located a site, had a quick look around and then clicked away? It's not that you didn't like the site, or that you weren't interested in the topic, services, or products that were being offered. Perhaps you just weren't ready to take action at that ... Views: 546
You can list down as many dreams as you can! You may be dreaming of fulfilling your greatest desire, getting the best education that can be obtained by money, or buying the car of your dreams.
However, all will be futile if you cannot push yourself to strive hard to succeed in your goals. ... Views: 2951
SEWING MACHINE MAINTENANCE
If your sewing machine isn't taken care of, your frustrations will lead to quitting. There is nothing worse than sitting down to sew and your machine won't work properly!
Here are two things you need to do to keep your machine in shape and ready.
1. All threads ... Views: 861
Do you believe that it is your job as a parent to have control over your children? Do you find yourself trying to control your children in the ways your parents tried to control you, or in the ways you learned from siblings, friends or relatives? Do you hope that through yelling, threatening, ... Views: 2472
In the world of business, it's said that the three most important ingredients for success are location, location, location. Well, in the world of mind control, the three most vital things are repetition, repetition, repetition!
I'm Bradley Thompson, and (modesty aside) I'm known as a ... Views: 6055
Dr Michael Masterman here, author of
The Speed Reading Secret and President of Accelerated Learning, Inc. And I want to start by letting you into a secret...
You may not know it, but if you're reading this you have in your possession a calculating device far more powerful than even the most ... Views: 4609
"Photography, as a powerful medium of expression and communications, offers an infinite variety of perception, interpretation and execution." - Ansel Adams
The word powerful not only describes photography but Ansel’s quote as well. In essence, what he is saying is photography is (and should ... Views: 581