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Many couples bicker over all sorts of trivial things. Especially when they have become more disconnected, this is where ridiculous arguments, over pointless things can become big issues. For example I’ve heard couples bicker about the “right” way to pack the dishwasher, whether a colour is red ... Views: 1519
All little girls grow up whispering secrets to their trusted girlfriends. Sharing secrets with friends is an integral part growing up and developing trust.
Nothing changes as an adult except that, as everything does, it becomes a little more complex than simply whispering exciting little ... Views: 3462
While there are certain aspects of a relationship that you should be taking time to think about, if you are overthinking every aspect of your relationship, there’s a good chance that you’re going to kill it sooner or later.
People who overthink everything tend to be a lot more anxious in ... Views: 2517
You're angry. Royally pissed off some, or most, of the time. You were not supposed to be divorced. Especially not at this age - after everything you've been through.
You're knocked on your ass, want to get up and move on but can't. Why? Because you've fallen into the deep divorce drama ... Views: 2121
Julie cannot believe the audacity of her husband Andrew's ex-wife. Julie and Andrew have been married for almost 6 months now and his ex continues to call him asking for favors, e-mail him with news about her family and even drop by their house, usually when Julie is out.
It sometimes seems ... Views: 8163
Yes it's about quality not quantity. You can spend every waking hour with your partner and have a terrible relationship. And if that's the case then who the heck would want to spend all day with them anyway?
Right? So it's definitely quality over quantity. And it doesn't matter if you've ... Views: 1517
The cover story on the men's magazine read, “Make Your Woman Deliriously Happy.” This article title immediately caught Jeff's attention. He was, however, disappointed to see that most of the suggestions involved bouquets of flowers, expensive romantic get-aways or extravagant jewelry. A big ... Views: 4168
Chamarel is one of the most perfect destinations to be explored on the gorgeous island of Mauritius. It is located in Rivière Noire District. This place looks stunning having scenic landscapes and of course the one that cannot be seen anywhere else. The village is known for the beautiful ... Views: 640
There are not many things you'll experience in life as painful as your partner cheating on you. There are ways to deal with the pain of infidelity if you choose to forgive it. Right now, the pain you're feeling is probably overwhelming. Believe it or not, there advantages to forgiving someone ... Views: 6711
Want to save your marriage and stop divorce? Is it easier said than done? Well, it may feel like that if your marriage has gone through an affair. An affair can shatter a marriage right to the very core in many ways, including destroying the trust. After the trust is gone divorce may be one of ... Views: 5273
Having a family is a big responsibility. Whether you're home or away from home, you want your family to be safe. These five techniques and methods will help you keep your family safe.
1. Security When Traveling
When you're traveling or on vacation, you need to make sure your home is secure. ... Views: 1514
Friendship can't exist if there is no trust running among the friends. Not only that, it pains at times to let your friends see up to your point of view without success due to lack of trust. There are many reasons that can cause friends to lack trust among themselves. This does not just happen ... Views: 3261
To be honest, we are all worried when it comes to giving our trust to someone. No one knows if the other person is worthy of it and so many times it happens that they’re really not. Once someone plays our trust, we don’t give it away so easily anymore.
But to the person who stole our heart, ... Views: 1471
You can build trust in your relationship by following some simple, and proven, methods. For instance, when it comes to building trust in a relationship you need to focus on stable and consistent behaviors. If you are all over the place then it’s harder to build trust!
6 Tips To Build Trust in ... Views: 1697
“The Most Expensive thing in the world is trust… It can take years to earn and just a matter of seconds to lose”
I am sure that you have experienced how trusting relationships are simply easy and flowing, whereas ones without trust require much more work and involve conflict and power ... Views: 1621
No one likes to think about whether or not their partner is seeing or sleeping with someone else. In an ideal world, no one would have to deal with the heartbreak that comes with being cheated on. Unfortunately, these things do happen. Hopefully, your relationship is one where open and honest ... Views: 970
Are you involved in a relationship where you completely trust your partner? If you answered “no,” then this is the article for you. Relationships require you to have a great deal of trust for your partner, and they should have the same trust toward you. Many people think that in order for a ... Views: 1737
Is it better to consult a relationship expert or psychic?
The simple answer is that it depends on why you are consulting them. For some who very much into finding out about their marriage, relationship, ex etc then you might think that it is always best to consult the relationship expert rather ... Views: 643
A statement constitutes a lie only if at least one of the interlocutors knows it to be untrue, yet insists or assumes that it is true. If all the parties involved in the exchange know that the statement is false or if none of them know whether it is false or true, then it is fiction or an act of ... Views: 2574
There are several people who already watched any television crime show, should you want to clean up a large amount of blood, you are able to then utilize bleach, and also lots of it. Crimes scenes are disturbing and make a good deal of mess. When employed as a member of the clean up team it is ... Views: 457
When I experienced a split with the girl I like last year, I was devastated tremendously. All I could think of was "I want my ex back"! I came to realize with time that irrespective of how badly I wanted to rekindle my past relationship, it wasn't going to happen without some drastic changes on ... Views: 2881
So, your girlfriend cheated on you? I’m truly sorry to here that. It’s a real challenge to have to deal with something like that. Sure you could dump her, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but this could also be an opportunity to try to deepen your love and learn to forgive and accept ... Views: 1128
“I HATE YOU - DON’T LEAVE ME!”
I know I don’t deserve you, but I’m desperate
✶ Un-healed ACoAs have only 2 speeds about most things: Too Much or Too Little, black or white, very high or very low. ‘Gray’ is NOT even thought of, or is seen as a cop-out!
✶ Mental Health is about many ... Views: 1685
ABANDONMENT PAIN IS FROM THE PAST
It hurts, but it passes
DEFINITION
• the DEF for Abandonment (A) is : “Not getting enough of your legitimate childhood needs met, & some needs NOT at all”. This applies to all 4 categories of NEEDS: Mental, Physical, Emotional, Spiritual. (A) is NOT just ... Views: 1709
MAKE THEM SUFFER !
The same way they made me suffer!
This post, of course, is about those of us raised in a variety of abusive,
dysfunctional families & communities
AS CHILDREN
a. External CAUSES - Growing up, our parents & other adults:
• blamed us unfairly, for all kinds of things ... Views: 1577
I Want to Believe Him, But……….
In today’s world, we like to think of ourselves as worldly and open-minded in our love relationships, but what happens when our instincts are telling us that something is not quite right? Listen to your Gut Feelings!!!!!
It wasn’t too long ago that family ... Views: 1357
One of the most daunting tasks in being a healthcare provider is charting. With the sheer volume of patients one has to treat in a year, it's easy to lose track of data. This is why it is so important for any healthcare provider to have a standardized and easy-to-use system of data collection. ... Views: 1093
There is so much pain in this world. There’s personal pain that often takes the form of anxiety, depression, addictions, and intrusive thoughts. There’s the physical pain of illness, injury, and disabilities, both short-term and chronic. There’s relationship pain when we endure conflict with ... Views: 1456
In my clinical experience, I've encountered many clients who are afraid to admit they’re wrong. This comes from a culture of blaming and accusing—where one's early family may have picked a “culprit” when something went wrong, and focused on blame, rather than on fixing the problem and healing ... Views: 2013
Why is it important to your own growth and peace of mind that you are ok with where you are?
Being OK with where you are accomplishes two things.
First of all, it gives you a clear picture of where you are. Second, it gives you piece of mind, and an honest foundation from which you can ... Views: 1393
Some people will probably laugh about it while some may head off to the other extreme, yet astrological compatibility really is a subject most have found even though most may be loath to disclose this.
Many like reading their own daily horoscope but when it comes to rather more serious ... Views: 1169
Wearing precious dresses and looking too smart are the basic dreams of females in this world, while the men are not behind in this race. In current time male and female both communities are greater fond of wearing unmatched, high quality, expensive and beautiful dresses along with a variety of ... Views: 1734
The Auli Trekking package of 3 nights 4 Days offers the most pleasant adventure experience in the Auli region of Garhwal Uttarakhand. This Auli trek package is perfect for college students and backpackers, where they can relax from the stressful city life and can witness the enchanting beauty of ... Views: 729
Summer blockbusters are full of Masters of the Universe—Superheroes/heroines, Emperors and Kings—in righteous battle. And, when someone storms your castle – be that of your thoughts, your actions, your behavior—don’t you defend it with all your might? “You’re wrong!” “You messed up, not me!” “I ... Views: 1438
I haven’t posted any new material for well over a year. Apologies. My goal is to create at least two blog posts per month and strive towards two new podcasts per month. I’ve suffered from horrible writer’s block, and until today I couldn’t move past my current ‘block’
If you’ve followed me on ... Views: 1676
Decision making is very complex as many concepts play their role to make it happen. For most of the time, we don’t know which concept is leading ourselves towards an immediate decision. These are hidden concepts that make our background to work within our brains. Here, I am least interested in ... Views: 1734
God is a verb. God simply “IS”. God is the "Great I AM". When Moses asked God on Mt. Sinai, whom shall I say sent me, God said; “I AM THAT I AM”. Tell them that “I AM” hath sent thee. “I AM” refers to the verb to “BE”. And the essence of the verb to be is - “IS”. God simply “IS” God is a verb, ... Views: 2382
"Boundaries" from Chaprter 7 of Pillars of Awesome Relationships.
“I only have to be willing to get up one more time than him,” Deena said about disciplining her son and constantly enforcing boundaries with him. Her son tested limits and pushed boundaries with her all day, every day. She ... Views: 1674
"Boundaries" from Chaprter 7 of Pillars of Awesome Relationships.
“I only have to be willing to get up one more time than him,” Deena said about disciplining her son and constantly enforcing boundaries with him. Her son tested limits and pushed boundaries with her all day, every day. She ... Views: 1633
Brain Chemistry, Implications for Employee Retention
Brain chemistry based in pioneering research has opened the door to understanding human behavior at a new level. Unequivocal findings have shown stress hormones, testosterone in men and oxytocin in women, affect how humans feel, think, and ... Views: 1550
Brain Chemistry, Implications for Employee Retention
Brain chemistry based in pioneering research has opened the door to understanding human behavior at a new level. Unequivocal findings have shown stress hormones, testosterone in men and oxytocin in women, affect how humans feel, think, and ... Views: 1523
Trust is an essential key in any relationship. I’ve helped couples rebuild trust after an affair, financial dishonesty, physical and emotional abuse as well as constant lying over small things. I’ve also worked with individuals to trust again after previous childhood trauma or relationship pain ... Views: 1975
When it comes to building trust and rapport, there are seven basic principles that we have found to be key. The first of those is as follows:
Avoid Criticizing and Complaining
Any behavior that is negative will inherently go against the spirit of building trust and rapport with someone. ... Views: 1335
I'll admit that it happens from time to time. You start to feel insecure in your relationship.
Maybe your partner is getting a little too close for comfort to a friend of the opposite gender. Maybe the two of you have been fighting a bit too much lately.
But either way, you're starting to ... Views: 1478
Maybe you grew up in a dysfunctional home in a codependent relationship. In the bestselling book, The Glass Castle, Jeannette Walls tells of her hardscrabble childhood. Her father was an alcoholic, her mother abdicated her role as caregiver, and the children had to fend for themselves. Walls’ ... Views: 6661
We all know what it is like to be alone in a room surrounded by others, to see faces and yet not know how to connect or belong. There are so many people in this world satisfied with only knowing a few people because it is easy and stretching further is hard. To have a base of friends is ... Views: 1030
Many of us have lived a life where we have become proficient in accomplishing goals; we live our lives in that state of mind. When we are close to the end of life, what is our goal? In our lives, we have been "the Doer," where we do things by focusing on our thoughts. Preparing for death ... Views: 1588
You have probably entered relationships madly in love, convinced that your feelings for each other were so strong your dream would carry you through the tough times, but wound up feeling more like you were living in a nightmare than a dream, struggling with conflicting wants and needs. If you ... Views: 1320